This document outlines various coping techniques for dealing with stress, including finding the underlying cause, adapting responses, and altering the problem or meaning. It notes the difference in how boys and girls typically cope, with boys more likely to engage in distraction, acceptance, or aggression while girls tend to seek social support or vent emotions. Positive coping strategies include seeking social support, problem solving, setting goals, taking action, focusing on positives, and maintaining a work-life balance and health. Negative coping techniques to avoid are worry, wishful thinking, drugs/alcohol, giving up, and self-blame. The key is developing a sense of control over the stressors.