Prospering in a Increasingly
Complex World

Managing your ―Fifth Force‖
to manage your performance and risk
Introduction – Preparing to ―Launch‖
Some
Challenges
Social
Contexts
& Repetition
Our
Agreements

Personal
Sharing
3
Challenge – Changing your Perception

The horizontal
lines are actually
straight

Apollo 8

4
Challenge – Changing your Mindset
Attention  Mindset

Attention to things you
likely don’t think about

Mindset-shift

Where Attention goes,
power flows
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A Challenge – You Acting Before Disaster
Attention  Mindset  Behavior
―Experiential‖ activities

―Significant Emotional Experiences‖

Attention  Mindset  Behavior  Results

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Introduction – Preparing to ―Launch‖
Some
Challenges
Social
Contexts
& Repetition
Our
Agreements

Personal
Sharing
7
―Excess Energy‖ Tech & Social Complexity
On average, we
only have the
energy we can
extract from
the sun

Occasionally,
societies get
“excess energy”
from stored
energy
Hundreds of Years

Today, we are harvesting energy stored over millions of years
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An intellectual
response to
Technical
complexity is OK

+
An intellectual
response to Social
complexity is
inadequate

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Flawed Contexts – Nothing is Immune
High Tech
Challenger’s Explosion

Low Tech
NOAA-N’ Dropped

KAL Crashing

Hubble's Mirror Flaw

Catastrophic
Fukushima Explosion

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―Systems Engineering‖ Your Home Context

Accept
Personality
Differences

No Family
Secrets

Healthy
Family
Culture

Behaviors  Context
Mutual
Respect
Appropriate Expressions of:
Emotions & Thoughts

Reality
Hope

Sense of ResponseBelonging ability
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―Systems Engineering‖ Your Team Context

Innate Personality

Stuck in ―S‖ (Situation)
Move Attention to Outcome
Expressed Story-lines and Emotions inhibit progress
(Mindsets/Attitudes)
Expressed Story-lines and Emotions advance progress
- Must Express?
Authentic Appreciation Opens Communications

Reality-based Optimism Focus on Outcome

Shared Interests Stimulates Collaboration

100% Commitment Solutions appear

Thorough Inclusion Builds Support & Avoids Anger

Absence of Drama Sustains Response-ability

Kept Agreements Demonstrate Trustworthiness

Clear RAAs Efficient Action

Now, take action to
Realize desired Outcome!

Culture Diagrams

Behaviors  Context
Expressed Emotions

Expressed Thoughts

Mutual
Respect

Reality
Hope

Sense of ResponseBelonging ability

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―Mitigating Workshop Decay‖
You must re–stimulate this learning, until the
eight behaviors become habitual (~2 years),

because these behaviors are invaluable.
Brain Rules: We forget 90% of what we learn in
a University class within 30 days.
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A Hard Reality, the Forgetting Curve
Within a week, without
review, we forget >90% of
what we learn – Hermann
Ebbinghaus (1895)

Repetition
to learn the
Times–table
Itzhak
Perlman –
Practice – 5
hours per
day
Every top
team and
athlete
practices
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Repetition on Three Time Scales
Choose a 4-D
―Czar‖-Track TDA
actions; discuss at
staff meetings
ReTDA, 4%
boost
per cycle

Coaching,
boost
0.4% per
session

All 198 teams with multiple assessments (2008)
Average ~4% Enhancement / TDA cycle
+2%/TDA

Top
Quintile

84% 90%

+2%/TDA

> Ave.
Quintile

81%

77%

+4%/TDA

Average
Quintile

72%

75%

79%

83%

+5%/TDA

< Ave.
Quintile

66%

71%

76%

80%

+7%/TDA

Bottom
Quintile

66%

53%

+13%

Reworkshop, a
two or threeday event

+4%

70%

75%

+5%

.. . . ...
.. . . .... .
.

Re-IDA 
attention
to your
behaviors
Stuck in ―S‖ (Situation)
Move Attention to Outcome
Expressed Story-lines and Emotions inhibit progress
(Mindsets/Attitudes)
Expressed Story-lines and Emotions advance progress
- Must Express?
Authentic Appreciation Opens Communications

Reality-based Optimism Focus on Outcome

Shared Interests Stimulates Collaboration

100% Commitment Solutions appear

Thorough Inclusion Builds Support & Avoids Anger

Absence of Drama Sustains Response-ability

Kept Agreements Demonstrate Trustworthiness

Clear RAAs Efficient Action

Now, take action to
Realize desired Outcome!

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Introduction – Preparing to ―Launch‖
Some
Challenges
Social
Contexts
& Repetition
Our
Agreements

Personal
Sharing
15
Our Workshop Agreements
and a Personal ―Keeping
Agreements‖ Inquiry

or

Keep your agreements?
 Trustworthy

Break your agreements?
 Untrustworthy
Agreement – Seated & Ready to Go

2nd Chair
writes
agreement
on Chart

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Then, Freely Move & Stretch

Every 20–30
minutes
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Agreement – Contribute Twice/Day
Turn in a ―poker chip‖ when you contribute…

…end the day with none
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Scored Agreement – Your WB Cover
Day 1 – Seated & ready?
Kept

Break/
Lunch

Broken

Day 2 – Seated & ready?
Kept

Break/
Lunch

Broken

Day 3 – Seated & ready?
Kept

Break/
Lunch

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1

1

2

2

2

3

3

3

4

4

4

5

5

5

6

6

6

7

7

7

Total

Total

Total

Day 1 – Chips gone?
None
left
2nd Chair writes
agreement on
Chart

Broken

One
left

Two
left

Day 2 – Chips gone?
None
left

One
left

Two
left

Day 3 – Chips gone?
None
left

One
left

You will score your agreements as a self-test

Two
left

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Agreement – Be Fully Attentive…
No PDAs

No Side Conversations

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4-D Processes Plus Your Content
High-Performance Context

4–D
Systems
Processes

+

Your (Expertise) Content
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Three Team-Level Fifth Force Diagnostics
Innate Personality

Culture Diagrams

Driving Mindset

4–D
Systems
Processes

3 Diagnostics

Your (Expertise) Content
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The Core of Leadership – Mindset
Mindset (Attitude)
Expressed Emotions

4–D
Systems
Processes

Expressed Thoughts

Mindset
Emotions
Story-lines

Your (Expertise) Content
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Eight Context-setting Behaviors

4–D
Systems
Processes

Accountability
No Drama
Commitment
Reality
Agreements
Inclusion
Eight Behaviors
Shared Interests
Appreciation

Your (Expertise) Content
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Processing your Fifth Force Elephants
Eight
Behaviors
4–D
Systems
Processes

Context Shifting
Worksheet
Stuck in ―S‖ (Situation)
Move Attention to Outcome
Expressed Story-lines and Emotions inhibit progress
(Mindsets/Attitudes)
Expressed Story-lines and Emotions advance progress
- Must Express?

Mindset

Authentic Appreciation Opens Communications

Reality-based Optimism Focus on Outcome

Shared Interests Stimulates Collaboration

100% Commitment Solutions appear

Thorough Inclusion Builds Support & Avoids Anger

Absence of Drama Sustains Response-ability

Kept Agreements Demonstrate Trustworthiness

Clear RAAs Efficient Action

3 Diagnostics

Now, take action to
Realize desired Outcome!

Your (Expertise) Content
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Agreement – Use this Opportunity Wisely
Missed Opportunity
Eight
Behaviors
4–D
Systems
Processes

Storylines
Emotions
3 Diagnostics

Your (Expertise) Content

Habitual
Story-lines
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Your ―Cards‖ & Signing Your Agreements

Now, sign your
agreements
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Agreement – Focus on Changing You
Success changing other people?

Success changing your spouse?

Mindset (Attitude) is everything!

This workshop is about you changing you.
(The workshop to change other people is
―down the hall.‖)
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Agreement – Renegotiate Before Breaking

You avoid broken agreements by renegotiating your
agreements before you break them.
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Introduction – Preparing to ―Launch‖
Some
Challenges
Social
Contexts
& Repetition
Our
Agreements

Personal
Sharing
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Personal Sharing Enhances
Your Trustworthiness
Share Something Personal
Write something about
yourself that might surprise
your colleagues on a white
card (E.G., Gender unusual?)
We try to
guess
who you
are

If
not, ―Fess
up‖

Stand and describe
Where
the results you are
Attention
Accountable to
goes, Power
produce
2nd Chair collects cards and reads them Flows

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Introduction – Preparing to ―Launch‖
Some
Challenges
Social
Contexts
& Repetition
Our
Agreements

Personal
Sharing
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An Inquiry
When I directed multi-hundred million dollar
projects, I wondered, Why did projects meet
budgets, requirements, and milestones – and then did
not?
Physics Nobel Laureate, John
Mather, said ―Charlie, I am convinced
that half of the cost of a project is socially
determined.‖
Some years later, I discovered that
John was onto something.
The Fundamental Forces
Mother Nature’s Force
Fields Control Technical Matters

Gravity

Weak

Manmade “Fifth Force” Fields
Control Human Behaviors
Appreciation

Hope

Social Contexts
Nuclear

E-M

Including

Response

Scientists & Engineers

Teams & Leaders

Years, developing individual
technical abilities

Easy ―4-D Systems‖ processes,
managing collective behaviors
What Could Have Prevented the Explosion?
Space
Shuttle
Challenger’s
Explosion –
7 Astronaut
Fatalities

Diane Vaughan: The
important question is
―Why did they proceed to
launch when all the data
suggested otherwise?‖

Technical
Root cause – what’s your bet?
error

Technical abilities or Social context?

―It is unfortunate to launch;
Fifth Force: Pressure that the
sociological explanation of
Behavior: ―Normalization is
the correct Required ever
Deviance‖  one, as these
forces are invisible and
stronger technical arguments
unacknowledged.‖
to delay a launch than continue

Fifth Force management would have prevented this disaster.
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What Could Have Prevented the Flaw?
Hubble’s
Flawed
Mirror –
Useless $2B
Telescope

Technical
Root cause –
Ground-based what’s your bet?
Hubble
error

Technical abilities or Social context?

Failure Review
Board: The root
cause was a
―leadership
failure”

Fifth Force: Stress of recurrent ($400M)
Overruns  Unrelenting hostility
“Team Social
toward theContext” was management;
contractor’s not
Behavior: First rationalized suspicious
in the vocabulary
test results, then withheld them

And, diminished the overruns by hundreds of Millions of dollars
Fifth Force management would have prevented this failure.
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What (finally) Restored KAL to safe flight?
Korean Air
Lines Crashing
at 17X
international
norms, for four
years!

Root cause – what’s your bet?

Individual’s piloting abilities or Social context?

Fifth Force:
Alteon, a
Confucianism in KAL
Boeing
cockpits;
subsidiary, pl
Behavior: First Officers
aced
ignored Captain's
observers in
errors, “tuned-out”
the cockpits

Safe flight requires
two pilots, working
as a team;
One “driving” &
One managing the
avionics

Fifth Force management (English, ―CRM) restored safe flight.

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What Crashed Satellite “NOAA – N Prime”
The crew tipped the
Weather Satellite over
not realizing that the
bolts had been
removed, causing
$135M in damages

Root cause – what’s your bet?

Technical abilities or Social context?

Fifth Force: Culture of
habituated sloppiness;
Behavior: Ignored procedure
requiring confirmation that
the bolts were in place

An unmanaged
Fifth Force field
wrecked a
weather satellite.

Fifth Force management would have prevented this failure.

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What Saved Harry’s Diner?
Harry’s Diner
Worried about
toast
quality, he
asked
consultants to
train his
waiters

Consultants
refused to provide
training;
Performed context
diagnostics

Root cause – what’s your bet?

Individual’s knowledge or Social context?

Fifth Force: Waiters had too many
roles, insufficient toasters;
Behaviors: Impossible to make
consistent toast (training would
have been a total waste)

Fifth Force management (RAAs; more toasters) saved Harry.
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What Destroyed Fukushima Daiichi?
Root cause – what’s your bet?

Fifth Force: Culture of Japan
Behavior: Reflexive obedience;
Reluctance to question
authority; Groupism; and
Insularity

Government Failure
Review Board:
The disaster was both
manmade and
avoidable

Fifth Force management would have prevented this disaster.

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Social Context Management
While intellectual
ability is adequate for
Technical effectiveness

Social effectiveness requires
intellectual, emotional, &
behavioral abilities

The 4-D System develops Social Context management abilities
Online
Development
(Assessments)

“CSW” - Creating a Favorable Context (Fifth Force)
Stuck in ―S‖ (Situation)
Move Attention to Outcome

Workshops

Coaching

Expressed Story-lines and Emotions inhibit progress
(Mindsets/Attitudes)
Expressed Story-lines and Emotions advance progress
- Must Express?
Authentic Appreciation Opens Communications

Reality-based Optimism Focus on Outcome

Shared Interests Stimulates Collaboration

100% Commitment Solutions appear

Thorough Inclusion Builds Support & Avoids Anger

Absence of Drama Sustains Response-ability

Kept Agreements Demonstrate Trustworthiness

Clear RAAs Efficient Action

Now, take action to
Realize desired Outcome!

Intellectual,
Reference
manual

Intellectual,
Repetition,
Behavior
feedback,
Actions,
Progress
tracking

Intellectual,
Emotional,
Solutions,
Actions

Intellectual,
Emotional,
Experiential,
Systems
perspective

Intellectual,
Emotional,
Solutions,
Actions

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Contexts  Behaviors
Would you modify your behaviors in each of these contexts:
Giving /
receiving a
marriage
proposal?

Bachelor /
bachelorette
party?

Fiancé's
family
dinner?

Hijacked on
honeymoon?

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Managing the Invisible Fifth Force Field
―It is unfortunate that the sociological explanation is the correct
one, as these forces are invisible and unacknowledged.‖
1. Analyze the
field into
manageable
components

2. See the field
with ―tracer
particles‖

#5 – Seeing Invisible Forces

3. Manage the
field
with
―Development
Assessments‖
that
Benchmark;
Educate; and
Generate actions
―Analyzing‖ Invisible Fields
―The right coordinate system turns an impossible problem
into two really hard ones.‖ – Undergraduate physics

Dilbert
Cartesian

Information Intuited Deciding

+

Logical

Emotional
Sensed

Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication – Leonardo da Vinci
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4 “Dimensions” ≡ Universal Human Needs
―Arab Spring‖

Emotional Need #1:
Feeling safe
Physiological Needs:
Air, warmth, sleep, water, food
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4 “Dimensions” ≡ Universal Human Needs
Self-Actualization
Realizing One’s Potential
Logical Need #2:
Response-ability
Logical Need #1:
Reality/Commitment
Emotional Need #3:
Feeling Included
Emotional Need #2:
Feeling appreciated
Emotional Need #1:
Feeling safe
Physiological Needs:
Air, warmth, sleep, water, food

The Four ―Dimensions‖
―Cultivating‖ – ―Visioning‖ –
We all need to We all need
feel
Reality/Comm
appreciated
itment
―Including‖ –
We all need to
feel that we
belong

―Directing‖ –
We all need
the ability to
respond

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Making Invisible Force Fields Visible
How might you
observe invisible
magnetic fields?

How might you
observe invisible
Social Contexts?

What would be the
first criterion for
these behaviors?
Feel
Appreciated
Feel
Included

Observe
tracer particles

Observe Peoples’
Behaviors

Hopeful,
Realistic,
Futures
Meet your
Accountability

That they
address core
human needs

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Eight Context-setting Behaviors
Mutual
Respect w/Open
Communications

Willful
Collaboration

Appreciate

Interests

Authenticity
and Efficiency,
Absent Anger

Inclusion

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Inappropriate Inclusion Anger, Unfairness
An old
experiment,
with fresh
Capuchin
monkeys.

These live in
groups (think
―teams‖) and
know each
other.
Two are separated and asked to
perform a simple task. If you
reward both (equally) with
cucumber, they are perfectly happy
to do this 25 times in a row.

However, i
f you give
one a
coveted
grape…..

And, the
other only
cucumber,
expect an
ATTACK

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Eight Context-setting Behaviors
Mutual
Respect w/Open
Communications

Willful
Collaboration

Creativity

Appreciate

Interests

Reality

Commitment

Trustworthiness

Response-able
Action

Clear and
Achievable
Expectations

Authenticity
and Efficiency,
Absent Anger

Inclusion

Integrity

No Drama

―Magical‖
Solutions

Accountable

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Acknowledging Unpleasant Realities
with an Optimistic Mindset Can Sustain
Creativity
Acknowledging
Unpleasant
Realities
Context of
Sustained
Creativity

#6 - Unpleasant Realities
Andy Grove and an Intel ―Elephant‖
―The Japanese are hammering us on the
cost of manufacturing RAM.‖
Management Team:
―No problem, we can
beat them!‖
―The unpleasant reality is that we cannot
beat the Japanese on cost. If we try, the
Board will fire us, and rightly so.―

Let’s imagine that we are the people they
hired to replace us – what would we do?―
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Choosing Suitable ―Elephants‖
• Stay with the ―Focus on changing ourselves‖ theme
• Pick something that people really do not want to discuss
• A Situation (and Outcome) you can clearly and simply state
• Manageable scope, not ―Cure world hunger‖
• Involves (difficult) personal matters
• Troubling relationships are suitable
• ―Boundary‖ issues are very common
Some suitable Situations:
S: We lack uniform understanding of (performance) expectations
S: Our team leadership is ineffective
S: Our resources are inadequate to meet the requirements
S: Our organization chart does not work
S: Team members resist Accountability
S: Our interfaces with other teams are broken
S: We have the wrong (sub) contractors doing the wrong work
S: Team members prefer to fight with each other than collaborate
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Who Are You, Really?
And, what’s your natural
(innate) contribution to
Social Contexts?

Innate ≡ Organization absent experience
#7 – Innate Personality - I

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Personalities Natural Contributions
Naturally value people,
bringing appreciation &
deep values

Naturally value new
ideas, bringing
creativity & vision

Naturally value
relationships, bringing
inclusion & harmony

Naturally value
organization, bringing
process and discipline

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Innate Personality is like Handedness
Write your
name on your
workbook cover

With your other
hand, write your
name on page 2

While we all use both hands, we describe our innate
preference with ―binary terminology.‖
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Innate Deciding Processes
Emotional deciding
process (50%):
Take events personally;
―Want results we can
all feel good about‖

Logical deciding
process (50%):
See events objectively;
―Want results that
make logical sense‖

I don’t
understand it.
It just feels
right.

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Innate Information Preferences
Intuitor (30%):
Insightful,
scattered, creative,
big–picture
perspective

Sensor (70%):
Observant,
organized, detail
oriented
perspective

Entering at about
25mph,…on, and on
and on.
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Choices for your Personality Quiz
Imagine a
Context

Choose
early in life?

Choose
which is
more true

Choose
quickly

Or

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Check Your Preferences – WB P. 2
EMOTIONAL DECIDER
Harmony is intrinsically valuable
Prefer to act on “what feels right”
Consider the people first
Prefer harmonious relationships
Decide through consensus
First, trust my heart
Conflict intolerant
Total – Emotional

Check







7

LOGICAL DECIDER
Harmony is a means to an end
Prefer to act on “what’s logical.”
Consider the task first
Prefer being right
Decide with my own thinking
First, trust my head
OK with conflict
Total – Logical

If you are making the inquiry ―earlier in life,‖ you
INTUITED INFORMATION
Check
SENSED INFORMATION
might want to make the questions past tense.

2nd Chair
preps F-C
w/ grid

Rely on my inner knowing
Think more about “what could be”
Prefer creativity
Act on flashes of insight
Prefer wrestling with concepts







Rely on my observations
Think more about “what is”
Prefer common sense
Act on careful analysis
Prefer wresting with facts & data

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Find Your Badge Color, WB P. 3
Intuited

Intuited
Emotional

Logical

Emotional

Sensed

Sensed

Intuited

Intuited

Emotional
Sensed

Pick up
your
―leader
badge‖

Logical

Meet me
with ideas,
freedom, &
being the
best.

Visioning
―Idea–builders‖

Logical

Emotional

Logical

Sensed

Write your name on the
flipchart so we can read it
Wear your badge
so we can all see it
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Optimal Personality Distributions

John
Barack
George

Jim

Sam

Fred

Sue

Jan
Ed
Amy

Harry
Jack

―Architects‖
Early-phase
Projects

John

John

Ed
Al

Barack
George
Jim

Ed
Amy

Harry Anne
Jack
Al
Sue
Tom
Jan

―Builders‖
Late-phase
Projects

Sam
Ed
Amy

Barack
George
Jim
Tom

Harry
Al
Jack

Diverse
Flexible
Team
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Innate Personality (Cont.)
Meet me
with values,
empathy,
& concern
for others

If the shoe fits, wear it!

Meet me
with ideas,
freedom, &
being the
best.

Cultivating

Visioning

Meet me
with
relationship,
harmony, &
teamwork.

Meet me
With
process,
organization,
& Certainty
of result.

Cultivating

Directing

―Idea–builders‖

―People–builders‖

―Team–builders‖

―System–builders‖
#8 - Innate Personality - II

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Innate Personality Trumps Reason

He says, to the Frog, ―How about a ride across the river?”
Frog says, ―OK, hop on.”

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―You Killed Us Both, Why?‖

Our innate personalities pre–program us to behave in
ways that may, or may not, serve us well.
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The Fundamental 4–D Process
1) Appreciate

3) Attractive
Future

Lubricate
―Stuck‖
Situations
2) Include/
Collaborate

4) Request/
Direct

As we go along, learn and habituate this simple
sequence – it works
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Gandhi, a 4–D Leader
Values: Spiritual,
non–violent
resistance

Vision: ―We cannot
lose. They can
torture my body...‖

Inclusion:
―I welcome you all‖
―God save our…‖

Direction: ―We will
not submit... not
obey Smut’s law‖

…through our pain, we will make
them see their injustice.
— Mahatma Gandhi
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Eisenhower, an Including Leader
Values:
Being there for
others.

I LIKE

IKE

Vision:
Victory through
relationship.

Inclusion: ―Any
person, whether at
the plow in the…‖

Direction: ―You must
be their
father, mentor…‖

―Some of my friends are for it.
Some of my friends are against it.
I am for my friends.‖
— Dwight Eisenhower
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Howard Hughes, a Visioning Leader
Values:
―Richest man in the
whole wide world.‖

Vision:
―Fly around the
world…‖

Inclusion:
―Just not interested
in my fellow man...‖

Direction:
―You’ve got the
ending all wrong...‖

I’m going to be the best at
whatever I do.
— Howard Hughes
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Coach Dale, a Directing Leader
Pass the ball!

Values:
Consistency,
control.

Vision:
Win through
consistency.

Inclusion:
―What are you
trying to do?‖

Direction: ―Pass
4 times!‖ ―Sit
down!‖

―A team effort is a lot of people
doing what I say.‖
— Michael Winner
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Match Your Innate Strength to Context
Caring – Training, &
leading large teams

Creating – Research,
early phase projects

Conductor – Andris Nelsons

Relating – Marketing, &
leading large teams

Organizing – Managing,
late phase projects

#10 - Innate Personality - IV

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Incompetent Manager? (1)
What % 50% for an aerospace firm!
Only of managers are incompetent?

Plan,
organize,
direct,
control
―Directing‖ is necessary but not sufficient.

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Incompetent Manager? (2)
I don’t feel
that my
management
values my
contributions.
I don’t feel
included &
don’t trust my
management.

Authentically
Appreciate
Others
Include &
Keep Your
Agreements

Embrace
Reality &
Vision
Optimistic
Outcomes
No drama &
Clear,
Accountability

My
management
denies reality
and has no
vision.
My management
blames,
complains &
ignores
Accountability

What’s your take–away from this?
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Competent Managers (Leaders)

Decide today to join the 30% of competent leaders/managers.
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Lock the Doors – Film Clip

On July 20, 1969, Apollo 11 landed on the moon.
Gene Kranz was the Flight Director, and Steve
Bales was Guidance Officer.
Story–line: ―Yellow‖ inclusion
Emotion: Love Group (Affection)
(What ―color‖ is Gene’s personality?)
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Innate Personality Colors Perception

While others see their personality's core as the path to success,
you know that your success requires all four Dimensions.
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Your Homework, WB P. 3
Do the personality inquiry tonight with your
friend/spouse, teaching them the material.

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Takeaways – Innate Personality
Our behaviors tend to align with our innate processes,

People
(Cultivating);
Relationships
(Including);

Ideas
(Visioning); or
Process & control
(Directing).

- Committing to be 4–D able enables you to support
an effective team Fifth Force (social context); and
- Success will be easier in work contexts that match
your innate strengths
Comments or Questions before we move on?
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Your Culture’s Fifth Force
(Social Context) Effect
Chapter 7: Using the 4–D System to Analyze Cultures
Feynman diagram

4–D Culture Diagram

Subatomic Particles

Teams, Organizations, …
#11 - Cultures - I
The Four Cultures – Where?
Address members’
deep (human) values

Address individuals’
intellectual needs
Research
Universities

Governments

Address members’
relational needs

Address individuals’
process/control needs
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Culture Diagram Inquiries
Is yours
1–D ?

Is yours
4–D?

―Lead‖ matches task & customer?

Firms that built cultures that fit the strategy… grew net income
5 to 10 times faster than other companies.

– Corporate Culture and Performance (1992)
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Diagramming Your Team’s Culture
Your ―Expresses
Appreciation‖ TDA
Quintile indicates the
―Green‖ level in your
culture.
Your ―Includes Others‖
TDA Quintile indicates
the ―Yellow‖ level in
your culture.
2nd Chair prepare
for exercise

A short test finds
whether ―Blue‖ or
―Orange‖ leads
your culture.

