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Intro to ACT
DISCLAIMER
By the end of this talk, we will have a clearer
understanding of the underlying principles and beliefs
behind ACT, and an actionable toolkit to better cope with
our thoughts and emotions
What this talk is about?
DISCLAIMER
ACT is not an “all-or-nothing”/”take it or leave it” doctrine.
Only use that parts of this workshop that make sense to you,
and will help you be the person you want to be
What this talk is NOT?
THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES)
ACT BASICS
Agenda
EMOTIONS (AND URGES)
PRESENCE
VALUES
ACTION
PART I
(TODAY)
PART II
(TBD)
ACT BASICS
The “Happiness Trap”
Common misconceptions:
1.Happiness is the natural state of all human beings
2.If you’re not happy, you’re defective
3.To create a better life we must get rid of negative feelings
4.You should be able to control what you think and feel
ACT BASICS
We are hardwired for survival
● Avoid and anticipate danger
● Motivate belonging to a group
● More = better
⇒We are also hardwired for psychological suffering
ACT BASICS
The cost of control
1.Take a lot of time and energy and is usually ineffective in the
long run
2.We feel silly, defective or weak-minded if the thoughts/feelings
we’re trying to get rid of keep coming back
3.Many strategies that decrease unpleasant feelings in the short
term, actually lower our quality of life over the long term
ACT BASICS
The two “selves”
● The thinking self - thinks, plans, judges,
compares, creates, imagines, visualizes,
analyzes, remembers, daydreams, and
fantasizes
● The observing self - aware but does not
think - responsible for focus, awareness, and
attention
⇐ focus of most
psychological
approaches.
⇐ focus of ACT
ACT BASICS
What is ACT?
ACT = Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
“an empirically-based psychological approach that
uses acceptance and mindfulness strategies mixed
in different ways with commitment and behavior-
change strategies, to increase psychological
flexibility.”
ACT BASICS
The “Happiness Trap”
Common misconceptions:
1.Happiness is the natural state of all human beings
2.If you’re not happy, you’re defective
3.To create a better life we must get rid of negative feelings
4.You should be able to control what you think and feel
ACT BASICS
6 basic principles of ACT
1.Diffusion
2.Expansion
3.Connection
4.The observing self
5.Values
6.Committed action
Psychological Flexibility =
Mindfulness (1-4)
+ Values (5)
+ Action (6)
THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES)
ACT BASICS
Agenda
EMOTIONS (AND URGES)
PRESENCE
VALUES
ACTION
PART I
(TODAY)
PART II
(TBD)
THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES)
Fusion
Fusion = a thought and the thing it refers to becomes stuck
together as one.
In fusion, thoughts become: reality, the truth, orders, wise, threats
Rather than try to control/avoid thoughts, we try to diffuse them -
realize that they are JUST thoughts
THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES)
To diffuse, or not to diffuse?
There are helpful thoughts; not all thoughts must be defused
● Does it help me be the person I want to be ?
● Does it help me build the sort of relationships I’d like?
● Does it help me connect with what I truly value?
● Does it help me in the long term create a rich, full and
meaningful life?
THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES)
Diffusion techniques: thoughts
● “I’m having a thought that…”
● Musical thoughts
● Thanking your mind
● Silly voices
THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES)
Diffusion techniques: images
THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES)
Television Screen
THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES)
Diffusion techniques: images
“D’oh, done it again....”
THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES)
Musical Soundtrack
THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES)
Shifting Locations
THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES)
Shifting Locations
THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES)
Shifting Locations
THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES)
ACT BASICS
Agenda
EMOTIONS (AND URGES)
PRESENCE
VALUES
ACTION
PART I
(TODAY)
PART II
(TBD)
EMOTIONS (AND URGES)
What are emotions?
● Emotions generate in the midbrain.
● They manifest alongside physical changes throughout the
body
● These physical changes prepare us to take action
EMOTIONS (AND URGES)
How are emotions created?
1.A significant event
2.Getting ready for action
3.The mind gets involved
Our fight-or-flight trigger is overly sensitive
EMOTIONS (AND URGES)
The Struggle Switch
● Clean discomfort - Negative emotions generate a
natural level of physical and emotional discomfort,
depending on who we are the situation we’re in.
