I used to think being whole meant being flawless. That to be seen, I had to erase the parts of me that looked "different." But that kind of wholeness is a myth—and it kept me small. Many of us are taught that visibility is earned through perfection. But we're already enough as we are. If no one told you today: you don't have to be flawless to take up space. You just have to be you. And when you show up as you—fully—you give others permission to do the same. #Unhiding #Hiding #Singlehandedly #Disability #Belonging #Leadership #OwnYourDifference #UnhideAndSeek #Inclusion #Humanity ID: A confident woman, Ruth Rathblott, stands in a sleeveless black dress with white and black horizontal stripes. She leans gently against a building on a city sidewalk, wearing a calm expression. The quote on the graphic reads: "I thought I had to be whole to be seen. But hiding didn't protect me — it isolated me." The top-right corner includes the "R Unhide" logo, and her website is listed at the bottom.
•Ruth, love how the caption for your photo starts with, "A confident woman..." 100%, that is how I think of you. And you at so right about not having to be perfect to be ready. As I said to a friend once, "You don't need to get your sh*t together. Nobody ever really has their sh*t together. If you wait until your sh*t is together to get together, we'll never see each other."
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13hI wholeheartedly support your message • Ruth Rathblott, MSW and will also admit that it’s much easier to live by this as I get older. The nagging worries about perfection or not being enough don’t show up so frequently.