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Solihull Approach

  Mary Rheeston – Solihull Approach Manager
        Thursday 20th September 2012



Evidence Based Parenting Programmes and
       Social Inclusion Conference
             Middlesex University

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What is the Solihull Approach?

• It is an integrated theoretical model that can be used in
  practice
• It brings together 3 theories (Containment, Reciprocity and
  Behaviour Management) to provide a way of thinking about
  relationships
• It supports professionals in their work with families
• It improves children’s and parents’ emotional relationship and
  wellbeing
• In supporting the parent-child relationship it affects brain
  development (in particular emotional development) in the
  foetus and baby


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How the Solihull Approach developed

•Originally developed in Solihull between health visitors, psychologists
and psychotherapists to help parents with children with sleep
difficulties

• Focus on parent and child/baby interacted first, rather than behaviour
management advice straight away

• Extended to other professional groups and agencies at the request of
professionals e.g. School Nurses, Nursery nurses, Children’s Centre staff,
Child Care staff, Midwives, Breastfeeding Coordinators, Education,
Fostering and Adoption and Social Workers




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How the Solihull Approach developed

• Developed resource packs and training for professionals across
agencies with cascade training. E.g. First five years , School years,
Fostering and Adoption, Antenatal for midwives and practitioners
involved in antenatal period, Early year Foundation Stage


•Groups and group training. e.g. Antenatal Parenting 5 week
Group, Solihull Approach 10 week Parenting group, , Peer
Breastfeeding Supporter 6 week Training and Foster carer 12
week group training




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The Solihull Approach -
               supporting family relationships to improve
                               outcomes


                  Psychoanalytic theory (Bion)




Child Development research                         Behaviourism (Skinner)
        (Brazelton)
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Containment

• Containment is where a person receives and
  understands the emotional communication of
  an other without being overwhelmed by it
  and communicates this back to the other
  person. This can restore the capacity to think
  in the other person.




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Containment




                          Parent

      Baby

Toddler




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Containment

Received/understood




                                                 Parent

                    Baby

          Toddler




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Containment

Parent’s head too full




                                                Parent

                       Baby

             Toddler




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Coping with
             Day to daychild with Domestic
             events behavioural violence
           Relationship issues
     Single/breakup difficulties Housing
     parent    Financial         problems
     Fertility
     problems problems         Unprocessed
     Mental HealthFatigue birth history
     problems postnatal Poor relationships
     depression            with parents
                 Difficult childhood
                     experiences
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Parent’s head too full
Containment

Parents head
completely full




                                      Parent

                  Baby

           Toddler




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Containment

Parallel Process



                                              worker

                                    Parent




                 Baby

       Toddler
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Containment and parenting

• Helps the parent to think about their child
• Helps parents and their child to relate
• Helps the parent to help their child cope with anxiety
  and emotion so that the child is free to relate
• Helps the parent process some ‘old’ emotions so that
  the parent can relate to the actual child in front of
  them, not a ‘projection’ of a child




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Reciprocity

• Describes the sophisticated interaction
  between a baby and an adult where both the
  baby and the adult are involved in the
  initiation, regulation and termination of the
  interaction. Reciprocity also applies to the
  interaction between adults. Helps parents and
  their child to relate



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The Dance of Reciprocity

                       Peak of excitement
        Acceleration

 State of attention                                Deceleration

Orientation

Initiation                                                Withdrawal
                                                          or turning
                                                          away/
                                                          lookaway


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Reciprocity and parenting

• Helps parents and their child to relate
• Tunes in the parent to think about their baby
• Increases the parents’ awareness of their
  child’s needs
• Provides a focus and a language for feeding
  back to the parents about the interaction



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Behaviour management
Behaviour management is part of the ordinary
process of normal development whereby
parents teach their child self-control, thus
enabling the child to participate in society.
Parents in well-functioning families work
together to place reasonable boundaries on the
child’s behaviour. They encourage the child with
attention and other rewards. Gradually, the child
becomes able to internalise both the restraints
and the satisfactions for himself. It also
facilitates learning and development.
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How behaviour management relates
              to containment and reciprocity
• Containment and Reciprocity are the foundations for
  successful Behaviour Management

