Anger Management and How to Handle it.ppt
- 2. 1. Define Anger 2. What Causes Anger 3. Anger vs. Aggression 4. Physical symptoms of anger. 5. Anger Trigggers and Anger style 6. Dealing with Anger effectively
- 4. Anger is a normal feeling that we all experience! Anger is a basic human emotional response experienced by ALL PEOPLE! Anger is typically triggered by a threat, perceived threat (real or imaginary), an injustice, hurt, or frustration when faced with an obstacle. Anger vary from person to person and from situation to situation Anger is a strong feeling of displeasure with someone or something, combined with an urge to fight back!
- 6. Aggression is one negative way in which individuals express anger Aggression is intended to threaten or injure the victim’s security or self-esteem Aggression cause damage with words, fists, or weapons, but it is virtually always designed to punish. Know the difference between anger and aggression. “You can express your anger without being verbally or physically abusive.” Anger (Feeling) vs. Aggression (Action)
- 8. Different things can make different people angry, but everyone feels angry sometimes.
- 9. Specific person (s) or Event Insults Stress and Worries Disappointment / Annoyance Fears, Resentment, Frustration Rejection / Hurt / Embarrassment Having possessions taken or broken Jealousy Being teased or talked about Low-Self Esteem Grief Home Life
- 10. If you know your anger triggers, then you can either: 1. Try to avoid them 2. Learn how to deal with them. 3. Learn how to put your feelings into words, explore and name the emotions (hurt, confused, shame, etc.
- 11. There are two issues: Controlling Anger Reacting to Anger
- 12. When your anger is triggered, you’re going to react in some way. The way you react is called your ANGER STYLE. Acting Out Burying Acting In
- 13. Can trigger a large number of antisocial behaviors Can trigger Negative consequences Can hurt Physical Health You can’t always control the situation you’re in or how it makes you feel, but you can control how you express your anger.
- 14. When it harms you When it leads to aggression When it harms People around you When it disrupts school or relationships When it is too frequent, intense and lasts long When it harms effects your overall quality of life When chronic, explosive anger spirals out of control Uncontrolled Anger can trigger a large number of anti-social behaviors and negative consequences
- 15. Can lead to legal troubles Can lead to problems at home / community Relationships Problems Substance Abuse Physical Problems Emotional Problems Low Self Esteem Others
- 16. Feeling angry has a physical reaction that is usually unpleasant
- 17. Your body sends you signals, when you’re getting angry. Clenched fist Loud voice Sweat Red face Racing & pounding heartbeat Upset stomach
- 18. Can not focus Insult People Heavy breathing Argumentative Pace Stare Go quiet and shut down Throw things Make an angry face Become Aggressive Use Profanity Cry Can not stop thinking about the problem or individual.
- 19. Cool off, stay calm. Walk away Count to 10 Take deep breaths Use calming self-talk: “I can handle this. It’s not as bad as it seems.” Imagine you are in a peaceful place.
- 20. 2. Give yourself some time to sort things out. Write the problem down on paper. Think it through. Ask yourself: what really happened? How was I triggered? What were my cues? Talk it over with a friend or adult you trust. Look at the situation from a different viewpoint.
- 21. Turn your angry energy into a change for the better Channel your angry energy into a physical activity. Try to solve the problem. Try to accept situations you can’t change. Changing our view of a situation can change our reaction to it. “ “Don’t let anger control you, Don’t let anger control you,
- 22. Self-Control is the ability to resist inappropriate behavior, dealing effectively with emotions, such as anger and developing patience. Maintaining Self-Control is key to Managing Anger
- 23. That’s just how it is. The difference comes in what you do about it. SO: GET A GRIP!!!
- 24. When you find yourself angry, REMEMBER the only behavior you can manage is YOUR own!!! So, pay attention to your anger cues. And, if you feel like you’re going to lose it…
Editor's Notes
- #4: Anger is a normal human emotion. Everyone feels annoyed, frustrated, irritated, or even very angry from time to time. Anger is a feeling in response to frustration, or injury expressing yourself in an impulsive manner without thought a mixture of emotional, physiological, and cognitive elements heart rate and blood pressure go up levels of energy hormones, adrenaline and nonadrenaline go up an emotional state that varies in intensity from mild irritation to intense fury and rage
- #5: Anger is an emotion and it is important that we identify our feelings including anger- At times we
- #6: Natural ways to express anger is to respond Aggressively. Anger often inspires powerful, often aggressive feelings and behaviors – that allow us to fight and defend ourselves when we are attacked. It is extremely important to recognize the difference between anger and aggression. Although the two are similar and may occur together, anger is an emotion that may result from frustration, fear, stress, annoyance, low-self-esteem disappointment and resentment; aggression is a negative act intended to hurt someone or something. Anger can sometimes feel intense and overwhelming but it does not necessarily lead to violent or aggressive behavior.
- #7: Review the worksheet and have young people share some information Asks students how anger makes them feel physically.
- #8: Different things can make dif
- #11: Some people try to pretend they aren’t angry. Other People feel they anger is out of Control and they can not handle it.
- #14: Anger may do more harm than any other emotion. It upsets at least two people – the aggressor and the aggressed against. The overall effects of anger are enormous: anger is related to violence, crime, spouse and child abuse, divorce, stormy relationships, poor working conditions, poor physical health – headaches, hypertension, GI disturbances, heart attacks, emotional disorders and so on.
- #17: What are your anger cues?