The Popcorn Guide 2 Life Design Workshop
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The document provides tips and reflections on designing the life you want. It discusses how big changes start from within by shifting beliefs and perspectives. It emphasizes choosing to believe in yourself and letting go of worrying about others' opinions. The document also stresses the importance of listening to others to allow yourself to be changed and encourages sharing your authentic self and story openly.
The Popcorn Guide 2 Life Design Workshop
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- 3. Popcorn Machine 38/23 Former PAI 76 Who is Dey Dos? Lisbon XP Design hipster Green-Freak Venezuelan/Portuguese 0
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- 5. to LIFE DESIGN * 0 Dey Dos } 10 THINGS NOBODY TOLD YOU ABOUT DESIGNING THE LIFE YOU WANT
- 6. 1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN 2. Stop asking “who am i?” 3. Choose to believe 4. Don’t give a damn! 5. Company matters, a lot! 6. There is no other moment 7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING 8. Do what you say you’re going to do 9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real 10. Trust that life is wise 0
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- 8. “ we change. Things do not change; 0 ~ Henry David Thoreau
- 9. < / 1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN 2. Stop asking “who am i?” 3. Choose to believe 4. Don’t give a damn! 5. Company matters, a lot! 6. There is no other moment 7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING 8. Do what you say you’re going to do 9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real 10. Trust that life is wise 0
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- 12. } our beliefs, assumptions, values, expectations, and general outlooks. we aren’t particularly conscious of many of these elements in our daily lives. Transparency of Life! 0
- 13. } our beliefs, assumptions, values, expectations, and general outlooks. It is the operation of these processes on unconscious levels that most strongly influences the way we live our lives! 0
- 14. } our beliefs, assumptions, values, expectations, and general outlooks. They become self-reinforcing because when more often one of them “comes true,” the more absolute it becomes in the subconscious, and the less subject it is to be questioned. 0
- 15. Imagine that your brain is a kind of computer that takes every input quite literally. } Whatever the “software” tells it to do, it does, and behavior is subtly affected. 0
- 16. } If we continue to believe as we have always believed, we will continue to act as we have always acted. 0
- 17. } Share a dream you have that you believe your current actions can propel forward... 0
- 18. } How can I finish whatever I’m doing now with a strong sense of accomplishment? 0
- 19. Changing the Programming It is important to note that you don’t need to believe that this is true for it to work. Merely acting as if it is so for a month or two can make the difference. 0 } Pay close attention to subtle changes in what you are getting out of Life will prove it!
- 20. THAT THING THAT I DO THAT STANDS in MY WAY ? 0
- 21. what is the belief I host THAT reinforces this “thingy” that I do ? 0
- 22. Transforming my cognitive process... 0
- 23. THAT THING THAT I DO THAT propels me forward ! Let it pop! Specific, outcome focused, positive, as if true! 0
- 24. what is it that I believe in THAT reinforces this new behavior ? Let it pop! Specific, outcome focused, positive, as if true! 0
- 25. How to use this popcorn? As a daily affirmation, to be repeated several times a day (during sessions, going to the meals, passwords, etc.) for two weeks minimum, in order to reprogram unconscious cognitive processes. 0
- 26. How to use this popcorn? As an aspirin, whenever you find that you are engaging in your inhibiting behaviors, to remind your subconscious mind of the choices that you are making. 0
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- 29. 1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN < / 2. Stop asking “who am i?” 3. Choose to believe 4. Don’t give a damn! 5. Company matters, a lot! 6. There is no other moment 7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING 8. Do what you say you’re going to do 9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real 10. Trust that life is wise 0
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- 31. “ It is easy in the world to live after the world’s opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude. ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson 0
- 32. Who the F*ck am I? or
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- 36. I am in the process of becoming... and and
- 37. “...They have the courage to be imperfect.” Brene Brown Wholehearted People 0
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- 39. “...They were willing to let go of who they think they should be in order to be who they were...” Brene Brown Wholehearted People 0
- 40. } Wisdom is falling in love with Questions Not questions to be answered. Answers point to the past! Questions that serve as guides. 0
- 41. } I am in the process of becoming. I’m not static. 0
- 42. Shifting the paradigm Who you are – the answer to the question – it’s only a linguistic construction. Your True Self transcends language. 0 } Pay close attention to how often you feel the need to express your true self
- 43. What am I defending here ? 0
- 44. Why am I feeling offended ? 0
- 45. Transforming my cognitive process... 0
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- 47. How to use this popcorn? Use these questions every time they are needed, when you know that you are being defensive or you are feeling offended. 0
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- 50. “ When you consciously look for inspiration your senses will lean forward to do the work for you. And by "consciously look for," I mean that we approach being alive as a creative opportunity. And by "being inspired," I mean that we consume what touches us. We drink in the beauty, the thrill, the intelligence, and we let it plump up the cells of our heart and thoughts. We are changed. ~ Danielle de la Porte 0