• Behaviour Management will be more effective for a child or
  young person and parent/foster parent if:
   – parental emotions are processed and their capacity to
     think is restored within a containing relationship
   – parents are able to be part of a reciprocal relationship with
     their child
   – behaviour management techniques are based on an
     understanding of meeting the needs of individual parents
     and their children and adapted to suit their relationship


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Using the Solihull Approach in
                        practice


• Offers a shared language that can be helpful
  across professions and agencies
• Gives a language for reflection and feedback
• Parents notice when used as a whole team
  approach



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Solihull Approach Parenting
                     Programmes


• ‘Understanding you pregnancy, labour, birth and
  your baby’ (Antenatal Parenting Group)

• ‘Understanding your Child’s Behaviour’ (Group
  for Parents)




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Solihull Approach Antenatal Parenting Group
Understanding pregnancy, labour, birth and your
                    baby




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Understanding your Pregnancy, labour,
                 birth and your baby
              Solihull Approach Antenatal Parenting Group

• Integrates traditional advice about labour and
  birth with developing a relationship with their
  baby
• Universal antenatal parenting group
• 2 hour sessions for 5 consecutive weeks
• Designed for parents to be, ideally to attend
  all sessions
• Puts in to practice the recommendations of
  Preparing for Pregnancy, Birth and Beyond
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Understanding your Pregnancy, labour,
                   birth and your baby
                Solihull Approach Antenatal Parenting Group

The group aims to help parents:
• Think about support that will be helpful throughout
  the pregnancy and birth
• Get to know the baby through pregnancy, labour,
  birth and beyond
• Understand information about pregnancy, labour and
  birth and feeding
• Understand the importance of their emotional
  relationship with their baby

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Understanding your Pregnancy, labour,
                    birth and your baby
                Solihull Approach Antenatal Parenting Group

Session 1    Helping you and your baby through pregnancy and birth
             Introduction
             Processing their own feelings relating to baby
             Learning about relaxation and breathing

Session 2    Getting to know your baby in the womb
             Getting to know their baby in the womb and the
             importance of developing their relationship with their baby

Session 3    Midwife – You, your baby and the stages of labour
             Thinking about their baby in labour and information about
             signs of labour




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Understanding your Pregnancy, labour,
                    birth and your baby
                Solihull Approach Antenatal Parenting Group

Session 4    Midwife - Helping you and your baby through labour
             and birth
             Understand the process of labour and pain relief and
             thinking about the baby
             Plan for support at home

Session 5    Feeding your baby
             Information about feeding and the feeding experience
             for mother and baby and family. Supports Baby Friendly
             Initiative
             Other issues relating to when the baby is born,




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Understanding your Pregnancy, labour,
                         birth and your baby
                        Solihull Approach Antenatal Parenting Group

          Containment
                                                  I’m frightened about the
                                                  labour and it will hurt but
                                                  now I am looking forward to
Reciprocity                                       it because I can’t wait to
                                                  meet my baby
                                                                 A Mother


         Attending the group provided a containing
         experience where the mother’s capacity to think is
         clear. She is developing a relationship with her baby
          and has her baby in mind



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Understanding your Pregnancy, labour,
                        birth and your baby
                       Solihull Approach Antenatal Parenting Group

      Containment
                                           I realise I need to talk to my
                                           mother in law if we are both
                                           going to support my wife
                                           when she is in labour and I
                                           need to make sure I am calm
                                                                  A Father
Fat

Father understating his role in providing a containing
experience for his partner and also being aware of his own
needs



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Understanding your Child’s
       Behaviour




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Understanding your Child’s behaviour
                    Solihull Approach group for parents



• 10 week x 2hour
• Universal need to complex need – i.e. CAF
  levels 1-3 years
• Group suitable for children aged 0-18 years
     - 0-4 years
     - 4-11years
     - 11-18years



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Understanding your Child’s behaviour
                Solihull Approach group for parents


The group aims to:
 Develop a framework of thinking about
  parent/child relationships which can be
  developed into a lifelong skill

