4 First Texts That Girls Respond Back To
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The document provides tips for sending intriguing first texts to someone you're interested in on a dating app or social media. It recommends creating mystery with subtle compliments that leave something unknown, boldly asking the person out on a date with specific plans, mentioning your status through references to meetings or activities, and making educated guesses about the person based on their photos known as "cold reads" to spark curiosity and a response.
4 First Texts That Girls Respond Back To
- 1. First Text That’s Unique & Will Get a Response Mike W ArtofAlpha.com
- 2. Create Mystery... ● “you know what I like about you?” ● “you remind me of a celebrity, I can’t think of her name though…” ● “there’s three things that I like about you: You have good style, you’re smiling in all of your pics, and the third one I can’t tell you yet”
- 3. Continued... ● Notice how all of those texts create a bit of mystery? It will make her curious and she will HAVE to message you back to find out the answers. ● Think of how you can use a subtle compliment (you remind me of a celebrity) but also make it mysterious..she will wonder what celebrity
- 4. Be Bold... ● This means that you will ask her out with your very first text. ● “Grab your heels, I have a plan” ● “Sushi, bowling, or sky diving? you choose” ● “Here’s the plan: Salsa dancing at 7:15 and then sushi at 9:06 sharp. I’ll have you home by 11:30” Continued...
- 5. Continued... ● Even if she cannot go out that night- these are still good first texts because they frame you as a confident guy with a plan. ● They are also more exciting than the typical, “whats up” texts that she is used to getting.
- 6. The “Normal” text (with status) ● “I thought you were adorable so I’m saying hi before I go into my meeting” ● “you seem interesting, I’ll text you later when I’m done training and we can have the most epic conversation ever” ● Continued...
- 7. Continued... ● Notice how the previous texts were kind of “normal” and simple? But… ● They did show status and a bit of mystery. ● She will wonder, “what type of meeting?” Also, it shows status as well. ● Again in the next text she will wonder, “training for what?” This curiosity will get her to respond back.
- 8. The ‘Cold Read’... ● People like to know what other people think of them ● You are ‘guessing’ things about her or making assumptions (this works really well when she only has a few pics and/or selfies) ● Continued...
- 9. Continued... ● example cold reads for this picture ===> ● “It seems like you’re the leader of your friends and that they would do anything for you” ● “Ok I’m definitely guessing that you’ re the biggest troublemaker in the group..if not then its a close tie with your friend in pink ;)” ● Continued...
- 10. Continued... ● You can go either way… ● Send a challenging text like the 2nd one or give her a subtle compliment like the 1st text, It depends on your style. Both work. ● You could also say something like, “so how long have you been a nurse?” (or guess anything - how long have you been snowboarding? etc) ● If you guess correct and she is a nurse (or whatever you guess) she will be amazed and HAVE to respond back. OR even if you’re wrong she will still wonder why you thought that about her and will STILL respond back.
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