● Dirty discomfort - Struggling with these emotions,
trying to change them or make them go away
amplifies the discomfort
EMOTIONS (AND URGES)
We’re programmed from childhood to keep the
switch ON
“Anger, guilt, shame,
anxiety, etc. are
“negative” emotions”
“Negative emotions are bad,
dangerous, irrational and a sign
of weakness”
“Negative emotions damage our health”
“People should hide their
feelings, expressing
emotions is a sign of
weakness”
“Strong emotions
mean you’re out of
control”
“Women shouldn’t feel angry, men shouldn’t feel afraid”
“Negative emotions mean that there’s
something wrong with your life”
EMOTIONS (AND URGES)
No judging
We tend to judge some emotions as “bad” or “negative” and
some emotions as “good” or “positive”
ACT encourages us to let go of judging our feeling altogether
and see them for what they are: a stream of constantly
changing sensations and urges, continuously passing through
our bodies
EMOTIONS (AND URGES)
Willing != wanting
Wanting something means you actually like it.
Willingness simply means that you’re allowing it.
Accepting discomfort has only one purpose: to help you take
your life forward in a meaningful direction.
EMOTIONS (AND URGES)
Why “expansion”?
“Tension”, “stress”, “strain” are commonly used to describe
feeling bad. They imply that our feelings are too big - they are
pulling us apart and stretching out beyond our limits.
Expansion means making room for our feelings. If we give
negative feelings enough space, they no longer stretch or
strain us.
EMOTIONS (AND URGES)
4 steps of expansion
1.Observe
2.Breathe
3.Create space
4.Allow
EMOTIONS (AND URGES)
Urges
Urge = impulse to take action
We don’t want to struggle with the urge b/c then it’s hard to
focus on effective action. So rather than try to resist, control
or suppress it, we aim to make room for it.
EMOTIONS (AND URGES)
Urge surfing
1.Observe it
2.Acknowledge
3.Breath into it and make room for it
4.Watch the urge as it rises, crests and falls again
5.Check in with your values
DISCLAIMER
ACT is not an “all-or-nothing”/”take it or leave it” doctrine.
Only use that parts of this workshop that make sense to you,
and will help you be the person you want to be
What this talk is NOT?
THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES)
ACT BASICS
Agenda
EMOTIONS (AND URGES)
PRESENCE
VALUES
ACTION
PART I
(TODAY)
PART II
(TBD)
Thank you!

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Intro to ACT

  • 2. DISCLAIMER By the end of this talk, we will have a clearer understanding of the underlying principles and beliefs behind ACT, and an actionable toolkit to better cope with our thoughts and emotions What this talk is about?
  • 3. DISCLAIMER ACT is not an “all-or-nothing”/”take it or leave it” doctrine. Only use that parts of this workshop that make sense to you, and will help you be the person you want to be What this talk is NOT?
  • 4. THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES) ACT BASICS Agenda EMOTIONS (AND URGES) PRESENCE VALUES ACTION PART I (TODAY) PART II (TBD)
  • 5. ACT BASICS The “Happiness Trap” Common misconceptions: 1.Happiness is the natural state of all human beings 2.If you’re not happy, you’re defective 3.To create a better life we must get rid of negative feelings 4.You should be able to control what you think and feel
  • 6. ACT BASICS We are hardwired for survival ● Avoid and anticipate danger ● Motivate belonging to a group ● More = better ⇒We are also hardwired for psychological suffering
  • 7. ACT BASICS The cost of control 1.Take a lot of time and energy and is usually ineffective in the long run 2.We feel silly, defective or weak-minded if the thoughts/feelings we’re trying to get rid of keep coming back 3.Many strategies that decrease unpleasant feelings in the short term, actually lower our quality of life over the long term
  • 8. ACT BASICS The two “selves” ● The thinking self - thinks, plans, judges, compares, creates, imagines, visualizes, analyzes, remembers, daydreams, and fantasizes ● The observing self - aware but does not think - responsible for focus, awareness, and attention ⇐ focus of most psychological approaches. ⇐ focus of ACT
  • 9. ACT BASICS What is ACT? ACT = Acceptance and Commitment Therapy “an empirically-based psychological approach that uses acceptance and mindfulness strategies mixed in different ways with commitment and behavior- change strategies, to increase psychological flexibility.”
