You’re Not Lazy. You’re Letting Go of a Life That Was Never Yours.

You’re Not Lazy. You’re Letting Go of a Life That Was Never Yours.

Hello Purpose-seekers,

There’s something I want to say to anyone who’s been feeling distant from themselves lately: You’re not broken. You’re not behind. You’re not lazy.

You’re letting go.

Not of a person. Not of a tragedy. You’re letting go of the life you thought you had to live. The version of success that never truly fit. The identity that made you feel safe — but not whole. The image that won applause — but cost you your peace.

And maybe now… you’re finally starting to come home.

“I Don’t Know What’s Wrong With Me…”

Lately, I keep hearing this from people:

“I don’t feel like myself.” “I’m tired — but not the kind sleep can fix.” “I used to be so driven. Now… I just don’t care.”

What happened?

You outgrew the mask. You outgrew a version of life that wasn’t built for your truth.

This isn’t failure. It’s what Dr. Nicole LePera calls “the collapse before the breakthrough” — when your nervous system stops pretending and starts releasing. When survival mode shuts off and you’re left face-to-face with what’s real.

The Research Agrees…

📖 A Stanford study found that people who work in alignment with their natural strengths experience: 🔹 74% less stress 🔹 91% greater job satisfaction

That’s not hustle advice. That’s purpose science.

And in my religion Islam, the wisdom is even deeper:

“Everyone is guided to that for which they were created.” — Prophet Muhammad ﷺ

But many never reach it — not because they weren’t capable, but because they were taught to be everything but themselves.

A Moment of Clarity

The other day, I was walking through the garden with my puppy Lachie (yes, pronounced Lucky 😉). He followed me calmly, no second-guessing. He didn’t wonder:

“Am I doing the right thing?” “Should I be more like another dog?” “What will people think?”

He simply followed his nature. Trusted it. Rested in it.

And I thought — this is what alignment looks like. That’s what we’re all trying to return to.

The Invitation

If something in this letter feels like it’s whispering to a part of you you’ve silenced — don’t ignore it. That’s not discomfort. That’s direction.

Let this be the moment you stop bending yourself to fit a life that was never yours. Let this be the beginning of remembering who you truly are — before the noise, before the pressure, before the pretending.

That’s exactly why I created Unlock U AI.

It’s not just a tool. It’s a mirror — designed to help you reconnect with the purpose already planted inside you.

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This isn’t about starting over. It’s about starting aligned.

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Conclusion

You’re not lazy. You’re not lost. You’re not meant to push harder inside a life that doesn’t fit.

You’re being called to remember. To return. To realign. That’s not weakness. That’s purpose.

With love and alignment,

Myriem Founder, Purposeek Coaching and UNLOCK U AI 💜

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