How Career Introverts Can Use Embodied Cognition to Unlock Career Success
I came across a fascinating idea recently: embodied cognition.
It’s the principle that our minds don’t just live in our heads — they’re shaped by our bodies and actions. In simple terms, the way you move, sit, breathe, and carry yourself can change the way you think and the way others respond to you.
For career introverts, this insight can be powerful. Many of us feel we need to “force” confidence or presence in social and professional situations. But what if, instead of pushing from the inside out, we could start from the outside in?
Why It Matters for Introverts
Introverts often carry an inner dialogue that says:
“I don’t want to appear pushy.”
“I need more time to warm up before speaking.”
“Networking feels unnatural.”
Embodied cognition offers another path: change your posture, gestures, and environment — and you may notice your inner voice start to shift as well. This is not about pretending to be extroverted. It’s about aligning your body with the state of mind you want to project.
Practical Ways to Apply Embodied Cognition
Posture before Presence Before a presentation or meeting, stand tall, expand your chest, and breathe deeply. Even two minutes of this can prime your brain for clarity and calm. One of my past clients, Chantelle, began doing this before walking into team briefings — she later shared that her colleagues noticed a new authority in her voice. I practice this myself before facilitating workshops: shoulders back, a few deep breaths. That physical stance often calms the inner chatter and sets the right tone.
Gesture to Anchor Your Thoughts If you struggle to find the right words, let your hands help. Gesturing while speaking makes your language more fluid and your ideas more memorable. I’ve noticed this when coaching — when I “shape” concepts with my hands, the words follow more smoothly. It reminds me of when I was first learning golf. I watched skilled players, imagined their swings, even heard in my head the crisp sound of the club striking the ball. Mimicking those gestures helped my body teach my mind the right rhythm. The same applies when we let our gestures support our speech.
Movement Breaks to Reset Energy Long stretches of screen time can dull your focus. Short walks, standing stretches, or even shifting your seat can refresh not just your body, but also your mental perspective. I often do this when I’m deep in writing. A simple walk outside can reset my focus — I return with fresh insights that wouldn’t have surfaced if I had forced myself to keep typing.
Physical Cues for Confidence Small rituals — like adjusting your blazer before entering the room or placing your notebook deliberately on the table — signal readiness. These external cues can remind your brain: I’m here with purpose. I use this myself before stepping into important conversations. Just as in my early squash days I would picture myself playing the perfect rally, I now use small, intentional cues — like setting my pen neatly on the table — to signal to myself that I’m ready to deliver.
The Quiet Advantage
For introverts, embodied cognition is a gentle tool. You don’t need to be loud or force yourself into someone else’s personality. Instead, you use subtle, intentional actions that quietly shift how you feel and how others see you.
It’s another way of practicing what I often call “building presence without noise” — the heart of my work with career introverts.
✅ Reflection question for you: What’s one physical action you can try today to influence your mindset before an important career moment?
PS/ if you are a career introvert, you might be interested in my series of guides specially for you. These can be found in the link below