This document presents a Request for Proposal (RFP) for ESSENSE, which seeks submissions for a domain-specific language and a "Kernel of Essentials" to support flexible software engineering methods. The goal is to allow practitioners to define, refine, and customize their processes over time. The RFP outlines problems with traditional rigid processes, desires a framework like those used in agile development, and provides requirements for the Kernel (to define fundamental concepts) and the language (to compose practices into methods and represent work progress).