 Give parents a strategy for repair when things
  go wrong



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Understanding your Child’s behaviour
               Solihull Approach group for parents




 Promote sensitive and effective
  parenting

 Builds lifelong skill and reflective
  parenting style



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Understanding your Child’s behaviour
               Solihull Approach group for parents


Sessions
1. Introduction
2. How are you and your child feeling?
3. Tuning into your child’s developmental
   needs
4. Responding to your child’s feelings
5. Different styles of parenting

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Understanding your Child’s behaviour
             Solihull Approach group for parents


6. Parent-child partnership- Having fun
    together
7. The rhythm of interaction and sleep
8. Self regulation and anger
9. Communication and attunement- how to
    recover when things go wrong
10. Celebration!

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Evaluation

Data from 72 completed pre and post measures
Measures
• The Child Behaviour Checklist (CBCL)

• The Strengths and Difficulties Questionnaire (SDQ)

• Beck Anxiety Inventory (BAI)
  (parental self report)




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Evaluation
           Changes in BAI scores
             10% stayed same




28% went                                 62% went
up                                       down




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Evaluation

• Interesting findings that while for most parents anxiety
  reduced just under a third anxiety increased
• Questions for further research or analysis to look at
  relevance of anxiety levels to parenting
• One suggestion is an increase in anxiety can be helpful
  for parenting.
• Parents may become more in tune with their child that
  leads to the parent being more aware of their child’s
  needs and therefore more anxious
• A degree of anxiety in parenting is protective for the
  child

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Understanding your Child’s behaviour
                    Solihull Approach Group for Parents




Containment



                                  I feel a lot calmer and more
                                  in control

                                                      A Mother


                   Sessions……

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Understanding your Child’s behaviour
                          Solihull Approach Group for Parents


        Containment

                                     Since doing the course I don’t think I
                                     have ever kind of hit the panic
Reciprocity                          button like I used to …. I just didn’t
                                     know what was going on. I feel like
                                     I’m very much in tune with him now.
                                     And I really enjoyed that….. I feel
                                     like I’m more sensitive. I know now
  Fat
                                     that she likes to be close and touch.
                                     And its brilliant. I can pick up on that
  Father has                         now                           A Father
                      Sessions …..

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Evaluation

Attendance at a Solihull Approach Parenting
  Group is associated with
• Changes in behaviour
• Significant changes in parental anxiety
• Statistically significant link between
  changes in behaviour and reduction in
  parental behaviour

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Parent Evaluation
• 137 parents completed feedback
  questionnaires on their experience of each of
  the 10 sessions of the group
• We asked them:
     1. How relaxed they felt
     2. How able they felt to share experiences
     3. How much the group enabled them to
     understand their child and how much the
     group enabled them to change

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Parent Evaluation

• The results show that parents found UYCB
  highly satisfactory as measured by a simple,
  non-literacy-based evaluation form
• 98% of people felt that the group helped them
  to relax and share experiences. The
  unexpected results happened with the next
  two questions


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Parent Evaluation

• This graph shows that parents understanding
  of their child increased over the 10 sessions
  (red line).




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Parent Evaluation

• This graph shows how much the group
  enabled them to change (red line).




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Parent Evaluation

• Jane Barlow, University of Warwick,
  systematically reviewed parenting
  programmes for NICE and found that effective
  parenting programmes tended to consist of 10
  sessions of 2 hours each. But why?




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Parent Evaluation

• Interesting! Understanding comes before
  change. And both increase over 10 sessions.
• This fits with social learning theory, that we
  learn from others in different ways, so its
  perhaps not surprising that it takes a bit of
  time for us to change our parenting.
• 10 sessions for most people!


