The document describes a reflective practice guidance log from an early childhood educator. In the log, the educator observes two preschoolers, J and O, arguing over which color dishes to use during play. J wants only red dishes while O wants to also use yellow dishes. When J removes the yellow dish O placed, O becomes upset and cries.
The educator chooses to use active listening as the guidance strategy. Through active listening and questions, the educator helps O recognize that she does not have to do what J says and can make her own choices. O then returns to play with J and asserts that she also wants to use the yellow dishes. J accepts O's decision and they continue playing together.