At Amazon, if the payments system went down, everyone knew right away. Graphs showed revenue loss by the minute, executives got alerts, and entire teams scrambled to fix it. That’s what a blocker looks like. You can’t move forward until it’s solved. But friction is different. Friction is the slow drag on progress that rarely makes a splash. A tool that takes 30 seconds to load. A promotion process that drags on for months. A sign-up flow that confuses new customers. No graphs flash red. Executives rarely escalate friction. Yet over time, friction changes behavior just as much as an outage, if not more so. Customers quietly walk away. Employees quietly give up. The tricky part is that friction is silent, and because it’s hard to measure, it’s often ignored. But at scale, friction costs more than many outages ever will. There's a saying, "What is measured is managed." - Which is meant to be an argument to measure what matters. But the inverse is true. "What is not measured is not managed." In my article, I share more detailed stories and lessons about how friction works, and why treating it as seriously as blockers can change the trajectory of a team or business. If you’re curious, you can read it here.
Really like this distinction, friction often does more long term damage than a one time outage.
Thank you so much, David. Really resonated with me, I concur, this happens more often than one would imagine. Excellent post, KUTGW!
AI optimist. CTO @Auctane. Former SVP @Nasdaq, CTO@ Venmo/PayPal. Ex Microsoft and Amazon
4wOne of your best posts, honestly