When Life Falls Apart, It Comes Together All the Same. Personal Growth and Clarity is an Every Human Thing.
Sometimes We Need to Love to Hate it

When Life Falls Apart, It Comes Together All the Same. Personal Growth and Clarity is an Every Human Thing.

I often use images to capture moments meant to inspire and bring awareness, wrapped up in my own experiences. Recently, a profound moment of introspection caught me off guard—I saw my reflection in the lens, not just physically but also the thoughts and emotions in my mind, not my favorite picture but who cares—this moment served as a powerful metaphor for my recent journey of personal growth, which stacked and unfolded like a domino effect of interconnected events and reactions.

Life's experiences often flow into one another, sometimes creating a sense of chaos. In these tumultuous times, however, we plant the seeds of growth. I found myself stuck, facing intertwined personal and professional challenges that blurred my perspective and clarity. Everything became more difficult; I wasn't always acting in ways I was proud of, just waiting for the next event to shape the narratives in my head further.

Change can be challenging and tests our capacity to remain optimistic and see potential in adversity. Although uncomfortable and sometimes messy, growth is crucial for our evolution. The familiar mix of fear and excitement often accompanies this process. So, I had to take control, control of myself. I worked to align my actions with my core values to unlock a profound sense of authenticity. This alignment drained me at times and energized me at other times, transforming fear of the unknown, impatience, and frustration into opportunities for shedding old habits and fostering improvement.

I made a conscious effort to address the roots of my challenges and sought support from others. Being candid about my struggles and actively seeking help has been transformative, fostering a network that promotes growth and cultivates a supportive community where creativity and resilience thrive.

This journey through my (internal) chaos allowed me to clear the fog that clouded my vision. I began to see how everything was connected, how each moment of fear and confusion was a steppingstone leading me toward greater clarity and control and a destination I felt was where I was supposed to be. As life seemed to close in all at once, everything opened up simultaneously, revealing new chapters ready to be written.

This realization, wrapped in a new landscape, reminded me that I can orchestrate my personal narrative. The reflection in the lens wasn't just a mirror of the present; it was a window to journey behind and the potential of my future. By embracing what I value and my core principles and persisting through the challenges, I have already begun to transform every moment of fear into a step toward success, moving further in the direction I believe I can achieve.

And you know what? I can see it all now, till next time.


Jennifer M. Carroll

Driving Customer Success Across the Midwest & West | Regional VP at SAP SuccessFactors

1y

I’m so happy for you to have had this experience. We are constantly evolving! Self reflection and self care, while challenging at times, are critical investments. Good for you - and you will continue to soar because of it!

Andreas Jälminger

CEO & Founder | Ex-Spotify

1y

Great insight shared Leah Nauseda

James Jelnicki

Executive Director at Metro Mastermind Alliance

1y

Hi Leah very beautiful essay 😊

Evan Walker

Project & Change Management Leader | CRM/ERP Migration | AI Chatbot builds | Automation Strategist | Process Guru

1y

By aligning our thoughts, beliefs, and actions with our desires, manifestation offers a potential pathway to attract wealth, health, and happiness into our lives!

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