Perfect first date

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Table Of Contents
Foreword
Chapter 1:
Prepare for Your First Date
Chapter 2:
Things to do
Chapter 3:
What to wear
Chapter 4:
Where to Go
Chapter 5:
Conversations
Chapter 6:
First Impression
Chapter 7:
After Your First Date
Wrapping Up
IF YOU WANT TO SUCCESS YOUR LOVE AND DATING LIFE AND BE A DATING COACH

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Foreword
There are usually a lot of emotions and thoughts surrounding the
times before and at the onset of the first date. While attempting to
sieve through all these, the individual would also have to make the
necessary preparations to ensure the date goes well, while ensuring,
the possibility of getting a second date is sealed. These are all fairly
difficult and stressful elements to consider, especially if the individual
does not consider himself or herself a confident, impressive and
totally capable date partner. Get all the info you need here.
Perfect First Date
Discover strategies to make your first date a memorable one

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Chapter 1:
Prepare for Your First Date
Synopsis
The following are some thoughts on the matter of preparing for the
first date that should be considered with some seriousness to ensure
the encounter goes as planned:

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The Basics
Start by looking good and feeling good way before the date actually
takes place. If there is a heightened level of excitement, the fell
good aura will be evident but when it comes to the looking good
element, some changes may have to be made. These may include
simple things that don’t really incur costs, or if it does, these cost
would be minimal and certainly worth the investment. Doing some
exercises, eating well and sleeping well will all help to prepare the
individual both mentally and physically.
Be prepared way in advance, and these would include all the little
things that may seem insignificant but could potentially put a
damper on the actual should they surface. These may included
elements such as the intended attire to be worn, the venue for the
date, especially if it is unfamiliar to the individual, and the
contingency plans if the venue becomes unsuitable for any given
reason, the topics to be discussed to keep the date pleasant and
flowing smoothly, any additional needs that might have to be taken
care of such as pets and other dependants and almost anything
that can cause interruptions.
However in exploring all these possibilities, caution should be
exercised to ensure the individual does not get unnecessarily
anxious and go into panic more.

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Chapter 2:
Things to do
Synopsis
In the first date scenario, the individual has to do virtually everything
right, if there are intentions to secure a second date with the other
party. This is very important as first impressions are often the
deciding factor that will dictate the tone of the encounter and the
second date possibility.
The following are some points to consider for things to do on the first
date:

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What To Do
The most basic yet often awkward element within the date layout is
the payment for the entire experience. Making the other party split
the bill is an accepted practice, but not one that is appreciated,
especially if the individual intents to portray a successful and capable
position. Therefore taking the trouble to gently and without any
inflated ego issues it should be established that the bill will covered
and the other party’s contributions would be to simply have a good
time.
Picking the correct location would also be something to be
considered, as the ideal setting would be required based on the
general direction the date is designed to take. Finding a location that
is suitable and convenient for both parties will set the tone for the
entire date. Unless money is not an issue, picking a venue that would
not cause the individual to be mindful of the bill at the end of the date
would be advised, as this can put a real damper on the encounter.
Respecting the other party enough to ensure being on time is not an
issue would also be something else to consider. If the other party is
kept waiting is can be potentially very embarrassing and stressful.
Therefore planning the route, time, transportation and other
connective elements should be done way before the actual day of the
date. This will be a good way to show respect to the other party and
display the personal standards of the individual.
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Chapter 3:
What to wear
Synopsis
Impressions made on a first date, are very telling of both parties and
the possible outcome of the date. Therefore it would be in the best
interest of both parties, to come well prepared both mentally and
physically. Presenting their A game would show that effort is being
put into this encounter.
The following are some tips on what would be considered suitable
attire for the first date:

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Have A Look
Perhaps the first thing to consider would be the issue of being
comfortable. Mentally the date is already going to preoccupy the mind
before and during the actual date, therefore having to be distracted
with the attire for the date would not help put the individual at ease.
Wearing something comfortable yet complimenting should be the
base of the idea behind the ensemble put together. Other
considerations would include the weather and venue for the date.
These also factor strongly in the choice of attire. There is nothing
worse than being either over dressed or under dressed.
Finding out a little about the plans for the date would also help in
deciding what to wear and this should be made clear to both parties if
possible, so that unwanted awkwardness will not be encountered with
the wrong choice of attire. If the date is not going to follow the
conventional meal and drinks, then the attire chosen for the date will
have to be carefully considered, this is especially so, if outdoor
activities are planned as part of the date. Suitable foot ware is
something that is often overlooked and yet can cause the most
problems. Therefore attention to this is equally important as the other
parts of the ensemble.
Deciding between sexy and sedate can also be quite a challenge. The
individual would have to decide this based on the desired intentions
for the date. The intentions and end goals will dictate the choice
between sexy and sedately comfortable attire.

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Chapter 4:
Where to Go
Synopsis
This can be a fun activity or a stressful one, as choosing a suitable
venue is something that needs careful consideration from many
different angles. Giving it some careful consideration and planning
will contribute positively to the overall enjoyable experience.
The following are some ideas on what to do and where to go for the
first date endeavor:

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Where
The actual venue would very much depend on the personalities of
both parties going on the date. If both parties are fun loving and
the adventurous types, then something outdoors would be
welcomed and even considered more comfortable and enjoyable.
Incorporating come light activities may also have some level of
appeal to both parties, but this would have to be agreed upon,
before the actual date, as there are often other connecting factors
that would need to be considered.
Picking somewhere neutral such as a café or coffee bar would be
advised, as this would be casual and pleasant setting that would
give both parties a chance to relax and get to know each other. It
would also not have the presence of alcohol that might cause over
indulgence, if there were nervous to be calmed.
Keeping the time frame for the first date short would also be
advisable as a longer period may cause the element of tiredness
and boredom to set in. Ideally the time frame should be dictated to
by the general flow of the date, and if it happens to run longer than
anticipated, there should not be any cause for concern if both
parties are having a good time.
Finding interesting venues that are appealing to both parties is
important. Another fact to consider would be the distance and

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convenience of these venues. This is especially important is both
parties have arranged to meet at the venue. Some ideal and
popular venues may include museums, bowling arenas, golfing, the
zoo, planetarium, and many more.

