1) Nehemiah was in a high position of power and comfort as cup bearer to the king, but was concerned with rebuilding Jerusalem which was in ruins.
2) When he heard about the state of Jerusalem, he wept and prayed to God, taking responsibility for the sins of himself and his people rather than feeling superior.
3) He maintained close relationships with other Jews while in power and responded to the problems of his people with prayer and action rather than indifference.