The AI Trap: When Automation Undermines Executive Decision-Making

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In a world where AI is reshaping how we lead, it’s easy to fall into the trap of over-relying on automation. Our mission is to help high-achieving leaders navigate this evolving landscape with clarity, confidence, and resilience — avoiding decision fatigue and the illusion that machines know best. In this issue, we’ll explore where AI empowers executive leadership — and where it quietly undermines it.

Stay tuned for actionable insights, expert strategies, and upcoming events designed to future-proof your leadership.

The smartest leaders don’t just use AI — they know when not to.

As leaders, we are constantly being told to "move faster," "scale smarter," and now — "let AI do the work." But here’s the challenge: AI can analyze patterns, suggest actions, even write with impressive fluency. What it cannot do is lead with wisdom.

This week, I want to share a compelling article from the Harvard Business Review titled “The Best Leaders Can’t Be Replaced by AI”. It cuts through the noise of AI hype with a simple but powerful message: Technology is not a substitute for leadership.

The authors point out something I’ve seen in boardrooms and leadership retreats time and again:

“AI may be able to process information faster, but it can’t navigate the emotional and ethical complexity that great leaders face every day.”

That sentence hit home. Because while AI can streamline execution, it can’t replace the hard-earned, deeply human abilities that define exceptional leadership — like earning trust, holding space for discomfort, or making judgment calls in the face of ambiguity.

As I’ve said many times to our executive cohorts: AI is your co-pilot — not your compass.

So this week, I encourage you to pause and reflect:

• Where are you relying on AI to make things faster… and is that costing you depth?

• Are there moments where you're tempted to avoid complexity, when that’s precisely where your leadership is most needed?

• And how can you make it clear to your team that while AI might support them, it’s human judgment that ultimately leads the way?

Our role isn’t to outpace the machines. It’s to lead in a way that no machine can.

Human or Machine? When to Use AI — and When to Lead With Humanity

As leaders navigating the AI revolution, the question isn’t “Should I use AI?” but rather “When do I use AI — and when do I lead with human insight?”

AI is a remarkable tool. It can save us hours, help us cut through noise, and spark creativity when we need a fresh perspective. But leadership isn’t just about efficiency or speed — it’s about judgment, connection, and culture. These are the spaces where machines can support, but never replace us.

Here’s how I think about it:

Use AI When:

You need to synthesize information fast.

AI can process complex data and surface key insights quickly — giving you time back to lead, not just catch up. Whether it’s summarizing a 40-slide deck or distilling competitor research, AI frees you from manual busywork so you can focus on what matters: strategic decisions.

You’re battling decision fatigue.

Leadership decisions come fast and furious. AI can narrow your options and model outcomes, clearing mental space for reflection — not just reaction. Use it to weigh pros and cons, so you stay in control, not overwhelmed.

You want a creative prompt — not the creative product.

AI sparks ideas but doesn’t replace your voice or values. Use it to brainstorm headlines or draft frameworks, then bring your originality and nuance to finish the work. Your unique leadership shines when you own the creative vision.

You’re training your team to think independently.

Pair AI with coaching to empower autonomy. Encourage junior team members to draft with AI first, then review and refine together. This builds confidence, critical thinking, and leadership at every level.

You need to depersonalize conflict before it becomes reactive.

Sensitive conversations are tough. Use AI to draft neutral language for performance reviews or difficult stakeholder dialogues, then add your human empathy to make it authentic and productive.

Use Human Judgment When:

The outcome depends on trust.

Building psychological safety, delivering tough feedback, or resetting expectations requires more than logic. It needs eye contact, tone, and deep human connection — things no algorithm can replicate.

You’re making a values-based decision.

Choosing between faster growth and team well-being is a judgment call rooted in culture and ethics. Machines can’t understand what your company stands for — only you can.

The work demands nuance over speed.

Hiring, partnerships, and DEI strategies require context, intention, and lived experience. AI can spot patterns but can’t grasp the full story. Lead with patience and care.

You’re noticing behavior changes, not just output.

When a high performer misses deadlines, AI sees numbers — it can’t see burnout or grief. That’s why your human insight is vital to intervene early and lead with compassion.

You’re shaping culture, not just solving tasks.

Leadership is about creating meaning, belonging, and shared ownership. When launching initiatives, don’t just present a polished plan — show your thought process, your struggles, your vision. That vulnerability builds trust and inspires teams.

In this age of rapid technological change, remember:

AI is your co-pilot. But you — your empathy, your judgment, your humanity — are the pilot.

Use AI wisely. Lead wisely. Because leadership is what no machine can ever automate.

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From Burnout to Breakthrough: Reclaiming Joy, Energy, and Inner Power

This month, I had the honor of joining Ani Rich on her podcast to explore a topic that touches so many of us — burnout. Together, we unpacked what burnout really looks like (hint: it’s not just fatigue), how it shows up in different areas of life, and why reclaiming joy is a non-negotiable part of the healing process.

We talked about the pressure to “push through,” even when we’re running on empty — and how that mindset can keep us stuck. I shared some of the ways I’ve learned to communicate my needs without falling into a victim role, and how small, intentional shifts in mindset, movement, and breathwork can be incredibly powerful.

Whether you’re leading a team, a family, or simply trying to lead yourself through a high-stakes season of life, this conversation is for you. If you’ve been feeling stretched thin or disconnected from what lights you up — I encourage you to give it a listen.

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Let it be your reminder: burnout doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means it’s time to come home to yourself.

Agnieszka Piątkowska: Artificial Intelligence Engineer With Meta

Sometimes the smartest AI strategy is knowing when not to use AI.

This week, I want to highlight a powerful lesson from Agnieszka Piątkowska, an AI Engineer at Meta, who recently shared a cautionary tale that every leader should hear.

Meta invested six months and $300K into their most advanced AI customer service model — only to discover that a simple $50 decision tree handled 80% of customer queries more effectively. The issue? They fell into the trap of “AI maximalism” — believing that the newest, most complex tool is always the best.

Here’s what stood out to me:

• Simplicity often outperforms sophistication.

• The best AI is the one you don’t have to build.

• Aligning the tool with the actual problem saves resources and builds trust.

By adopting a hybrid approach — using logic trees for straightforward issues and AI for the complex edge cases — Meta reduced costs by 40%, sped up response times, and boosted customer satisfaction.

This story perfectly illustrates a vital leadership principle I’ve long emphasized: Great leadership isn’t about chasing every shiny new technology; it’s about curiosity, discernment, and the humility to scale back when simpler solutions serve better.

In our fast-moving AI landscape, knowing when not to use AI could be your greatest competitive advantage.

You can read Agnieszka’s full post HERE.

That’s a wrap for this edition!

I hope these insights inspire you to lead with clarity and courage — knowing when to embrace AI’s power, and when to trust your human judgment above all. In a world dazzled by complexity, simplicity and discernment remain your greatest leadership tools. As the future of work unfolds, let’s lead with intention, humility, and an unwavering commitment to what truly matters: people. I’m excited to continue this journey with you in our next issue, where we’ll explore how to balance innovation and humanity to build resilient, thriving teams.

Until then, lead wisely, stay curious, and keep growing.

With purpose, Victoria