  • 10. ACT BASICS The “Happiness Trap” Common misconceptions: 1.Happiness is the natural state of all human beings 2.If you’re not happy, you’re defective 3.To create a better life we must get rid of negative feelings 4.You should be able to control what you think and feel
  • 11. ACT BASICS 6 basic principles of ACT 1.Diffusion 2.Expansion 3.Connection 4.The observing self 5.Values 6.Committed action Psychological Flexibility = Mindfulness (1-4) + Values (5) + Action (6)
  • 12. THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES) ACT BASICS Agenda EMOTIONS (AND URGES) PRESENCE VALUES ACTION PART I (TODAY) PART II (TBD)
  • 13. THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES) Fusion Fusion = a thought and the thing it refers to becomes stuck together as one. In fusion, thoughts become: reality, the truth, orders, wise, threats Rather than try to control/avoid thoughts, we try to diffuse them - realize that they are JUST thoughts
  • 14. THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES) To diffuse, or not to diffuse? There are helpful thoughts; not all thoughts must be defused ● Does it help me be the person I want to be ? ● Does it help me build the sort of relationships I’d like? ● Does it help me connect with what I truly value? ● Does it help me in the long term create a rich, full and meaningful life?
  • 15. THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES) Diffusion techniques: thoughts ● “I’m having a thought that…” ● Musical thoughts ● Thanking your mind ● Silly voices
  • 16. THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES) Diffusion techniques: images
  • 18. THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES) Diffusion techniques: images “D’oh, done it again....”
  • 23. THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES) ACT BASICS Agenda EMOTIONS (AND URGES) PRESENCE VALUES ACTION PART I (TODAY) PART II (TBD)
  • 24. EMOTIONS (AND URGES) What are emotions? ● Emotions generate in the midbrain. ● They manifest alongside physical changes throughout the body ● These physical changes prepare us to take action
  • 25. EMOTIONS (AND URGES) How are emotions created? 1.A significant event 2.Getting ready for action 3.The mind gets involved Our fight-or-flight trigger is overly sensitive
  • 26. EMOTIONS (AND URGES) The Struggle Switch ● Clean discomfort - Negative emotions generate a natural level of physical and emotional discomfort, depending on who we are the situation we’re in. ● Dirty discomfort - Struggling with these emotions, trying to change them or make them go away amplifies the discomfort
  • 27. EMOTIONS (AND URGES) We’re programmed from childhood to keep the switch ON “Anger, guilt, shame, anxiety, etc. are “negative” emotions” “Negative emotions are bad, dangerous, irrational and a sign of weakness” “Negative emotions damage our health” “People should hide their feelings, expressing emotions is a sign of weakness” “Strong emotions mean you’re out of control” “Women shouldn’t feel angry, men shouldn’t feel afraid” “Negative emotions mean that there’s something wrong with your life”
  • 28. EMOTIONS (AND URGES) No judging We tend to judge some emotions as “bad” or “negative” and some emotions as “good” or “positive” ACT encourages us to let go of judging our feeling altogether and see them for what they are: a stream of constantly changing sensations and urges, continuously passing through our bodies
  • 29. EMOTIONS (AND URGES) Willing != wanting Wanting something means you actually like it. Willingness simply means that you’re allowing it. Accepting discomfort has only one purpose: to help you take your life forward in a meaningful direction.
  • 30. EMOTIONS (AND URGES) Why “expansion”? “Tension”, “stress”, “strain” are commonly used to describe feeling bad. They imply that our feelings are too big - they are pulling us apart and stretching out beyond our limits. Expansion means making room for our feelings. If we give negative feelings enough space, they no longer stretch or strain us.
  • 31. EMOTIONS (AND URGES) 4 steps of expansion 1.Observe 2.Breathe 3.Create space 4.Allow
  • 32. EMOTIONS (AND URGES) Urges Urge = impulse to take action We don’t want to struggle with the urge b/c then it’s hard to focus on effective action. So rather than try to resist, control or suppress it, we aim to make room for it.
  • 33. EMOTIONS (AND URGES) Urge surfing 1.Observe it 2.Acknowledge 3.Breath into it and make room for it 4.Watch the urge as it rises, crests and falls again 5.Check in with your values
  • 34. DISCLAIMER ACT is not an “all-or-nothing”/”take it or leave it” doctrine. Only use that parts of this workshop that make sense to you, and will help you be the person you want to be What this talk is NOT?
  • 35. THOUGHTS (AND IMAGES) ACT BASICS Agenda EMOTIONS (AND URGES) PRESENCE VALUES ACTION PART I (TODAY) PART II (TBD)