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Culture Characterization, WB P. 5
1) We grant ultimate power to:
Our technical “wizards”

Our (hierarchal) management

2) Our working processes are:
Unstructured and free

Rigorous and disciplined

3) Ultimately
Performance trumps budget

Budget trumps performance

4) Our management and admin processes are:
Poorly documented and ad–hoc

Documented and disciplined

5) Our personal communications are:
Brutally frank

Polite and tempered
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Raise Your Hand, Please

Team A
Blue

Team A
Orange

Results Summary

Team B
Blue

Team B
Orange

1) Ultimate power to wizards or hierarchy…
2) Processes are unstructured or rigorous…

3) Ultimately, performance or budget rules…
4) Processes are ad–hoc or rigorous…
5) Communications, brutally frank or polite…

2nd Chair
counts hands
& records

Record the results, WB P. 5
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Record Culture Diagrams, WB P. 6
Cultivating
Cultivating

Visioning

Including
Including

Directing

Record your observations about match of culture ―lead‖ to task
2nd Chair
prepares
chart

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―Blue‖ Cultures Meet Experts’ Needs
Values

Inclusion
Diagonal Challenge

Vision

Organization/Power

Nobel

109
―Orange‖ Meets Management’s Needs
Diagonal Challenge
Values

Inclusion

Vision

Organization/Power

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Feed the Culture’s Data–dog
Directive cultures perceive control as central.
Hence, you must appear to be in control.

You can never run out of ―biscuits‖ (e.g.
consistency, data, plans) for the Data–dog.
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A Healthy Org. Respects Differences
Directing

~
~
Employee
Development

Marketing

Research

Manufacturing

(It’s interesting that these core functions match the 4-D System)
Success requires a context that optimizes all sub–cultures.
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A Unhealthy Org. Overwhelms All
Directing
Data–dog

Employee
Development

Marketing

Research

Manufacturing

Making all sub–cultures match the ―lead‖ is destructive.
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An Inquiry WB, P. 6
Complete this sentence,
Our culture would benefit most from
____________________________________________________

My expressions of Authentic Appreciation
My increased emphasis on harmonious relationships
Processing unpleasant realities to stimulate creativity
Naming process owners to improve organization
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Takeaways – Cultures
Your collective processes, values, and behaviors, which
we call culture is a potent Fifth Force element.

You can enhance performance and competitive
advantage by:
- Matching your ―Lead‖ to your customer; and
- Being 4–D able, with no Dimension below ―threshold‖
Comments or Questions before we move on?
122
Your (Project) Team
Mindsets’ Fifth Force Effect
Inspired by JPL’s John Casani, ―I wanted to explain
why some project managers are fired when cost goes
from $400M to $410M and others get medals for
projects that go from $400M to $750M.”

What’s in your
future?

or

#13 – Project Team Mindset
Basic Project Management

―Blue‖
Performance
Risk

―Orange‖
Cost

―Orange‖
Schedule
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Two Incompatible Project Mindsets

Performance
rules

or
Cost (schedule)
rules

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Incoherent Mindsets? “You’re fired!”
―Performance,‖ driven by a
sponsor determined to
maximize benefit.

Stakeholders

―Cost,‖ driven
by a sponsor determined to
avoid cost overruns.

Stakeholders

Stakeholders
Incoherent

You’re
Fired!
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The ―Blue,‖ Performance Mindset

Performance
Risk
Cost

Schedule

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The ―Orange,‖ Cost (Schedule) Mindset

Performance

Risk
Cost

Schedule

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Identifying the Mindsets, WB P. 6
Fill out a 3x5 card like the image below with an ―X‖ in
the boxes of your choice.
Our Team
Performance
Cost

Record the results in your workbook Page 6
2nd Chair tallies cards,
then writes on F-C

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Takeaways – Project Mindset
As they proceed, projects and their stakeholders
necessarily adopt a ―Blue;‖ or ―Orange‖ Mindset.

This Fifth Force element alters perceptions and behaviors.
Therefore, you must ensure mindset coherency.
Comments or Questions before we move on?
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What Matters for
Leadership Effectiveness?
….there is not one trait or characteristic that has
any value in predicting leadership potentials,
none, not even intelligence

Wondering how you
can improve your
leadership
effectiveness?
#14 – Leadership Effectiveness
Attitudes or Skills Inquiry, WB P. 7
1. Write the names
of leaders you
admire in your
workbook

2. Then, write the
attributes that
made these people
great leaders

2. Now, let's quickly
decide if each is
more about
Attitudes or Skills

?

2nd Chair preps F-C
w/ vertical line a
few inches from left
then writes

Are your
attitudes/mindsets
contagious?
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4–D Analysis (I.E., Simplification)
The 4–D System simplifies Mindsets (Attitudes)
into two components you can manage.

Emotions

Thoughts
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Your Story-lines Drive Performance,
Up or Down
Cognitive psychology,
simplified

High-Performance Context

Low-Performance Context

#15 - Story-lines - I
The Power of Spoken Thoughts
―In the beginning there was the Word,
And the Word was with God,
And the Word was God.‖
―The word is the most
beautiful tool you have
as a human, it is a tool
of magic.‖

Our life is what our thoughts make it.
– Marcus Aurelius (~150 AD)

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―Story–lines‖ and Truth
Story (Webster's) = The telling of a happening, true or
fictitious with the intent of informing or persuading.
We define ―truth‖ as that
which is unarguable.
―Story–lines‖ are thoughts and expressions
that seem true to us but are not the truth
because they are arguable.

The surest unarguable truth is the truth of your experience.
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Are You Guilty of Homophily?
Homophily is our
preference to relate with
people who share our
Story–lines.
When we hear
Story–lines we
agree with, a
small voice says….

―That’s
the
Truth!‖

When we hear
Story–lines we
disagree with, a
small voice says….

―That’s
just your
Story–
line!‖
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Religion Story–lines are Powerful
Mark Twain

Man is a religious animal.
He is the only religious animal.
He is the only animal that has the TRUE religion.
Several of them, in fact.
He is the only animal that loves his neighbor as himself and
cuts his throat if his theology isn’t straight.
He has made a graveyard of the globe in trying his honest
best to smooth his brother’s path to happiness and heaven.
Religion Story–lines energize, making good people
better, and (sometimes) make bad people worse.

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Story–lines About Motivations (1)

Client calls
Customer –
threatening
contract
cancellation

Fly out to meet

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Story–lines About Motivations (2)
Bruce –―Competitor
got to them again‖

―Bruce, You always
see that competitor
everywhere.‖

Sam –
―He never liked
our company‖

―Sam, You frequently
complain that people
don’t like the
company.‖

Mary –
―Getting orders
from above‖

―Mary, You often
complain about
upper-management.‖
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Story–lines About Motivations (3)
Projection

143
Now What Do You Do?
Anybody ask him?
Sam said, ―I did – he said
that he wanted flexibility to
accommodate budget cuts.‖

Your Story–lines about other people’s motivations are
wrong 95% of the time. (Robert Cooper)
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Choosing Your Story–lines – ―AMBR‖
Attention

Mindset

Attention
Notice and
name
Story–lines
―Green‖ or
Notice and
―Red‖
name
according
Story–lines
to the
―Green‖ or
Behavior
―Red‖
they
according
support
to the
Behavior
they
support

Behavior

Mindset

It is not OK
to run Red
Story–lines

Results

You will only
run Green
Story–lines

#16 - Story-lines - II

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Green or Red Story-lines, & ―S‖

Story–line
Story–line

Stuck
in ―S?‖
Behaviors
Behavior
Situation

Story–line
Story–line
Your Outcomes

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Story–lines Drive Success or Ruin
―Improving quality means
higher cost.‖
What behavior does this
Story–line support?

―Improving quality is the best
way to lower cost.‖
What behavior does this
Story–line support?

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Group Story–line Exercise, WB P. 7
Record Story–lines on Pages 9–10 in your workbook.
Story–lines you “run” about:
Yourselves?

Your Customers/Sponsors?
Your Management?
The Other Team?
Providers ―color‖ them according to the behaviors they support.

―Green‖ if they support (desired) Outcomes
―Red‖ if they distract you from (desired) Outcomes
2nd Chair preps F-C w/
vertical line a few inches
from left then writes

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Animals Run Story–lines Too

Whether you think you can do it, or
think you can’t, you're right. – Henry Ford

150
Dealing with Red Story–lines
When a team member runs a Red Story–line
(e.g. from your team’s list):

Argue??

Inquire Re:
Consequences?

Offer a
Replacement?

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Story-lines
Commit to ―running‖ only ―Green‖ Story-lines,

Sustaining a Fifth Force (social context) focusing
people on desired Outcomes.
Comments or Questions before we move on?

152
Managing Emotions to Manage
People’s Energy

The English word ―emotion‖ comes from the
Latin verb ―movere,‖ to move.
#17 - Emotions - I
The Five ―Emotion Groups‖

Mad
Glad

Scared
Sad

Love

"They may forget what you said, but they
will never forget how you made them feel.―
— Carl W. Buechner
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We Seek Emotional Experiences

Eric Clapton – The ―Blues‖

Andris Nelsons – Energizing

Enthusiastic ―Fans‖

Dramatic Finishes

155
How Important is ―EQ‖ vs. ―IQ‖
Senior managers identified the organization’s most
outstanding leaders using objective criteria such as
profitability
Emotional intelligence was
twice as important as
technical skills and IQ for
jobs at all levels

Emotions

Thoughts

Moreover, emotional intelligence
was increasingly important at the
highest levels

Daniel Goleman in the Harvard Business Review (What Makes a Leader?)

156
Expressing Your Emotions – Glad
Start Meetings
with Jokes?
Uplifting
Humor?

OK to play at work?

157
Expressing Your Emotions – Mad
Anger at
Injustice?
Anger at
Situations
(vs. people)?
Acted Anger?

158
Expressing Your Emotions – Sad
Loss of a
Colleague?
Loss of a
Contract?
Hubble – Loss
Everywhere!

160
The American Astronomical Society

161
Expressing Your Emotions – Scared
Mobilize action
before calamity?

Excess fear can
immobilize

#18 - Emotions - II

162
Expressing Your Emotions – Love
Loving Your
Work?
Loving Your
Team-mates?
Loving Your
Job?

163
How Are You?
Responses are contextual (cultural)

―Fine, I am
really busy‖
―I hope you
are really
busy‖

Genki,
desu
―My life
energy is
good‖

Tsai I ate
"Fine fon
le mayo
today‖
―Fine, my
stocks are
up‖

―Fine, the
weather is
good‖
(When it’s
not)

Why is being busy a good thing?
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Is Our Busyness an Addiction?
Feel Anxious
if not busy?

Using Busyness to
Mitigate Anxiety?

Addiction –
continued use
of a mood
altering
behavior with
life–damaging
consequences

165
Before You Answer the Phone…
Take two deep
breaths

Close Your Eyes for the
Conversation

Nobody will suspect that you
did this, except through a
deeper sense of ―feeling
heard‖ (Inclusion)
166
Expand Time – Pause & Shift Story–line

A powerful
Story–line
shift

Name
waiting
―found
time,‖ then
enjoy it
167
Schedule ―Quiet Time‖ for Yourself
Schedule
―meetings‖
with
yourself

Negotiate
Quiet Time
for your
Team

168
End Busyness by Feeling Your Feelings
Commit to
doing
nothing for
10 minutes

Notice your
emotions
(Anxiety?)
Belly
Breathe into
any
discomfort
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Noticing and Naming
―One-word Check-in‖
What are you feeling?

Glad
Cheerful,
delighted,
elated,
satisfied,
excited,
relieved

Mad
Frustrated,
irritated,
agitated,
annoyed,
envious,
jealous

Sad
Depressed,
guilty,
regretful,
neglected,
isolated,
lonely

Scared
Nervous,
anxious,
tense,
worried,
distressed,
dreading

Love
Adoring,
fond,
liking,
caring,
desiring,
longing
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EQ ≡ Feel & Express Your Feelings, WB P. 8
1. Record emotions you experienced, and the
circumstances; then
2. How you intend to express your emotions

Scared

Mad
Glad

Sad

Love

Please discuss your findings with your partner
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When did you feel Glad?

Glad
Cheerful,
delighted,
elated,
satisfied,
excited,
relieved

172
When did you feel Mad?

Mad
Frustrated,
irritated,
agitated,
annoyed,
envious,
jealous

173
When did you feel Sad?

Sad
Depressed,
guilty,
regretful,
neglected,
isolated,
lonely

174
When did you feel Scared?

Scared
Nervous,
anxious,
tense,
worried,
distressed,
dreading

175
When did you feel Love?

Love
Adoring,
fond,
liking,
caring,
desiring,
longing

176
Takeaways - Emotions
When you experience, and then express your emotions,

you can sustain an energizing Fifth Force (context)
Comments or Questions before we move on?
177
Mutual Respect & Open Communications
Expressing
Authentic
Appreciation
Context of Mutual
Respect &
Open Communications

Mastery of Habitual Appreciation:

#12 – Appreciation - I

178
4 “Dimensions” ≡ Universal Human Needs

Appreciation is a
―business word‖ for
love

Emotional Need #2:
Feeling appreciated
Emotional Need #1:
Feeling safe
Physiological Needs:
Air, warmth, sleep, water, food
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Absent Appreciation Sad, Isolation

180
Unmet Needs at Work
―70% report receiving no praise or
recognition in the workplace.‖
— Gallup

―64% of those who leave their jobs say it’s
because they didn’t feel appreciated.‖
— US Department of Labor

70 percent hate going to work, or have
mentally checked out, roaming the halls
spreading discontent — Gallup
181
Motivating the Middle 60%
About 20% of the workers
are giving all they can
Another 20% don’t want
to give more
The middle 60% say ―They would
give more to their work if there
were more in it for them.‖
What is the ―more‖ they want?
They want to feel appreciated.
Will this take more time?
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Appreciating Bosses?
As one moves up in the organization, are
their (emotional) needs for appreciation
more, or less likely to be met?

How do you
name
appreciating
bosses?
Departing CEO’s of Fortune 500 companies
cite lack of appreciation as the primary reason
for leaving their jobs. — News Report
184
Obstacles to Appreciation

Bart Simpson’s dinner blessing:
―Dear God, we paid for all this stuff
ourselves, so thanks for nothing.‖
185
Living in the Mindset of Gratitude
―A thankful heart is not only the
greatest virtue, but the parent of all
other virtues. ― — Cicero
―I maintain that thanks are the highest form of
thought, and that gratitude is happiness doubled
by wonder.‖ — G. K. Chesterton
―We are all heirs and heiresses to a society of
freedom and plenty that most of us did
absolutely nothing to earn.‖ — Ben Stein
186
Living in the Abundance Mindset
―Wealth consists not in having many
possessions but in having few wants.‖
— Epicurus, 300 BC

―If you are not happy with what you
already have, how could you be happier
with more?‖— A Greeting Card
Selfless giving supports a
life of abundance.
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Dr. Dean Ornish, U of C, SF
Regarding appreciation: No other factor in medicine – not
diet, not exercise, not genetics, not drugs, not surgery – has a
greater positive impact on quality of life and reduction of
disease…

#20 - Appreciation - II

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Step 1 - Speaking Your Gratitude
Can any of us choose to live
our life seeing the glass as
half empty, or half full?

Prepare to stand up and
speak what you are grateful
for about…
Wait! Do not express
Appreciation for an individual
now. That is the next step.
Now, say, ―I am grateful for…‖ (e.g. the
opportunity to work with people as
motivated and dedicated as you)

189
Preparing to Appreciate (1)
Standing, if they are in the
room, look them in the eye

190
Expressing Your Appreciation (2)
Speak directly to them saying
―(Name), I appreciate you for…‖

If they are not present, tell what you appreciate about this
person, then say, I’ll tell them as soon as I see them.‖

191
Completing the Process (3)
The process completes when they look you in the
eye, and say, ―Thank You‖

192
Appreciation Process – Let’s Do It
1) Preparation: Standing, if
they are in the room, look
them in the eye
2) Appreciate: Speak directly to
them saying ―(Name), I
appreciate you for…‖
3) Completion: The process
completes when they look you
in the eye, and say, ―Thank You‖

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Use IDAs to Live ―HAPPS‖ Appreciation
Habitually – Habits are your
personal bureaucracy
Authentically – Decide to live in
the mindset of Gratitude
Promptly – The sooner, the
better
Proportionally – Appreciate
proportional to their contribution
Specifically – The more
specific, the better

194
Appreciation  Business Results
Situation

Remedy

Results

Brainstorming
Appreciation Form
Three parts
1. Who?
2. For what?
3. By whom?

KC Fed Chair

Appreciation is not just about health and aliveness.
It also dramatically enhances ―business results.‖
195
Appreciate People in Your Life Now!
Many words were spoken into the ears of the dead
that they yearned to have heard while they were alive.

Tonight, begin habitual appreciation before it is too late.
196
Building ―Appreciation Muscles‖ WB, P. 9
Write the names of the people who you will appreciate tonight:
_________________________________________________________________
Draft a (moving) e-mail:
Generic front-end: I pause to reflect on you who have enriched my
life. You commitment to character, as demonstrated by your
behaviors has been an important model for me. While I think
about you often, I realize that this is not enough. I need to express
my feelings and thoughts.
So, ABC, I take this opportunity to express my deep appreciation
for…
Write the names of the people who you will send this to:
_________________________________________________________________
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Takeaways – Appreciation
Commit to living in Gratitude (Mindset), and habitually
Expressing Authentic Appreciation (Behavior),
because this can sustain a Fifth Force
(Social Context) of:
• Good feelings;
• Open communications;
• High performance;
• Enhanced Health;
• While meeting our universal need to ―feel appreciated.‖
Comments or Questions before we move on?
198
A Context of Collaboration, Meeting
Both Your Needs and Others’
The Harvard Negotiation
Project

Addressing
Shared
Interests
Context of Collaboration,
meeting both your
needs and others’
#21 - Shared Interests - I
What are ―Shared Interests‖
Matters that both parties are interested in
discussing and acting on

Spouse, friends:

E.g., good food and
wine, international
travel, appreciating and
caring for each
other, shared religious
and political
views, enjoy same
music, family

Teammates:

E.g., winning
competitions, good
and fair
profits, equitable
recognition, cover
each other’s
back, team and
individual success

Cross-team:

E.g., synergistic
collaborations, teaming
for competitive
advantage, working,
combine abilities to
more effectively
perform
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What Wants of Theirs do I Share?

Pay
appropriate
attention
to your needs,
values, and
interests.

And to the
needs,
values, and
interests of
important others,
e.g. sponsors,
colleagues.

―People do things for their reasons, not ours.‖

Addressing shared interests makes the reasons the same.
201
Shared Values Defuse Power Struggles
Hubble’s Telescope-Scientist introduced
himself to the Project Manager with
―Odom, I’m going to make you miserable.‖

Jim said, ―No you’re not because we want the same thing.‖

Charlie’s Two Rules:
1) Avoid power struggles; and
2) Never power struggle if you don’t have the power.

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Shared Interests & the Hubble Hire
I really want
to hire a key
person for
Hubble
Servicing

Head of
Admin
says, ―NO‖

Badge on the table

Ms. Admin

Our Mutual Boss

“Personal–side Bank Accounts”

(And, I don’t want
to be fired)

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Addressing My Boss’s Shared Interests
What does my boss want that I can want for him also?
Peace with
her and the
other
Directors

―Gave me
everything I
requested‖

―I (publically) state
my Accountability
and resign if we fail‖

204
Ms. Admin’s Shared Interests
What does she want that I can want for her also?

Power and
control over
me? No Way!

For me not to
end–run her in
the future.
205
Imagine the Conversation?

206
A Juncture
I a team wants better
collaboration with another
entity, do the exercise on the
next slide (whether the other
entity is present or not)

If not, have
participants do the
exercise in their
workbook

207
Shared Interests Group Exercise, P. 12
The activity often generates
Significant Emotional Experiences (SEEs).
What does ―X‖ most want that ―Y‖ can want for them also?
(Only ―Y‖ team members say what ―X‖ wants)
______________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________
What does ―Y‖ most want that ―X‖ can want for them also?
(Only ―X‖ team members say what ―Y‖ wants)
______________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________
2nd Chair
writes on F-C

#22 - Shared Interests - II

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Shared Interests, WB P. 10
Matters that both parties are interested in
discussing and acting on

Spouse, friends:

E.g., good food and
wine, international
travel, appreciating and
caring for each
other, shared religious
and political
views, enjoy same
music, family

Teammates:

E.g., winning
competitions, good
and fair profits,
equitable recognition,
cover each other’s
back, team and
individual success

Cross-team:

E.g., synergistic
collaborations, teaming
for competitive
advantage, working, co
mbine abilities to more
effectively perform
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Takeaways – Shared Interests
Habitually asking, ―What do they want that I can want for
them also?‖ can sustain a Fifth Force (context) that:
• Enhances your relationships (e.g. marriage);
• Reduces (cross–organizational) conflict; and
• Supports you both in getting your needs met:

Because ―People do things for their reasons, not ours‖ and
Addressing Shared Interests makes the reasons the same!
Comments or Questions before we move on?
210
A Context of Authentic
Relationships, and
Efficiency, Without Energizing
Do you under-include Anger

(exclude) emotional
Do distress (Mad Group)
you over–include 
wasting
Appropriately
time & energy
Including
Others

Authenticity,
and Efficiency
absent Anger

#23 - Inclusion - I
4 “Dimensions” ≡ Universal Human Needs

Emotional!

# 1 – Feeling
appreciated.

# 2 – Feeling
included.

Emotional Need #3:
Feeling Included
Emotional Need #2:
Feeling appreciated
Emotional Need #1:
Feeling safe
Physiological Needs:
Air, warmth, sleep, water, food
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Exclusion  Anger, Sadness

213
Personas & Childhood
We all routinely don
“masks” or assume
roles to show who we
think we ―should be‖

Childhood personas to gain affection/avoid pain
Caring

Smart

Friendly

Disciplined
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More About Personas
Consciously donning & removing
temporary "personas‖ can be as useful as
a coat in the winter.
We likely adopt adult versions of our childhood personas
Mr./Ms.
Caregiver,
Guru,
Teacher

Mr./Ms.
Cheerleader,
Nice Guy/Gal,
Clown

Mr./Ms./Dr.
Super-competent,
Wizard,
Smarty-pants

Mr./Ms.
Director,
General,
Rambo
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Authentic?

or

Persona?

Connecting/
relating
through your
heart

Connecting/
relating
through your
role

Revealing
your
vulnerable
self

Hiding your
vulnerable
self

Others feel
connected
and
included

Others feel
disconnected
and
excluded
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The University President
Invitation
to our
class

It’s
safe, be
authentic
―It

hurts
like
hell‖

Students
connected &
mesmerized
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The Great Santini
Habituates a
Military
Persona

Treats his
children like
soldiers
No
authenticity, no
vulnerability, no
love,
no joy

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Personas (Roles) – Past Workshops
Mr./Ms.
Conscience,
Healer,
Minister,
Guru,
Consoler,
Teacher
Mr./Ms.
People-person,
Cheerleader,
Nice Guy/Gal,
Clown,
Relationshipmender

Dr./Mr./Ms.
Super-competent,
Genius,
Smarty-pants,
Intellectualaggressor,
Wizard
Mr./Ms.
Authority-figure,
Director,
Executive,
Rambo,
General,
Big-shot

Write a persona you use, in WB, P 11. Does it serve you well?

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Persona Interview, WB P. 11
Interviewer – ―Please introduce me to your persona.‖
Persona – ―I’m Mr./Ms. Persona‖ (naming the persona).
Interviewer – ―It’s nice to meet you Mr./Ms. (Persona).
– ―Tell me what you are most proud of, Mr./Ms. (Persona)?‖
– ―How do other people appear to you, Mr./Ms. (Persona)?‖
– ―What is your leadership strength, Mr. /Ms. Persona?‖
– ―What is your leadership weakness, Mr. /Ms. Persona?‖
– ―What are the benefits of this role at work?‖
– ―What are you most afraid of, Mr./Ms. (Persona)?‖
– ―Drop your persona and go back to your authentic self.‖
Interviewee goes back to their authentic self.
– ―Can you see how this persona arose in childhood?‖
– ―Is there anything else you realize about yourself?‖
Your Personas influence your perceptions and behaviors.
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Inclusion Mindset – Speaking Manners
Be sensitive to ―inclusion manners.‖
Avoid negatives, as in ―I only have…‖
Replace ―but‖ with ―and‖ in your speaking.

Replace ―Yes/No‖ questions with a choice of ―Yes’s:‖
―Would you rather have lunch at Five Spice or
City Café, today?‖
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Personal Sharing & Office Hours
Include others by sharing something personal, and
appropriate to the relationship.

Make it easy for others to include you, e.g. office hours

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Inclusion Mindset – ―Hearing‖ Others
"Many a man would rather you heard his
story than granted his request.―

— Phillip Stanhope, Earl of Chesterfield

Make sure
that others
―feel heard‖
Take Response–ability to
communicate until
you are understood
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Manage Your Meetings
Information?
State the purpose
ahead of time

Decision?
Or

Agenda?

Actions/Minutes?

Document
Properly

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Your ―Under-Inclusion Glitches?‖
Inadequate
Delegation?

Inadequate
Information?

Sloppy
(Group–
Member)
Recognition?

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Your ―Over-Inclusion Glitches?‖
Too many
(boring)
meetings?

Too many
Invitees?

Burdened
by e-mail?
Use ―Subject line‖ for
messages & responses
Can you do an RAA
event at Northrop Dec.
14? [Yes] [OK, thanks]

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Your Inclusion Inquiry, WB P. 12
Under-inclusions
Which under-inclusions by you limit your team? (For example: I do not
appropriately delegate my power and authority, especially to people who
I don’t think are as smart as I am; I am sloppy about recording meeting
minutes and action items; I don’t give sufficient thought to who to
include when appreciating team accomplishments.) ______________________
Actions I will now take to remedy these: _________________________________

Over-inclusions:
Which over-inclusions by you limit your team? (For example; Extending
e-mail text beyond the subject line when it is unnecessary; Including
minimal or non-contributors in group achievement awards; Inviting
people to meetings when providing a summary of what transpired would
be adequate; Failing to name meetings as information or decision so
people can make informed choices about whether to attend.) ____________
Actions I will now take to remedy these: _________________________________
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Takeaways – Including
Appropriately Including Others is important,

because it can sustain a Fifth Force context of
efficient work, absent unnecessary anger.

Comments or Questions before we move on?

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Keeping Your Agreements can
Sustain a Fifth Force (Context) of
High Trustworthiness
Or, do your sloppy
Do your rigorous
―agreements‖ habits show
―agreements‖ habits
your trustworthiness?
show your lack of
trustworthiness?

