1) Founders should provide timely, accurate information to the board without surprises and establish two-way communication. They should view the board as a resource to help address problems and enhance the relationship.
2) When selecting a board, founders should look for shared interests but also differences, and leverage directors' networks. They should have the humility to listen to advice but also push back respectfully when needed.
3) Founders should build rapport with at least one director, have a clear plan and metrics to measure performance, and openly declare failures to the board for help addressing issues. They should communicate frequently to maintain an effective relationship and gain the board's confidence.