Collaboration Is
The Better Way
Lauri Apple, Senior Program Manager, Public Cloud, Workday
Erik Riedel, Founder, Works Together
@Lauri_Apple & @er1p
@Lauri_Apple
(she/her)
@er1p
(he/him)
introduction introduction
• intro
• communicating in tech
• communication magic
• empathy as a skill
• shared goals
• inclusion - collaboration across cultures
• q & a
“the practice
of an art
requires
discipline”
— Erich Fromm,
The Art of Loving
discipline - not rigid, but an expression of one’s own will
concentration - requires reflection, listening to others
patience
just going to work, having meetings, working
on teams, doesn’t make us disciplined or
collaborative.
hierarchies don’t make us collaborative either,
they inspire rebelliousness.
common problems in tech projects
● missed deadlines
● low productivity (“we need more time”)
● poor quality (rush to finish)
● high turnover (people keep leaving)
● difficulty recruiting (can’t find good
people)
“it’s always like this,
all projects are like
this, it’s the cost of
doing (tech)
business”
collaboration gets things done
of course EVERYTHING on the previous
slide is TRUE
BUT that doesn’t get things done
COLLABORATION does
communicating
● GitHub issues
● PRs/code
● Slack
● Meetings
● Meetups
● Google docs
● Social media
● 1:1’s
● Mailing lists (not so much anymore)
Which channels are
the most challenging
to you?
10 principles for collaboration
● self-aware = resilience
● self-disciplined = high-performance
● head over heart = waste reduction
● mindful empathy = retention
● keep learning = growth mindset
● use different modes = flexibility
● focus on activities = results-orientation
● values and ethics drive = integrity
● “client defines success” = profitability, customer focus
● cultural competency = diversity and inclusion
Source: Intentional Relationship Model Clearinghouse, http://irm.ahslabs.uic.edu/what-is-the-irm/
why be intentional?
reduce or eliminate:
● conflicts, drama
● waste, delays
● confusion
● misalignment
● protects collaboration
● builds trust
● reduces cognitive load
● drives experimentation
when we are not being
intentional, we...
● make assumptions, jump
to conclusions
● don’t ask for what we
need
● become frustrated,
ruminate
lose opportunities
● rely on mind-reading
powers we don’t have.
communicating better with text
exercise — create 2 scripts we can use to help us diffuse our
triggers and communicate with empathy
example — “Thank you for trying to understand my point.
However, I think where we’re still misaligned. Is … what do
you think?”
example — “Thank you for your enthusiasm! I’ve noted your
concerns and believe we might handle this concern/situation
by [alternative idea]...”
communication magic
Collaboration Is The Better Way
the more communication, the better...
● increased communication frequency
● increased communication freshness
● archival history (for those jumping in)
● wide sharing
○ across time zones
○ across geographies
○ across organizations
● ...and more...
Collaboration Is The Better Way
empathy as a skill
Collaboration Is The Better Way
● on a scale of 1 to 5 (low to high), how
would you rate your empathy?
● when you aren’t communicating
“empathetically enough,” what does that
feel like in your body/mind?
● when you are communicating
empathetically, how does that feel?
● do you reflect on your communication to
improve collaboration?
empathy
audit
empathy exercises
● when you are frustrated, stop.
● but what if you’re so busy you can’t stop?
● can you find a way to build in pauses?
● example — journal or talk to a peer about
your stress.
count your breaths.
as you inhale, silently think 1,
exhale 2, inhale 3, exhale 4 … all
the way to 10.
repeat 3 times.
exercise -
meditation
minute
personal README
(Katie Womersley, Buffer): https://github.com/KatieLo/README
shared goals
teams != me + me + me + me
five dysfunctions of a team (Lencioni)
— absence of trust
— inattention to results
— avoidance of responsibility
— lack of commitment
— fear of conflict
put the US in trust
teams gotta have
goals...
Collaboration Is The Better Way
...but what goals?
Collaboration Is The Better Way
iterate them...
Collaboration Is The Better Way
getting to goals
● customer focus
○ user experience as an equalizer
● brainstorming
○ the group agrees, not top-down
● task breakdown & tracking
○ agile, sprints, epics, epochs
● revisit assumptions
○ ...and adjust
inclusion
exercise -
have
cultural
curiosity
● what’s one thing you can do to increase your
awareness?
● do you ask people about their backgrounds
and lives?
● do you approach people as a mentor?
● do you consider people’s mood,
circumstances, stress levels, working
conditions?
● RIGHT NOW - ask your neighbor to tell you
TWO cultural things about them that are not
obvious.
Collaboration Is The Better Way
Collaboration Is The Better Way
● diverse backgrounds, diverse approaches
○ diverse experiences
○ everyone has a different lived experience
● more perspectives improve the results
○ ALWAYS improve the results
● breaking down the rockstar mentality
○ consider the view as the “rockstar”
○ consider views from the rest of the team
● “ancillary” items are critical
○ docs, design, user experience
● not enough hours in the day => burn out
inclusion
Collaboration Is The Better Way
resources
● Artwork
○ large stock photos & backgrounds all from pexels.com (royalty free)
● Manager README
○ Katie Womersley, Buffer https://github.com/KatieLo/README
● Maintainer README
○ https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Fd-rkENsKyxOvlU00IUIHnsJnS5_B7krEE1GVdAwwnI/edit#
○ Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike 4.0
International License: Lara Hogan
● 10 principles for collaboration
○ Intentional Relationship Model Clearinghouse
http://irm.ahslabs.uic.edu/what-is-the-irm/
● Brainstorming for goals, projects, designs
○ Brainstorming - 8 Rules, Interaction Design Foundation
https://public-media.interaction-design.org/pdf/Brainstorm.pdf
thank you

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Collaboration Is The Better Way

  • 1. Collaboration Is The Better Way Lauri Apple, Senior Program Manager, Public Cloud, Workday Erik Riedel, Founder, Works Together @Lauri_Apple & @er1p
  • 3. • intro • communicating in tech • communication magic • empathy as a skill • shared goals • inclusion - collaboration across cultures • q & a
  • 4. “the practice of an art requires discipline” — Erich Fromm, The Art of Loving discipline - not rigid, but an expression of one’s own will concentration - requires reflection, listening to others patience just going to work, having meetings, working on teams, doesn’t make us disciplined or collaborative. hierarchies don’t make us collaborative either, they inspire rebelliousness.