Rigorously
Keeping All
Your Agreements
Context of High
Trustworthiness
& Efficient Work

Integrity = Alignment of words and actions.
#25 - Agreements - I
Perspectives on Trustworthiness (1)
―Up to half of all daily business activities are
compromised or wasted due to mistrust.‖

— John Whitney, Director, Deming Center for Quality Management

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Perspectives on Trustworthiness (2)
―We tend to judge ourselves by our intentions,

and others by their actions.‖

- Stephen Covey

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Perspectives on Trustworthiness (3)
Your behaviors trump your words

Late again
Broke your
“Contract”
Liar, liar, pants on fire
―What you do speaks so loudly I can’t hear what you say.‖
— Emerson
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Costs of ―Late to Meetings is OK‖ (1)
You energize ―Mad–group‖ and ―Sad–group‖ emotions
lowering the quality of feelings (mood) at the meeting:
Mad group: Irritated, annoyed, frustrated, jealous

Sad group: Alienated, rejected, insulted

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Costs of ―Late to Meetings is OK‖ (2)
You energize negative Story–lines:
About your motivations.
They have power and almost surely are wrong.
About your lack of respect for others.
They are the judges of this, not you.

Wrong
95% of
the time

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Costs of ―Late to Meetings is OK‖ (3)
Your lack-ofdiscipline wastes
people’s time

You create barriers to your
input, reducing the worth
of your contributions

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Costs of ―Late to Meetings is OK‖ (4)
You separate yourself from others,
apparently deliberately.

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Costs of ―Late to Meetings is OK‖ (5)
You draw attention away from the working subject towards
perceived interpersonal affronts.

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Score Your Agreements Habits, WP P. 13
Workshop

__ I was seated & “ready to go‖ per projected clock? (Scored, WB Cover)
__ I contributed at least two times per day (Scored by chips at end-of-day)
__ I scored these two agreements on my Workbook cover
__ I was fully attentive, e.g. no PDAs or side conversations
__ I used this opportunity wisely, following 4-D processes
__ I remained focused on changing me, not other people
__ I renegotiated all troublesome agreements before breaking them
__ My Workshop’s overall agreements summary score
Work
__ I do what I say, when I say, in the way I say?
__ I leave meetings in time to get to the next one on time?
__ I arrive at all my scheduled meetings on time?
__ (add your own) ___________________________________________________
__ (add your own) ___________________________________________________
__ My overall agreements at Work summary score
Family
__ I arrive home for dinner when I said?
__ I keep my promises to my partner/spouse?
__ I keep my promises to my children?
__ (add your own) ___________________________________________________
__ (add your own) ___________________________________________________
__ My overall family agreements summary score
My agreements going forward (Yes or No)
__ I will carefully notice when I am entering agreements?
__ I will renegotiate troublesome agreements before I break them?
This is an agreement that is difficult for me to keep: I commit now to keeping this agreement in the future?
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Breaking, then Processing Agreements
We all break
agreements

Lack of
Poor
Discipline
Outhouse Planning
(Toilet)

Unexpected
Events

Jail

Processing
your broken
agreements
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Processing Broken Agreements
1) ―I broke my 2) Describe the
agreement
Circumstances
with you‖

3) Future
Prevention

4) Express
Regret

5) Are we
now OK?
Clear up any ―glitches‖ when you return to work or home.
(If these include marital infidelity, proceed cautiously!)
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PM’s ―Truth Translation Table‖
Essentially complete means:
It's half done.
We predict means:
We hope to God.
Risk is high but acceptable means:
With 10 times the budget we would have a 50–50 chance.
Serious, but no insurmountable problems means:
It'll take a miracle.
Task force to review means:
25 people incompetent at their regular jobs will review the project.
System is ready for delivery means:
The money is all gone. We give up.
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Takeaways – Agreements
Decide now to rigorously Keep All Your Agreements,

because this can sustain a context of trustworthiness
which is essential in every aspect of your life.
Comments or Questions before we move on?
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Reality based Optimism with 100%
Commitment can Sustain Creativity

Being
100%
Committed
Context that
―Magically‖ Reveals
Solutions

#27 - Creativity - I
4 “Dimensions” ≡ Universal Human Needs

Logical Need #1:
Reality/Commitment
Emotional Need #3:
Feeling Included
Emotional Need #2:
Feeling appreciated
Emotional Need #1:
Feeling safe
Physiological Needs:
Air, warmth, sleep, water, food
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Absent Reality, Commitment  Hopelessness

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100% Commitment Alters Perception

When you are inspired by some great purpose…all your thoughts
break their bonds…your consciousness expands in every
direction…and you discover yourself to be a greater person than you
ever dreamed possible – Pantajali, 150 BC
This is the
focused state of
―100%
Commitment.‖
Outcome commitment alters perception to reveal solutions.

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Outcomes You are Committed To?
If I could tell you one thing that would make
you and your team successful, it would be this:
Find the Outcomes you are committed to
realizing, and focus accordingly.
―I know this now. Every man gives his life for what he is
committed to. Every woman gives her life for what she is
committed to. Sometimes people are committed to little or
nothing, and so they give their lives to little or nothing. One
life is all we have, and we live it as we are committed to living
it and then it's gone. But to surrender who you are and to live
without commitment is more terrible than dying – even more
terrible than dying young."

— (Modified from ―Joan of Lorraine,‖
a play by Maxwell Anderson)
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Two Commitment Mindsets
100% Committed
“Both Feet In‖
Address Unpleasant Realities

Less than 100% Committed
“One Foot Out”
Optimism Displaces Reality

Run only ―Green‖ Story-lines,
e.g., ―Whatever it takes‖

―Red‖ Story-lines are OK,
e.g., ―I’ll try‖

Use Passionate Emotions

Ignore/Repress Emotions

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Apollo 13
Set–up: Apollo 13 was the seventh US manned
mission to the moon. An oxygen tank exploded
limiting power, heat and potable water. Gene
Kranz was (again) the Flight Director.
Address Unpleasant Reality?
Green Story-line?
Glad

Use Passionate Emotion(s)?
Mad
Sad
Scared

100% Commitment?

Love

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Braveheart
Set–up: William Wallace, was a 13th–
century Scottish warrior who led the Scots in
the First War of Scottish Independence.
Address Unpleasant Reality?
Green Story-line?
Glad

Use Passionate Emotion(s)?
Mad
Sad
Scared

100% Commitment?

Love

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Miracle
Set–up: The United States men's hockey team,
led by head coach Herb Brooks, defeated the
―professional‖ Soviet team, then won the gold
medal in the 1980 Winter Olympics.
Address Unpleasant Reality?
Green Story-line?

Glad

Use Passionate Emotion(s)?
Mad
Sad
Scared

100% Commitment?

Love

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Make Your Life Incredible, Now

Noah’s Ark
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A Life of Purpose and Consequence
―Be ashamed to die until you have won
some victory for humanity‖
– Horace Mann (1859)
―To love what you do and feel
that it matters – how could
anything be more fun?‖
– Katherine Graham

There is a vitality, a life force, an energy
translated through you – and because
there is only one of you in all of time, this
expression is unique…if you block it – it will
be lost.
— Martha Graham

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Charlie’s Life & Commitments
Acknowledging an Unpleasant Reality: Turning 70 this year, my
time to do this kind of work is limited to 5 to 10 years, at best
Green Story-line: There is still time to improve my lifestyle/
health, so that I can continue to contribute as long as possible

Emotions: I bask in gratitude, habitually expressing my
appreciation (love) with words, gestures, and selfless giving.
Commitments:
Myself: 80% Committed to seeking a healthier lifestyle; 100%
Committed to a legacy of contribution and selfless service,
enriching all who interact with me
Family: 100% to 80% Committed to enhancing happiness in my
wife, children, grandchildren and relatives
Work: 100% Committed to broadly fielding ―4-D‖ development265
Now, Record Yours in your WB, P. 14
I
Acknowledge
an
Unpleasant
Reality

Examples: I am: In a job that doesn’t suit me; Too verbose; Too
argumentative; Caught in hopelessness (Victim); Tired from taking
on work that I shouldn’t (Rescuer); Repressing uncomfortable
feelings (Rationalizer); Angry too often (Blamer). For too long, I
have placed my job above my family and my health.
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________

I Choose a
Green Storyline

Examples: I use a strength from an adjacent personality to
enhance my effectiveness; I can improve my health with attention
to exercise and eating. I can fully meet both my family and work
obligations by appropriately focusing on each.
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________

I State My
Commitments
to Myself

Example: I am only 40% Committed to health excellence, and am
100% committed to doing better. I am 100% Committed to
leaving my wife and children a legacy of love and respect. I want
to be remembered for my character and the way I treat people.
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________

I State My
Commitments
to My Family

Example: I am 100 % Committed to providing quality time and
attention to my family. I am 50% Committed to supporting my inlaws, as we do not like each other.
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
Example: I am 100 % Committed to success of both this institution
and this specific activity. I am 70% Committed to the success of
my current supervisor because he treats us unfairly.

I State My
Commitments
to My Work

______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________

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Takeaways – Creativity
Commit to Addressing Unpleasant Realities with Mindsets
of Optimism and 100% Commitment, as
One life is all
we have…

…so, sustain an Fifth Force that stimulates your Creativity
Comments or Questions before we move on?
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Eliminating Drama Can Sustain
a Context of Response-ability
The 4-D System
Victim

Rationalizer

Resisting
Steve Karpman’s
Blaming &
Drama Triangle (1968) Complaining
Context of
Response-ably
Directed Energy

Rescuer

Persecutor
Blamer
#29 - Drama - I
4 “Dimensions” ≡ Universal Human Needs

Logical Need #2:
Response-ability
Logical Need #1:
Reality/Commitment
Emotional Need #3:
Feeling Included
Emotional Need #2:
Feeling appreciated
Emotional Need #1:
Feeling safe
Physiological Needs:
Air, warmth, sleep, water, food

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Four Ways ―We Mount the Stage‖
1. Victim

“There’s nothing I
can do.”
(Then you do
nothing)

2. Rescuer
“I must do it!”
(Which you soon
regret)

3. Rationalizer

“It really doesn’t
matter.”
(Fatigued – from
repressing
uncomfortable
feelings)

4. Blamer

―It’s their fault.‖
(When it’s
actually your
fault)
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Let’s Complain!
Write a
short note
(A Noun &
a Verb)

E.G. – My
boss
doesn’t
listen to me

Never complain?
Write the
complaints of
―someone you
know.‖

We all easily generate complaints.
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Who’s Response–able?
When we try to avoid responsibility for our
behavior by assigning our response-ability to some
other entity, we give our power to that entity.
– M. Scott Peck

Who’s responsible for the
$20 bill being on the table?
When does Response–ability begin?
When we take it!
Who’s Response–able for these complaints?
Response–ability begins when we each decide to take it.
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Never Complain Again (1)

Ask for it!

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Never Complain Again (2)
3) Embrace reality;
1) Authentically
Appreciate; Address Propose an appealing
outcome
Shared Interests
4) Free of Drama;
2) Include/collaborate;
Make Agreements you
Ask for it!
can (will) keep
We grant requests because returns are assumed (reciprocity)
One caveat – never ask for something they can’t give you.

Turn your complaints into requests or, forget about them.
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The Victim Mindset
Sad–group
(e.g. helpless).

Emotions

Thoughts
―It’s being done to me.
There’s nothing I can do.‖

―Sad‖ is
relieved.
―Club‖ members’
validation further
reduces ―sad.‖

―Clubbing‖ with sympathetic
others reduces discomfort.

―BMC‖ (Bitch,
Moan, Complain)

Benefits:
Eliminates the need for action.
Helplessness is acceptable.
Feels OK with club members.

Costs:
No power, no action, No Outcome.
All requests sound like whining.
Need to recruit club members.
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Joe Vs. the Volcano
Victim–Blamer
―dance‖ & feeling
lousy

I’m Saved!
but…
―It will always be
something…
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Escaping the Victim Mindset
The Inquiry: Do I want more of this?
Slow down, Notice and name your
feelings:
Notice, name (color) then shift your
Red power–robbing Story–lines.

Notice the word ―never,‖
common drama language

A business executive’s Story–line shift, ―They will never
change‖ to ―If we don’t send the letter, we’ll never know.‖

We all engage in light, recreational complaining.
This is OK if you do not go to Victim, limiting your
ability–to respond.
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The Hero/Rescuer Mindset
Emotions
Emotions

Love–group
(e.g. yearning for
approval/validation).

Exhausted
feel used and move
to blamer.

Benefits:
Get to feel needed.
Plenty of Blamers to help.
Avoid having to say ―no.‖

Thoughts
Thoughts

―I want to do it.‖
(Then they do it)
“I should not have
done it…”

Costs:
Chronic overwork stress.
Inappropriate relationship.
Feel ―used‖ by others.

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Exiting the Hero/Rescuer Mindset
Do I want more of this?
– First, buy a little time, ―Could you let me
think about this? I’ll get back to you soon.‖
– Then, say ―NO‖ 4–Dimensionally.
Appreciate
Person and/or situation;
Speak to shared interests

State (unpleasant) reality;
Optimistic Outcome
& Commitment

Be Inclusive;
State Commitment to
Integrity

Free of Drama,
(Expressing ―glad‖);
Ask for it

Saying ―NO‖ 4-D avoids power struggles.

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Your Drama State Experiences, WB P. 15
1. Victim – Have you ever:
 Felt feelings of helplessness?
 Run a Story-line like, ―There’s nothing I can do?‖
 Then, feeling relieved, prove it by doing nothing?
 Recalling a time when you were in the Victim state (we all have
been here), what was the situation and what was it like? _______
Exit Strategy: Turn your complaints into requests, or forget about
them.
2. Rescuer – Have you ever:
 Felt a deep yearning to please, or be liked by others;
 Run a Story-line like, ―Sure, I’ll do it,‖ when you shouldn’t?
 Then, feeling burdened, become frustrated (angry) that you
have more to do than you possibly can?
 Recalling a time when you were in the Rescuer state, what was
the situation and what was it like? ______________________________
Exit Strategy: Buy some time, consider consequences, and then
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say ―no‖ Four-dimensionally.
The Rationalizer Mindset
Fear–group
(e.g. anxiety).

Emotions

Temporary relief,
then anxiety returns.

Thoughts

It Doesn’t Really Matter

Benefits:
Repress uncomfortable feelings.
Feels intellectually satisfying.
Seems better than the alternative.

―It doesn’t really
matter.‖
―It doesn’t really
matter‖ to repress
emotions again.

Costs:
Relief is temporary.
Energy is stuck up ―in your head.‖
Distracting and exhausting.

“Feelings that are buried alive stay alive.”
– Stephen Covey

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Is This the Hill You Want to Die On?
Anyone can become angry – that is easy
But to become angry with the right
person, to the right degree, at the right
time, for the right purpose, and in the
right way…This is not easy
―...those with high scores
on a test of
hostility…were seven
times as likely to have
died by the age of fifty‖

>
Anger

+

+
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The Blamer Mindset
Scared group
(e.g. fear of
being blamed)

Emotions

Mad group
(a ―cover–up‖
emotion)

Benefits:
Repress your fear.
Feel temporarily powerful.
Enjoy energy from adrenalin rush.

Thoughts

―It’s
your fault!‖
―I need to
punish you.‖

Costs:
When fear returns, you must recycle.
Massive Emotional–side Withdrawals.
Your hostility can kill you.

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The Blamer State & Escaping
Your
assignment
of blame is
both clear
and wrong

Adrenaline
addiction

Freud –
Blamer is
self–anger
directed
outward

Experience & Escape
I wonder
what my
role was in
creating this
mess?
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The “Discover Your Role Two–Step”

Blaming or Complaining

Wondering about my role…

This experiential, whole body process reliably exits the
toxic Blamer state.
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Your Drama State Experiences, WB P. 15
3. Rationalizer – Have you ever:
 Felt uncomfortable feelings that you (unconsciously) repressed;
 Run a Story-line like, ―It doesn’t really matter‖ (when it does)?
 Then, feeling better, only to find the discomfort soon returned?
 Recalling a time when you were in the Rationalizer state, what
was the situation and what was it like? ____________________
Exit Strategy: Slow down, (belly) breathe into your emotions and
process your Story-lines with a friend or your coach.
4. Blamer – Have you ever:
 Felt afraid that you are going to be blamed for the "mess;‖
 Run a Story-line like, ―It’s your fault,‖ using ―mad-group‖
emotions to ―cover up‖ your uncomfortable ―scared‖ feelings;
 Then, feeling burdened, become frustrated (angry) that you
have more to do than you possibly can?
 Recalling a time when you were in the Blamer state, what was
the situation and what was it like? ______________________________
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Exit Strategy: Find and own your role in ―creating the mess.‖
Takeaways – Drama
Drama–states create contexts of:
Helplessness
(Victims)

Denial
(Rationalizers)

People Users
(Rescuers)

Hostility
(Blamers)

When the Fifth Force (context) you need is Response-ability
Comments or Questions before we move on?
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Clarifying Roles, Accountability, &
Authority (RAAs) Creates a Fifth Force of
Achievable Accountability
Clarifying Roles,
Accountability
& Authority
Context with Clear and
Achievable
Expectations

#31 - Accountability
Roles, Accountability, & Authority
Roles = Your function in your
work (team, family) context,
e.g. goalie, quarterback

Accountability = The
results you and others
expect you to deliver,
e.g. play to win the game.
Authority = Power granted to
you by others,
e.g. direct the other players
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RAA Failure Mode #1
Lack of RAA Discipline
Metaphor: Exhausted
youngsters soccer
team, as everybody
chases the ball

Work: Exhausted
workers from over–
inclusion, e.g. too
much time in meetings
Remedy: RAA discipline
and tightly managed
meetings
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RAA Failure Mode #2
Lack of Team–level Accountability
Metaphor: Sports
players in Blamer–state,
instead of assuming
Accountability
Work: Blaming others
for problems instead
of assuming
Accountability

Remedy: Assume
Accountability for
―whatever it takes‖ for
team success
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The Apollo 1 Fire
Set–up: Apollo 1 – A cabin fire during a
launch pad test on January 27, 1967 at
Launch Pad 34 at Cape Canaveral killed all
three crew members.
Gene Kranz gathers his team at Mission
Control in Houston to discuss Accountability.

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RAA Worksheet WB, P. 16

Your Name: _________________________Your Supervisor:____________________________
Describe your Accountability, the results you are to deliver.
(For example, I lead the project and meet Level I requirements budget, and
schedule. Another – I am accountable for assuring that adequate new business
flows into our company.)
Describe your Role, your functions in your team context.
(For example, I am the Project Manager. Another – I am the Marketing
Manager.)
Describe your delegated Authority, the power granted to you by others.
(For example, I direct the project’s workforce within the Level I requirements
envelope, and applicable institutional requirements. Another – I provide strategic
and tactical guidance to our marketing team.)
My authority is sufficient? Yes ____ No ____
(If your authority is inadequate, you must engage your supervisor.)
I own and maintain the following processes:
(For example, “Project monthly reporting process. Another – I own our operational
marketing processes.)
I use and comply with the following (institutional) processes:
(For example, “Flight Project Practices,” “Engineering Golden Rules.” Another – Our
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Company’s “Marketing Manual”)
Processes with Expert Owners
All organizations use processes –
otherwise they could not do anything

Designate expert
―process owners‖ –
optimize & promulgate
Write processes that your team
should assign “owners” for on a
3x5 card.
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Dakota Tribal Wisdom
When Indians discover they’re riding a dead
horse they take response–able action and
dismount. We often try other strategies, like:
Use a stronger whip.
Appoint a committee to study the horse.
Visit other teams to see how they ride dead horses.
Revisit the performance requirements for horses.
Request additional funding to increase the horse's performance.

Hire contractors to ride the dead horse.
Promote the dead horse to a supervisory position.

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Takeaways – RAAs
Lack of clarity about your (and others) RAAs is not OK,

because this Fifth Force limits Accountability
And, it’s so easy to fix. (Consider a ~one-day RAA Workshop)

Comments or Questions before we move on?

305
The Context Shifting Worksheet
“You cannot solve a problem with the
level of thinking that created it.”
“You cannot solve a problem in the
context that created it.”

#32 - Context Shifting Worksheet
Is Your Attention Stuck in ―S?‖

Stuck in “S”

Shift the Context
1) Appreciate;
Address your
shared interests.

2nd Chair
distributes
CSW

3) Create, from
reality & 100%
Commitment

2) Appropriately
include; Keep all
your agreements.

Solution Appears

4) Free of
drama, Ask for
what you want!

307
Now, Select an Elephant to Process
1) Form into small
groups and select
a spokesperson

2) Invite each
to advocate a few
elephants

3) Give everyone
a chance to speak

4) Vote to elect
top three or four

5) Present to your
larger team

6) All select one
to process

308
CSW Post-workshop
The Context Shifting Worksheet (―CSW‖) is a Fifth Force tool for
People; Performance; Relationships…
1. Takes an hour or two;
2. Easy to facilitate, just ask the questions; and
3. Expands your thinking & alters your perspectives.

310
―Mitigating Workshop Decay‖
You must re–stimulate this learning, until the
eight behaviors become habitual (~2 years),

because these behaviors are invaluable.
Brain Rules: We forget 90% of what we learn in
a University class within 30 days.
#33 - Mitigate Workshop Decay

311
Reality – the Forgetting Curve
Within a week, without
review, we forget >90% of
what we learn – Hermann
Ebbinghaus (1895)

Repetition
to learn the
Times–table
Pearlman –
Repetition,
practice – 5
hours per
day
Every top
team and
athlete
practices
312
Repetition on Three Time Scales
Choose a 4-D
―Czar‖-Track TDA
actions; discuss at
staff meetings
Re-TDA,
4%
boost
per cycle

Coaching,
boost
0.4% per
session

All 198 teams with multiple assessments (2008)
Average ~4% Enhancement / TDA cycle
+2%/TDA

Top
Quintile

84% 90%

+2%/TDA

> Ave.
Quintile

81%

77%

+4%/TDA

Average
Quintile

72%

75%

79%

83%

+5%/TDA

< Ave.
Quintile

66%

71%

76%

80%

+7%/TDA

Bottom
Quintile

66%

53%

+13%

Reworkshop, a
two or threeday event

+4%

70%

75%

+5%

.. . . ...
.. . . .... .
.

Re-IDA 
attention
to your
behaviors
Stuck in ―S‖ (Situation)
Move Attention to Outcome
Expressed Story-lines and Emotions inhibit progress
(Mindsets/Attitudes)
Expressed Story-lines and Emotions advance progress
- Must Express?
Authentic Appreciation Opens Communications

Reality-based Optimism Focus on Outcome

Shared Interests Stimulates Collaboration

100% Commitment Solutions appear

Thorough Inclusion Builds Support & Avoids Anger

Absence of Drama Sustains Response-ability

Kept Agreements Demonstrate Trustworthiness

Clear RAAs Efficient Action

Now, take action to
Realize desired Outcome!

313
Bottom and Top Quintile Teams
Incessant
Criticism

Blind
Optimism

Appreciation,
Openness

Reality-based
Optimism

Unrelenting
Conflict

No
Commitment

Willing
Collaboration

100%
Commitment

Isolation,
Anger

Drama
(Victim)

Effective
Inclusion

Responseability

No
Trust

No Accountability

High Trustworthiness

Organization
(Accountable)
314
TDAs Drive Performance Enhancement
All 198 teams with multiple assessments (2008)
Average ~4% Enhancement / TDA cycle
+2%/TDA

Top
Quintile

84% 90%

+2%/TDA

> Ave.
Quintile

81%

77%

+4%/TDA

Average
Quintile

72%

75%

79%

83%

+5%/TDA

< Ave.
Quintile

66%

71%

76%

80%

+7%/TDA

Bottom
Quintile

66%

53%

+13%

+4%

70%

75%

+5%

315
How do TDAs Work?
On-line
Segment
Why?

Case Studies

Leader’s
Briefing

Responsible
Smith, John

Next TDA?
Real ―ABC‖ Team Data
Bottom
57%

What’s good

<
>
Ave. Ave. Ave.

Workshop?

Repetition

Action
Implement an
Appreciation
Enhancement
System

Due
6/28/2012

Behavior-specific actions?

