Everything I have learned about Personal Values
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The document explores the concepts of values and virtues, emphasizing their role as drivers of motivations and aspirations within personal and collective contexts. It outlines seven levels of human consciousness connected to psychological development stages, highlighting the importance of safety and self-expression. The document also provides insights on how values change with individual development, suggesting that prioritizing inter-personal safety is essential for achieving self-actualization.
Everything I have learned about Personal Values
- 2. Copyright 2018 by Barrett Values Centre®. Permission granted to reproduce for personal and educational use only. Commercial copying, hiring, lending is prohibited.
- 3. “ ” WHAT ARE VALUES? A shorthand way of describing our individual and collective motivations and what is important to us.
- 4. Values are the energetic drivers of our aspirations and intentions.
- 5. “ ” WHAT ARE VIRTUES Virtues are values that are held in high regard by a specific culture, religion or spiritual philosophy. Their purpose is to create harmony.
- 6. Positive or Potentially Limiting? Values can be positive or potentially limiting. Trust, creativity, passion, honesty, integrity, clarity Positive Values: Bureaucracy, power, blame, greed, hierarchy, status-seeking Potentially Limiting Values:
- 7. STAGES, LEVELS AND WORLD VIEWS We grow in stages of development. We operate at levels of consciousness. We live inside worldviews.
- 8. LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS All things being normal, the level of consciousness we operate from will correspond to the stage of psychological development we have reached.
- 9. THE SEVEN LEVELS OF HUMAN CONSCIOUS- NESS MAKING A DIFFERENCE INTERNAL COHESION TRANSFORMATION SELF-ESTEEM RELATIONSHIP SURVIVAL 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 SERVICE
- 10. SURVIVAL 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Staying alive and physically healthy by getting your survival needs met. MOTIVATION
- 11. RELATIONSHIP 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Feeling loved by developing a sense of belonging and a shared identity with others. MOTIVATION
- 12. SELF-ESTEEM 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Feeling recognized and accepted for who you are in the “communities” you belong to. MOTIVATION
- 13. 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 MOTIVATION TRANSFORM- ATION Letting go of your fears so you can explore who you are and find your true self.
- 14. 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 MOTIVATION INTERNAL COHESION Finding meaning and purpose by expressing your unique gifts and talents.
- 15. 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 MOTIVATION MAKING A DIFFERENCE Connecting with others to actualize your purpose and meaning.
- 16. 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 MOTIVATION SERVICE Using your skills and talents to contribute to the good of humanity and future generations.
- 17. 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 MAKING A DIFFERENCE INTERNAL COHESION TRANSFORMATION SELF-ESTEEM RELATIONSHIP SURVIVAL SERVICE YOUR PERSONAL VALUES ASSESSMENT www.valuescentre.com/pva
- 18. Levels MAKING A DIFFERENCE INTERNAL COHESION TRANSFORMATION SELF-ESTEEM RELATIONSHIPS SURVIVAL 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 SERVICE Stages INTEGRATING SELF-ACTUALIZING INDIVIDUATING DIFFERENTIATING CONFORMING SURVING SERVING
- 20. Personal Values 4 2 5 7 96 8 31 10 Service Making a difference Internal Cohesion Transformation Self-esteem Relationship Survival 1Family 2 Humour/Fun 3Caring 5Friendship 7Enthusiasm 9Creativity 4 Respect 6 Trust 8 Commitment 10 Continuous Learning Top Ten Values TOP TEN PERSONAL VALUES OF HUMANITY (500,000 PEOPLE WORLD WIDE)
- 21. VALUES OF HUMANITY This suggests that inter-personal safety is a fundamental priority for most people. Five of the top values are about how we relate to the people in our lives— family, caring, respect, friendship, and trust. Four of these are at relationship level of consciousness. Four of the top values are about how we relate to ourselves (who we are)— humour/fun, enthusiasm, commitment and creativity. Four of these are at the internal cohesion level of consciousness This suggests that self-expression is also a fundamental priority.
- 22. Powerful metrics that enable leaders to measure and manage cultures. www.valuescentre.com The results indicate that we prioritize inter-personal safety over self-expression. Only when we feel safe do we feel free to express who we are. These results suggests that Maslow’s theory is correct. We prioritize safety—a deficiency need over self-actualization —a growth need. Furthermore the ability to develop and grow through continuous learning is of significant importance to us. We cannot grow and develop unless we feel safe. Once we feel safe, then self-actualization becomes our main priority.