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Evaluation of Solihull Approach
                           Parenting Group


 ‘Lots of things have changed like
my son’s sleep routine and the
way I ask the children to do
something’

                        ‘My outlook and attitude
                        towards parenting have
                        changed.’
                                                           ‘I personally am a lot calmer’




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Evaluation of Solihull Approach
                      Parenting Group




‘It’s made me step back and look
at the situation and relate it to
the child’s age’                                        ‘I’ve been able to look at
                                                       different ways to approach
                                                      things and look at ways how
                                                                others feel’




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Evaluation of Solihull Approach
                       Parenting Group



‘I feel I have learnt a great
                                             ‘I have learned that anger is
deal about understanding
                                             OK and that you can repair
feelings, my own as well as
                                             situations rather than leaving’
my child’s’




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Evaluation of Solihull Approach
                        Parenting Group



                       My child’s tantrums are shorter
                       and less often’




                                                          ‘My understanding of my child’s
‘I feel I have learned more about
                                                          behaviour is better.
understanding a child and looking
at everything from a child’s
perspective’

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Evaluation of Solihull Approach
                           Parenting Group



‘I definitely listen to my child more and
spend more time with them in terms
of playing and “quality time”’                         ‘I have learned how to communicate
                                                       with my child effectively. I’m more
                                                       relaxed playing with the kids and I feel
                                                       calmer and more organised’




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The importance of the relationship to
                 children in the UK


• Improving parenting improves the relationship
  with the child
• Relationships are central to the emotional
  well- being of children and can seriously
  impact on later adult mental health



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References

• Bateson,K,. Delaney, J. and Pybus,R. (2008) Meeting
  expectations: the pilot evaluations of the Solihull Approach
  Parenting Group. Community Practitioner, 81, 28-31
• Johnson, R. and Wilson, H. (2012) Parents’ Evaluation of
  ‘Understanding Your Child’s Behaviour’, a parenting group
  based on the Solihull Approach Community Practitioner 85
  (5) 29-33
• Barlow,J. et al. (2009) Birth and beyond: stakeholder
  perceptions of current antenatal education provision in
  England. Department of Health
• Preparing for Pregnancy, Birth and Beyond
  Department of Health


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Contact details
• Mary Rheeston- Solihull Approach Manager
• Address: Kingshurst Clinic, Marston Drive,
  Kingshurst, Birmingham. B37 6BD
• Tel: 0121 329 1910
• Email: solihullapproach@heartofengland.nhs.uk
• Websites:
For Professionals - www.communityservices.nhs.uk/solihullapproach
For parents - www.solihullapproach.com