Lloyds of London
EDF-France

SOEs-China
Mines - Malaysia

Top

6/07

68%

9/07

72%

4/08

81%

6/09

316
Our Closure
Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful,
committed citizens can change the world.
Indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has.
– Margaret Mead, Anthropologist

Eval card

Please rate
your
And a
workshop in a final, over
scale of ―1‖ to
all
―10‖ (great)

Your team leader’s closure is up next.
317
Your Team Leader’s Takeaways
Observations, and
actions going
forward

318

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Measuring and Managing the Social Context of Teams

  • 1. Prospering in a Increasingly Complex World Managing your ―Fifth Force‖ to manage your performance and risk
  • 2. Introduction – Preparing to ―Launch‖ Some Challenges Social Contexts & Repetition Our Agreements Personal Sharing 3
  • 3. Challenge – Changing your Perception The horizontal lines are actually straight Apollo 8 4
  • 4. Challenge – Changing your Mindset Attention  Mindset Attention to things you likely don’t think about Mindset-shift Where Attention goes, power flows 5
  • 5. A Challenge – You Acting Before Disaster Attention  Mindset  Behavior ―Experiential‖ activities ―Significant Emotional Experiences‖ Attention  Mindset  Behavior  Results 6
  • 6. Introduction – Preparing to ―Launch‖ Some Challenges Social Contexts & Repetition Our Agreements Personal Sharing 7
  • 7. ―Excess Energy‖ Tech & Social Complexity On average, we only have the energy we can extract from the sun Occasionally, societies get “excess energy” from stored energy Hundreds of Years Today, we are harvesting energy stored over millions of years + An intellectual response to Technical complexity is OK + An intellectual response to Social complexity is inadequate 8
  • 8. Flawed Contexts – Nothing is Immune High Tech Challenger’s Explosion Low Tech NOAA-N’ Dropped KAL Crashing Hubble's Mirror Flaw Catastrophic Fukushima Explosion 9
  • 9. ―Systems Engineering‖ Your Home Context Accept Personality Differences No Family Secrets Healthy Family Culture Behaviors  Context Mutual Respect Appropriate Expressions of: Emotions & Thoughts Reality Hope Sense of ResponseBelonging ability 10
  • 10. ―Systems Engineering‖ Your Team Context Innate Personality Stuck in ―S‖ (Situation) Move Attention to Outcome Expressed Story-lines and Emotions inhibit progress (Mindsets/Attitudes) Expressed Story-lines and Emotions advance progress - Must Express? Authentic Appreciation Opens Communications Reality-based Optimism Focus on Outcome Shared Interests Stimulates Collaboration 100% Commitment Solutions appear Thorough Inclusion Builds Support & Avoids Anger Absence of Drama Sustains Response-ability Kept Agreements Demonstrate Trustworthiness Clear RAAs Efficient Action Now, take action to Realize desired Outcome! Culture Diagrams Behaviors  Context Expressed Emotions Expressed Thoughts Mutual Respect Reality Hope Sense of ResponseBelonging ability 11
  • 11. ―Mitigating Workshop Decay‖ You must re–stimulate this learning, until the eight behaviors become habitual (~2 years), because these behaviors are invaluable. Brain Rules: We forget 90% of what we learn in a University class within 30 days. 12
  • 12. A Hard Reality, the Forgetting Curve Within a week, without review, we forget >90% of what we learn – Hermann Ebbinghaus (1895) Repetition to learn the Times–table Itzhak Perlman – Practice – 5 hours per day Every top team and athlete practices 13
  • 13. Repetition on Three Time Scales Choose a 4-D ―Czar‖-Track TDA actions; discuss at staff meetings ReTDA, 4% boost per cycle Coaching, boost 0.4% per session All 198 teams with multiple assessments (2008) Average ~4% Enhancement / TDA cycle +2%/TDA Top Quintile 84% 90% +2%/TDA > Ave. Quintile 81% 77% +4%/TDA Average Quintile 72% 75% 79% 83% +5%/TDA < Ave. Quintile 66% 71% 76% 80% +7%/TDA Bottom Quintile 66% 53% +13% Reworkshop, a two or threeday event +4% 70% 75% +5% .. . . ... .. . . .... . . Re-IDA  attention to your behaviors Stuck in ―S‖ (Situation) Move Attention to Outcome Expressed Story-lines and Emotions inhibit progress (Mindsets/Attitudes) Expressed Story-lines and Emotions advance progress - Must Express? Authentic Appreciation Opens Communications Reality-based Optimism Focus on Outcome Shared Interests Stimulates Collaboration 100% Commitment Solutions appear Thorough Inclusion Builds Support & Avoids Anger Absence of Drama Sustains Response-ability Kept Agreements Demonstrate Trustworthiness Clear RAAs Efficient Action Now, take action to Realize desired Outcome! 14
  • 14. Introduction – Preparing to ―Launch‖ Some Challenges Social Contexts & Repetition Our Agreements Personal Sharing 15
  • 15. Our Workshop Agreements and a Personal ―Keeping Agreements‖ Inquiry or Keep your agreements?  Trustworthy Break your agreements?  Untrustworthy
  • 16. Agreement – Seated & Ready to Go 2nd Chair writes agreement on Chart 17
  • 17. Then, Freely Move & Stretch Every 20–30 minutes 18
  • 18. Agreement – Contribute Twice/Day Turn in a ―poker chip‖ when you contribute… …end the day with none 19
  • 19. Scored Agreement – Your WB Cover Day 1 – Seated & ready? Kept Break/ Lunch Broken Day 2 – Seated & ready? Kept Break/ Lunch Broken Day 3 – Seated & ready? Kept Break/ Lunch 1 1 1 2 2 2 3 3 3 4 4 4 5 5 5 6 6 6 7 7 7 Total Total Total Day 1 – Chips gone? None left 2nd Chair writes agreement on Chart Broken One left Two left Day 2 – Chips gone? None left One left Two left Day 3 – Chips gone? None left One left You will score your agreements as a self-test Two left 20
  • 20. Agreement – Be Fully Attentive… No PDAs No Side Conversations 21
  • 21. 4-D Processes Plus Your Content High-Performance Context 4–D Systems Processes + Your (Expertise) Content 22
  • 22. Three Team-Level Fifth Force Diagnostics Innate Personality Culture Diagrams Driving Mindset 4–D Systems Processes 3 Diagnostics Your (Expertise) Content 23
  • 23. The Core of Leadership – Mindset Mindset (Attitude) Expressed Emotions 4–D Systems Processes Expressed Thoughts Mindset Emotions Story-lines Your (Expertise) Content 24
  • 24. Eight Context-setting Behaviors 4–D Systems Processes Accountability No Drama Commitment Reality Agreements Inclusion Eight Behaviors Shared Interests Appreciation Your (Expertise) Content 25
  • 25. Processing your Fifth Force Elephants Eight Behaviors 4–D Systems Processes Context Shifting Worksheet Stuck in ―S‖ (Situation) Move Attention to Outcome Expressed Story-lines and Emotions inhibit progress (Mindsets/Attitudes) Expressed Story-lines and Emotions advance progress - Must Express? Mindset Authentic Appreciation Opens Communications Reality-based Optimism Focus on Outcome Shared Interests Stimulates Collaboration 100% Commitment Solutions appear Thorough Inclusion Builds Support & Avoids Anger Absence of Drama Sustains Response-ability Kept Agreements Demonstrate Trustworthiness Clear RAAs Efficient Action 3 Diagnostics Now, take action to Realize desired Outcome! Your (Expertise) Content 26
  • 26. Agreement – Use this Opportunity Wisely Missed Opportunity Eight Behaviors 4–D Systems Processes Storylines Emotions 3 Diagnostics Your (Expertise) Content Habitual Story-lines 27
  • 27. Your ―Cards‖ & Signing Your Agreements Now, sign your agreements 29
  • 28. Agreement – Focus on Changing You Success changing other people? Success changing your spouse? Mindset (Attitude) is everything! This workshop is about you changing you. (The workshop to change other people is ―down the hall.‖) 30
  • 29. Agreement – Renegotiate Before Breaking You avoid broken agreements by renegotiating your agreements before you break them. 31
  • 30. Introduction – Preparing to ―Launch‖ Some Challenges Social Contexts & Repetition Our Agreements Personal Sharing 32
  • 32. Share Something Personal Write something about yourself that might surprise your colleagues on a white card (E.G., Gender unusual?) We try to guess who you are If not, ―Fess up‖ Stand and describe Where the results you are Attention Accountable to goes, Power produce 2nd Chair collects cards and reads them Flows 34
  • 33. Introduction – Preparing to ―Launch‖ Some Challenges Social Contexts & Repetition Our Agreements Personal Sharing 35
  • 34. An Inquiry When I directed multi-hundred million dollar projects, I wondered, Why did projects meet budgets, requirements, and milestones – and then did not? Physics Nobel Laureate, John Mather, said ―Charlie, I am convinced that half of the cost of a project is socially determined.‖ Some years later, I discovered that John was onto something.
  • 35. The Fundamental Forces Mother Nature’s Force Fields Control Technical Matters Gravity Weak Manmade “Fifth Force” Fields Control Human Behaviors Appreciation Hope Social Contexts Nuclear E-M Including Response Scientists & Engineers Teams & Leaders Years, developing individual technical abilities Easy ―4-D Systems‖ processes, managing collective behaviors
  • 36. What Could Have Prevented the Explosion? Space Shuttle Challenger’s Explosion – 7 Astronaut Fatalities Diane Vaughan: The important question is ―Why did they proceed to launch when all the data suggested otherwise?‖ Technical Root cause – what’s your bet? error Technical abilities or Social context? ―It is unfortunate to launch; Fifth Force: Pressure that the sociological explanation of Behavior: ―Normalization is the correct Required ever Deviance‖  one, as these forces are invisible and stronger technical arguments unacknowledged.‖ to delay a launch than continue Fifth Force management would have prevented this disaster. 38
  • 37. What Could Have Prevented the Flaw? Hubble’s Flawed Mirror – Useless $2B Telescope Technical Root cause – Ground-based what’s your bet? Hubble error Technical abilities or Social context? Failure Review Board: The root cause was a ―leadership failure” Fifth Force: Stress of recurrent ($400M) Overruns  Unrelenting hostility “Team Social toward theContext” was management; contractor’s not Behavior: First rationalized suspicious in the vocabulary test results, then withheld them And, diminished the overruns by hundreds of Millions of dollars Fifth Force management would have prevented this failure. 39
  • 38. What (finally) Restored KAL to safe flight? Korean Air Lines Crashing at 17X international norms, for four years! Root cause – what’s your bet? Individual’s piloting abilities or Social context? Fifth Force: Alteon, a Confucianism in KAL Boeing cockpits; subsidiary, pl Behavior: First Officers aced ignored Captain's observers in errors, “tuned-out” the cockpits Safe flight requires two pilots, working as a team; One “driving” & One managing the avionics Fifth Force management (English, ―CRM) restored safe flight. 40
  • 39. What Crashed Satellite “NOAA – N Prime” The crew tipped the Weather Satellite over not realizing that the bolts had been removed, causing $135M in damages Root cause – what’s your bet? Technical abilities or Social context? Fifth Force: Culture of habituated sloppiness; Behavior: Ignored procedure requiring confirmation that the bolts were in place An unmanaged Fifth Force field wrecked a weather satellite. Fifth Force management would have prevented this failure. 41
  • 40. What Saved Harry’s Diner? Harry’s Diner Worried about toast quality, he asked consultants to train his waiters Consultants refused to provide training; Performed context diagnostics Root cause – what’s your bet? Individual’s knowledge or Social context? Fifth Force: Waiters had too many roles, insufficient toasters; Behaviors: Impossible to make consistent toast (training would have been a total waste) Fifth Force management (RAAs; more toasters) saved Harry. 42
  • 41. What Destroyed Fukushima Daiichi? Root cause – what’s your bet? Fifth Force: Culture of Japan Behavior: Reflexive obedience; Reluctance to question authority; Groupism; and Insularity Government Failure Review Board: The disaster was both manmade and avoidable Fifth Force management would have prevented this disaster. 43
  • 42. Social Context Management While intellectual ability is adequate for Technical effectiveness Social effectiveness requires intellectual, emotional, & behavioral abilities The 4-D System develops Social Context management abilities Online Development (Assessments) “CSW” - Creating a Favorable Context (Fifth Force) Stuck in ―S‖ (Situation) Move Attention to Outcome Workshops Coaching Expressed Story-lines and Emotions inhibit progress (Mindsets/Attitudes) Expressed Story-lines and Emotions advance progress - Must Express? Authentic Appreciation Opens Communications Reality-based Optimism Focus on Outcome Shared Interests Stimulates Collaboration 100% Commitment Solutions appear Thorough Inclusion Builds Support & Avoids Anger Absence of Drama Sustains Response-ability Kept Agreements Demonstrate Trustworthiness Clear RAAs Efficient Action Now, take action to Realize desired Outcome! Intellectual, Reference manual Intellectual, Repetition, Behavior feedback, Actions, Progress tracking Intellectual, Emotional, Solutions, Actions Intellectual, Emotional, Experiential, Systems perspective Intellectual, Emotional, Solutions, Actions 46
  • 43. Contexts  Behaviors Would you modify your behaviors in each of these contexts: Giving / receiving a marriage proposal? Bachelor / bachelorette party? Fiancé's family dinner? Hijacked on honeymoon? 47
  • 44. Managing the Invisible Fifth Force Field ―It is unfortunate that the sociological explanation is the correct one, as these forces are invisible and unacknowledged.‖ 1. Analyze the field into manageable components 2. See the field with ―tracer particles‖ #5 – Seeing Invisible Forces 3. Manage the field with ―Development Assessments‖ that Benchmark; Educate; and Generate actions
  • 45. ―Analyzing‖ Invisible Fields ―The right coordinate system turns an impossible problem into two really hard ones.‖ – Undergraduate physics Dilbert Cartesian Information Intuited Deciding + Logical Emotional Sensed Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication – Leonardo da Vinci 49
  • 46. 4 “Dimensions” ≡ Universal Human Needs ―Arab Spring‖ Emotional Need #1: Feeling safe Physiological Needs: Air, warmth, sleep, water, food 50
  • 47. 4 “Dimensions” ≡ Universal Human Needs Self-Actualization Realizing One’s Potential Logical Need #2: Response-ability Logical Need #1: Reality/Commitment Emotional Need #3: Feeling Included Emotional Need #2: Feeling appreciated Emotional Need #1: Feeling safe Physiological Needs: Air, warmth, sleep, water, food The Four ―Dimensions‖ ―Cultivating‖ – ―Visioning‖ – We all need to We all need feel Reality/Comm appreciated itment ―Including‖ – We all need to feel that we belong ―Directing‖ – We all need the ability to respond 51
  • 48. Making Invisible Force Fields Visible How might you observe invisible magnetic fields? How might you observe invisible Social Contexts? What would be the first criterion for these behaviors? Feel Appreciated Feel Included Observe tracer particles Observe Peoples’ Behaviors Hopeful, Realistic, Futures Meet your Accountability That they address core human needs 52
  • 49. Eight Context-setting Behaviors Mutual Respect w/Open Communications Willful Collaboration Appreciate Interests Authenticity and Efficiency, Absent Anger Inclusion 53
  • 50. Inappropriate Inclusion Anger, Unfairness An old experiment, with fresh Capuchin monkeys. These live in groups (think ―teams‖) and know each other. Two are separated and asked to perform a simple task. If you reward both (equally) with cucumber, they are perfectly happy to do this 25 times in a row. However, i f you give one a coveted grape….. And, the other only cucumber, expect an ATTACK 54
  • 51. Eight Context-setting Behaviors Mutual Respect w/Open Communications Willful Collaboration Creativity Appreciate Interests Reality Commitment Trustworthiness Response-able Action Clear and Achievable Expectations Authenticity and Efficiency, Absent Anger Inclusion Integrity No Drama ―Magical‖ Solutions Accountable 56
  • 52. Acknowledging Unpleasant Realities with an Optimistic Mindset Can Sustain Creativity Acknowledging Unpleasant Realities Context of Sustained Creativity #6 - Unpleasant Realities
  • 53. Andy Grove and an Intel ―Elephant‖ ―The Japanese are hammering us on the cost of manufacturing RAM.‖ Management Team: ―No problem, we can beat them!‖ ―The unpleasant reality is that we cannot beat the Japanese on cost. If we try, the Board will fire us, and rightly so.― Let’s imagine that we are the people they hired to replace us – what would we do?― 60
  • 54. Choosing Suitable ―Elephants‖ • Stay with the ―Focus on changing ourselves‖ theme • Pick something that people really do not want to discuss • A Situation (and Outcome) you can clearly and simply state • Manageable scope, not ―Cure world hunger‖ • Involves (difficult) personal matters • Troubling relationships are suitable • ―Boundary‖ issues are very common Some suitable Situations: S: We lack uniform understanding of (performance) expectations S: Our team leadership is ineffective S: Our resources are inadequate to meet the requirements S: Our organization chart does not work S: Team members resist Accountability S: Our interfaces with other teams are broken S: We have the wrong (sub) contractors doing the wrong work S: Team members prefer to fight with each other than collaborate 61
  • 55. Who Are You, Really? And, what’s your natural (innate) contribution to Social Contexts? Innate ≡ Organization absent experience #7 – Innate Personality - I 62
  • 56. Personalities Natural Contributions Naturally value people, bringing appreciation & deep values Naturally value new ideas, bringing creativity & vision Naturally value relationships, bringing inclusion & harmony Naturally value organization, bringing process and discipline 63
  • 57. Innate Personality is like Handedness Write your name on your workbook cover With your other hand, write your name on page 2 While we all use both hands, we describe our innate preference with ―binary terminology.‖ 64
  • 58. Innate Deciding Processes Emotional deciding process (50%): Take events personally; ―Want results we can all feel good about‖ Logical deciding process (50%): See events objectively; ―Want results that make logical sense‖ I don’t understand it. It just feels right. 65
  • 59. Innate Information Preferences Intuitor (30%): Insightful, scattered, creative, big–picture perspective Sensor (70%): Observant, organized, detail oriented perspective Entering at about 25mph,…on, and on and on. 66
  • 60. Choices for your Personality Quiz Imagine a Context Choose early in life? Choose which is more true Choose quickly Or 67
  • 61. Check Your Preferences – WB P. 2 EMOTIONAL DECIDER Harmony is intrinsically valuable Prefer to act on “what feels right” Consider the people first Prefer harmonious relationships Decide through consensus First, trust my heart Conflict intolerant Total – Emotional Check        7 LOGICAL DECIDER Harmony is a means to an end Prefer to act on “what’s logical.” Consider the task first Prefer being right Decide with my own thinking First, trust my head OK with conflict Total – Logical If you are making the inquiry ―earlier in life,‖ you INTUITED INFORMATION Check SENSED INFORMATION might want to make the questions past tense. 2nd Chair preps F-C w/ grid Rely on my inner knowing Think more about “what could be” Prefer creativity Act on flashes of insight Prefer wrestling with concepts      Rely on my observations Think more about “what is” Prefer common sense Act on careful analysis Prefer wresting with facts & data 68
  • 62. Find Your Badge Color, WB P. 3 Intuited Intuited Emotional Logical Emotional Sensed Sensed Intuited Intuited Emotional Sensed Pick up your ―leader badge‖ Logical Meet me with ideas, freedom, & being the best. Visioning ―Idea–builders‖ Logical Emotional Logical Sensed Write your name on the flipchart so we can read it Wear your badge so we can all see it 69
  • 63. Optimal Personality Distributions John Barack George Jim Sam Fred Sue Jan Ed Amy Harry Jack ―Architects‖ Early-phase Projects John John Ed Al Barack George Jim Ed Amy Harry Anne Jack Al Sue Tom Jan ―Builders‖ Late-phase Projects Sam Ed Amy Barack George Jim Tom Harry Al Jack Diverse Flexible Team 70
  • 64. Innate Personality (Cont.) Meet me with values, empathy, & concern for others If the shoe fits, wear it! Meet me with ideas, freedom, & being the best. Cultivating Visioning Meet me with relationship, harmony, & teamwork. Meet me With process, organization, & Certainty of result. Cultivating Directing ―Idea–builders‖ ―People–builders‖ ―Team–builders‖ ―System–builders‖ #8 - Innate Personality - II 71
  • 65. Innate Personality Trumps Reason He says, to the Frog, ―How about a ride across the river?” Frog says, ―OK, hop on.” 72
  • 66. ―You Killed Us Both, Why?‖ Our innate personalities pre–program us to behave in ways that may, or may not, serve us well. 73
  • 67. The Fundamental 4–D Process 1) Appreciate 3) Attractive Future Lubricate ―Stuck‖ Situations 2) Include/ Collaborate 4) Request/ Direct As we go along, learn and habituate this simple sequence – it works 74
  • 68. Gandhi, a 4–D Leader Values: Spiritual, non–violent resistance Vision: ―We cannot lose. They can torture my body...‖ Inclusion: ―I welcome you all‖ ―God save our…‖ Direction: ―We will not submit... not obey Smut’s law‖ …through our pain, we will make them see their injustice. — Mahatma Gandhi 75
  • 69. Eisenhower, an Including Leader Values: Being there for others. I LIKE IKE Vision: Victory through relationship. Inclusion: ―Any person, whether at the plow in the…‖ Direction: ―You must be their father, mentor…‖ ―Some of my friends are for it. Some of my friends are against it. I am for my friends.‖ — Dwight Eisenhower 79
  • 70. Howard Hughes, a Visioning Leader Values: ―Richest man in the whole wide world.‖ Vision: ―Fly around the world…‖ Inclusion: ―Just not interested in my fellow man...‖ Direction: ―You’ve got the ending all wrong...‖ I’m going to be the best at whatever I do. — Howard Hughes 82
  • 71. Coach Dale, a Directing Leader Pass the ball! Values: Consistency, control. Vision: Win through consistency. Inclusion: ―What are you trying to do?‖ Direction: ―Pass 4 times!‖ ―Sit down!‖ ―A team effort is a lot of people doing what I say.‖ — Michael Winner 87
  • 72. Match Your Innate Strength to Context Caring – Training, & leading large teams Creating – Research, early phase projects Conductor – Andris Nelsons Relating – Marketing, & leading large teams Organizing – Managing, late phase projects #10 - Innate Personality - IV 91
  • 73. Incompetent Manager? (1) What % 50% for an aerospace firm! Only of managers are incompetent? Plan, organize, direct, control ―Directing‖ is necessary but not sufficient. 92
  • 74. Incompetent Manager? (2) I don’t feel that my management values my contributions. I don’t feel included & don’t trust my management. Authentically Appreciate Others Include & Keep Your Agreements Embrace Reality & Vision Optimistic Outcomes No drama & Clear, Accountability My management denies reality and has no vision. My management blames, complains & ignores Accountability What’s your take–away from this? 93
  • 75. Competent Managers (Leaders) Decide today to join the 30% of competent leaders/managers. 94
  • 76. Lock the Doors – Film Clip On July 20, 1969, Apollo 11 landed on the moon. Gene Kranz was the Flight Director, and Steve Bales was Guidance Officer. Story–line: ―Yellow‖ inclusion Emotion: Love Group (Affection) (What ―color‖ is Gene’s personality?) 95
  • 77. Innate Personality Colors Perception While others see their personality's core as the path to success, you know that your success requires all four Dimensions. 97
  • 78. Your Homework, WB P. 3 Do the personality inquiry tonight with your friend/spouse, teaching them the material. 98
  • 79. Takeaways – Innate Personality Our behaviors tend to align with our innate processes, People (Cultivating); Relationships (Including); Ideas (Visioning); or Process & control (Directing). - Committing to be 4–D able enables you to support an effective team Fifth Force (social context); and - Success will be easier in work contexts that match your innate strengths Comments or Questions before we move on? 99
  • 80. Your Culture’s Fifth Force (Social Context) Effect Chapter 7: Using the 4–D System to Analyze Cultures Feynman diagram 4–D Culture Diagram Subatomic Particles Teams, Organizations, … #11 - Cultures - I
  • 81. The Four Cultures – Where? Address members’ deep (human) values Address individuals’ intellectual needs Research Universities Governments Address members’ relational needs Address individuals’ process/control needs 101
  • 82. Culture Diagram Inquiries Is yours 1–D ? Is yours 4–D? ―Lead‖ matches task & customer? Firms that built cultures that fit the strategy… grew net income 5 to 10 times faster than other companies. – Corporate Culture and Performance (1992) 102
  • 83. Diagramming Your Team’s Culture Your ―Expresses Appreciation‖ TDA Quintile indicates the ―Green‖ level in your culture. Your ―Includes Others‖ TDA Quintile indicates the ―Yellow‖ level in your culture. 2nd Chair prepare for exercise A short test finds whether ―Blue‖ or ―Orange‖ leads your culture. 103
  • 84. Culture Characterization, WB P. 5 1) We grant ultimate power to: Our technical “wizards” Our (hierarchal) management 2) Our working processes are: Unstructured and free Rigorous and disciplined 3) Ultimately Performance trumps budget Budget trumps performance 4) Our management and admin processes are: Poorly documented and ad–hoc Documented and disciplined 5) Our personal communications are: Brutally frank Polite and tempered 104
