To have a breakthrough in career, working hard and gaining relevant knowledge are not sufficient. You will also need someone to believe in you and give you a chance. However, a strong relationship is not necessary. In fact, a 1973 paper by Stanford sociologist Mark Granovetter found that a person’s weak ties—their casual connections and loose acquaintances—were more helpful than their strong ones in securing employment. "Your weak ties connect you to networks that are outside of your own circle," Granovetter said. "They give you information and ideas that you otherwise would not have received." Here are three ways my students build relationships and expand their network: 1. Be Thoughtful and Anticipate What Others Need My teaching assistant, Jinho Kim, bought me and my guests a bottle of water each before we started the workshop at National University of Singapore. Small gestures like this can create long-lasting positive impressions. Another student, Jun Kyn Ang 洪进健, took photos of us speaking and sent them to me after the session. It helps me remember him better. 2. Be a Connector Introduce people with complementary needs, e.g., a foreigner to a local or a student to a working professional. A few years ago, Calvin Wee 黄建咏, a student at the time, introduced me to NUS Business School Career Service's Eddie Phua, who has since engaged me to teach. Even if you are junior, don’t underestimate the value you can bring. 3. Develop a Useful Skill When I taught at Schwarzman Scholars, a student offered to take a portrait photo of me after class. It is the one you see on my LinkedIn profile. I have since used it for all my social media profiles and book cover. Jake Gaba and I stay in touch to this day. How do you build relationships? Have you gotten a job because of a weak tie? Except for my first two jobs, all my jobs have been obtained through referrals. (Photo: to help students build relationship and expand their network, I brought four guests, Simon T., Rena Kwok, Louis Tan and Alvin Mah) #66smallactions #weakties #networking
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