Settling Storms
So I don't normally share work I've written on Write Nights - that stuff tends to be more visceral and not LinkedInny.
But with storm Eowyn forecast & new world orders and the new Write Nights cohort encouraging me to take my own medicine and share...
Enough preamble
And so it begins - I can write the build. The steady slow drum beat of thing after thing after thing that leads to the inevitable outcome… the 2 plus 2 that always makes 4
A steady state of predictability….
Yet my mind goes to coming storms and unpredictable things and sitting on the edge of an energy that might be destructive and cruel… as I feel my way into those words, I recoil.
I don’t want to bring the outside in here tonight. I want this bubble -of warmth and shelter – to hold. I want to create a place to ride out the storm.
What is the counter narrative strong enough to reverse a hurricane? Am I Canute-like, ever doomed to order back the oncoming onslaught, standing on the brink of an incoming deluge, using words alone in the hope that perhaps, just perhaps we will not drown.
It’s going to take more than words, my girl…
Tonight, I have words.
I can pull on the threads of my webbing of magic and whisper to the storm.
Rage now, but then hush. Settle yourself into light winds and gentle breezes.
Tomorrow you can roar and reconfigure, you can disrupt and show all of your might. Your power is immense and yes yes, it will leave devastation and wreckage…but you are short lived. You will blow yourself out, all muscle and mass. You cannot sustain yourself. You cannot be borne. Rage and rumble – upset and reset and cause havoc whereever….
And know you are just a breath. A momentary puff in a world more expansive than you. We will wait you out. We will rebuild after your filthy ravaging.
How are my words doing, I wonder?
Do they hold enough power to contain you – to describe and name you?
Can they hold you in perspective? Debunk your might? Reduce you from a scary thing to a thing that…simply happens. Inevitable and to be feared only if you are caught out.
If we gather - in warm welcoming places, in communities of care and love - and you are not invited to enter these, banished to rage on the outside, does the power shift?
If we live simply and gently, go about our business with calm good intent and wait you out… will you bugger off?
My mind goes to the coming storm…. And how insignificant its might might be.
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I'm Julie Drybrough - Founder of fuchsia blue ltd. An experienced Organisational Consultant, Executive Coach/ Supervisor, Writer & Speaker.
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6moThis was a timely read for me, thank you for sharing Julie! As well as weather storms, I feel I’m in the middle of my own personal intense storm with yoga teacher training and it felt like a reaffirmation of my resilience ✨
Experienced board level executive and non-executive director. Now supporting organisations in a consultancy, interim and fractional capacity with transformational people and culture projects.
6moLove this piece too-and even better to have heard you read it at my first Write Night last week. I am claiming major credit for the inspiration though 😉
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6moThank you, thank you, thank you - l love this. I think it’s not only a brilliant piece but also a great advert for how you hold the space at Write Nights. I love to see more contributors go public when writers feel it’s ready and ripe to do so. Now the wind has buggered off can Capt Cheeto do the same please 🙏
Thank you for sharing this, Julie. It is beautifully written, and intriguingly evocative and provocative. At the same time, it feels so deeply hopeful to me. Interestingly, your words in your post are jumping out at me: "that stuff tends to be more visceral and not LinkedInny".... What is the stuff that *is* LinkedInny, I wonder? 🤔 In times like these, I find myself questioning what is a place like this for if not for sharing the deeply visceral. We live in dangerous times, and it feels essential to voice and share our visceral as well as our cognitive and intellectual and experiential reactions and responses... in all their creative magic and honesty. Thank you. And hello 👋 - it's been a very long time since we last met, and I've been admiring your creativity and strength of voice from afar 🩷
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