  • 85. Raise Your Hand, Please Team A Blue Team A Orange Results Summary Team B Blue Team B Orange 1) Ultimate power to wizards or hierarchy… 2) Processes are unstructured or rigorous… 3) Ultimately, performance or budget rules… 4) Processes are ad–hoc or rigorous… 5) Communications, brutally frank or polite… 2nd Chair counts hands & records Record the results, WB P. 5 105
  • 86. Record Culture Diagrams, WB P. 6 Cultivating Cultivating Visioning Including Including Directing Record your observations about match of culture ―lead‖ to task 2nd Chair prepares chart 107
  • 87. ―Blue‖ Cultures Meet Experts’ Needs Values Inclusion Diagonal Challenge Vision Organization/Power Nobel 109
  • 88. ―Orange‖ Meets Management’s Needs Diagonal Challenge Values Inclusion Vision Organization/Power 110
  • 89. Feed the Culture’s Data–dog Directive cultures perceive control as central. Hence, you must appear to be in control. You can never run out of ―biscuits‖ (e.g. consistency, data, plans) for the Data–dog. 111
  • 90. A Healthy Org. Respects Differences Directing ~ ~ Employee Development Marketing Research Manufacturing (It’s interesting that these core functions match the 4-D System) Success requires a context that optimizes all sub–cultures. 112
  • 91. A Unhealthy Org. Overwhelms All Directing Data–dog Employee Development Marketing Research Manufacturing Making all sub–cultures match the ―lead‖ is destructive. 113
  • 92. An Inquiry WB, P. 6 Complete this sentence, Our culture would benefit most from ____________________________________________________ My expressions of Authentic Appreciation My increased emphasis on harmonious relationships Processing unpleasant realities to stimulate creativity Naming process owners to improve organization 121
  • 93. Takeaways – Cultures Your collective processes, values, and behaviors, which we call culture is a potent Fifth Force element. You can enhance performance and competitive advantage by: - Matching your ―Lead‖ to your customer; and - Being 4–D able, with no Dimension below ―threshold‖ Comments or Questions before we move on? 122
  • 94. Your (Project) Team Mindsets’ Fifth Force Effect Inspired by JPL’s John Casani, ―I wanted to explain why some project managers are fired when cost goes from $400M to $410M and others get medals for projects that go from $400M to $750M.” What’s in your future? or #13 – Project Team Mindset
  • 96. Two Incompatible Project Mindsets Performance rules or Cost (schedule) rules 125
  • 97. Incoherent Mindsets? “You’re fired!” ―Performance,‖ driven by a sponsor determined to maximize benefit. Stakeholders ―Cost,‖ driven by a sponsor determined to avoid cost overruns. Stakeholders Stakeholders Incoherent You’re Fired! 126
  • 98. The ―Blue,‖ Performance Mindset Performance Risk Cost Schedule 127
  • 99. The ―Orange,‖ Cost (Schedule) Mindset Performance Risk Cost Schedule 128
  • 100. Identifying the Mindsets, WB P. 6 Fill out a 3x5 card like the image below with an ―X‖ in the boxes of your choice. Our Team Performance Cost Record the results in your workbook Page 6 2nd Chair tallies cards, then writes on F-C 130
  • 101. Takeaways – Project Mindset As they proceed, projects and their stakeholders necessarily adopt a ―Blue;‖ or ―Orange‖ Mindset. This Fifth Force element alters perceptions and behaviors. Therefore, you must ensure mindset coherency. Comments or Questions before we move on? 131
  • 102. What Matters for Leadership Effectiveness? ….there is not one trait or characteristic that has any value in predicting leadership potentials, none, not even intelligence Wondering how you can improve your leadership effectiveness? #14 – Leadership Effectiveness
  • 103. Attitudes or Skills Inquiry, WB P. 7 1. Write the names of leaders you admire in your workbook 2. Then, write the attributes that made these people great leaders 2. Now, let's quickly decide if each is more about Attitudes or Skills ? 2nd Chair preps F-C w/ vertical line a few inches from left then writes Are your attitudes/mindsets contagious? 134
  • 104. 4–D Analysis (I.E., Simplification) The 4–D System simplifies Mindsets (Attitudes) into two components you can manage. Emotions Thoughts 135
  • 105. Your Story-lines Drive Performance, Up or Down Cognitive psychology, simplified High-Performance Context Low-Performance Context #15 - Story-lines - I
  • 106. The Power of Spoken Thoughts ―In the beginning there was the Word, And the Word was with God, And the Word was God.‖ ―The word is the most beautiful tool you have as a human, it is a tool of magic.‖ Our life is what our thoughts make it. – Marcus Aurelius (~150 AD) 137
  • 107. ―Story–lines‖ and Truth Story (Webster's) = The telling of a happening, true or fictitious with the intent of informing or persuading. We define ―truth‖ as that which is unarguable. ―Story–lines‖ are thoughts and expressions that seem true to us but are not the truth because they are arguable. The surest unarguable truth is the truth of your experience. 138
  • 108. Are You Guilty of Homophily? Homophily is our preference to relate with people who share our Story–lines. When we hear Story–lines we agree with, a small voice says…. ―That’s the Truth!‖ When we hear Story–lines we disagree with, a small voice says…. ―That’s just your Story– line!‖ 139
  • 109. Religion Story–lines are Powerful Mark Twain Man is a religious animal. He is the only religious animal. He is the only animal that has the TRUE religion. Several of them, in fact. He is the only animal that loves his neighbor as himself and cuts his throat if his theology isn’t straight. He has made a graveyard of the globe in trying his honest best to smooth his brother’s path to happiness and heaven. Religion Story–lines energize, making good people better, and (sometimes) make bad people worse. 140
  • 110. Story–lines About Motivations (1) Client calls Customer – threatening contract cancellation Fly out to meet 141
  • 111. Story–lines About Motivations (2) Bruce –―Competitor got to them again‖ ―Bruce, You always see that competitor everywhere.‖ Sam – ―He never liked our company‖ ―Sam, You frequently complain that people don’t like the company.‖ Mary – ―Getting orders from above‖ ―Mary, You often complain about upper-management.‖ 142
  • 112. Story–lines About Motivations (3) Projection 143
  • 113. Now What Do You Do? Anybody ask him? Sam said, ―I did – he said that he wanted flexibility to accommodate budget cuts.‖ Your Story–lines about other people’s motivations are wrong 95% of the time. (Robert Cooper) 144
  • 114. Choosing Your Story–lines – ―AMBR‖ Attention Mindset Attention Notice and name Story–lines ―Green‖ or Notice and ―Red‖ name according Story–lines to the ―Green‖ or Behavior ―Red‖ they according support to the Behavior they support Behavior Mindset It is not OK to run Red Story–lines Results You will only run Green Story–lines #16 - Story-lines - II 145
  • 115. Green or Red Story-lines, & ―S‖ Story–line Story–line Stuck in ―S?‖ Behaviors Behavior Situation Story–line Story–line Your Outcomes 146
  • 116. Story–lines Drive Success or Ruin ―Improving quality means higher cost.‖ What behavior does this Story–line support? ―Improving quality is the best way to lower cost.‖ What behavior does this Story–line support? 147
  • 117. Group Story–line Exercise, WB P. 7 Record Story–lines on Pages 9–10 in your workbook. Story–lines you “run” about: Yourselves? Your Customers/Sponsors? Your Management? The Other Team? Providers ―color‖ them according to the behaviors they support. ―Green‖ if they support (desired) Outcomes ―Red‖ if they distract you from (desired) Outcomes 2nd Chair preps F-C w/ vertical line a few inches from left then writes 148
  • 118. Animals Run Story–lines Too Whether you think you can do it, or think you can’t, you're right. – Henry Ford 150
  • 119. Dealing with Red Story–lines When a team member runs a Red Story–line (e.g. from your team’s list): Argue?? Inquire Re: Consequences? Offer a Replacement? 151
  • 120. Story-lines Commit to ―running‖ only ―Green‖ Story-lines, Sustaining a Fifth Force (social context) focusing people on desired Outcomes. Comments or Questions before we move on? 152
  • 121. Managing Emotions to Manage People’s Energy The English word ―emotion‖ comes from the Latin verb ―movere,‖ to move. #17 - Emotions - I
  • 122. The Five ―Emotion Groups‖ Mad Glad Scared Sad Love "They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.― — Carl W. Buechner 154
  • 123. We Seek Emotional Experiences Eric Clapton – The ―Blues‖ Andris Nelsons – Energizing Enthusiastic ―Fans‖ Dramatic Finishes 155
  • 124. How Important is ―EQ‖ vs. ―IQ‖ Senior managers identified the organization’s most outstanding leaders using objective criteria such as profitability Emotional intelligence was twice as important as technical skills and IQ for jobs at all levels Emotions Thoughts Moreover, emotional intelligence was increasingly important at the highest levels Daniel Goleman in the Harvard Business Review (What Makes a Leader?) 156
  • 125. Expressing Your Emotions – Glad Start Meetings with Jokes? Uplifting Humor? OK to play at work? 157
  • 126. Expressing Your Emotions – Mad Anger at Injustice? Anger at Situations (vs. people)? Acted Anger? 158
  • 127. Expressing Your Emotions – Sad Loss of a Colleague? Loss of a Contract? Hubble – Loss Everywhere! 160
  • 129. Expressing Your Emotions – Scared Mobilize action before calamity? Excess fear can immobilize #18 - Emotions - II 162
  • 130. Expressing Your Emotions – Love Loving Your Work? Loving Your Team-mates? Loving Your Job? 163
  • 131. How Are You? Responses are contextual (cultural) ―Fine, I am really busy‖ ―I hope you are really busy‖ Genki, desu ―My life energy is good‖ Tsai I ate "Fine fon le mayo today‖ ―Fine, my stocks are up‖ ―Fine, the weather is good‖ (When it’s not) Why is being busy a good thing? 164
  • 132. Is Our Busyness an Addiction? Feel Anxious if not busy? Using Busyness to Mitigate Anxiety? Addiction – continued use of a mood altering behavior with life–damaging consequences 165
  • 133. Before You Answer the Phone… Take two deep breaths Close Your Eyes for the Conversation Nobody will suspect that you did this, except through a deeper sense of ―feeling heard‖ (Inclusion) 166
  • 134. Expand Time – Pause & Shift Story–line A powerful Story–line shift Name waiting ―found time,‖ then enjoy it 167
  • 135. Schedule ―Quiet Time‖ for Yourself Schedule ―meetings‖ with yourself Negotiate Quiet Time for your Team 168
  • 136. End Busyness by Feeling Your Feelings Commit to doing nothing for 10 minutes Notice your emotions (Anxiety?) Belly Breathe into any discomfort 169
  • 137. Noticing and Naming ―One-word Check-in‖ What are you feeling? Glad Cheerful, delighted, elated, satisfied, excited, relieved Mad Frustrated, irritated, agitated, annoyed, envious, jealous Sad Depressed, guilty, regretful, neglected, isolated, lonely Scared Nervous, anxious, tense, worried, distressed, dreading Love Adoring, fond, liking, caring, desiring, longing 170
  • 138. EQ ≡ Feel & Express Your Feelings, WB P. 8 1. Record emotions you experienced, and the circumstances; then 2. How you intend to express your emotions Scared Mad Glad Sad Love Please discuss your findings with your partner 171
  • 139. When did you feel Glad? Glad Cheerful, delighted, elated, satisfied, excited, relieved 172
  • 140. When did you feel Mad? Mad Frustrated, irritated, agitated, annoyed, envious, jealous 173
  • 141. When did you feel Sad? Sad Depressed, guilty, regretful, neglected, isolated, lonely 174
  • 142. When did you feel Scared? Scared Nervous, anxious, tense, worried, distressed, dreading 175
  • 143. When did you feel Love? Love Adoring, fond, liking, caring, desiring, longing 176
  • 144. Takeaways - Emotions When you experience, and then express your emotions, you can sustain an energizing Fifth Force (context) Comments or Questions before we move on? 177
  • 145. Mutual Respect & Open Communications Expressing Authentic Appreciation Context of Mutual Respect & Open Communications Mastery of Habitual Appreciation: #12 – Appreciation - I 178
  • 146. 4 “Dimensions” ≡ Universal Human Needs Appreciation is a ―business word‖ for love Emotional Need #2: Feeling appreciated Emotional Need #1: Feeling safe Physiological Needs: Air, warmth, sleep, water, food 179
  • 147. Absent Appreciation Sad, Isolation 180
  • 148. Unmet Needs at Work ―70% report receiving no praise or recognition in the workplace.‖ — Gallup ―64% of those who leave their jobs say it’s because they didn’t feel appreciated.‖ — US Department of Labor 70 percent hate going to work, or have mentally checked out, roaming the halls spreading discontent — Gallup 181
  • 149. Motivating the Middle 60% About 20% of the workers are giving all they can Another 20% don’t want to give more The middle 60% say ―They would give more to their work if there were more in it for them.‖ What is the ―more‖ they want? They want to feel appreciated. Will this take more time? 182
  • 150. Appreciating Bosses? As one moves up in the organization, are their (emotional) needs for appreciation more, or less likely to be met? How do you name appreciating bosses? Departing CEO’s of Fortune 500 companies cite lack of appreciation as the primary reason for leaving their jobs. — News Report 184
  • 151. Obstacles to Appreciation Bart Simpson’s dinner blessing: ―Dear God, we paid for all this stuff ourselves, so thanks for nothing.‖ 185
  • 152. Living in the Mindset of Gratitude ―A thankful heart is not only the greatest virtue, but the parent of all other virtues. ― — Cicero ―I maintain that thanks are the highest form of thought, and that gratitude is happiness doubled by wonder.‖ — G. K. Chesterton ―We are all heirs and heiresses to a society of freedom and plenty that most of us did absolutely nothing to earn.‖ — Ben Stein 186
  • 153. Living in the Abundance Mindset ―Wealth consists not in having many possessions but in having few wants.‖ — Epicurus, 300 BC ―If you are not happy with what you already have, how could you be happier with more?‖— A Greeting Card Selfless giving supports a life of abundance. 187
  • 154. Dr. Dean Ornish, U of C, SF Regarding appreciation: No other factor in medicine – not diet, not exercise, not genetics, not drugs, not surgery – has a greater positive impact on quality of life and reduction of disease… #20 - Appreciation - II 188
  • 155. Step 1 - Speaking Your Gratitude Can any of us choose to live our life seeing the glass as half empty, or half full? Prepare to stand up and speak what you are grateful for about… Wait! Do not express Appreciation for an individual now. That is the next step. Now, say, ―I am grateful for…‖ (e.g. the opportunity to work with people as motivated and dedicated as you) 189
  • 156. Preparing to Appreciate (1) Standing, if they are in the room, look them in the eye 190
  • 157. Expressing Your Appreciation (2) Speak directly to them saying ―(Name), I appreciate you for…‖ If they are not present, tell what you appreciate about this person, then say, I’ll tell them as soon as I see them.‖ 191
  • 158. Completing the Process (3) The process completes when they look you in the eye, and say, ―Thank You‖ 192
  • 159. Appreciation Process – Let’s Do It 1) Preparation: Standing, if they are in the room, look them in the eye 2) Appreciate: Speak directly to them saying ―(Name), I appreciate you for…‖ 3) Completion: The process completes when they look you in the eye, and say, ―Thank You‖ 193
  • 160. Use IDAs to Live ―HAPPS‖ Appreciation Habitually – Habits are your personal bureaucracy Authentically – Decide to live in the mindset of Gratitude Promptly – The sooner, the better Proportionally – Appreciate proportional to their contribution Specifically – The more specific, the better 194
  • 161. Appreciation  Business Results Situation Remedy Results Brainstorming Appreciation Form Three parts 1. Who? 2. For what? 3. By whom? KC Fed Chair Appreciation is not just about health and aliveness. It also dramatically enhances ―business results.‖ 195
  • 162. Appreciate People in Your Life Now! Many words were spoken into the ears of the dead that they yearned to have heard while they were alive. Tonight, begin habitual appreciation before it is too late. 196
  • 163. Building ―Appreciation Muscles‖ WB, P. 9 Write the names of the people who you will appreciate tonight: _________________________________________________________________ Draft a (moving) e-mail: Generic front-end: I pause to reflect on you who have enriched my life. You commitment to character, as demonstrated by your behaviors has been an important model for me. While I think about you often, I realize that this is not enough. I need to express my feelings and thoughts. So, ABC, I take this opportunity to express my deep appreciation for… Write the names of the people who you will send this to: _________________________________________________________________ 197
  • 164. Takeaways – Appreciation Commit to living in Gratitude (Mindset), and habitually Expressing Authentic Appreciation (Behavior), because this can sustain a Fifth Force (Social Context) of: • Good feelings; • Open communications; • High performance; • Enhanced Health; • While meeting our universal need to ―feel appreciated.‖ Comments or Questions before we move on? 198
  • 165. A Context of Collaboration, Meeting Both Your Needs and Others’ The Harvard Negotiation Project Addressing Shared Interests Context of Collaboration, meeting both your needs and others’ #21 - Shared Interests - I
  • 166. What are ―Shared Interests‖ Matters that both parties are interested in discussing and acting on Spouse, friends: E.g., good food and wine, international travel, appreciating and caring for each other, shared religious and political views, enjoy same music, family Teammates: E.g., winning competitions, good and fair profits, equitable recognition, cover each other’s back, team and individual success Cross-team: E.g., synergistic collaborations, teaming for competitive advantage, working, combine abilities to more effectively perform 200
  • 167. What Wants of Theirs do I Share? Pay appropriate attention to your needs, values, and interests. And to the needs, values, and interests of important others, e.g. sponsors, colleagues. ―People do things for their reasons, not ours.‖ Addressing shared interests makes the reasons the same. 201
  • 168. Shared Values Defuse Power Struggles Hubble’s Telescope-Scientist introduced himself to the Project Manager with ―Odom, I’m going to make you miserable.‖ Jim said, ―No you’re not because we want the same thing.‖ Charlie’s Two Rules: 1) Avoid power struggles; and 2) Never power struggle if you don’t have the power. 202
  • 169. Shared Interests & the Hubble Hire I really want to hire a key person for Hubble Servicing Head of Admin says, ―NO‖ Badge on the table Ms. Admin Our Mutual Boss “Personal–side Bank Accounts” (And, I don’t want to be fired) 203
  • 170. Addressing My Boss’s Shared Interests What does my boss want that I can want for him also? Peace with her and the other Directors ―Gave me everything I requested‖ ―I (publically) state my Accountability and resign if we fail‖ 204
  • 171. Ms. Admin’s Shared Interests What does she want that I can want for her also? Power and control over me? No Way! For me not to end–run her in the future. 205
  • 173. A Juncture I a team wants better collaboration with another entity, do the exercise on the next slide (whether the other entity is present or not) If not, have participants do the exercise in their workbook 207
  • 174. Shared Interests Group Exercise, P. 12 The activity often generates Significant Emotional Experiences (SEEs). What does ―X‖ most want that ―Y‖ can want for them also? (Only ―Y‖ team members say what ―X‖ wants) ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ What does ―Y‖ most want that ―X‖ can want for them also? (Only ―X‖ team members say what ―Y‖ wants) ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ 2nd Chair writes on F-C #22 - Shared Interests - II 208
  • 175. Shared Interests, WB P. 10 Matters that both parties are interested in discussing and acting on Spouse, friends: E.g., good food and wine, international travel, appreciating and caring for each other, shared religious and political views, enjoy same music, family Teammates: E.g., winning competitions, good and fair profits, equitable recognition, cover each other’s back, team and individual success Cross-team: E.g., synergistic collaborations, teaming for competitive advantage, working, co mbine abilities to more effectively perform 209
  • 176. Takeaways – Shared Interests Habitually asking, ―What do they want that I can want for them also?‖ can sustain a Fifth Force (context) that: • Enhances your relationships (e.g. marriage); • Reduces (cross–organizational) conflict; and • Supports you both in getting your needs met: Because ―People do things for their reasons, not ours‖ and Addressing Shared Interests makes the reasons the same! Comments or Questions before we move on? 210
  • 177. A Context of Authentic Relationships, and Efficiency, Without Energizing Do you under-include Anger (exclude) emotional Do distress (Mad Group) you over–include  wasting Appropriately time & energy Including Others Authenticity, and Efficiency absent Anger #23 - Inclusion - I
  • 178. 4 “Dimensions” ≡ Universal Human Needs Emotional! # 1 – Feeling appreciated. # 2 – Feeling included. Emotional Need #3: Feeling Included Emotional Need #2: Feeling appreciated Emotional Need #1: Feeling safe Physiological Needs: Air, warmth, sleep, water, food 212
  • 179. Exclusion  Anger, Sadness 213
  • 180. Personas & Childhood We all routinely don “masks” or assume roles to show who we think we ―should be‖ Childhood personas to gain affection/avoid pain Caring Smart Friendly Disciplined 214
  • 181. More About Personas Consciously donning & removing temporary "personas‖ can be as useful as a coat in the winter. We likely adopt adult versions of our childhood personas Mr./Ms. Caregiver, Guru, Teacher Mr./Ms. Cheerleader, Nice Guy/Gal, Clown Mr./Ms./Dr. Super-competent, Wizard, Smarty-pants Mr./Ms. Director, General, Rambo 215
  • 182. Authentic? or Persona? Connecting/ relating through your heart Connecting/ relating through your role Revealing your vulnerable self Hiding your vulnerable self Others feel connected and included Others feel disconnected and excluded 216
  • 183. The University President Invitation to our class It’s safe, be authentic ―It hurts like hell‖ Students connected & mesmerized 217
  • 184. The Great Santini Habituates a Military Persona Treats his children like soldiers No authenticity, no vulnerability, no love, no joy 218
  • 185. Personas (Roles) – Past Workshops Mr./Ms. Conscience, Healer, Minister, Guru, Consoler, Teacher Mr./Ms. People-person, Cheerleader, Nice Guy/Gal, Clown, Relationshipmender Dr./Mr./Ms. Super-competent, Genius, Smarty-pants, Intellectualaggressor, Wizard Mr./Ms. Authority-figure, Director, Executive, Rambo, General, Big-shot Write a persona you use, in WB, P 11. Does it serve you well? 220
  • 186. Persona Interview, WB P. 11 Interviewer – ―Please introduce me to your persona.‖ Persona – ―I’m Mr./Ms. Persona‖ (naming the persona). Interviewer – ―It’s nice to meet you Mr./Ms. (Persona). – ―Tell me what you are most proud of, Mr./Ms. (Persona)?‖ – ―How do other people appear to you, Mr./Ms. (Persona)?‖ – ―What is your leadership strength, Mr. /Ms. Persona?‖ – ―What is your leadership weakness, Mr. /Ms. Persona?‖ – ―What are the benefits of this role at work?‖ – ―What are you most afraid of, Mr./Ms. (Persona)?‖ – ―Drop your persona and go back to your authentic self.‖ Interviewee goes back to their authentic self. – ―Can you see how this persona arose in childhood?‖ – ―Is there anything else you realize about yourself?‖ Your Personas influence your perceptions and behaviors. #24 - Inclusion - II 221
  • 187. Inclusion Mindset – Speaking Manners Be sensitive to ―inclusion manners.‖ Avoid negatives, as in ―I only have…‖ Replace ―but‖ with ―and‖ in your speaking. Replace ―Yes/No‖ questions with a choice of ―Yes’s:‖ ―Would you rather have lunch at Five Spice or City Café, today?‖ 222
  • 188. Personal Sharing & Office Hours Include others by sharing something personal, and appropriate to the relationship. Make it easy for others to include you, e.g. office hours 223
  • 189. Inclusion Mindset – ―Hearing‖ Others "Many a man would rather you heard his story than granted his request.― — Phillip Stanhope, Earl of Chesterfield Make sure that others ―feel heard‖ Take Response–ability to communicate until you are understood 224
  • 190. Manage Your Meetings Information? State the purpose ahead of time Decision? Or Agenda? Actions/Minutes? Document Properly 225
  • 192. Your ―Over-Inclusion Glitches?‖ Too many (boring) meetings? Too many Invitees? Burdened by e-mail? Use ―Subject line‖ for messages & responses Can you do an RAA event at Northrop Dec. 14? [Yes] [OK, thanks] 227
  • 193. Your Inclusion Inquiry, WB P. 12 Under-inclusions Which under-inclusions by you limit your team? (For example: I do not appropriately delegate my power and authority, especially to people who I don’t think are as smart as I am; I am sloppy about recording meeting minutes and action items; I don’t give sufficient thought to who to include when appreciating team accomplishments.) ______________________ Actions I will now take to remedy these: _________________________________ Over-inclusions: Which over-inclusions by you limit your team? (For example; Extending e-mail text beyond the subject line when it is unnecessary; Including minimal or non-contributors in group achievement awards; Inviting people to meetings when providing a summary of what transpired would be adequate; Failing to name meetings as information or decision so people can make informed choices about whether to attend.) ____________ Actions I will now take to remedy these: _________________________________ 228