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Chapter 5:
Conversations
Synopsis
First dates are usually quite stress full as both parties are intent on
making a good impression on the other.
If there is the added pressure of not know what to talk about, then the
date is probably headed for disaster. Therefore it is very important to
be armed with some good conversational topic and ready content to
get the date off on the right foot.
The following are some of the conversational starters that should be
considered if the individual wants the date to have some chance of
success:

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Talking
Knowing about what is going on both within the community both
parties live in and around the country in general. This is often a great
conversation opener especially if both parties are intellectually
inclined. Other topic may be centered on the political and
governmental issues and how it affects the common such as the tow
people on the date.
Other conversational starts may stem from the very attire being worn
or the accessories. Pick something complimenting to say about the
particular article can start the conversation going as more details are
divulged and tips are exchanged. Also it’s a good way to gauge the
taste and preferences of the other party.
Paying close attention to what the other party is saying and
contributing to the overall content of the conversation will help, alert
the mind to possible interesting questions to ask on the topic and also
help to introduce other topics that would be connected somehow to
what is being discussed. This will be a pleasant change for the other
party to note that whatever he or she is saying is being noted and
taken seriously.
The most important thing to remember is to try to relax and be
confident and natural. All these traits are deemed admirable and thus
certainly get the attention of the other party.

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Chapter 6:
First Impression
Synopsis
Sad but true is the thought process that first impressions usually set
the tone for anything and everything. Therefore it is very important to
take the trouble to make the best first impression possible to ensure
the desired results of impressing the other party are achieved.
The following are just some of the recommendations that should be
considered when making the first impression is on the agenda for the
first date:

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Great Info
The attire for the night should be at least smart casual. Dressing
comfortably yet neatly and attractively is very important as what
meets the eye is going to be what is judged. Being careful to not dress
too sexily would also be advised as the individual would not want to
give out the wrong signals or cause any unwanted advances to take
place. Therefore choosing the attire that makes the individual
comfortable and attractive is the best way to go.
The way the individual presents himself or herself is also important.
Posture and choice of sitting positions and the general body language
used are all sign that will let the other party be clued into the
character and demeanor of the individual. The presence of
confidence, of lack of it can be clearly deduced for the posture and the
way the individual handles things. Confidence and alertness are both
attributes that should ideally be displayed on the date.
Learning how to throw out a compliment or two without sounding
insincere is a very important style to learn and adopt. Being able to
compliment something about the other person will call attention to it
in a positive say and this will ensure the other party stays flattered
and happy because his or her efforts have been noted. People often
respond well to compliments and this can set the positive tone for the
date.

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Chapter 7:
After Your First Date
Synopsis
In most cases the action taken after the first date, will have some
bearing on the eventual direction the relationship will take. Although
it is still commonly perceived to be the man’s prerogative to make the
first move after the initial date, most women today find it bothersome
to wait, especially if they had a good time and so make the move
instead.

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Following
The hesitation, if any is mainly due to the fact that neither party
wants to be rejected, thus the hesitancy to initiate contact
immediately. There are also a lot of doubts for both parties if the
period between the next contact is prolonged. However most experts
would advice a comfortable waiting period, as this will give both
parties the time to digest the events of the first date and the general
characteristics of each other. Rushing into a second date will not
allow either party the excitement and suspense that would ideally
heighten the prospect of a second encounter. However to be noted
here, is that waiting too long to make contact is also equally
unnerving for both parties and this only increases further with more
time lapsed.
Most females enjoy discussing the first date with their friends and try
to analyze every detail of the date. Advice is given on perceptions
made and then the female will decide if it would be worth the effort to
agree to a second date should the opportunity present itself. For the
male however, the scenario is really quite different, as most males will
more likely be occupied with getting on with their lives and work thus
having little time to dissect the date and analyze every detail of it, and
should he decide to make the next move, making contact will then be
the point of contention for him. This next contact will be the only
element that occupies his thoughts and actions until contact is finally
made and the next date is agreed upon.

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Wrapping Up
There is a lot of apprehension before an actual first date takes place
and most of these feelings are brought on by wrong choices made
following up to the date or perceived awkwardness and mistakes that
might occur during the date. All this can be avoided with a little
careful research and knowledge on things other may or may not have
done that attributed to a disastrous first date.
The following are some points to consider in order to avoid having to
go through a first date horror:
Spending too much time on the phone or online with the intended
date partner before the actual date, could be potentially disastrous for
the date.
This is because both parties may eventually end up being all talked
out and have nothing much to say at the date itself. This could also
mean that there would be no more new things to explore with the
other party that would make it finding out things about each other.
Building up the date in one’s mind into an over inflated and
unrealistic platform may take the excitement out of the date and
replace it with stress and anxiety. When there are too many
expectations to live up to, there is very little room to actually let loose

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and have pure unbridled fun. Allowing the actual date scenario to
dictate the course of the events can present its own sort of excitement
and surprise which if met with openness can unfold a good time.
Location is a very important factor to consider when it comes to
planning the first date. Being comfortable and being able to reach the
location with ease is a good way to start the date especially if both
parties have agreed to meet there, as opposed to being picked up by
one party.

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