                               © Solihull Approach                  53

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Solihull Approach Workshop

  • 1. Solihull Approach Mary Rheeston – Solihull Approach Manager Thursday 20th September 2012 Evidence Based Parenting Programmes and Social Inclusion Conference Middlesex University © Solihull Approach 1
  • 2. What is the Solihull Approach? • It is an integrated theoretical model that can be used in practice • It brings together 3 theories (Containment, Reciprocity and Behaviour Management) to provide a way of thinking about relationships • It supports professionals in their work with families • It improves children’s and parents’ emotional relationship and wellbeing • In supporting the parent-child relationship it affects brain development (in particular emotional development) in the foetus and baby © Solihull Approach 2
  • 3. How the Solihull Approach developed •Originally developed in Solihull between health visitors, psychologists and psychotherapists to help parents with children with sleep difficulties • Focus on parent and child/baby interacted first, rather than behaviour management advice straight away • Extended to other professional groups and agencies at the request of professionals e.g. School Nurses, Nursery nurses, Children’s Centre staff, Child Care staff, Midwives, Breastfeeding Coordinators, Education, Fostering and Adoption and Social Workers © Solihull Approach 3
  • 4. How the Solihull Approach developed • Developed resource packs and training for professionals across agencies with cascade training. E.g. First five years , School years, Fostering and Adoption, Antenatal for midwives and practitioners involved in antenatal period, Early year Foundation Stage •Groups and group training. e.g. Antenatal Parenting 5 week Group, Solihull Approach 10 week Parenting group, , Peer Breastfeeding Supporter 6 week Training and Foster carer 12 week group training © Solihull Approach 4
  • 5. The Solihull Approach - supporting family relationships to improve outcomes Psychoanalytic theory (Bion) Child Development research Behaviourism (Skinner) (Brazelton) © Solihull Approach 5
  • 6. Containment • Containment is where a person receives and understands the emotional communication of an other without being overwhelmed by it and communicates this back to the other person. This can restore the capacity to think in the other person. © Solihull Approach 6
  • 7. Containment Parent Baby Toddler © Solihull Approach 7
  • 8. Containment Received/understood Parent Baby Toddler © Solihull Approach 8
  • 9. Containment Parent’s head too full Parent Baby Toddler © Solihull Approach 9
  • 10. Coping with Day to daychild with Domestic events behavioural violence Relationship issues Single/breakup difficulties Housing parent Financial problems Fertility problems problems Unprocessed Mental HealthFatigue birth history problems postnatal Poor relationships depression with parents Difficult childhood experiences © Solihull Approach 10 Parent’s head too full
  • 11. Containment Parents head completely full Parent Baby Toddler © Solihull Approach 11
  • 12. Containment Parallel Process worker Parent Baby Toddler © Solihull Approach 12
  • 13. Containment and parenting • Helps the parent to think about their child • Helps parents and their child to relate • Helps the parent to help their child cope with anxiety and emotion so that the child is free to relate • Helps the parent process some ‘old’ emotions so that the parent can relate to the actual child in front of them, not a ‘projection’ of a child © Solihull Approach 13
  • 14. Reciprocity • Describes the sophisticated interaction between a baby and an adult where both the baby and the adult are involved in the initiation, regulation and termination of the interaction. Reciprocity also applies to the interaction between adults. Helps parents and their child to relate © Solihull Approach 14
  • 15. The Dance of Reciprocity Peak of excitement Acceleration State of attention Deceleration Orientation Initiation Withdrawal or turning away/ lookaway © Solihull Approach 15
  • 16. Reciprocity and parenting • Helps parents and their child to relate • Tunes in the parent to think about their baby • Increases the parents’ awareness of their child’s needs • Provides a focus and a language for feeding back to the parents about the interaction © Solihull Approach 16
  • 17. Behaviour management Behaviour management is part of the ordinary process of normal development whereby parents teach their child self-control, thus enabling the child to participate in society. Parents in well-functioning families work together to place reasonable boundaries on the child’s behaviour. They encourage the child with attention and other rewards. Gradually, the child becomes able to internalise both the restraints and the satisfactions for himself. It also facilitates learning and development. © Solihull Approach 17
  • 18. How behaviour management relates to containment and reciprocity • Containment and Reciprocity are the foundations for successful Behaviour Management • Behaviour Management will be more effective for a child or young person and parent/foster parent if: – parental emotions are processed and their capacity to think is restored within a containing relationship – parents are able to be part of a reciprocal relationship with their child – behaviour management techniques are based on an understanding of meeting the needs of individual parents and their children and adapted to suit their relationship © Solihull Approach 18