  • 194. Takeaways – Including Appropriately Including Others is important, because it can sustain a Fifth Force context of efficient work, absent unnecessary anger. Comments or Questions before we move on? 229
  • 195. Keeping Your Agreements can Sustain a Fifth Force (Context) of High Trustworthiness Or, do your sloppy Do your rigorous ―agreements‖ habits show ―agreements‖ habits your trustworthiness? show your lack of trustworthiness? Rigorously Keeping All Your Agreements Context of High Trustworthiness & Efficient Work Integrity = Alignment of words and actions. #25 - Agreements - I
  • 196. Perspectives on Trustworthiness (1) ―Up to half of all daily business activities are compromised or wasted due to mistrust.‖ — John Whitney, Director, Deming Center for Quality Management 231
  • 197. Perspectives on Trustworthiness (2) ―We tend to judge ourselves by our intentions, and others by their actions.‖ - Stephen Covey 232
  • 198. Perspectives on Trustworthiness (3) Your behaviors trump your words Late again Broke your “Contract” Liar, liar, pants on fire ―What you do speaks so loudly I can’t hear what you say.‖ — Emerson 233
  • 199. Costs of ―Late to Meetings is OK‖ (1) You energize ―Mad–group‖ and ―Sad–group‖ emotions lowering the quality of feelings (mood) at the meeting: Mad group: Irritated, annoyed, frustrated, jealous Sad group: Alienated, rejected, insulted 234
  • 200. Costs of ―Late to Meetings is OK‖ (2) You energize negative Story–lines: About your motivations. They have power and almost surely are wrong. About your lack of respect for others. They are the judges of this, not you. Wrong 95% of the time 235
  • 201. Costs of ―Late to Meetings is OK‖ (3) Your lack-ofdiscipline wastes people’s time You create barriers to your input, reducing the worth of your contributions 236
  • 202. Costs of ―Late to Meetings is OK‖ (4) You separate yourself from others, apparently deliberately. 237
  • 203. Costs of ―Late to Meetings is OK‖ (5) You draw attention away from the working subject towards perceived interpersonal affronts. 238
  • 204. Score Your Agreements Habits, WP P. 13 Workshop __ I was seated & “ready to go‖ per projected clock? (Scored, WB Cover) __ I contributed at least two times per day (Scored by chips at end-of-day) __ I scored these two agreements on my Workbook cover __ I was fully attentive, e.g. no PDAs or side conversations __ I used this opportunity wisely, following 4-D processes __ I remained focused on changing me, not other people __ I renegotiated all troublesome agreements before breaking them __ My Workshop’s overall agreements summary score Work __ I do what I say, when I say, in the way I say? __ I leave meetings in time to get to the next one on time? __ I arrive at all my scheduled meetings on time? __ (add your own) ___________________________________________________ __ (add your own) ___________________________________________________ __ My overall agreements at Work summary score Family __ I arrive home for dinner when I said? __ I keep my promises to my partner/spouse? __ I keep my promises to my children? __ (add your own) ___________________________________________________ __ (add your own) ___________________________________________________ __ My overall family agreements summary score My agreements going forward (Yes or No) __ I will carefully notice when I am entering agreements? __ I will renegotiate troublesome agreements before I break them? This is an agreement that is difficult for me to keep: I commit now to keeping this agreement in the future? #26 - Agreements - II 239
  • 205. Breaking, then Processing Agreements We all break agreements Lack of Poor Discipline Outhouse Planning (Toilet) Unexpected Events Jail Processing your broken agreements 240
  • 206. Processing Broken Agreements 1) ―I broke my 2) Describe the agreement Circumstances with you‖ 3) Future Prevention 4) Express Regret 5) Are we now OK? Clear up any ―glitches‖ when you return to work or home. (If these include marital infidelity, proceed cautiously!) 241
  • 207. PM’s ―Truth Translation Table‖ Essentially complete means: It's half done. We predict means: We hope to God. Risk is high but acceptable means: With 10 times the budget we would have a 50–50 chance. Serious, but no insurmountable problems means: It'll take a miracle. Task force to review means: 25 people incompetent at their regular jobs will review the project. System is ready for delivery means: The money is all gone. We give up. 242
  • 208. Takeaways – Agreements Decide now to rigorously Keep All Your Agreements, because this can sustain a context of trustworthiness which is essential in every aspect of your life. Comments or Questions before we move on? 246
  • 209. Reality based Optimism with 100% Commitment can Sustain Creativity Being 100% Committed Context that ―Magically‖ Reveals Solutions #27 - Creativity - I
  • 210. 4 “Dimensions” ≡ Universal Human Needs Logical Need #1: Reality/Commitment Emotional Need #3: Feeling Included Emotional Need #2: Feeling appreciated Emotional Need #1: Feeling safe Physiological Needs: Air, warmth, sleep, water, food 248
  • 211. Absent Reality, Commitment  Hopelessness 249
  • 212. 100% Commitment Alters Perception When you are inspired by some great purpose…all your thoughts break their bonds…your consciousness expands in every direction…and you discover yourself to be a greater person than you ever dreamed possible – Pantajali, 150 BC This is the focused state of ―100% Commitment.‖ Outcome commitment alters perception to reveal solutions. 250
  • 213. Outcomes You are Committed To? If I could tell you one thing that would make you and your team successful, it would be this: Find the Outcomes you are committed to realizing, and focus accordingly. ―I know this now. Every man gives his life for what he is committed to. Every woman gives her life for what she is committed to. Sometimes people are committed to little or nothing, and so they give their lives to little or nothing. One life is all we have, and we live it as we are committed to living it and then it's gone. But to surrender who you are and to live without commitment is more terrible than dying – even more terrible than dying young." — (Modified from ―Joan of Lorraine,‖ a play by Maxwell Anderson) 251
  • 214. Two Commitment Mindsets 100% Committed “Both Feet In‖ Address Unpleasant Realities Less than 100% Committed “One Foot Out” Optimism Displaces Reality Run only ―Green‖ Story-lines, e.g., ―Whatever it takes‖ ―Red‖ Story-lines are OK, e.g., ―I’ll try‖ Use Passionate Emotions Ignore/Repress Emotions #28 - Creativity - II 253
  • 215. Apollo 13 Set–up: Apollo 13 was the seventh US manned mission to the moon. An oxygen tank exploded limiting power, heat and potable water. Gene Kranz was (again) the Flight Director. Address Unpleasant Reality? Green Story-line? Glad Use Passionate Emotion(s)? Mad Sad Scared 100% Commitment? Love 254
  • 216. Braveheart Set–up: William Wallace, was a 13th– century Scottish warrior who led the Scots in the First War of Scottish Independence. Address Unpleasant Reality? Green Story-line? Glad Use Passionate Emotion(s)? Mad Sad Scared 100% Commitment? Love 257
  • 217. Miracle Set–up: The United States men's hockey team, led by head coach Herb Brooks, defeated the ―professional‖ Soviet team, then won the gold medal in the 1980 Winter Olympics. Address Unpleasant Reality? Green Story-line? Glad Use Passionate Emotion(s)? Mad Sad Scared 100% Commitment? Love 259
  • 218. Make Your Life Incredible, Now Noah’s Ark 261
  • 219. A Life of Purpose and Consequence ―Be ashamed to die until you have won some victory for humanity‖ – Horace Mann (1859) ―To love what you do and feel that it matters – how could anything be more fun?‖ – Katherine Graham There is a vitality, a life force, an energy translated through you – and because there is only one of you in all of time, this expression is unique…if you block it – it will be lost. — Martha Graham #29 - Creativity - III 264
  • 220. Charlie’s Life & Commitments Acknowledging an Unpleasant Reality: Turning 70 this year, my time to do this kind of work is limited to 5 to 10 years, at best Green Story-line: There is still time to improve my lifestyle/ health, so that I can continue to contribute as long as possible Emotions: I bask in gratitude, habitually expressing my appreciation (love) with words, gestures, and selfless giving. Commitments: Myself: 80% Committed to seeking a healthier lifestyle; 100% Committed to a legacy of contribution and selfless service, enriching all who interact with me Family: 100% to 80% Committed to enhancing happiness in my wife, children, grandchildren and relatives Work: 100% Committed to broadly fielding ―4-D‖ development265
  • 221. Now, Record Yours in your WB, P. 14 I Acknowledge an Unpleasant Reality Examples: I am: In a job that doesn’t suit me; Too verbose; Too argumentative; Caught in hopelessness (Victim); Tired from taking on work that I shouldn’t (Rescuer); Repressing uncomfortable feelings (Rationalizer); Angry too often (Blamer). For too long, I have placed my job above my family and my health. ______________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________ I Choose a Green Storyline Examples: I use a strength from an adjacent personality to enhance my effectiveness; I can improve my health with attention to exercise and eating. I can fully meet both my family and work obligations by appropriately focusing on each. ______________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________ I State My Commitments to Myself Example: I am only 40% Committed to health excellence, and am 100% committed to doing better. I am 100% Committed to leaving my wife and children a legacy of love and respect. I want to be remembered for my character and the way I treat people. ______________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________ I State My Commitments to My Family Example: I am 100 % Committed to providing quality time and attention to my family. I am 50% Committed to supporting my inlaws, as we do not like each other. ______________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________ Example: I am 100 % Committed to success of both this institution and this specific activity. I am 70% Committed to the success of my current supervisor because he treats us unfairly. I State My Commitments to My Work ______________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________ 266
  • 222. Takeaways – Creativity Commit to Addressing Unpleasant Realities with Mindsets of Optimism and 100% Commitment, as One life is all we have… …so, sustain an Fifth Force that stimulates your Creativity Comments or Questions before we move on? 267
  • 223. Eliminating Drama Can Sustain a Context of Response-ability The 4-D System Victim Rationalizer Resisting Steve Karpman’s Blaming & Drama Triangle (1968) Complaining Context of Response-ably Directed Energy Rescuer Persecutor Blamer #29 - Drama - I
  • 224. 4 “Dimensions” ≡ Universal Human Needs Logical Need #2: Response-ability Logical Need #1: Reality/Commitment Emotional Need #3: Feeling Included Emotional Need #2: Feeling appreciated Emotional Need #1: Feeling safe Physiological Needs: Air, warmth, sleep, water, food 269
  • 225. Four Ways ―We Mount the Stage‖ 1. Victim “There’s nothing I can do.” (Then you do nothing) 2. Rescuer “I must do it!” (Which you soon regret) 3. Rationalizer “It really doesn’t matter.” (Fatigued – from repressing uncomfortable feelings) 4. Blamer ―It’s their fault.‖ (When it’s actually your fault) 270
  • 226. Let’s Complain! Write a short note (A Noun & a Verb) E.G. – My boss doesn’t listen to me Never complain? Write the complaints of ―someone you know.‖ We all easily generate complaints. 271
  • 227. Who’s Response–able? When we try to avoid responsibility for our behavior by assigning our response-ability to some other entity, we give our power to that entity. – M. Scott Peck Who’s responsible for the $20 bill being on the table? When does Response–ability begin? When we take it! Who’s Response–able for these complaints? Response–ability begins when we each decide to take it. 272
  • 228. Never Complain Again (1) Ask for it! 273
  • 229. Never Complain Again (2) 3) Embrace reality; 1) Authentically Appreciate; Address Propose an appealing outcome Shared Interests 4) Free of Drama; 2) Include/collaborate; Make Agreements you Ask for it! can (will) keep We grant requests because returns are assumed (reciprocity) One caveat – never ask for something they can’t give you. Turn your complaints into requests or, forget about them. 274
  • 230. The Victim Mindset Sad–group (e.g. helpless). Emotions Thoughts ―It’s being done to me. There’s nothing I can do.‖ ―Sad‖ is relieved. ―Club‖ members’ validation further reduces ―sad.‖ ―Clubbing‖ with sympathetic others reduces discomfort. ―BMC‖ (Bitch, Moan, Complain) Benefits: Eliminates the need for action. Helplessness is acceptable. Feels OK with club members. Costs: No power, no action, No Outcome. All requests sound like whining. Need to recruit club members. 275
  • 231. Joe Vs. the Volcano Victim–Blamer ―dance‖ & feeling lousy I’m Saved! but… ―It will always be something… 276
  • 232. Escaping the Victim Mindset The Inquiry: Do I want more of this? Slow down, Notice and name your feelings: Notice, name (color) then shift your Red power–robbing Story–lines. Notice the word ―never,‖ common drama language A business executive’s Story–line shift, ―They will never change‖ to ―If we don’t send the letter, we’ll never know.‖ We all engage in light, recreational complaining. This is OK if you do not go to Victim, limiting your ability–to respond. #30 - Drama - II 284
  • 233. The Hero/Rescuer Mindset Emotions Emotions Love–group (e.g. yearning for approval/validation). Exhausted feel used and move to blamer. Benefits: Get to feel needed. Plenty of Blamers to help. Avoid having to say ―no.‖ Thoughts Thoughts ―I want to do it.‖ (Then they do it) “I should not have done it…” Costs: Chronic overwork stress. Inappropriate relationship. Feel ―used‖ by others. 285
  • 234. Exiting the Hero/Rescuer Mindset Do I want more of this? – First, buy a little time, ―Could you let me think about this? I’ll get back to you soon.‖ – Then, say ―NO‖ 4–Dimensionally. Appreciate Person and/or situation; Speak to shared interests State (unpleasant) reality; Optimistic Outcome & Commitment Be Inclusive; State Commitment to Integrity Free of Drama, (Expressing ―glad‖); Ask for it Saying ―NO‖ 4-D avoids power struggles. 286
  • 235. Your Drama State Experiences, WB P. 15 1. Victim – Have you ever:  Felt feelings of helplessness?  Run a Story-line like, ―There’s nothing I can do?‖  Then, feeling relieved, prove it by doing nothing?  Recalling a time when you were in the Victim state (we all have been here), what was the situation and what was it like? _______ Exit Strategy: Turn your complaints into requests, or forget about them. 2. Rescuer – Have you ever:  Felt a deep yearning to please, or be liked by others;  Run a Story-line like, ―Sure, I’ll do it,‖ when you shouldn’t?  Then, feeling burdened, become frustrated (angry) that you have more to do than you possibly can?  Recalling a time when you were in the Rescuer state, what was the situation and what was it like? ______________________________ Exit Strategy: Buy some time, consider consequences, and then 287 say ―no‖ Four-dimensionally.
  • 236. The Rationalizer Mindset Fear–group (e.g. anxiety). Emotions Temporary relief, then anxiety returns. Thoughts It Doesn’t Really Matter Benefits: Repress uncomfortable feelings. Feels intellectually satisfying. Seems better than the alternative. ―It doesn’t really matter.‖ ―It doesn’t really matter‖ to repress emotions again. Costs: Relief is temporary. Energy is stuck up ―in your head.‖ Distracting and exhausting. “Feelings that are buried alive stay alive.” – Stephen Covey 288
  • 237. Is This the Hill You Want to Die On? Anyone can become angry – that is easy But to become angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way…This is not easy ―...those with high scores on a test of hostility…were seven times as likely to have died by the age of fifty‖ > Anger + + 289
  • 238. The Blamer Mindset Scared group (e.g. fear of being blamed) Emotions Mad group (a ―cover–up‖ emotion) Benefits: Repress your fear. Feel temporarily powerful. Enjoy energy from adrenalin rush. Thoughts ―It’s your fault!‖ ―I need to punish you.‖ Costs: When fear returns, you must recycle. Massive Emotional–side Withdrawals. Your hostility can kill you. 290
  • 239. The Blamer State & Escaping Your assignment of blame is both clear and wrong Adrenaline addiction Freud – Blamer is self–anger directed outward Experience & Escape I wonder what my role was in creating this mess? 291
  • 240. The “Discover Your Role Two–Step” Blaming or Complaining Wondering about my role… This experiential, whole body process reliably exits the toxic Blamer state. 292
  • 241. Your Drama State Experiences, WB P. 15 3. Rationalizer – Have you ever:  Felt uncomfortable feelings that you (unconsciously) repressed;  Run a Story-line like, ―It doesn’t really matter‖ (when it does)?  Then, feeling better, only to find the discomfort soon returned?  Recalling a time when you were in the Rationalizer state, what was the situation and what was it like? ____________________ Exit Strategy: Slow down, (belly) breathe into your emotions and process your Story-lines with a friend or your coach. 4. Blamer – Have you ever:  Felt afraid that you are going to be blamed for the "mess;‖  Run a Story-line like, ―It’s your fault,‖ using ―mad-group‖ emotions to ―cover up‖ your uncomfortable ―scared‖ feelings;  Then, feeling burdened, become frustrated (angry) that you have more to do than you possibly can?  Recalling a time when you were in the Blamer state, what was the situation and what was it like? ______________________________ 293 Exit Strategy: Find and own your role in ―creating the mess.‖
  • 242. Takeaways – Drama Drama–states create contexts of: Helplessness (Victims) Denial (Rationalizers) People Users (Rescuers) Hostility (Blamers) When the Fifth Force (context) you need is Response-ability Comments or Questions before we move on? 294
  • 243. Clarifying Roles, Accountability, & Authority (RAAs) Creates a Fifth Force of Achievable Accountability Clarifying Roles, Accountability & Authority Context with Clear and Achievable Expectations #31 - Accountability
  • 244. Roles, Accountability, & Authority Roles = Your function in your work (team, family) context, e.g. goalie, quarterback Accountability = The results you and others expect you to deliver, e.g. play to win the game. Authority = Power granted to you by others, e.g. direct the other players 296
  • 245. RAA Failure Mode #1 Lack of RAA Discipline Metaphor: Exhausted youngsters soccer team, as everybody chases the ball Work: Exhausted workers from over– inclusion, e.g. too much time in meetings Remedy: RAA discipline and tightly managed meetings 297
  • 246. RAA Failure Mode #2 Lack of Team–level Accountability Metaphor: Sports players in Blamer–state, instead of assuming Accountability Work: Blaming others for problems instead of assuming Accountability Remedy: Assume Accountability for ―whatever it takes‖ for team success 298
  • 247. The Apollo 1 Fire Set–up: Apollo 1 – A cabin fire during a launch pad test on January 27, 1967 at Launch Pad 34 at Cape Canaveral killed all three crew members. Gene Kranz gathers his team at Mission Control in Houston to discuss Accountability. 299
  • 248. RAA Worksheet WB, P. 16 Your Name: _________________________Your Supervisor:____________________________ Describe your Accountability, the results you are to deliver. (For example, I lead the project and meet Level I requirements budget, and schedule. Another – I am accountable for assuring that adequate new business flows into our company.) Describe your Role, your functions in your team context. (For example, I am the Project Manager. Another – I am the Marketing Manager.) Describe your delegated Authority, the power granted to you by others. (For example, I direct the project’s workforce within the Level I requirements envelope, and applicable institutional requirements. Another – I provide strategic and tactical guidance to our marketing team.) My authority is sufficient? Yes ____ No ____ (If your authority is inadequate, you must engage your supervisor.) I own and maintain the following processes: (For example, “Project monthly reporting process. Another – I own our operational marketing processes.) I use and comply with the following (institutional) processes: (For example, “Flight Project Practices,” “Engineering Golden Rules.” Another – Our 302 Company’s “Marketing Manual”)
  • 249. Processes with Expert Owners All organizations use processes – otherwise they could not do anything Designate expert ―process owners‖ – optimize & promulgate Write processes that your team should assign “owners” for on a 3x5 card. 303
  • 250. Dakota Tribal Wisdom When Indians discover they’re riding a dead horse they take response–able action and dismount. We often try other strategies, like: Use a stronger whip. Appoint a committee to study the horse. Visit other teams to see how they ride dead horses. Revisit the performance requirements for horses. Request additional funding to increase the horse's performance. Hire contractors to ride the dead horse. Promote the dead horse to a supervisory position. 304
  • 251. Takeaways – RAAs Lack of clarity about your (and others) RAAs is not OK, because this Fifth Force limits Accountability And, it’s so easy to fix. (Consider a ~one-day RAA Workshop) Comments or Questions before we move on? 305
  • 252. The Context Shifting Worksheet “You cannot solve a problem with the level of thinking that created it.” “You cannot solve a problem in the context that created it.” #32 - Context Shifting Worksheet
  • 253. Is Your Attention Stuck in ―S?‖ Stuck in “S” Shift the Context 1) Appreciate; Address your shared interests. 2nd Chair distributes CSW 3) Create, from reality & 100% Commitment 2) Appropriately include; Keep all your agreements. Solution Appears 4) Free of drama, Ask for what you want! 307
  • 254. Now, Select an Elephant to Process 1) Form into small groups and select a spokesperson 2) Invite each to advocate a few elephants 3) Give everyone a chance to speak 4) Vote to elect top three or four 5) Present to your larger team 6) All select one to process 308
  • 255. CSW Post-workshop The Context Shifting Worksheet (―CSW‖) is a Fifth Force tool for People; Performance; Relationships… 1. Takes an hour or two; 2. Easy to facilitate, just ask the questions; and 3. Expands your thinking & alters your perspectives. 310
  • 256. ―Mitigating Workshop Decay‖ You must re–stimulate this learning, until the eight behaviors become habitual (~2 years), because these behaviors are invaluable. Brain Rules: We forget 90% of what we learn in a University class within 30 days. #33 - Mitigate Workshop Decay 311
  • 257. Reality – the Forgetting Curve Within a week, without review, we forget >90% of what we learn – Hermann Ebbinghaus (1895) Repetition to learn the Times–table Pearlman – Repetition, practice – 5 hours per day Every top team and athlete practices 312
  • 258. Repetition on Three Time Scales Choose a 4-D ―Czar‖-Track TDA actions; discuss at staff meetings Re-TDA, 4% boost per cycle Coaching, boost 0.4% per session All 198 teams with multiple assessments (2008) Average ~4% Enhancement / TDA cycle +2%/TDA Top Quintile 84% 90% +2%/TDA > Ave. Quintile 81% 77% +4%/TDA Average Quintile 72% 75% 79% 83% +5%/TDA < Ave. Quintile 66% 71% 76% 80% +7%/TDA Bottom Quintile 66% 53% +13% Reworkshop, a two or threeday event +4% 70% 75% +5% .. . . ... .. . . .... . . Re-IDA  attention to your behaviors Stuck in ―S‖ (Situation) Move Attention to Outcome Expressed Story-lines and Emotions inhibit progress (Mindsets/Attitudes) Expressed Story-lines and Emotions advance progress - Must Express? Authentic Appreciation Opens Communications Reality-based Optimism Focus on Outcome Shared Interests Stimulates Collaboration 100% Commitment Solutions appear Thorough Inclusion Builds Support & Avoids Anger Absence of Drama Sustains Response-ability Kept Agreements Demonstrate Trustworthiness Clear RAAs Efficient Action Now, take action to Realize desired Outcome! 313
  • 259. Bottom and Top Quintile Teams Incessant Criticism Blind Optimism Appreciation, Openness Reality-based Optimism Unrelenting Conflict No Commitment Willing Collaboration 100% Commitment Isolation, Anger Drama (Victim) Effective Inclusion Responseability No Trust No Accountability High Trustworthiness Organization (Accountable) 314
  • 260. TDAs Drive Performance Enhancement All 198 teams with multiple assessments (2008) Average ~4% Enhancement / TDA cycle +2%/TDA Top Quintile 84% 90% +2%/TDA > Ave. Quintile 81% 77% +4%/TDA Average Quintile 72% 75% 79% 83% +5%/TDA < Ave. Quintile 66% 71% 76% 80% +7%/TDA Bottom Quintile 66% 53% +13% +4% 70% 75% +5% 315
  • 261. How do TDAs Work? On-line Segment Why? Case Studies Leader’s Briefing Responsible Smith, John Next TDA? Real ―ABC‖ Team Data Bottom 57% What’s good < > Ave. Ave. Ave. Workshop? Repetition Action Implement an Appreciation Enhancement System Due 6/28/2012 Behavior-specific actions? Lloyds of London EDF-France SOEs-China Mines - Malaysia Top 6/07 68% 9/07 72% 4/08 81% 6/09 316
  • 262. Our Closure Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has. – Margaret Mead, Anthropologist Eval card Please rate your And a workshop in a final, over scale of ―1‖ to all ―10‖ (great) Your team leader’s closure is up next. 317
  • 263. Your Team Leader’s Takeaways Observations, and actions going forward 318

