![Resources To Read
Relationship/Marriage
-Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work (63% of couples who
read reported better marriage one year later- 1999)
- 10 Lessons To Transform Your Marriage
(Dr. John Gottman /Dr. Julie Gottman)]
-How To Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It
(Dr. Patricia Love & Dr. Steven Stosny)
- The Five Love Languages (Dr. Gary Chapman)
- The Four Seasons of Marriage (Dr. Gary Chapman)
- Not Just Friends (Dr. Shirley Glass) “Why Affairs Happen”](https://image.slidesharecdn.com/makingrelationshipsworkofficialpresentation3-140217124602-phpapp02/85/Making-Relationships-Work-How-To-Stay-Together-21-320.jpg)
Making Relationships Work (How To Stay Together)
- 1. Making Relationships Work How To Stay Together, Resolve Conflict & Be Happy! This presentation will begin momentarily -Dr. Alduan Tartt Contributing Psychologist On:
- 2. What Great Couples Do Well 1) Remain Friends 2) Resolve Conflict Well
- 3. The Marital Mindset Marriage is not about getting your needs met… it’s about meeting your partners!
- 4. The Expectations Trap “I deserve better than I’m getting” “This isn’t what I signed up for” “I’m putting more into this than I’m getting out”
- 5. Normal Development of Marriages Infatuation (6months - 2 years) - Giddy Love - Similar feeling to getting “high” - Common in people with high pain bodies (pain attracts) Post Rapture - Intense feelings begin to fade - Reality sets in - Can feel like “falling out of love” - Love becomes an intentional act not a “feeling” -From “Me To We To Interdependence” (Bader/Pearson Marital Stages of Change)
- 6. Normal Development of Marriages Discovery -Love no longer sustains marriage, the decision to honor the commitment sustains the love - Discover what makes your partner feel loved - Become an expert on your partners likes & dislikes Connection - Strong friendship develops - Solidified common interests & philosophy on life - Create & maintain rituals that unify the couple (like a team) -From “Me To We To Interdependence” (Bader/Pearson Marital Stages of Change)
- 7. Your Relationship Is Not That Bad Couples just don’t start arguing all of a sudden. Instead, they stop paying attention to one another and disconnect and argue as a result
- 8. Your Relationship Is Not That Bad You are one connection experience away from solving your issues and feeling great about your relationship or marriage again
- 9. Gottman’s Sound Relationship House
- 11. Share Fondness & Admiration Gottman.com
- 15. Make Life Dreams Come True Gottman.com
- 17. Feel & Be Better We can ALL do better when we know better
- 18. Providing Value Benefit In Office Hourly Rate = $150/hr 3 Session Minimum For Realistic Results = $450 Offer 1 Hour Webinar + Free Live Q & A (personalized) = $47
- 19. Current Online Workshops How To Stop Arguing & Resolve Conflict NOW! ($27) Secrets of Successful Couples- How To Avoid Breaking Up & Divorce ($47) How To Avoid & Recover From Affairs ($47)
- 20. Join My Email List Text TARTT to 22828 Join email mailing list • Get complimentary webinars • Access to private workshops • Complimentary Q & A Sessions
- 21. Resources To Read Relationship/Marriage -Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work (63% of couples who read reported better marriage one year later- 1999) - 10 Lessons To Transform Your Marriage (Dr. John Gottman /Dr. Julie Gottman)] -How To Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It (Dr. Patricia Love & Dr. Steven Stosny) - The Five Love Languages (Dr. Gary Chapman) - The Four Seasons of Marriage (Dr. Gary Chapman) - Not Just Friends (Dr. Shirley Glass) “Why Affairs Happen”
- 22. Thanks Text TARTT to 22828 to join email list & get more free workshops Website www.drtartt.com Email drtartt@drtartt.com Twitter @drtartt.com Contact 404-377-4757