- 23. If we want to build a positive future for everyone, we must create the conditions that allow people to feel safe, especially our children, and support everyone in their self-expression.
- 24. Whatever you need is what you value. OUR VALUES ARE AN EXPRESSION OF OUR NEEDS
- 25. Our needs/values change according to the stage of psychological development we have reached.
- 26. THE SEVEN STAGES OF PSYCHOLOGIC L DEVELOPMENT
- 27. A PERSONAL JOURNEY Every person is on an evolutionary journey of psychological development. SERVING INTEGRATING SELF-ACTUALIZING INDIVIDUATING DIFFERENTIATING CONFORMING SURVIVING
- 28. Powerful metrics that enable leaders to measure and manage cultures. www.valuescentre.com 28
- 29. Soul Exercise.
- 30. We don´t have an inner core, a higher self or a soul. We are the inner core; we are the higher self; we are the soul.
- 31. SURVIVING
- 32. 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 SURVIVING INFANCY: 0-2 Years Old NEED TO MANAGE YOUR ENVIRONMENT GETTING BASIC PHYSIOLOGICAL NEEDS MET STAYING ALIVE! MOTIVATION
- 33. CONFORMING
- 34. CHILDHOOD: 3-7 Years Old NEED TO FEEL ACCEPTANCE & BELONGING LEARNING TO BE LOVED KEEPING SAFE! MOTIVATION CONFORMING 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
- 35. DIFFERENTIATING
- 36. TEENAGER: 8-24 Years Old NEED TO BE PART OF A GROUP BEING RECOGNIZED FEELING SECURE! MOTIVATION DIFFERENTIATING 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
- 37. INDIVIDUATING
- 38. YOUNG ADULT: 25-39 Years Old NEED FOR FREEDOM AND AUTONOMY RESPONSIBILITY AND ACCOUNTABILITY FOR YOUR LIFE RELEASING YOUR FEARS! MOTIVATION INDIVIDUATING 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
- 39. SELF-ACTUALIZING
- 40. ADULTHOOD: 40-49 Years Old SELF-ACTUALIZING NEED FOR MEANING AND PURPOSE BECOMING FULLY WHO YOU ARE! SELF- EXPRESSION MOTIVATION 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
- 41. INTEGRATING
- 42. MATURE ADULT: 50-59 Years Old INTEGRATING DESIRE TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE UNCONDITIONAL LOVING RELATIONSHIPS EMPATHY CONNECTING MOTIVATION 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
- 43. SERVING
- 44. SENIOR: 60+ Years Old DESIRE TO SERVE THE GREATER GOOD SELF-LESS SERVICE COMPASSION CONTRIBUTING MOTIVATION 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 SERVING
- 45. If you want to find well-being in your life, you must focus on the primary motivation of the stage of development you are at.
- 47. WHAT PREVENTS YOU FROM MASTERING YOUR PRIMARY MOTIVATIONS LATER IN LIFE ARE YOUR SECONDARY MOTIVATIONS
- 48. If you have fears about getting your basic needs met, you will not be able to self-express.
- 49. FEARS FROM THE SURVIVING STAGE PREVENT YOU FROM SELF-ACTUALIZING SELF- ACTUALIZING SURVIVING SOUL EGO-SOUL ALIGNMENT EGO 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Self-expression Control
- 50. If you have fears about being loved and accepted, you will not be able to connect.
- 51. INTEGRATING CONFORMING SOUL EGO-SOUL ALIGNMENT EGO 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 FEARS FROM THE CONFORMING STAGE PREVENT YOU FROM INTEGRATING Belonging Connecting
- 52. If you have fears about your self-worth and lack self-confidence, you will not be able to contribute.
- 53. SERVING DIFFERENT- IATING SOUL EGO-SOUL ALIGNMENT EGO Contributing 7 6 5 3 2 1 4 Recognition FEARS FORM THE DIFFERENTIATING STAGE PREVENT YOU FROM SERVING
- 54. If your ego has fears about surviving, your soul will not be able to self-express. If your ego has fears about keeping safe, your soul will not be able to connect. If your ego has fears about feeling secure, your soul will not be able to contribute. SUMMARY
- 55. A failure to master the ego stages of development results in mental and physical disorders at the soul stages of development. “ ”