"You’re really articulate for someone from your background." Said in a Daily Scrum. You could almost hear the collective: "Did they actually just say that?" I felt uncomfortable with the comment and knew that I needed to address it. I pulled the team member aside and asked if they could explain what they meant. They seemed taken aback and didn't realise how their words could be hurtful. They didn’t mean harm. But intent doesn’t cancel impact. We had an open conversation about the comment and the impact that it had on the other team member. We also spoke freely on why it was important to be mindful of the language that we use and how it can affect the sub-culture we were creating in our team, as well as our creativity and the quality of work we were producing. That conversation made a big difference. We were able to move forward and I was proud to lead a team that was not only skilled and hardworking but also respectful and supportive of one another. Microaggressions are culture shapers. Left unchecked, they can chip away at confidence, trust and performance. But if we address them with curiosity, they become turning points that strengthen the whole team. Have you ever had to call out a microaggression at work? How did you approach it? I coach executives on dealing with these exact moments, helping them respond in ways that build respect, trust and result in higher performing teams. 👉 If you’re a leader who knows culture is shaped in the everyday interactions and you’d like a thought partner to explore this in your leadership, message me or book a call: https://lnkd.in/eZXaBWVT #agile #teamdynamics #microaggressions #scrum #diversityandinclusion #Leadership #TeamCulture #PsychologicalSafety #ExecutiveCoaching
I find that asking that one question "what did you mean by that?" can bring the team back into alignment quickly, and highlights a learning opportunity for everyone. Nisha Joshi
“The point isn't to get people to accept that they have biases, but to get them to see (for themselves)that those biases have negative consequences for others.” – Theresa McHenry, GM HR Microsoft
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1mo“A long series of microaggressions and daily aggravations slowly multiply until one event tips the scales and outrage spreads like wildfire.” — James Clear