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- 5. Psalm 67:1,2 1God be gracious to us Men‟s and bless us, Relational Toolbox And cause His face to shine upon us- 2That Thy way may be known on the earth, Thy salvation among all nations. The win-win tool
- 6. Psalm 67:3,4 3Let the peoples praise Thee, Men‟s O God; Relational Let all the peoples praise Thee. Toolbox 4Let the nations be glad and sing for joy; For Thou wilt judge the peoples with uprightness, And guide the nations on the earth. The win-win tool
- 7. Psalm 67:5-7 5Letthe peoples praise Thee, O God; Men‟s Let all the peoples praise Thee. Relational Toolbox 6Theearth has yielded its produce; God, our God, blesses us. 7God bless us, That all the ends of the earth may fear Him. The win-win tool
- 9. Tools in a man‟s toolbox Fact-giving tool Men‟s Fact-finding tool Relational Toolbox Take-charge tool Task-oriented tool Problem-solving tool Competitive-drive tool The win-win tool
- 10. Tools for a relational toolbox Open-sharing tool Men‟s Patient-listening tool Relational Toolbox Win-win tool Selfless-honor tool Tender-touch tool Time-and –energy tool The win-win tool
- 11. Mark‟s wife had two Men‟s complaints about her Relational Toolbox husband: he never shared his feelings, and he never listened to her. The win-win tool
- 12. His wife favorite verse. Mark 7:37 says, “And they Men‟s Relational were utterly astonished, Toolbox saying, „He has done all things well; He makes even the deaf to hear, and the dumb to speak.‟” The win-win tool
- 13. James 2:23 “And so it happened just as Men‟s Relational the Scriptures say: Toolbox „Abraham believed God, so God declared him to be righteous.‟ He was even called „the friend of God.‟” The win-win tool
- 14. Galations 3:6-7 6“In the same way, „Abraham Men‟s Relational believed God, so God Toolbox declared him righteous because of his faith.‟ 7The real children of Abraham then, are those who put their faith in God.‟” The win-win tool
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- 16. Genesis 12:1-3 “1Then the Lord told Abram, „Leave your country, your relatives, and your Men‟s father‟s house, and go to the land Relational that I will show you. Toolbox 2I will cause you to become the father of a great nation. I will make you a blessing to others. 3I will bless those who bless you and curse those who curse you. All the families of the earth will be blessed through you.‟” The win-win tool
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- 18. Genesis 13:5-7 “5Now Lot, who was traveling with Abram, was also very wealthy with Men‟s sheep, cattle, and many tents. Relational 6But the land could not support Toolbox both Abram and Lot with all their flocks and herds living so close together. There were too many animals for the available pastureland. 7So an argument broke out between the herdsmen of Abram and Lot. . . The win-win tool
- 19. Genesis 13:8,9 8Then Abram talked it over with Lot „This arguing between our Men‟s herdsmen has got to stop,‟ he Relational said. „After all, we are close Toolbox relatives! 9I‟ll tell you what we‟ll do. Take your choice of any section of the land you want, and we will separate. If you want that area over there, then I‟ll stay here. If you want to stay in this area, then I‟ll move on to another place.‟ The win-win tool
- 20. Genesis 13:10,11 10Lot took a long look at the fertile plains of the Jordan Valley in the Men‟s Relational direction of Zoar. The whole area Toolbox was well watered everywhere, . . . 11Lot chose that land for himself- the Jordan Valley to the east of them. He went there with his flocks and servants and parted company with his uncle Abram.” The win-win tool
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- 22. Genesis 13:14,15 “14After Lot was gone, the Men‟s Lord said to Abram, „Look as Relational Toolbox far as you can see in every direction. 15I am going to give all this land to you and your offspring, as a permanent possession.” The win-win tool
- 23. Romans 12:16 “Live in harmony with each Men‟s Relational other. Don‟t try to act Toolbox important, but enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don‟t think you know it all.” The win-win tool
- 24. Colossians 3:12-14 “12Since God chose you to be the holy people whom he loves, you must clothe Men‟s yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, Relational kindness, humility, gentleness, and Toolbox patience. 13You must make allowance for each other‟s faults and forgive the person who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. 14And the most important piece of clothing you must wear is love. Love is what binds us all together in perfect harmony.” The win-win tool
- 25. Ephesians 5:1,2 “1Follow God‟s example in Men‟s everything you do, because you Relational are his dear children. 2Live a life Toolbox filled with love for others, following the example of Christ, who loved you and gave himself as a sacrifice to take away your sins. And God was pleased, because that sacrifice was like sweet perfume to him.” The win-win tool
- 26. Ephesians 4:31 “Get rid of all bitterness, Men‟s Relational rage, anger, harsh words, Toolbox and slander, as well as all types of malicious behavior.” The win-win tool
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- 28. Women‟s statements: Meet me in the middle. Men‟s Understand my needs and Relational allow my opinions to count Toolbox for part of the decision-making process in our relationship. Assert your opinion in a loving, equal way. Talk over decisions that must be made. The win-win tool
- 29. Women‟s statements: Add softness to your tone Men‟s when we‟re making decisions Relational together. Toolbox Remember, that I am not the enemy. Back down once in a while. Realize that my heart is fragile. Apologize when you‟re wrong. The win-win tool
- 30. Men‟s Relational Toolbox The win-win tool