How to Stop Overthinking and Start Creating

How to Stop Overthinking and Start Creating

“You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.” ― Martin Luther King Jr.

If we’re being honest, most people don’t need more information — they need to give themselves permission to start.

I see this constantly with both professionals and entrepreneurs alike: they’re not stuck because they’re lazy or unclear… but because they’re trying to map out steps 2 through 50 before taking step 1.

They’re trapped in perfectionism hell, whiteboarding themselves into paralysis.

This came up in a session recently when a client told me, “I just need to figure out the whole process before I make a move.”

When I asked her why, she paused.

“I guess I’ve never thought about it any other way.”

Boom. That’s the lie we’ve internalized: if I don’t have the full blueprint, I can’t begin.

But here’s the truth: you don’t need a full plan. You need a direction and a first step.

Enter: The ABZ Framework

It’s dead simple. So simple it almost feels insulting. And that’s why it works.

A - Where you are today (✅ quick to assess)

B - The next small step (➡️ solve for B)

Z - Where you want to go (✅ your end goal)

That’s it. Not the full alphabet. Not every milestone or funnel step. Just A → B → Z.

The truth is, once you take step B, step C becomes obvious.

But if you try to plan C through Y without living through B, you’ll just spin.

Z Is Everything

Without a clear Z — your desired destination — you’ll confuse motion with progress.

You’ll follow logical next steps that lead you somewhere, but not necessarily to where you want to be.

Want more revenue? Cool.

Want $75K in new consulting revenue by December? That’s actionable.

Z gives B meaning.

Real-World ABZ Examples

A - Zero newsletter subscribers

B - Reach out to 100 connections and ask them to join your newsletter

Z - 1k newsletter subscribers by December


A – Haven’t sent a newsletter in months

B – Write and send one issue this week

Z – Weekly publishing habit by July


A – All over the place on social

B – Choose one platform, post value 5x/week

Z – 5,000 new followers by December

Why This Matters

If you’re trying to escape time-for-money work, live where you love, or build a business that pays you in meaning — not just income — then you can’t afford to get stuck in mental spreadsheets of future hypotheticals.

Most people never build their new life because they’re too busy trying to perfect the blueprint.

But real momentum? That starts when you solve for B.

Stop trying to solve problems you don’t even have yet.

Identify your next step. Do it. Repeat.

You don’t need the entire plan to begin building something meaningful — you just need to take the next honest step.

Live bravely,

Michael

P.S. What's your current “A,” and what’s the real next step — the one you’ve been dancing around?


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I use this as a crutch if I'm being honest with myself. It gives me the satisfaction that I'm "doing something" when I'm really just procrastinating.

Allie Bucuvalas MS

Founder of Atune Yoga & Health Professor at Portland Community College

2mo

Thanks for sharing, I like this post and appreciate that you gave examples of how your formula translates to real life, definitely something to keep in mind.

Jessica Lipman

Trauma-informed Growth Marketing Strategist + Coach | Building a culture of wellbeing | Unified Mindfulness Certified Trainer | Holistic Wellness + Leadership Trainer

2mo

So true. I’ve found that too much information up front can cause freeze and avoidance behavior. It’s a delicate blend of creating safe space to start, and giving the right information to motivate and inspire.

Jan Kaeo

I help individuals and teams discover and reach their potential so that they can bring out the best in their teams, leadership and organization. Ask me how.

2mo

Love this Michael!

Melinda Olsen

Helping women rebuild, rise, and thrive after divorce. Founder of Empowerment Coaching | Former 30-year leader in educational sales | Creator of The Empowered Life Method

2mo

Coaching women post-divorce, especially single moms, this is a major struggle I encounter. They don’t feel as though they can spare the time or money to get some help from a coach. Often it just takes someone to help you know how to start, like you said, not a whole plan, but simply remind you it’s okay to start, and then provide accountability to keep you moving forward.😊

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