  • 5. common problems in tech projects ● missed deadlines ● low productivity (“we need more time”) ● poor quality (rush to finish) ● high turnover (people keep leaving) ● difficulty recruiting (can’t find good people) “it’s always like this, all projects are like this, it’s the cost of doing (tech) business”
  • 6. collaboration gets things done of course EVERYTHING on the previous slide is TRUE BUT that doesn’t get things done COLLABORATION does
  • 8. ● GitHub issues ● PRs/code ● Slack ● Meetings ● Meetups ● Google docs ● Social media ● 1:1’s ● Mailing lists (not so much anymore) Which channels are the most challenging to you?
  • 9. 10 principles for collaboration ● self-aware = resilience ● self-disciplined = high-performance ● head over heart = waste reduction ● mindful empathy = retention ● keep learning = growth mindset ● use different modes = flexibility ● focus on activities = results-orientation ● values and ethics drive = integrity ● “client defines success” = profitability, customer focus ● cultural competency = diversity and inclusion Source: Intentional Relationship Model Clearinghouse, http://irm.ahslabs.uic.edu/what-is-the-irm/
  • 10. why be intentional? reduce or eliminate: ● conflicts, drama ● waste, delays ● confusion ● misalignment ● protects collaboration ● builds trust ● reduces cognitive load ● drives experimentation
  • 11. when we are not being intentional, we... ● make assumptions, jump to conclusions ● don’t ask for what we need ● become frustrated, ruminate lose opportunities ● rely on mind-reading powers we don’t have.
  • 12. communicating better with text exercise — create 2 scripts we can use to help us diffuse our triggers and communicate with empathy example — “Thank you for trying to understand my point. However, I think where we’re still misaligned. Is … what do you think?” example — “Thank you for your enthusiasm! I’ve noted your concerns and believe we might handle this concern/situation by [alternative idea]...”
  • 15. the more communication, the better... ● increased communication frequency ● increased communication freshness ● archival history (for those jumping in) ● wide sharing ○ across time zones ○ across geographies ○ across organizations ● ...and more...
  • 17. empathy as a skill
  • 19. ● on a scale of 1 to 5 (low to high), how would you rate your empathy? ● when you aren’t communicating “empathetically enough,” what does that feel like in your body/mind? ● when you are communicating empathetically, how does that feel? ● do you reflect on your communication to improve collaboration? empathy audit
  • 20. empathy exercises ● when you are frustrated, stop. ● but what if you’re so busy you can’t stop? ● can you find a way to build in pauses? ● example — journal or talk to a peer about your stress.
  • 21. count your breaths. as you inhale, silently think 1, exhale 2, inhale 3, exhale 4 … all the way to 10. repeat 3 times. exercise - meditation minute
  • 22. personal README (Katie Womersley, Buffer): https://github.com/KatieLo/README
  • 24. teams != me + me + me + me five dysfunctions of a team (Lencioni) — absence of trust — inattention to results — avoidance of responsibility — lack of commitment — fear of conflict put the US in trust
  • 31. getting to goals ● customer focus ○ user experience as an equalizer ● brainstorming ○ the group agrees, not top-down ● task breakdown & tracking ○ agile, sprints, epics, epochs ● revisit assumptions ○ ...and adjust
  • 33. exercise - have cultural curiosity ● what’s one thing you can do to increase your awareness? ● do you ask people about their backgrounds and lives? ● do you approach people as a mentor? ● do you consider people’s mood, circumstances, stress levels, working conditions? ● RIGHT NOW - ask your neighbor to tell you TWO cultural things about them that are not obvious.
  • 36. ● diverse backgrounds, diverse approaches ○ diverse experiences ○ everyone has a different lived experience ● more perspectives improve the results ○ ALWAYS improve the results ● breaking down the rockstar mentality ○ consider the view as the “rockstar” ○ consider views from the rest of the team ● “ancillary” items are critical ○ docs, design, user experience ● not enough hours in the day => burn out inclusion
  • 38. resources ● Artwork ○ large stock photos & backgrounds all from pexels.com (royalty free) ● Manager README ○ Katie Womersley, Buffer https://github.com/KatieLo/README ● Maintainer README ○ https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Fd-rkENsKyxOvlU00IUIHnsJnS5_B7krEE1GVdAwwnI/edit# ○ Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike 4.0 International License: Lara Hogan ● 10 principles for collaboration ○ Intentional Relationship Model Clearinghouse http://irm.ahslabs.uic.edu/what-is-the-irm/ ● Brainstorming for goals, projects, designs ○ Brainstorming - 8 Rules, Interaction Design Foundation https://public-media.interaction-design.org/pdf/Brainstorm.pdf