2. introduction
•Definition of the relational self: The aspect
of self that is shaped and influenced by
relationships with others.
•Focus on intrapersonal aspects: How
internal dialogues, self-awareness, and
self-concept affect relationships.
•Importance of Self-Awareness in shaping
relationship: Understanding oneself leads
to healthier interactions with others.
3. What is relational
self?
•The self as influenced by relationships: Our identity
and self-perception develop through social
interactions.
•Interaction between internal thoughts and social
experiences: How past experiences shape our current
self-view.
•Role of personal identity in shaping connections: A
well-defined sense of self enhances the quality of
relationships.
4. UNDERSTANDING
INTRAPERSONAL
PERSPECTIVE
•Definition of intrapersonal perspective:
The way individuals understand and
relate to themselves internally.
•Internal dialogue and self-concept:
The conversations we have with
ourselves influence our self-esteem
and behaviors.
•Self-esteem and self-worth: High self-
esteem leads to better decision-making
and relationships.
•Self-esteem and self-worth: High self-esteem
leads to better decision-making and relationships.
5. INTRAPERSONAL PERSPECTIVE
Benefits of an intrapersonal perspective
Self-awareness: Understanding your strengths and weaknesses
Self-regulation: Knowing how to calm yourself down when you're stressed
Goal setting: Setting meaningful goals that guide your life
Decision-making: Making better choices by weighing your options and analyzing
potential outcomes
Stress management: Managing stress and maintaining a healthy work-life balance
Personal growth: Fostering personal growth and improving your ability to handle
challenges
6. THE ROLE OF SELF
AWARENESS
Self-awareness plays a crucial role in
understanding one's own thoughts, emotions, and
behaviors, allowing individuals to identify their
strengths and weaknesses, manage their
reactions, make informed decisions, build stronger
relationships, and ultimately achieve personal
growth by taking responsibility for their actions and
adapting to situations effectively; it is considered a
key component of emotional intelligence.
Recognizing emotions: Understanding your own feelings
and how they impact your behavior.
Identifying strengths and weaknesses: Knowing what you
excel at and areas where you need improvement.
Understanding thought patterns: Recognizing your mental
processes and biases.
Impact on others: Awareness of how your actions and
behaviors affect people around you.
Key aspects of self-
awareness:
7. Self-Perception and Emotional
Regulation
Listen without judgment
and show empathy.
•Definition of self-perception:
The way we view ourselves
based on internal and external
influences.
•How emotions shape self-
identity: Positive and negative
emotions contribute to how we
define ourselves.
•Strategies for maintaining
emotions internally:
Cognitive reframing
Mindfulness Practices
Self-Compasion
8. Impact of Self-Talk on the
Relational Self
•Definition of self-talk: The internal
monologue that influences our actions
and emotions.
•Positive self-talk enhances confidence
and resilience.
•Negative self-talk leads to self-doubt
and emotional distress.
Key points about the impact of self-talk on the relational self:
Perception of others: Positive self-talk allows individuals to see others more positively, fostering
trust and openness in relationships, while negative self-talk can lead to suspicion, hostility, or a
tendency to interpret others' actions negatively.
Communication style: The way someone talks to themselves internally influences their
communication style with others. Positive self-talk can lead to assertive communication, while
negative self-talk may result in passivity or aggression.
Relationship quality: High self-esteem, cultivated through positive self-talk, is associated with
healthier and more fulfilling relationships, as individuals feel more confident in their worth and are
better equipped to handle relationship challenges.
Social anxiety: Negative self-talk can exacerbate social anxiety by fueling self-doubt and fear of
judgment in social situations, leading to withdrawal or avoidance of interactions.
Intimacy and vulnerability: Individuals with positive self-talk are more likely to be open and
vulnerable in relationships, which is crucial for building deep connections.
9. The Connection Between Self-
Concept and Relationships
Definition of self-concept: The perception a person has of themselves, shaped by
experiences and relationships.
How self-perception influences interactions: Those with a positive self-concept tend to
build healthier relationships.
Effects of self-esteem on communication: Confidence leads to assertiveness, while low
self-esteem may cause withdrawal.
Building healthy self-concept for better relationships:
Recognizing personal worth.
Setting realistic expectations.
Seeking supportive relationships.
10. Strategies for
Enhancing the
Intrapersonal
Relational Self
•Practicing self-reflection: Taking time
to analyze personal thoughts and
behaviors.
•Setting personal goals for growth:
Working on self-improvement to build
confidence.
•Developing emotional intelligence:
Understanding and managing
emotions effectively.
•Seeking professional or peer support: Therapy,
coaching, or support groups for personal
development.
11. Conclusion
•Summary of key points: Self-awareness,
emotional regulation, and self-concept are vital to
the relational self.
•Importance of intrapersonal understanding: A
strong sense of self leads to better relationships.
•Encouragement for self-exploration and growth:
Continuous personal development improves
overall well-being.
12. PRESENTED BY :
JUDITH MANTIAS
MARC ZEDRIC MAURICIO
RANELLE GABAIG
UNDERSTANDING THE SELF