  • 19. Using the Solihull Approach in practice • Offers a shared language that can be helpful across professions and agencies • Gives a language for reflection and feedback • Parents notice when used as a whole team approach © Solihull Approach 19
  • 20. Solihull Approach Parenting Programmes • ‘Understanding you pregnancy, labour, birth and your baby’ (Antenatal Parenting Group) • ‘Understanding your Child’s Behaviour’ (Group for Parents) © Solihull Approach 20
  • 21. Solihull Approach Antenatal Parenting Group Understanding pregnancy, labour, birth and your baby © Solihull Approach 21
  • 22. Understanding your Pregnancy, labour, birth and your baby Solihull Approach Antenatal Parenting Group • Integrates traditional advice about labour and birth with developing a relationship with their baby • Universal antenatal parenting group • 2 hour sessions for 5 consecutive weeks • Designed for parents to be, ideally to attend all sessions • Puts in to practice the recommendations of Preparing for Pregnancy, Birth and Beyond © Solihull Approach 22
  • 23. Understanding your Pregnancy, labour, birth and your baby Solihull Approach Antenatal Parenting Group The group aims to help parents: • Think about support that will be helpful throughout the pregnancy and birth • Get to know the baby through pregnancy, labour, birth and beyond • Understand information about pregnancy, labour and birth and feeding • Understand the importance of their emotional relationship with their baby © Solihull Approach 23
  • 24. Understanding your Pregnancy, labour, birth and your baby Solihull Approach Antenatal Parenting Group Session 1 Helping you and your baby through pregnancy and birth Introduction Processing their own feelings relating to baby Learning about relaxation and breathing Session 2 Getting to know your baby in the womb Getting to know their baby in the womb and the importance of developing their relationship with their baby Session 3 Midwife – You, your baby and the stages of labour Thinking about their baby in labour and information about signs of labour © Solihull Approach 24
  • 25. Understanding your Pregnancy, labour, birth and your baby Solihull Approach Antenatal Parenting Group Session 4 Midwife - Helping you and your baby through labour and birth Understand the process of labour and pain relief and thinking about the baby Plan for support at home Session 5 Feeding your baby Information about feeding and the feeding experience for mother and baby and family. Supports Baby Friendly Initiative Other issues relating to when the baby is born, © Solihull Approach 25
  • 26. Understanding your Pregnancy, labour, birth and your baby Solihull Approach Antenatal Parenting Group Containment I’m frightened about the labour and it will hurt but now I am looking forward to Reciprocity it because I can’t wait to meet my baby A Mother Attending the group provided a containing experience where the mother’s capacity to think is clear. She is developing a relationship with her baby and has her baby in mind © Solihull Approach 26
  • 27. Understanding your Pregnancy, labour, birth and your baby Solihull Approach Antenatal Parenting Group Containment I realise I need to talk to my mother in law if we are both going to support my wife when she is in labour and I need to make sure I am calm A Father Fat Father understating his role in providing a containing experience for his partner and also being aware of his own needs © Solihull Approach 27
  • 28. Understanding your Child’s Behaviour © Solihull Approach 28
  • 29. Understanding your Child’s behaviour Solihull Approach group for parents • 10 week x 2hour • Universal need to complex need – i.e. CAF levels 1-3 years • Group suitable for children aged 0-18 years - 0-4 years - 4-11years - 11-18years © Solihull Approach 29
  • 30. Understanding your Child’s behaviour Solihull Approach group for parents The group aims to:  Develop a framework of thinking about parent/child relationships which can be developed into a lifelong skill  Give parents a strategy for repair when things go wrong © Solihull Approach 30
  • 31. Understanding your Child’s behaviour Solihull Approach group for parents  Promote sensitive and effective parenting  Builds lifelong skill and reflective parenting style © Solihull Approach 31
  • 32. Understanding your Child’s behaviour Solihull Approach group for parents Sessions 1. Introduction 2. How are you and your child feeling? 3. Tuning into your child’s developmental needs 4. Responding to your child’s feelings 5. Different styles of parenting © Solihull Approach 32
  • 33. Understanding your Child’s behaviour Solihull Approach group for parents 6. Parent-child partnership- Having fun together 7. The rhythm of interaction and sleep 8. Self regulation and anger 9. Communication and attunement- how to recover when things go wrong 10. Celebration! © Solihull Approach 33
  • 34. Evaluation Data from 72 completed pre and post measures Measures • The Child Behaviour Checklist (CBCL) • The Strengths and Difficulties Questionnaire (SDQ) • Beck Anxiety Inventory (BAI) (parental self report) © Solihull Approach 34
  • 35. Evaluation Changes in BAI scores 10% stayed same 28% went 62% went up down © Solihull Approach 35
