Adultery ppt
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- 4. Adultery Definition and Islamic Aspect Process Of Adultery Reasons for Adultery Consequences of Adultery Solution to Adultery
- 5. Definition Adultery is extramarital sex that is considered objectionable on social, religious, moral, or legal grounds. Include one night stands, paid for sex etc.
- 6. Under Muslim Law Adultery is a violation of the marital contract and one of the major sins condemned by Allah in the Qur'an. "Do not go near to Zina” (Quran Chapter 17 Surah Isra verse 32) Allah and His Messenger (saws) have determined for this sin. One who commits adultery the punishment is stoning to death, and for one who commits fornication (Zina), the punishment is one hundred flogs!
- 7. Process of Adultery Sharing same interests Meets emotional needs Eager to meet again Small lies to spouse Flirting and teasing Share personal matter Secret meetings Bigger lies Kisses and embraces Petting and bedding
- 8. Reasons For Adultery Loneliness: Prefer to spend more time with friends and concentrate more on career than on your loved one. Communication barriers: Poor communication invariably causes problems in a marriage or relationship. Problems and arguments left unresolved can compound and fester when partners are either unwilling or unable to discuss these with each other.
- 9. Lack of love and affection: Lack of affection or love is one of the most common reasons for adultery. People will look to others when these needs are not being met by their spouse or partner. A poor sexual relationship: Boredom in the bedroom will often lead to one or even both partners going off and seeking excitement and variety elsewhere.
- 10. Lack of intimacy: Marriages need intimacy to survive. Without this in your marriage you may well feel unloved, rejected and unwanted. Other reasons: Sexual addiction, availability of effective contraception, poverty, revenge, anger, weak relation with God, internet porn, adult chat rooms, sexting and Society is more tolerant of sexual behavior etc.
- 11. Consequences General Consequences: Breach of trust and of the commitment that had been made during the act of marriage Often results in divorce Pregnancy Adultery may lead to ostracization from certain religious or social groups Adultery can also lead to feelings of guilt and jealousy and depression It also carries higher financial burdens
- 12. Sexually transmitted infections somebody has sex outside marriage, there's every chance that an STD can then be passed on to the spouse. genital herpes and AIDS Since most married couples do not routinely use barrier contraceptives STDs can be introduced to a marriage partner by a spouse engaging in unprotected extramarital sex. The World Health Organization (WHO) found that women in violent relations were at increased risk of HIV/AIDS.
- 13. Violence Historically, female adultery often resulted in extreme violence, including murder (of the woman, her lover, or both, committed by her husband). Today, domestic violence is outlawed in most countries.
- 14. Honor killings Honor killings are often connected to accusations of adultery. Honor killings continue to be practiced in some parts of the Pakistan (mostly in backward areas ) Honor killings enjoy considerable public support. Honor killings are treated leniently in some legal systems.
- 15. Crimes of passion Crimes of passion are often triggered by jealousy have a similar dynamic to honor killings women are killed by male family members crimes are perceived as excusable or understandable
- 16. Stoning an organized group throws stones at an individual until the person dies refers to a form of capital punishment or the condemned person is pushed from a platform set high enough above a stone floor several people have been sentenced to death by stoning after being accused of adultery in Pakistan by tribal courts
- 17. Flogging In some jurisdictions flogging is a punishment for adultery There are also incidents of extrajudicial floggings, ordered by informal religious courts In 2011, a 14-year-old girl in Bangladesh died after being publicly lashed, when she was accused of having an affair with a married man. Her punishment was ordered by villagers under Sharia law
- 18. Violence between the partners of an adulterous couple Married people who form relations with extramarital partners or people who engage in relations with partners married to somebody else may be subjected to violence in these relations Because of the nature of adultery, illegal in many societies this type of intimate partner violence may go underreported or may not be prosecuted when it is reported in some jurisdictions this type of violence is not covered by the specific domestic violence laws meant to protect persons in 'legitimate' couples.
- 19. How to Overcome with Adultery For reducing the communication barrier, the goal is to be kind. Be allowing. For lack of love and affection, Be caring, loving, thankful and gifting each other. Ways to be intimate, Share laughter. Share private code words and signals like a hand gesture or an eyebrow flash that just have meaning to the two of you. Cook together etc. For making strong sexual relationship, get clear about what your likes and limits are - for both of you