If I Step Away, It All Falls Apart – When Your Team Can’t Function Without You
There’s a unique kind of pressure some leaders carry — not because they don’t trust their team, but because every time they try to step away, something slips.
They come back to problems that weren’t solved, decisions that were delayed, or worse… total silence.
Eventually, they stop taking time off. They stop delegating the hard stuff. They start believing:
“If I don’t do it, it won’t get done.”
That belief becomes the culture. And before long, they’re running a system that can’t function without them.
This Isn’t Leadership — It’s Survival
You didn’t plan it this way. You likely built your role piece by piece, stepping in wherever help was needed.
But slowly, the clinic, the team, or the department began orbiting around you.
And while part of you might be proud of how much you hold together, another part knows:
This isn’t sustainable. You’ve become the glue — and glue eventually cracks under pressure.
Overdependence Isn’t a Team Problem. It’s a System Problem.
Most teams aren’t unmotivated. They’re unclear.
They don’t follow through not because they don’t care — but because:
Over time, this creates a culture of quiet hesitation. Your team waits for your lead. And your leadership becomes a bottleneck, not a multiplier.
What Self-Sustaining Leadership Looks Like
Great leaders don’t build systems that need them. They build systems that reflect them — and outlast them.
That means:
This isn’t about disappearing. It’s about building a clinic or department that can breathe — even when you take a breath.
This Week’s Prompt:
If you stepped away for one week — what would fall apart? And what does that tell you about your systems?
You don’t have to fix it all at once. But sustainable leadership starts with a shift in structure.
Next week, we’ll talk about time — and why so many healthcare leaders reach the end of the day with no idea where it went.
-Lana Bamiro, DrPH, FACHE
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2mo💡 Great insight
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2moWell put, Lana. Leaders should empower their team members so things don’t fall apart in their absence. Every team member should know what to do at the right time and be effective at it. Having the right system and structure in place must be of paramount importance.
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2moStepping back to reflect can truly revitalize our leadership mindset. We often overlook the power of teamwork.
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2moThey’re committed if they’re empowered.