  • 36. Evaluation • Interesting findings that while for most parents anxiety reduced just under a third anxiety increased • Questions for further research or analysis to look at relevance of anxiety levels to parenting • One suggestion is an increase in anxiety can be helpful for parenting. • Parents may become more in tune with their child that leads to the parent being more aware of their child’s needs and therefore more anxious • A degree of anxiety in parenting is protective for the child © Solihull Approach 36
  • 37. Understanding your Child’s behaviour Solihull Approach Group for Parents Containment I feel a lot calmer and more in control A Mother Sessions…… © Solihull Approach 37
  • 38. Understanding your Child’s behaviour Solihull Approach Group for Parents Containment Since doing the course I don’t think I have ever kind of hit the panic Reciprocity button like I used to …. I just didn’t know what was going on. I feel like I’m very much in tune with him now. And I really enjoyed that….. I feel like I’m more sensitive. I know now Fat that she likes to be close and touch. And its brilliant. I can pick up on that Father has now A Father Sessions ….. © Solihull Approach 38
  • 39. Evaluation Attendance at a Solihull Approach Parenting Group is associated with • Changes in behaviour • Significant changes in parental anxiety • Statistically significant link between changes in behaviour and reduction in parental behaviour © Solihull Approach 39
  • 40. Parent Evaluation • 137 parents completed feedback questionnaires on their experience of each of the 10 sessions of the group • We asked them: 1. How relaxed they felt 2. How able they felt to share experiences 3. How much the group enabled them to understand their child and how much the group enabled them to change © Solihull Approach 40
  • 41. Parent Evaluation • The results show that parents found UYCB highly satisfactory as measured by a simple, non-literacy-based evaluation form • 98% of people felt that the group helped them to relax and share experiences. The unexpected results happened with the next two questions © Solihull Approach 41
  • 42. Parent Evaluation • This graph shows that parents understanding of their child increased over the 10 sessions (red line). © Solihull Approach 42
  • 43. Parent Evaluation • This graph shows how much the group enabled them to change (red line). © Solihull Approach 43
  • 44. Parent Evaluation • Jane Barlow, University of Warwick, systematically reviewed parenting programmes for NICE and found that effective parenting programmes tended to consist of 10 sessions of 2 hours each. But why? © Solihull Approach 44
  • 45. Parent Evaluation • Interesting! Understanding comes before change. And both increase over 10 sessions. • This fits with social learning theory, that we learn from others in different ways, so its perhaps not surprising that it takes a bit of time for us to change our parenting. • 10 sessions for most people! © Solihull Approach 45
  • 46. Evaluation of Solihull Approach Parenting Group ‘Lots of things have changed like my son’s sleep routine and the way I ask the children to do something’ ‘My outlook and attitude towards parenting have changed.’ ‘I personally am a lot calmer’ © Solihull Approach 46
  • 47. Evaluation of Solihull Approach Parenting Group ‘It’s made me step back and look at the situation and relate it to the child’s age’ ‘I’ve been able to look at different ways to approach things and look at ways how others feel’ © Solihull Approach 47
  • 48. Evaluation of Solihull Approach Parenting Group ‘I feel I have learnt a great ‘I have learned that anger is deal about understanding OK and that you can repair feelings, my own as well as situations rather than leaving’ my child’s’ © Solihull Approach 48
  • 49. Evaluation of Solihull Approach Parenting Group My child’s tantrums are shorter and less often’ ‘My understanding of my child’s ‘I feel I have learned more about behaviour is better. understanding a child and looking at everything from a child’s perspective’ © Solihull Approach 49
  • 50. Evaluation of Solihull Approach Parenting Group ‘I definitely listen to my child more and spend more time with them in terms of playing and “quality time”’ ‘I have learned how to communicate with my child effectively. I’m more relaxed playing with the kids and I feel calmer and more organised’ © Solihull Approach 50
  • 51. The importance of the relationship to children in the UK • Improving parenting improves the relationship with the child • Relationships are central to the emotional well- being of children and can seriously impact on later adult mental health © Solihull Approach 51
  • 52. References • Bateson,K,. Delaney, J. and Pybus,R. (2008) Meeting expectations: the pilot evaluations of the Solihull Approach Parenting Group. Community Practitioner, 81, 28-31 • Johnson, R. and Wilson, H. (2012) Parents’ Evaluation of ‘Understanding Your Child’s Behaviour’, a parenting group based on the Solihull Approach Community Practitioner 85 (5) 29-33 • Barlow,J. et al. (2009) Birth and beyond: stakeholder perceptions of current antenatal education provision in England. Department of Health • Preparing for Pregnancy, Birth and Beyond Department of Health © Solihull Approach 52
  • 53. Contact details • Mary Rheeston- Solihull Approach Manager • Address: Kingshurst Clinic, Marston Drive, Kingshurst, Birmingham. B37 6BD • Tel: 0121 329 1910 • Email: solihullapproach@heartofengland.nhs.uk • Websites: For Professionals - www.communityservices.nhs.uk/solihullapproach For parents - www.solihullapproach.com © Solihull Approach 53