Editor's Notes

  • #2: Self-explanatory
  • #3: Charlie joined NASA’s Goddard Space Flight Center in 1967. He received the Center’s highest patent related award for a “Two-axis Fluxgate Magnetometer. The design, published in IEEE Transactions, flew on sounding rockets and missions exploring planets. He earned a PhD in Astrophysics publishing in Solar Physics and the Astrophysical Journal. Catholic University awarded him their Alumni Award for Outstanding Achievement in Science.After the Harvard Business School’s “Program for Management Development,” NASA appointed Charlie Director, Astrophysics. He led this multi-billion dollar program for a decade. Charlie invented the Great Observatories Program garnering over $8B for space astrophysics. NASA awarded him an Outstanding Leadership Medal and the American Astronautical Society gave him their highest award, the Space Flight Award.In 1990, Charlie launched the Hubble Space Telescope with a flawed mirror. He then mounted the space repair mission that fixed the telescope. Hubble is now in its 20th year of operations. NASA awarded him a second Outstanding Leadership Medal, an honor bestowed on less than 50 people (including astronauts) in NASA’s History. For leadership of the Astrophysics Division, and strategic planning, NASA then awarded him the Distinguished Service Medal, given “when the contribution is so extraordinary that other forms of recognition would be inadequate.”In 1993, he joined the University of Colorado’s (CU) Business School as a professor of Leadership. He a course called “21st Century Leadership” to undergraduates, MBAs, and executives. His classes had the highest ratings in the college, consistently “A+.”In 1995, Charlie founded “4-D Systems” with total sales of about $50M over the past decade. His coaches won the International Coach Federation’s 2007 Prism Award for “enhanced excellence and business achievement…with documented return on investment.”His book,How NASA Builds Teams (Wiley, 2009) is published in English, Japanese, Korean, Chinese (Taiwan and the Mainland), Bulgarian, Russian, and Czech. Charlie’s current focus is supporting the 4-D Network Providers in more than 75 countries in helping people worldwide have better lives and better work experiences. Charlie lives a happy and fulfilling life with his wife, Junko, in Boulder, Colorado with extended occasional stays in Sapporo, Japan. Together they enjoy travelling, history, art and good food.
  • #4: I have been fascinated by the effects of “excess energy” on society and institutions. If you average over all time, humans had as much energy in a day as they could capture from the sun. This includes wind energy, water from falling water and photosynthesis. From time-to-time, civilizations find a way to collect energy that has been stored, usually by someone else. This is how the Roman’s built their empire. They figured out how to finance their army with spoils of war, including gold, silver, slaves, land and buildings; and have money (energy) left over. Then they hit the limits when they lost to the German tribes at the eastern boundary and had to construct Hadrian’s to protect the empire from uprisings in northern Britain. Of course, during the period of excess energy, they built the Coliseum, temples, and greatly expanded the government bureaucracy in like manner to all other civilizations, before or since. You can see the incredible effort to extract uranium and a typical coal train that we see in the US, often exceeding 100 coal cars!
  • #5: The slide shows failures that we discuss in more detail later. You will see that even the hi-tech activities, where one would expect the technical issues to dominate risk. Interestingly, the difficult parts functioned as planned. Challenger’s risky “main engines,” worked fine. The Korean Airlines crashes had nothing to do with technical problems with the sophisticated aircraft systems. Hubble’s very complex pointing systems worked fine. In other words, difficulties that were completely amenable to enough intellectual attention were solved. Failures also include tasks as simple as placing holding bolts in the bottom of a satellite and making consistent toast. Once you learn to look for social contexts, you will see their effects everywhere. Upcoming examples include some of the most technically (and technologically) challenging endeavors humans have ever attempted.
  • #6: I find that many people have real difficulty grasping the notion of social contexts as systems that have to be managed, subsystem by subsystem. This is of course familiar to any manager of complex space systems. This process is of course classical systems engineering. I have tried in public talks to explain this using Hubble as an example. Although this seems straightforward for me, non-technical audiences’ eyes glaze over. So this example might provide a metaphor that is easier to understand. If you wanted a healthy and safe home context, you could start by sheltering your family from the elements and from theft as indicated by the roof. Then I believe the rest is self-explanatory
  • #7: This slide follows the same pattern as the previous slide, now with 4-D processes as analogues for each of the processes above.
  • #8: his is an enormously important slide. The time spent in a workshop is of limited value if you fail to have some repetition of the material. Fortunately, our on-line Team and Individual Development (Assessments) make this easy to do.
  • #9: This is a kind-of-fun slide I made while thinking about the power of repetition:Top-Panel:How did you learn the “times-table?”Similarly, you must reiterate the learning about the eight behaviors being a participant in multiple reassessments.Mid-Panel:In “Outliers,” Malcolm Gladwell investigated the difference between people who were famously successful and those less so. He assembled an impressive battery of evidence that the differentiator was 10,000 hours of experience. This is an amazing argument for the potency of repetition. Bottom-Panel:How important is the repetitive drum-beat/rhythm in your music.Notice that nearly every song has a repetitive chorus/refrain?Finally, notice what we all remember from Beethoven’s Fifth Symphony – dun, dun, dun, and d-u-u-n.
  • #10: To cement the learning and manage the context, you must employ repetition on three time scales.
  • #11: Nothing teaches more effectively than “learning by doing.” This is called “experiential” learning, meaning learning from experience. (Can you learn to ride a bicycle by listening to lectures?) Explain that you will not give them exercises with “hidden agendas.” Then, tell them that there are two reasons for this exercise. The first reason is to provide an organized and enjoyable workshop experience. The second is to provide a self-scored “keeping agreements” exercise. Facilitation TipsAgain, when you ask the group raise their hand indicating agreement (3 times) each agreement, raise your hand to encourage them to do the same;Have your “Second Chair” record each agreement on a flip chart as you get hand raised agreement. Alternately, you can do this table-by-table with your TAs; andThen, ask participants to come up and “sign their agreements with their name” – they might not move at first – so repeat your request until they begin moving.I like the “surprise” factor of having them sign – showing them early that this is not your conventional workshop. Moreover, I frequently have participants “renegotiate their agreements” when they need to be absent.
  • #17: The following is such an important point that I will make it now and again later. The workshop is to combine your content with 4-D processes to: 1) Enhance your Fifth Force, lowering risk and enhancing performance; and 2) Give you a set of tools so you can sustain your Fifth Force yourself. If you lack the discipline and will to do this, do not engage in a 4-D workshop.
  • #18: You perform three social context diagnostics that you can only do as a group (team).
  • #19: Tell the participants that they will later explore the core of leadership and likely find that attitude is much more important than “skills.” Yet, most leadership training is skills training. The 4-D System analyzes attitude into two manageable components, Story-lines and Emotions.
  • #20: This continues the orientation showing the eight behaviors.
  • #21: Now we illustrate a really important aspect of our workshops. Participants write the “unpleasant truths” also known as “elephants in the room” anonymously on 3x5 cards. We (usually our “second chair”) organize these and type them up overnight. We then form into small groups about the middle of day three to prioritize them. Then, the larger group selects one or more to process as a group with the Context Shifting Worksheet, “CSW.”
  • #22: It you let yourself and others dribble Story-lines that are irrelevant to this method (red circles), you are wasting an important opportunity. We can manage your speaking space – and, we are only with you for a brief period. You doubtless have the same issue back at work, so use this opportunity for you to take Response-ability for your team’s speaking space, so you can continue this when you are back at work.
  • #23: What You are Here to DoThis is what the workshop is about – applying 4–D processes to your content so you gain insights and enhance your team’s Social Context (the Green circles). It you let yourself and others dribble Story–lines that are irrelevant to this method(red circles), you are wasting an important opportunity. We can manage your speaking space – and, we are only with you for a brief period. You doubtless have the same issue back at work, so use this opportunity for you to take Response–ability for your team’s speaking space, so you can continue this when you are back at work.
  • #27: Up Next – Sharing Something Personal Enhances Your Trustworthiness – We are continuing the workshop “break–in” phase with more exercises and less “lecture.”
  • #31: (Note: You will have to animate the slides in order for this narrative to make sense). This slide contrasts the Fundamental Forces, four from Mother Nature, and the “Fifth Force,” (team) social context. Mother Nature’s forces control matter, and are the realm of scientists and engineers who study them, and model their effects. In contrast, the Fifth Force controls human behavior. This force should be of deep concern to team leaders and their team members. In fact, I suspect that more than 99.99% of people have no idea about the Fifth Force, its potency, or how to manage it. I will show you that it’s overwhelmingly more likely to cause failures, large and small, than the forces that technical people spend so many years trying to master.Note the language at the bottom, “Many years in universities, developing individual abilities” in contrast to “Easy ‘4-D Systems’ processes managing collective behaviors.”I struggled with a symbol for the technical side and finally settled on an image of a wrench. The image on the right introduces the colors of the four “Dimensions” and the four core human needs that underlie them.
  • #32: The explosion of Space ShuttleChallenger surely rocked the world. January, 24, 1986. The team launched an ice-covered shuttle in below freezing weather. A “Solid Rocket Motor’s “field joint” then failed. Hot gases spewed onto the external tank exploding it, killing the entire crew, including the “teacher in space.”How could this have happened? Were the people who managed the boosters sufficiently technically competent? Did they have adequate management expertise and experience? (I knew many of the Shuttle propulsion managers, as I had worked with them on “Spacelab.” They were first-rate engineers and managers.) Would any additional (conventional) training have helped? Or, was the cause the “Fifth Force?” (My Division had a low-cost small satellite called a “Spartan” payload in Challenger’s cargo bay. My people had worked closely with Shuttle astronauts as they had to deploy and retrieve our small satellite, nicknamed “Spartan,” using the Shuttle’s “arm.”)I was extremely interested in learning what happened, so I watched the Failure Review Board’s proceedings on television. When Board member and renowned physicist, Richard Feynman (one of my personal heroes) showed how the booster’s “O-ring” material stiffened in ice water, I erroneously concluded that the mistake was technical, and lost interest in the incident. This is a common error that we technical people make – we assume that all problems that are apparently technical have technical rather than social root causes.I later read sociologist Diane Vaughan’s (600 page) book about the Challenger explosion, The Challenger Launch Decision, (1996). She was “adopted” by the Roger’s Commission, the official failure review Board. She shifted the inquiry to the proper one, asking “Why did they proceed to launch when all the technical evidence suggested otherwise?”Let’s examine the Fifth Force (Social Context) dynamic. The political pressure to launch, launch, launch was enormous. By National policy, all payloads, military and commercial, would fly on the Shuttle, with all other launch vehicles phased out. Launch delays rippled throughout the system delaying the numerous downstream launches, and increasing the costs of the payloads. This Fifth Force context caused the launch management team to descend gradually and unconsciously into the context she called “Normalization of Deviance.” In this state, behaviors that are deviant in a larger context become accepted and ignored in a local (team) context. (A colleague of mine, Frank Martin calls this “incremental stupidity.”) The Fifth Force altered the team’s perception, the most malleable of human functions. Other examples include the widespread belief in the US that house prices could go up faster than GDP indefinitely or that discrimination because of race or sex is OK. She also wrote, “The revisionist history and sociological explanation presented here are more frightening than the historically accepted interpretation, for the ‘invisible and unacknowledged’ [quotes are mine] tend to remain undiagnosed and elude remedy.” In today’s 4-D language: A flawed Team Social Context put “Good People in a Bad Place.”Here’s where it gets really interesting. Management of the Fifth Force (social context) would have prevented the failure. In those times, nobody had the context management tools that we have today. If they had only understood these concepts they could have changed their Story-lines and created a healthy context which would have prevented the disaster.
  • #33: Hubble Space Telescope was difficult technically. As telescopes go, it is rather small with a primary mirror of only 2.4 meters diameter. Hubble gets its advantage over ground-based telescopes by being above the atmosphere which distorts starlight, as the density of the air above us is not uniform. When you see stars twinkling, the stars are not changing. The irregularities in the atmosphere are moving the starlight on and off your eye’s retina. To exploit this benefit, the telescope must be pointed very stably and precisely. (The technical specification is a stability of 0.007 arc seconds for 24 hours at a time. This is the angle a human hair makes at a distance of a mile or a small coin at a distance of a few hundred kilometers.) I think it is obvious why this precision was very difficult to achieve.During my eighth year leading the Hubble team, in April 1990, we launched the telescope and deployed it into orbit from the Space Shuttle. Early on, things looked fine. When testing was complete we began imagining common astronomical images. The image in the green frame is what we hoped we might see when we looked at a nearby spiral galaxy in the Virgo cluster, Messier 100. (The image is from the telescope after the successful space repair.) Instead, the image we saw is in the red frame. Hubble Space Telescope, NASA’s crown jewel, was useless. Needless to say, to find myself accountable for (arguably) the biggest “screw-up” in the history of science was incredibly unpleasant. So, what do you think was the cause of the flaw, in such a large and carefully reviewed program? Do you think that the scientists, engineers, and managers who worked on Hubble were inadequately trained or experienced? (Forgive me; this is a “rhetorical question,” a question asked to make a point, with no answer expected.) Let’s see. NASA made me a member of the Failure Review Board, as the mirror was manufactured in 1977 and I joined the program in 1982. It took months to figure out what happened. Mirrors like Hubble ’s are fabricated with an “indeterminate” process – the surface is measured, then polished to remove the “bumps,” then re-measured for many (~20) cycles. A device called a “null corrector” creates an optical wave front that shows differences from the desired surface. An image of Hubble’s null corrector is on the left. As I recall, the device was several feet high and a foot or so across. Hubble’s null corrector device was thoroughly tested with a 60 inch test mirror. Hubble’s 96 inch flight mirror required a simple re-spacing. The Board discovered that a technician, working alone, violated a procedure and mis-spaced the “null corrector” by 1.3 mm. (FYI – The technician placed a precision bar provided by the National Bureau of Standards in the center of the null corrector to re-space it. The instructions said to spray a metal cap on the bar after spraying it with a non-reflective coating. He could not locate the spray, so he covered the cap with non-reflective tape. He then took his “Xacto” knife and cut a hole in the cap. He did not notice that he chipped off a small piece of the tape. Then, as bad luck would have it, when he tried to center the metering bar, the laser beam hit this spot. Believing that this was the center of the metering bar, he mis-spaced the device by the height of the cap, or 1.3 mm, an enormous error in an optics house with routine sub-micron accuracy.)When the Review Board discovered that this is what happened, my relief was profound. A person working alone made a dumb mistake. It appeared that, for once, bad NASA management did not cause the failure, and with the problem solved, I could go back to my regular job, directing the Astrophysics Division. I felt relieved. Things then took a turn for the worse. General Lew Allen, the Review Board’s Chairman soon found that many, many measurements of the mirror with other devices (i.e. refractive null correctors) were rationalized away. I thought of this a bad luck – the spacing error was large enough to ruin the telescope and small enough to be rationalized away by people who wanted to do so. Failure review chairman General Allen then wondered why NASA’s scientists had not insisted on additional testing of the mirror in view of the suspicious test data. Several of them had worked on ground-based telescopes and understood the perils of this kind of mirror manufacturing error, called “spherical aberration.” He then discovered that the contractor, Perkin-Elmer, had never transmitted the numerous test discrepancies to NASA. (We sued them and settled for $50M, far less than the cost of the flaw.)When the investigation completed, General Lew Allen, Board Chairman told the Congress that, after 15 years and $2 Billion, that a “leadership failure” was the root cause. If the terminology had been available in the lexicon of the day, he surely would have named the cause a “flawed social context” caused by a Fifth Force of relentless criticism.Of course, I was leader of the Hubble team, and had been so for the previous 8 years. It was my good fortune that nobody at NASA paid much attention to the Board’s finding. Everyone focused on the technical mistake, just as I had with Challenger. Moreover, I was so busy managing the aftermath that I had no time to think much about my culpability. So, what happened? Hubble was difficult technically, and we had an ineffective management arrangement, “associate contractors.” The project three times overran at about $400M each time. My NASA perspective was that the contractors were to blame for the cost increases, so we collectively rained criticism on them. This Fifth Force field (social context) of relentless criticism led them to only address technical problems that they believed were real, and there were plenty of these. In their highly stressed condition, they never contemplated that the mirror could have been manufactured incorrectly. (The mirror cost was about 0.5% of the overall program cost.)Moreover, the context motivated the contractor to “rationalize problems away with (sloppy) root cause analysis,” and then not report them to NASA. The remedy to this condition would have been incredibly simple. Habituating the first 4-D behavior, “Expressing Authentic Appreciation,” could have, in my opinion, prevented Hubble’s launch with a flawed mirror. I wish I knew then what I know today!
  • #34: In the 90’s Korean Air Lines (KAL) was crashing at 17 times the international norms. Things were so bad that the President of Korea would not fly on KAL. The amazing fact that brought my attention to this was that it continued for four years. Why do you think finding the cause of this intolerable condition took so long? The reason is that nobody understood the power of team social context to override individuals’ abilities. The investigators kept looking for some flaw in each KAL pilot. Of course, it’s easy to test a pilot’s abilities. Just place them in a 747 simulator, take two engines out, and see if they can land on an icy runway with a tailwind. Of course, this is what they did, over and over, finding no serious flaws. After four years of crashes, a subsidiary of Boeing, Alteon, placed observers in KAL’s cockpits to watch the pilots fly. They saw that KAL had imported an inappropriate Fifth Force, Korea’s Confucian social context, into their cockpits. This Fifth Force field prevented the first officer to criticize the captain in any way. (The fact that they also had a rank differential inherited from the military exacerbated the problem.) Therefore, when a KAL captain driving the aircraft began to make mistakes, the first officer would “tune-out” rather than embarrassing him. Sometimes, first officer would read a newspaper or magazine as the plane flew along. It takes two pilots working together to fly a modern jumbo jet. In normal operations, one flies the aircraft and the other operates the radio and aircraft systems. Safe flight requires the full attention of both the captain and first officer, working as a team and crosschecking each other. Each must feel free to say, “Stop” when the action of the other might be unsafe. Alteon, the Boeing subsidiary working with KAL understood that they had a social context problem that would not be easy to fix. They implemented a clever strategy. They convinced KAL to insist that all cockpit conversations must be in English also. The pilots had to become fluent in English or be fired. (Since tower communications worldwide are in English, This helped keep the Korean social context out of the cockpits. They then taught the pilots how to cross-check each other’s’ actions, with a training methodology called “Crew Resource Management,” the airline’s version of the 4-D System. The crash rates went down to the levels of the rest of the industry. As I said, the most interesting thing about this is that the problem persisted for years! The reason is that we are habituated e.g., by our education system, to focus on individuals’ abilities. Investigators kept looking for flaws in KAL’s pilots’ abilities which, of course, were nonexistent.
  • #35: The Lockheed Martin technicians preparing a satellite for launch came back after a weekend and tipped it over to work on the top. They did not realize that another team had “borrowed” the holding bolts while they were gone, which was permitted. The procedure required that they confirm the bolts were in place before tipping it over. They ignored the procedure and tipped the satellite over. It fell onto the floor, causing $135M of damage. Our clients like this case. They told me that understanding the details of complex systems was daunting. In contrast, everyone could easily relate to leaving the bolts out.So what was the root cause? Were they technically unable to look and see whether the bolts were in place? (Another rhetorical question, I am sorry.) Of course, a child could perform this task. So, was it the context?The manager of the Denver plant believed that there was a systemic culture of sloppiness and neglect at the Sunnyvale, CA plant and asked me to join their Failure Review Board. I declined as I was already over-committed and was not interested. (This was a decision I would later regret.) I later joined the Board as a consultant, and was asked to concur in their findings that the root cause was cultural. It turned out that there were many similar incidences of sloppiness at the plant. Once more, individual’s technical abilities were irrelevant. Social context was everything! Fifth Force awareness and management would, of course, prevented with idiotic and fully avoidable mishap.
  • #36: Stolovitch &amp; Keeps (Training Ain’t Performance, ASTD Press, 2004) argue persuasively that lack of performance in the workplace is far more frequently caused by environmental than individual factors. (I prefer the word “context” instead of “environment.”) The authors report that researchers associate team performance with environment (context) ~80 percent of the time, and with individual’s abilities ~20 percent of the time. Moreover, they claim that training is often necessary, but rarely sufficient to produce long-term performance. Based on these findings, I suggest that once individuals have the essential skills, training them in anything but context management is a waste of money. Therefore, the effective action is to analyze, then manage the context. Training Ain’t Performance illustrates this with a story about “Harry’s Diner.” Excellent toast was central to Harry’s competitive position. Yet, the waiters had difficulty producing consistent, high-quality toast. When fast-food chains appeared nearby, Harry hired “Training Ain’t Performance” consultants to create a training program to train waiters to produce toast more consistently. Instead, they analyzed the situation as follows: - Did the waiters have good performance incentives? Yes, tips were important to the waiters; Did the waiters have the skills and knowledge to make toast? Yes, they all knew how; Did they have the physical / emotional capacity to handle making toast? Yes, waiting is a tough job and Harry was a very demanding boss; and Were they motivated? Yes, the waiters, like most of us, wanted to do the job right.Did the waiters have clear, doable RAAs? (This is our terminology for Roles, Accountability, and Authority. In short, does everybody know their expectations of team members and do they have the resources to succeed?) No, they had many competing tasks including taking orders, cleaning the bathrooms, keeping the salt and pepper shakers full and delivering the food and toast; Did the waiters have sufficient resources, for example toasters? No, only one toaster and the preparation area was inadequate;Items 5 and 6, context shortfalls, were the root causes of poor performance, not poorly trained people. The way to improve toast quality was to address items 5 and 6: 1) Hire “bus-boys” and cleaners to allow the waiters to focus on customer service and toast, and 2) Expand the number of toast preparation stations. Training the waiters would have been a waste of money.
  • #37: I think everyone is surely familiar with this disaster. I was fascinated to watch both the media and the Tokyo Electric Power Company (&quot;TEPCO”) spin the story of what happened. At first, they blamed the earthquake. Then, the blame shifted to the tsunami that “nobody predicted.” I knew that the root cause was, however, much more likely to be a flawed social context – I just had to wait for a sufficiently deep investigation. The government assembled a Failure Review Board chaired by Professor Kiyoshi Kurokawa from Tokyo University, by far the most prestigious academic institution in the country. He reported that the accident was not caused by the tsunami, but was man-made and entirely avoidable. He focused on the response of the plant operator to the tsunami, rather than just the wave itself. The pattern continues unabated. It’s not Mother Nature’s forces at root cause, no matter how much it might seem so, but the Fifth Force.
  • #38: Tenerife – A flawed “team” social context caused the biggest loss of-life in civil aviation history. In a difficult situation, big-jets were diverted to a small airport at Tenerife Island. The most highly respected captain/trainer for KLM airlines (Jacob Veldhuyzen van Zanten) was Captain of a 747. When a garbled communication came from the tower, he advanced the throttles for takeoff. The first officer then said, “Captain, I did not hear a takeoff clearance.” Van Zanten scowled at the first officer and retarded the throttles. When a second garbled communication came from the tower, the captain advanced the throttles again. The first officer remained silent, not wanting to embarrass himself and the very senior captain a second time. The KLM jet crashed into a Pan Am 747 that was stationary on the runway shrouded in fog, killing many hundreds of people.Tokyo Train Crash – 4-D Network providers frequently send me examples of the “Fifth Force” causing accidents and mishaps. This was a YouTube video from a Romanian provider who said, “Wow, social context is at cause everywhere.” He continued with examples of exploding mains in Mexico, and on and on.I have spent a lot of time in Japan, and it is an incredibly homogenous society. I went one morning to Ueno Station in Tokyo and just watched the trains come and go on multiple tracks. The frequency was amazing. As it says in the slide, half of Japan’s 120 million people ride on a train each weekday. Most make one or more transfers so the precise timing of the trains is essential. This train was about a minute and half behind schedule coming into the station just past the fateful curve. This was enough that most people would miss their transfer, and likely some would complain to the company. It is interesting that once more, no amount of training would likely change the situation. I also think that the slide is pretty self-explanatory. Asiana Airlines Crash – In the minutes before Asiana Airlines flight 214 crashed at San Francisco International Airport on July 6, one of the three pilots in the cockpit called out three times that the plane was descending too fast. But none of the pilots noticed that they were flying the plane too slowly until shortly before it hit the sea wall at the end of runway 28 Left.Inexperience and Korean culture played a role in the way the pilots handled the landing, according to documents released on Wednesday by the National Transportation Safety Board. The captain who was flying the plane, told investigators that any of the three pilots could have decided to break off the approach, but for “the low-level people”, including himself because he was being supervised by an instructor pilot, “it’s very hard,” he said.He also said that as the plane approached he was momentarily blinded by a bright light on the runway, possibly a reflection of the sun, but that he would not wear sunglasses because among Koreans that would be impolite.No one said the plane was too low until the last 30 seconds of the flight. Three seconds before impact, Lee made a comment indicating an attempt to re-engage the engines and abort the approach. The plane was then at an altitude of less than 10 meters.The 777 hit the sea wall, breaking off the back of the fuselage. Despite a dramatic cartwheel and then a cloud of dust and smoke, only three passengers died. Of 291 passengers, 199 were transported to hospitals as were three of the four pilots on board and 10 of the 12 cabin crew members. Investigators have said they did not find any malfunctions on the plane.
  • #39: This was a real disaster for TRW, in that a failure was likely to ricochet through their business, which was mostly sophisticated and expensive “classified” (secret) programs, generally some kind of intelligence-gathering system. They also believed that there were future opportunities in small, low-cost satellites. They also understood that their prime manufacturing facility, “Space Park,” in Los Angeles was too institutionally cautious and complex to build small systems cheaply so they bought a small company in Chantilly, VA. This company had very talented technical personnel who could work efficiently, relying on individuals’ deep expertise, rather than TRW expensive processes. NASA implemented two low-cost missions, called “Lewis” and “Clark,” the names of two early explorers of the western US. TRW bid and won Lewis as a typical “cost-plus” contract. This means that the contractor would get additional funding as costs increased above their bid price, but unless the government approved these as “directed changes” the additional funding would not include profit, which is of course the primary reason for the company’s existence. As the program went along, there were many changes which the government refused to fund. These included changes to the payload and technical scope. TRW would have preferred to just quit the contract, but the program was an invention of NASA Administrator, Dan Goldin, and they feared that angering him would affect their ability to win future, large NASA contracts. Therefore, they continued to build the satellite using their only source of additional funding available, profits. Companies, and their executives are rewarded for profits. So, now Lewis was not generating profit, and much worse, it was consuming profits from other programs. Making matters worse, NASA sent a letter removing previously promised satellite tracking support. The project was managed out of NASA Headquarters by an inexperienced individual, trying to please his management. Normally, NASA field centers like Goddard Space Flight Center managed projects. They would never have gone along with this, as experienced people understand that tracking is essential for a new satellite. This meant that the operations team would only see the satellite occasionally from a ground station in Alaska. This, and the funding problems, led TRW to skimp on operations training and personnel. The design was fundamentally unstable. If you can imagine an American football, you can see that it spins along the long axis. Indeed, it is generally thrown spinning that way. Moreover, if it is initially spinning around another axis, it will naturally change over to spinning about the long axis. This was the nature of the Lewis design. The calculations said that the satellite’s control system could manage the unnatural spin axis. The launch was “nominal” in NASA jargon. The operations team got a brief glimpse at the satellite and all appeared OK. They went to sleep awaiting the next pass. When they reacquired the satellite, they saw nearly dead batteries, and a satellite spinning out of control. The solar panels were only occasionally in sunlight. The tired, skeleton crew figured out a command fix and hit the send key, just after the satellite lost contact. The spacecraft died before contact could be reestablished. I was a member of the TRW Failure Board that reported that the cause was technical. The systems engineer had assumed the nominal “tip-off” rate when the booster separated from the satellite bus. We ran calculations with a higher-than-normal force and the satellite went unstable. It is, of course obvious now that the Fifth Force, was in fact the root cause, not the technical error, as it surely would have been found in a healthier social context.This project’s Fifth Force (context) was very similar to Lewis, described above. After the accident, JPL’s Director, Ed Stone told me that he was limited by a Headquarters directive to limit his workforce overseeing the contractor to 15 FTEs. There was, in this constrained environment, a contentious relationship between the navigators at L-M and JPL with unresolved arguments when the discrepancies surfaced. Interplanetary navigation uses very subtle, small corrections on a path as long as that from Earth to Mars. You can read what happened in the chart. How could seasoned technical professionals make such a mistake? It would only be possible in the bottom-quintile context that NASA management intentionally put these teams into. FYI, my good friend, Noel Hinners was the VP at L-M responsible for these two failures. It took some time, and he now agrees that the Fifth Force caused these failures.This was developed at about the same time as the Mars Climate Orbiter discussed above, and in a very similar Fifth Force (context) field. During the pre-launch testing, they found that a switch on one of the landing legs was wired backward. They fixed the error, and continued with the test, never retesting the opening of the leg. If they had retested the leg (in the vacuum chamber) they would have seen that when the leg snapped open, it vibrated sending an additional signal to the computer. This happened in flight and the computer interpreted the second signal as touchdown on the Martian surface, and shut off the descent engine. With no thrust, the spacecraft plunged downward, crashing at high speed. Was the root cause technical? There certainly was a technical/manufacturing error, wiring the switch in backward. But, absent the broken (bottom-quintile) social context, the procedure would have been followed, and the error detected in test, which is precisely what these very expensive and thorough test programs are designed to do. This was a social-context-driven failure.
