How To Know When She Wants You To Make A Move
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Nick Notas discusses how men can recognize women's subtle signals of interest in dating. He outlines three main indicators: proximity and eye contact, accepting and returning flirting, and investing time and energy in the connection. Ultimately, to gauge a woman's interest, men should take the initiative to make a move rather than waiting for clear signals.
How To Know When She Wants You To Make A Move
- 1. How to Know When She Wants You to Make a Move by Nick Notas
- 2. Hey there!
- 4. I’m a dating and con fi dence coach for men. I’ve helped thousands of men conquer their fears, build genuine self- esteem, and develop charismatic social skills for the last 11 years.
- 5. Some people believe romantic opportunities are out of our control… That they’re a combination of chance and being in the right place, at the right time.
- 6. But the men who consistently succeed in dating have an innate ability that sets them apart:
- 7. They recognize subtle hints from women to consistently create their own opportunities.
- 8. The vast majority of women are NOT going to make the first move.
- 9. They’re not going to tell you, “Hey dummy, I’m ready to be kissed!”
- 10. Women are usually going to be less obvious than that when showing interest.
- 11. Here are the three main ways women signal their interest and how you can make the most of it:
- 12. 1. Proximity and eye contact Women show that they want to talk to you through “approach invitations”.
- 13. She goes out of her way in a bar, club, or party to stand next to you. Especially if she lingers or keeps glancing at you. Be direct and talk to her, “Hey, what’s up?”
- 14. She makes prolonged or repeated eye contact while smiling at you from across the room. Walk over to her and simply introduce yourself. Be playful if you want, “You know it’s rude to just stare and not say hello.”
- 15. She touches you in passing. She may run her hand across your shoulder or back while walking by. Go after her and say hello with a hand on her shoulder.
- 16. 2. Accepting and returning fl irting Flirt with her – verbally or physically. If she reciprocates or doesn’t deny your advances, continue being more flirtatious.
- 17. She touches your arm when you talk to her or make her laugh. Return that physical contact and work your way toward mid/high level touches.
- 18. She gets close to your face, touches your face, or looks deep into your eyes for an extended period of time. This is usually a sign she’s ready to be kissed. So do it.
- 19. She plays with or runs her fingers through your hair. You can continue with an intimate caress on her thigh or pull her in for a kiss.
- 20. 3. Investing in you The more time and energy a girl invests in you, the more likely she wants the connection to move forward.
- 21. offers her number to you first reaches out to you first over text suggests hanging out with you first First o ff , if she:
- 22. Then she’s really invested in you. Push towards meeting up with her ASAP.
- 23. Some other examples of her investing in you are…
- 24. She mentions your girlfriend even though she doesn’t know if you have one She asks about your plans for the weekend She spends as much time as possible with you and has an excuse to be around
- 25. When you approach a random girl and she stays to talk to you for more than 30 seconds – exchange numbers before you leave.
- 26. When she says she would love to see a new place, venue, or show with you – make concrete plans right then and there.
- 27. If she talks to you for more than 5-15 minutes at a bar – go get a drink with her or take a seat together.
- 28. If she asks you about what you’re doing later, then make plans to move with her somewhere else or invite her back to your place.
- 29. When she answers or asks intimate questions, or talks about anything sexual – continue with deeper and more sexual topics or kiss her.
- 30. If she hangs out with you in a more isolated environment at night on a date, this shows she’s comfortable with you. She has to risk being alone with a new guy. Move close to her, get more physical, and go for a kiss.
- 31. When she doesn’t give a clear no to ending the night, playfully lead that you should still hang out. Suggest showing her your record collection, watching the show you talked about, or invite her to hang on your roof deck.
- 32. MILTON BERLE If opportunity doesn’t knock, build a door.
- 33. Recognize a woman’s hints if they appear but don’t live and die by them. Don’t wait or obsess over getting the perfect opportunity.
- 34. If you like her, lead with your interest and then see how she responds. And while these signs are good indicators, the only way to know she’s into you is to make a move.