  • #40: Learning to influence/manage Social Contexts is about changing people’s behaviors by influencing the “field” they experience. Intellectual learning and arguments are inadequate. We now examine each of the 4-D System assets and processes. How NASA Builds Teams is an interesting, educational, and enjoyable read. However, it’s greater importance is as a reference manual as it aligns Chapter-by-Chapter with all the other 4-D materials.The on-line Team and Individual Development (Assessment) tools are very important. They educate, measure behavioral change, provide feedback in the form of comments, generate behavior-enhancing action items, and track progress. Most importantly they are brief enough, requiring only a median of 15 minutes on-line, that they can provide the most important stimulant for adult learning, repetition! The Context Shifting Worksheet (CSW) provides new insights, often solving vexing problems in an hour or so.Workshops are what the name says. Structured events where teams work to enhance performance by changing behaviors, managing their social context. We lecture no more than necessary and lead teams through diagnostics, experiential exercises, and carefully designed Significant Emotional Experiences (SEEs).Coaches work one-on-one and enhance performance and improving coachee’s contribution to their team’s contexts. They use Individual Development (Assessments) to measure (and benchmark) progress.
  • #43: Slide is self-explanatory
  • #47: Consider the first behavior (upper left), “Expressing Authentic Appreciation.” This behavior sustains a context of mutual respect and enjoyable work. Do you believe that people solve difficult problems more easily when they are enjoying their work? Of course, they do.“Addressing Shared Interests” sustains a context of willful collaboration. This is the core of all international negotiations and the Harvard Negotiation Project, as documented in the book “Getting to Yes.”Next, consider the (yellow) “Including Dimension’s,” Appropriately Including Others. This creates a context where people relate authentically (instead of hiding behind personas) and action is efficient and aligned. People who feel excluded become angry, and disruptive. When people experience a context of appropriate inclusion, they find it easier to appropriately include others.Integrity means that actions match words. Rigorously keeping all agreements sustains a context of trustworthiness.Visioning (blue) Dimension – “Addressing (Unpleasant) Realities” with an optimistic mindset is the key to creativity. “Being 100% Committed,” Psychologists call this the “red convertible syndrome.” As participants if they have had this experience. Have they ever thought about a kind of car they want to buy, and seen them everywhere?When I moved to what we jokingly call “the People’s Republic of Boulder,” because it is so progressive politically my friends told me that the national car is a Subaru. At the time, I owned a BMW that was getting old and needed replacement. When I drove, all I saw on the road was Subaru cars, so I concluded that this is what I must buy. There were no BMWs anywhere. I went and test-drove a Subaru, and that was that. No way was I going to buy such a car. I decided then to buy another BMW. On the way back home, I saw lots of BMWs and no Subaru cars, anywhere.During a trip to Shanghai, my client gave us a car and driver to see some Unesco World Heritage gardens about two hours out of the city. The car was a black Toyota. At 5 PM, the driver was not where he said he would be. I became anxious as I did not know how we were going to get back. Even in Beijing, taxi drivers refused to carry people who did not speak Mandarin. Moreover, finding our way to a bus seemed impossible. As I looked anxiously up and street, I noticed that every car was black, and wondered why Chinese only owned black cars? Then our driver finally arrived and I noticed that cars went back to multiple colors. The cars did not change; only my perception changed. At the peak of the trauma of Hubble’s mirror flaw, I, and the NASA Administrator met with the Congressperson responsible for NASA’s budget. She was very angry with me, poked her finger into my chest, and said, “There will never be a dollar appropriated for a Hubble servicing mission. This is just a bad dream that must go away.” I then realized two things: 1) No one was going to repair Hubble, unless I did it; and 2) I had both the motivation and capacity to do so. So, I covertly (and illegally?) reprogrammed $60M, and began the ultimately successful Hubble servicing mission. When I later told people what I had done, they said, “Charlie, what a great act of courage.” I told them, not so, I was 100% Committed and this action seemed completely natural.Directing (orange) Dimension – One of the ways we lose the capacity to take “responsible” action is by entering the “drama-states” of Blamer or Victim.“Clarifying Roles, Accountability, and Authority,” I like to focus on “Accountability” as it is the most important of the three. Don’t we all need to be clear about what others hold us accountable for doing, and having the resources to succeed? Can you see how much easier realizing this clarity is in a context where everyone else is similarly engaged?
  • #48: I have frequently observed strong outbursts of anger both as a consultant and as a workshop presenter when people felt dis-included, or perhaps a better term, excluded. Needless to say, these incidents are difficult to find in films or capture in real-time. Therefore, I was delighted to find this very pure example with these monkeys. There are several feeling excluded effects illustrated in this brief clip:Anger at both the experimenter, and the other monkey who did nothing to create the situation (projection);Refusal to accept their reward (cucumber) in favor of expressing their anger; andWhy it’s so important to administer all awards carefully and thoughtfully – especially group achievement awards.
  • #49: Helpful notes
  • #50: Consider the first behavior (upper left), “Expressing Authentic Appreciation.” This behavior sustains a context of mutual respect and enjoyable work. Do you believe that people solve difficult problems more easily when they are enjoying their work? Of course, they do.“Addressing Shared Interests” sustains a context of willful collaboration. This is the core of all international negotiations and the Harvard Negotiation Project, as documented in the book “Getting to Yes.”Next, consider the (yellow) “Including Dimension’s,” Appropriately Including Others. This creates a context where people relate authentically (instead of hiding behind personas) and action is efficient and aligned. People who feel excluded become angry, and disruptive. When people experience a context of appropriate inclusion, they find it easier to appropriately include others.Integrity means that actions match words. Rigorously keeping all agreements sustains a context of trustworthiness.Visioning (blue) Dimension – “Addressing (Unpleasant) Realities” with an optimistic mindset is the key to creativity. “Being 100% Committed,” Psychologists call this the “red convertible syndrome.” As participants if they have had this experience. Have they ever thought about a kind of car they want to buy, and seen them everywhere?When I moved to what we jokingly call “the People’s Republic of Boulder,” because it is so progressive politically my friends told me that the national car is a Subaru. At the time, I owned a BMW that was getting old and needed replacement. When I drove, all I saw on the road was Subaru cars, so I concluded that this is what I must buy. There were no BMWs anywhere. I went and test-drove a Subaru, and that was that. No way was I going to buy such a car. I decided then to buy another BMW. On the way back home, I saw lots of BMWs and no Subaru cars, anywhere.During a trip to Shanghai, my client gave us a car and driver to see some Unesco World Heritage gardens about two hours out of the city. The car was a black Toyota. At 5 PM, the driver was not where he said he would be. I became anxious as I did not know how we were going to get back. Even in Beijing, taxi drivers refused to carry people who did not speak Mandarin. Moreover, finding our way to a bus seemed impossible. As I looked anxiously up and street, I noticed that every car was black, and wondered why Chinese only owned black cars? Then our driver finally arrived and I noticed that cars went back to multiple colors. The cars did not change; only my perception changed. At the peak of the trauma of Hubble’s mirror flaw, I, and the NASA Administrator met with the Congressperson responsible for NASA’s budget. She was very angry with me, poked her finger into my chest, and said, “There will never be a dollar appropriated for a Hubble servicing mission. This is just a bad dream that must go away.” I then realized two things: 1) No one was going to repair Hubble, unless I did it; and 2) I had both the motivation and capacity to do so. So, I covertly (and illegally?) reprogrammed $60M, and began the ultimately successful Hubble servicing mission. When I later told people what I had done, they said, “Charlie, what a great act of courage.” I told them, not so, I was 100% Committed and this action seemed completely natural.Directing (orange) Dimension – One of the ways we lose the capacity to take “responsible” action is by entering the “drama-states” of Blamer or Victim.“Clarifying Roles, Accountability, and Authority,” I like to focus on “Accountability” as it is the most important of the three. Don’t we all need to be clear about what others hold us accountable for doing, and having the resources to succeed? Can you see how much easier realizing this clarity is in a context where everyone else is similarly engaged?
  • #51: This is one of the most interesting books I have read in recent times. This is a back-up slide Nobel Laureate, Kahneman (Economics) wrote a best-seller that is fascinating. He defines actions driven by “System 1,” fast thinking, and “System 2,” slow thinking. I understand “fast” as intuited information with emotional deciding, and “slow” as sensed data with logical thinking.
  • #52: Many ask about the relationship between the 4-D System and the well-known Meyers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). MBTI was developed to place women efficiently in the WW-II workforce -- our work and theirs both come from Carl Jung. They were interested in people’s current functions and emphasize beliefs. We are interested in innate preferences and emphasize processes.
  • #53: Up Next – Igniting Creativity – Creating the Future You Want (FYI) I looked for years at how to stimulate creativity, with no success. I even bought (worthless) decks of cards and other gimmicks. Then I read the (otherwise uninteresting) book referenced in the slide and saw what I was seeking. The key is something unexpected and unnatural for humans – fully embrace Unpleasant Realities.
  • #54: This is a great story about Andy Grove, longtime Intel CEO. By confronting the unpleasant reality that they could not beat the Japanese on manufacturing cost led them to start the microprocessor business.
  • #55: Up Next – Diagnostic 1 – The first of three team–level diagnostics – here are some things you might want in your “back–pocket.”
  • #64: We find that the brief personality test is quite (surprisingly) accurate. However, some participants may be unsure about the fit of their personality with who they really are. Invite then to continue their inquiry into this section.
  • #72: In an early workshop, my colleague Skip Borst approached me during a break with blazing eyes. “I got it. I got it,” he shouted. Then he told me the following. “Since I first learned about this kind of work, I wanted to know where my foundation was located. Therefore, I took the Meyers-Briggs tests and the result was what 4-D calls a ‘Blue’ Visioning leader. This did not feel right (note the word ‘feel’), so I took the extended Meyers-Briggs. The result was the same.” Skip continued, “Just now, I understand. I was born as a ‘Green’ Cultivating leader. Everything else in my life pushed me across the diagonal toward the ‘Orange’ Directing Dimension. My father was a hyper-German; I went to the Naval Academy, then into nuclear submarines and finally nuclear reactor construction. I adapted into the ‘Blue’ Visioning to survive. Finally, I understand who I am, and why some work environments at GE were so troublesome for me.” I said, “Skip I think you pegged it. Look at what you chose to do the first time you felt free to do whatever you wanted—you became a Master Certified Coach. That’s “Green” Cultivating personality stuff all the way.”
  • #73: In my career journey, I noticed that when I was in jobs that rewarded “Orange,” I struggled, and when I was jobs that rewarded “Blue,” I was rapidly promoted. I would not discourage anyone from working in a neighboring Dimension, if they were comfortable doing so.  I often use my experience as a laboratory to investigate concepts. Why am I much more comfortable in the Green than the Orange? Because I am, at the end of the day, more than anything else, an “Intuitor.”
  • #79: Up Next – Diagnostic 2 – Diagramming Cultures – I reference the great American physicist and Nobel Laureate, Richard Feynman. His “Red Books” inspired me, and were the key to me passing my PhD comprehensive examination.
  • #81: Culture Diagram Inquiries – We now apply 4–D processes that are very similar to the ones we use for individuals’ personalities to teams and groups. First, you find the &quot;lead&quot; for your culture. Note: This is analogous to our process to find individuals’ innate personality foundations. Next, you investigate the four–dimensionality of your team&apos;s culture. The image shows a very typical business culture. It is over–done in the “orange” and impoverished in the “green.” The fact that people do not feel valued (appreciated) diminishes performance.  The next image shows the same “orange” with the other three Dimensions sufficiently robust that they support the “lead” culture, producing product with optimal efficiency. Next, we explore a potent way to enhance your competitiveness. When you design your proposal team culture lead to match your customer’s, you dramatically enhance your competitive advantage. If your proposal team’s culture (and strategy) mismatch your customer’s culture, you will lose to any competitor who matches (whether they do it accidentally or not) if they tend a reasonably competitive proposal.  Finally, note the quote from two Harvard professors (John Kotter and Jim Heskett) which I have modified slightly, while preserving the intent. For those of you not familiar with business jargon, “net income” is profit. Notice that they are not talking about growing profit 5 to 10%, faster, but 5 to 10 times faster.
  • #82: Diagramming your Team’s Culture – Most of our customers are technical teams. (There have only been two exceptions over the last 15 years with many hundreds of workshops.) Therefore, we shortened and tightened the test instrument to “Blue” and Orange.”  All teams have Team Development (Assessments) “TDAs” prior to workshops. We therefore have a good measurement (and benchmark) for the “Green” and “Yellow” Dimensions.
  • #83: Culture Characterization, WB P. 5– This is our (evolving) culture measurement instrument.
  • #98: Up Next – Diagnostic 3 – Project Mindsets – This is a short, powerful exercise. I put it this way, “If you get this wrong, customers will name you incompetent no matter what else you do. John Casani, one of NASA Jet Propulsion Laboratory’s greatest project managers showed me a presentation on this subject some years ago. (Note: John based his presentation on a NASA study called Science Systems Contract Study by CSP Associates, 1993. I adapted his ideas into the 4–D framework.) Our work emphasizes projects because this is where most organizations, from aerospace to drug companies, create value. Simply put, projects are activities with start and stop dates, that produce products in distinct, usually defined, phases.
  • #105: Up Next – What Matters for Leadership Effectiveness? – If we are here to enhance our leadership effectiveness, does the Warren Bennis quote mean that our task is hopeless? Let’s take a deeper look.
  • #108: Up Next – Managing Your Words to Manage Behaviors – We begin with our formulations and expressions of our thoughts, our words. We explore “Story–lines,” statements that are true for us, but not necessarily true for others and hence not the truth.
  • #123: Up Next – Expressing Emotions to Manage Your Energy, and Your Team’s Energy – We continue our exploration into the core of mindset/attitude.
  • #138: Record Your Emotions, WB P. 11 – Most participants have little difficulty in naming and reporting experiencing all five emotions.
  • #139: Record Your Emotions, WB P. 11 – Most participants have little difficulty in naming and reporting experiencing all five emotions.
  • #140: Record Your Emotions, WB P. 11 – Most participants have little difficulty in naming and reporting experiencing all five emotions.
  • #141: Record Your Emotions, WB P. 11 – Most participants have little difficulty in naming and reporting experiencing all five emotions.
  • #142: Record Your Emotions, WB P. 11 – Most participants have little difficulty in naming and reporting experiencing all five emotions.
  • #143: Record Your Emotions, WB P. 11 – Most participants have little difficulty in naming and reporting experiencing all five emotions.
  • #144: This interesting slide illustrates the reinforcing interplay between behavior and the contexts they cause. Moreover, I have transformed teams by habituating this one, supremely important behavior. Communications breakdowns were at root cause in all the tragedies in the images. Imagine how different things would be for so many people if these had been prevented.
  • #149: Researchers frequently find that bosses (supervisors) believe that the appreciation that people most want is money. I believe that money is useful when it meets people’s emotional need to feel appreciated. In the end, it’s our emotional need that matter most. Moreover, if not done carefully, money can be counterproductive. For example, what’s it like when you receive a bonus, then discover that someone who you don’t believe is contributing nearly as much received a larger one than yours?
  • #160: Why not decide to live your life in the beautiful field of giving and receiving appreciation. This is the standard you should to strive to meet and it is the same as in our assessments. You should get a dashboard and run recurrent Individual Development (Assessments) to cement this wondrous behavior into your life.
  • #163: Up Next – The Core of Successful Negotiation – I got onto this while I was at Harvard
  • #171: Up Next – Peoples’ Next Deepest Need – Feeling Included (FYI) This is a story about how thoughtless inclusion damages, even at a celebration. Some years ago, I worked with a proposal team managed by a retired executive the company brought back to lead the team. He had little use for the people who had followed the “capture” of the program for several prior years. He only included the new team he had assembled from his old friends in the company.  Dis–inclusion effects people similarly to “withheld truths.” These actions incite “drama.” True to form, this dis–inclusion caused power–struggles to blossom everywhere as the excluded people “acted out” their discomfort. (Note: Acted–out is psychology–speak for expressing your unpleasant emotions in contrast to “acting–in” and internalizing them.) After they submitted the proposal, and before they knew whether they won or lost, I interviewed the participants and prepared a presentation for the responsible management. When the managers saw quotes like “it was like Lord of the Flies,” they were aghast. “You can’t show that to the workforce, it will depress them.” “Where do you think I got it?&quot; I responded. After some discussion, I presented a slightly moderated version to the team. Nobody was surprised.  Incredibly, the proposal won. I can only assume that the competition was very weak. The responsible VP charged the proposal manager to organize a celebration party. The company invited me to attend. When the VP recognized the contributors, she recognized the retiree’s in–group, and totally ignored the capture team members. I watched a capture team member drop his face onto the table with a thud. I walked over to him. He cursed and said, “I will never work on a proposal for this @#$%ing company again.” Ironically, the celebration event had done more harm than good. The damage from thoughtless inclusion omissions can be profound. A 4–D client wanted to award people who had worked on a project spanning more than 6 years. He understood the effect of exclusion even when it is unintentional. He addresses the issue by placing a large photograph in the hall and invited everyone who had contributed to the program to sign it and pick up a t–shirt. To his surprise, scores of people he had never heard of had contributed to the project. They happily signed the photo and received their shirt. Self–inclusion was the only way to go.
  • #174: Psychologists believe that we all develop at least two personas (Latin for masks) during childhood, one to garner affection and one to avoid pain. Jung believed that that we all have adult personas which represent a compromise between our true self and the expectations of society. Also, that if we neglect society’s expectations we become asocial whereas if we try too hard to comply with society’s expectations we put our identity and fulfillment at risk.
  • #175: Personas – Jung believed that that we all have a persona (Latin for mask) which represents a compromise between our true self and the expectations of society.
  • #176: Consciously using temporary personas can be useful protection in frightening or dangerous situations.  We moved constantly during my childhood, and I became fearful of new people, so I “hid” behind my “smart person persona” until I figured out who I could safely befriend.
  • #177: Personas – Jung believed that that we all have a persona (Latin for mask) which represents a compromise between our true self and the expectations of society.  (FYI) Jung believed that if we neglect society’s expectations we become asocial whereas if we try too hard to comply with society’s expectations we put our identity and fulfillment at risk. When I first moved to Boulder, I was surprised to see the local newspaper pummeling the university president, Judith Albino, day–after–day. After watching this for a few weeks, I saw her dilemma as a leadership problem. I photocopied the top newspaper stories and passed them out to my undergraduate students. We talked for a few classes about what advice we would give the president. Then my students came to my house on a Saturday afternoon. We used a “post–it” process to write a 1.5 page letter that consolidated 20+ people’s opinions. A few weeks later, one of my students spoke to Dr. Albino at a social function. He identified himself as a member of the leadership class that sent the letter. He then invited her to come to class and speak. My students knew they were empowered to make those kinds of commitments. At the time, I was holding two misconceptions: 1) that a permanent position might be in the cards for me at the B–school; and 2) that the president of the university might have some say about this. I wanted the president to have a good experience, so the student who made the invitation and I met with Dr. Albino. I explained that our class was about leadership, and we were totally committed to confidentiality. I asked that she speak candidly about her current difficulties and experiences. She thanked us, and said she would. She arrived at our classroom a few days later. I introduced her and then sat with my students in our amphitheater–style classroom. Have you ever seen a person speaking as if they inserted a tape into their head and played it? That is exactly what she looked like. I began to worry. I had taught the class the “BS” signal. You place your hands beside your head and wiggle two fingers. It springs from the notion of ants pushing a piece of BS up a hill. Sometimes a piece of BS would escape and began rolling down the hill. They signaled the ants below by wiggling their antennae “look out, here comes the BS.” What would I do if my students gave the president the BS signal? Would this be the end of my teaching career? I was becoming anxious.I stood up, walked over to Dr. Albino and said, “You know, there are some great leaders in this room. People will blast them at some future time. Can you tell the students what this is like for you to open your front door and pick up the paper and see ugly stories about you? It’s safe here.” I returned to my seat. She continued as before. After a few minutes, I noticed students squirming in their seats. Fearing a mass eruption of the BS sign, I walked back over to her. I turned her toward me and said, “Dr. Albino, Please tell the students what it’s like to open your door every morning and look down at the Camera.” I also took the risk of touching her shoulders as I spoke. She looked me in the eyes and I said, “I promise you that it’s safe here” and sat down again. When she began speaking this time, we could actually see her mask drop. She now spoke to the class fully authentically. I had never heard such a persuasive and moving discourse. We were all spellbound. As the class ending time drew near, I reluctantly interrupted her. The mask popped back up and the “tape” resumed. I thanked her and she left. This large undergraduate class ended just before lunch. A large table occupied the front center of the room. I learned early on to center myself behind the table before dismissing the class. If I were in front of either of the side doors, the students would sweep me into the hall. I positioned myself and said, “Class dismissed. See you on Wednesday.” Nobody moved. Not knowing what to do, I sat back down. Still nobody spoke or moved. I went to the front of the room and said, “What do you want to do?” They answered, “We want to talk about what we just saw.” We talked for another hour and stopped only because another class wanted the room. In the end, Dr. Albino transferred to Denver relinquishing her presidency. It is tragic that a fear–driven persona so limited this person.  Effective leaders choose when to wear a persona, and when to bring their authentic selves to situations. Do you think I brought my full authentic self to the Congressional hearings? I did not. I put on my Mr. NASA Director persona. In Star Trek terminology, it was “shields up and phasers armed.”  The film clip illustrates a persona from work that distances and alienates the wearer’s family.
  • #178: Personas – Jung believed that that we all have a persona (Latin for mask) which represents a compromise between our true self and the expectations of society.  (FYI) Jung believed that if we neglect society’s expectations we become asocial whereas if we try too hard to comply with society’s expectations we put our identity and fulfillment at risk. When I first moved to Boulder, I was surprised to see the local newspaper pummeling the university president, Judith Albino, day–after–day. After watching this for a few weeks, I saw her dilemma as a leadership problem. I photocopied the top newspaper stories and passed them out to my undergraduate students. We talked for a few classes about what advice we would give the president. Then my students came to my house on a Saturday afternoon. We used a “post–it” process to write a 1.5 page letter that consolidated 20+ people’s opinions. A few weeks later, one of my students spoke to Dr. Albino at a social function. He identified himself as a member of the leadership class that sent the letter. He then invited her to come to class and speak. My students knew they were empowered to make those kinds of commitments. At the time, I was holding two misconceptions: 1) that a permanent position might be in the cards for me at the B–school; and 2) that the president of the university might have some say about this. I wanted the president to have a good experience, so the student who made the invitation and I met with Dr. Albino. I explained that our class was about leadership, and we were totally committed to confidentiality. I asked that she speak candidly about her current difficulties and experiences. She thanked us, and said she would. She arrived at our classroom a few days later. I introduced her and then sat with my students in our amphitheater–style classroom. Have you ever seen a person speaking as if they inserted a tape into their head and played it? That is exactly what she looked like. I began to worry. I had taught the class the “BS” signal. You place your hands beside your head and wiggle two fingers. It springs from the notion of ants pushing a piece of BS up a hill. Sometimes a piece of BS would escape and began rolling down the hill. They signaled the ants below by wiggling their antennae “look out, here comes the BS.” What would I do if my students gave the president the BS signal? Would this be the end of my teaching career? I was becoming anxious.I stood up, walked over to Dr. Albino and said, “You know, there are some great leaders in this room. People will blast them at some future time. Can you tell the students what this is like for you to open your front door and pick up the paper and see ugly stories about you? It’s safe here.” I returned to my seat. She continued as before. After a few minutes, I noticed students squirming in their seats. Fearing a mass eruption of the BS sign, I walked back over to her. I turned her toward me and said, “Dr. Albino, Please tell the students what it’s like to open your door every morning and look down at the Camera.” I also took the risk of touching her shoulders as I spoke. She looked me in the eyes and I said, “I promise you that it’s safe here” and sat down again. When she began speaking this time, we could actually see her mask drop. She now spoke to the class fully authentically. I had never heard such a persuasive and moving discourse. We were all spellbound. As the class ending time drew near, I reluctantly interrupted her. The mask popped back up and the “tape” resumed. I thanked her and she left. This large undergraduate class ended just before lunch. A large table occupied the front center of the room. I learned early on to center myself behind the table before dismissing the class. If I were in front of either of the side doors, the students would sweep me into the hall. I positioned myself and said, “Class dismissed. See you on Wednesday.” Nobody moved. Not knowing what to do, I sat back down. Still nobody spoke or moved. I went to the front of the room and said, “What do you want to do?” They answered, “We want to talk about what we just saw.” We talked for another hour and stopped only because another class wanted the room. In the end, Dr. Albino transferred to Denver relinquishing her presidency. It is tragic that a fear–driven persona so limited this person.  Effective leaders choose when to wear a persona, and when to bring their authentic selves to situations. Do you think I brought my full authentic self to the Congressional hearings? I did not. I put on my Mr. NASA Director persona. In Star Trek terminology, it was “shields up and phasers armed.”  The film clip illustrates a persona from work that distances and alienates the wearer’s family.
  • #184: Name meetings as “Information” or “Decision”Prepare and distribute Agendas beforehandInvite only essential people, sending brief minutes/action items to others
  • #186: U of Michiganresearch:Companies hold twice as many meetings as necessary. Managers may even use these inept social forums to avoid real work.
  • #187: Your Inclusion Inquiry, WB P. 15 – This slide is self–explanatory.
  • #189: Up Next – Trustworthy Behavior – The 4–D Systems team experience  (FYI) Our team practices all eight 4–D Systems behaviors. We work very efficiently as people keep all their agreements, going what they said, when they said, and in the way that they said.
  • #203: Up Next – Igniting Creativity – Creating the Future You Want (FYI) I looked for years at how to stimulate creativity, with no success. I even bought (worthless) decks of cards and other gimmicks. Then I read the (otherwise uninteresting) book referenced in the slide and saw what I was seeking. The key is something unexpected and unnatural for humans – fully embrace Unpleasant Realities.
  • #209: Glad (Soft smiles on people who won the argument); Mad (“FAILURE IS NOT AN OPTION” – Note, mad at Situation, not individuals); Sad (general mood, especially early in clip); Scared (“They won’t know what way they are pointing,” “We have never even simulated it before.”);Love (caring for the crew);Uncomfortable Reality (“We have got to turn everything off”).
  • #210: Glad (joke about killing with British with lightning bolts…);Mad (they may take our lives, but they can never take our freedom);Sad (general mood, especially early in clip);Scared (Fight against that…);Love (love of country);Uncomfortable Reality (Aye, fight and you may die…)
  • #211: Glad (crowd cheering);Mad (not tonight, not this game);Sad (general mood, especially early in clip);Scared (early in meeting, apparent fear in the team members’ expressions);Love (everywhere – crowd, team, captain);Uncomfortable Reality (If we played them 10 times, we would lose nine…)
  • #214: Up Next – Directing Your Energy – Your Team Can’t Afford Drama  The drama triangle is a transactional model of human interaction first described by Stephen Karpman in his 1968 article Fairy Tales and Script Drama Analysis. As you animate is, you can see the drama triangle, then how the 4–D System showed a fifth state, the Rationalizer.
  • #239: Up Next – Managing Expectations – Clarifying Roles, Accountability, &amp; Authority We were surprised when we first began measuring RAAs with our Team Development Assessments at how often they were inadequate. Frankly, I assumed that this was such essential and straightforward “management 101” that nearly every project would score high. In our view, there is no excuse for putting good people in bad places. Therefore, we continue to measure RAAs as they powerfully influence team context. Moreover, if these are broken, they drive the team social context into the dumpster.  Note I underlined “Accountability.” Over the years, “Accountability” has emerged as the most important of the three factors, by far. Get this right, and you have accomplished a great deal.
  • #243: Processes with OwnersEvery team / organization has processes. Otherwise, they could not perform work. Unfortunately, they often do not document or optimize their processes. Top management frequently initiates grand, expensive optimization programs like Deming’s statistical process control, TQM, and more recently, Six-sigma. However, because “people do things for their reasons, not ours” (that is, management’s reasons) the desired efficiencies are seldom realized. There is a better way.When NASA’s Jet Propulsion Laboratory experienced back-to-back Mars mission failures, they developed 44 “flight project practices” for project management. These include systems engineering, risk management, gate products and requirements management. They assigned each process to a process owner with expertise in that area. The owners maintained and updated their assigned processes as part of their regular job. Management imposed the processes across JPL projects. The owners had PowerPoint charts that they used to train others in applying the processes.Our small company, 4-D Systems, has about 40 processes with named owners. These include guidelines for implementing Team Development Assessments, Workshop Roles, and debriefing Team Development Reports. I own many of them and constantly update our processes as we experiment and learn. All our processes and standard briefings are on the staff web site. When our people do work, they download and use the current briefing or process. (FYI) When I worked as a consultant, I watched aerospace companies flush many millions of dollars down the drain trying to improve efficiency with process improvement. In my opinion, their great error was having teams of people, for example, &quot;six Sigma black–belts” who were separate from the working organization provide processes on an ad hoc basis. I strongly prefer a process methodology that I learned from NASA&apos;s Jet Propulsion Laboratory. They manage flight projects with about 44 processes, each with a expert named owner. The owners are experts in the field, teach the processes, and maintain them for maximum efficiency.  I like this methodology so much that we have adapted it for our company, 4–D Systems. We publish processes that we constantly optimize on our website (www.NASAteambuilding.com). The processes cover everything from Team Development Assessments to 4–D Workshops.
  • #245: You can “solve” vexing” problems in about an hour!
  • #250: This is a kind-of-fun slide I made while thinking about the power of repetition:Top-Panel:How did you learn the “times-table?”Similarly, you must reiterate the learning about the eight behaviors being a participant in multiple reassessments.Mid-Panel:In “Outliers,” Malcolm Gladwell investigated the difference between people who were famously successful and those less so. He assembled an impressive battery of evidence that the differentiator was 10,000 hours of experience. This is an amazing argument for the potency of repetition. Bottom-Panel:How important is the repetitive drum-beat/rhythm in your music.Notice that nearly every song has a repetitive chorus/refrain?Finally, notice what we all remember from Beethoven’s Fifth Symphony – dun, dun, dun, and d-u-u-n.
  • #251: To cement the learning and manage the context, you must employ repetition on three time scales.
  • #319: Your Team Leader – This the formal return of leadership from us to your team leader.