- 51. 1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN 2. Stop asking “who am i?” < / 3. Choose to believe 4. Don’t give a damn! 5. Company matters, a lot! 6. There is no other moment 7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING 8. Do what you say you’re going to do 9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real 10. Trust that life is wise 0
- 52. choice beliefs 0
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- 56. “I believe that... _____” Me. 0
- 57. “I choose to believe that...______” Me. 0
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- 63. “ To truly listen is to risk being changed forever. ~ Sakej Henderson 0
- 64. 1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN 2. Stop asking “who am i?” 3. Choose to believe 4. Don’t give a damn! 5. Company matters, a lot! < 6. There is no other moment 7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING 8. Do what you say you’re going to do 9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real 10. Trust that life is wise 0
- 65. Let go of your reputation 0
- 66. “what other people think of you, it’s not of your business” Seth Godin 0
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- 68. “courage is to tell the story of who you are with your whole heart” Brene Brown 0
- 69. Shame vs. Guilt 0
- 70. Shame needs of 3 things to grow exponentially: • Silence • Secrecy • Judgment 0
- 71. - A Very Personal Story... 0
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- 74. “ I refuse to lower my standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs. ~ ~ Steve Gamlin 0
- 75. 1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN 2. Stop asking “who am i?” 3. Choose to believe 4. Don’t give a damn! < / 5. Company matters, a lot! 6. There is no other moment 7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING 8. Do what you say you’re going to do 9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real 10. Trust that life is wise 0
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- 77. We spend too much time with those who poison us with pessimism, sloth, and low expectations of themselves and the world. It is often the case that you have to fire certain friends or retire from particular social circles to have the life you want. This is not being mean; it is being practical! Poisonous people do not deserve your time. To think otherwise is masochistic. Timothy Ferris 0
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- 79. Who are the 20% of the people who produce 80% of my enjoyment and propel me forward, and which 20% cause 80% of my depression, anger and preoccupations? 0
- 80. You become the average Of the 5 people you spend more time with... 0
- 81. Even if it’s only in Your mind! 0
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- 83. “ If you are depressed, you are living in the past. If you are anxious, you are living in the future. If you are at peace, you are living in the present. ~ 0 ~ Lao Tzu
- 84. 1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN 2. Stop asking “who am i?” 3. Choose to believe 4. Don’t give a damn! 5. Company matters, a lot! < / 6. There is no other moment 7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING 8. Do what you say you’re going to do 9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real 10. Trust that life is wise 0
- 85. The Power of NOW! 0
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- 89. “ When the forms of an old culture are dying, the new culture is created by a few people who are not afraid to be insecure. ~ Rudolf Bahro 0
- 90. 1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN 2. Stop asking “who am i?” 3. Choose to believe 4. Don’t give a damn! 5. Company matters, a lot! 6. There is no other moment 7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING < 8. Do what you say you’re going to do 9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real 10. Trust that life is wise 0
- 91. Learn to say NO! 0
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- 93. Only learning to let go have I learned to let come... 0
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- 95. I don’t know What to do! 0
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- 97. “ My walk is my talk! I don’t walk the talk anymore... ~ Dey Dos 0
- 98. 1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN 2. Stop asking “who am i?” 3. Choose to believe 4. Don’t give a damn! 5. Company matters, a lot! 6. There is no other moment 7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING < / 8. Do what you say you’re going to do 9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real 10. Trust that life is wise 0
- 99. BEING Consistent & Congruent 0
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- 102. “ Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark in the hopeless swaps of the not quite, the not yet, and the not at all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish in lonely frustration for the life you deserved and have never been able to reach. The world you desire can be won. It exists. It is real. It is possible. It is yours! ~ Ayn Rand 0
- 103. 1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN 2. Stop asking “who am i?” 3. Choose to believe 4. Don’t give a damn! 5. Company matters, a lot! 6. There is no other moment 7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING 8. Do what you say you’re going to do 9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real 10. Trust that life is wise < / 0
- 104. Joy & Happiness are NOT the Same! 0
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- 108. “ All the world is made of faith, and trust, and pixie dust. ~ Peter Pan 0
- 109. 1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN 2. Stop asking “who am i?” 3. Choose to believe 4. Don’t give a damn! 5. Company matters, a lot! 6. There is no other moment 7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING 8. Do what you say you’re going to do 9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real 10. Trust that life is wise 0
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- 111. Life herself is my BEST FRIEND 0
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- 113. Give yourself Completely! 0
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- 117. So, What’s the Life style You want? 0
- 119. @Dey_dos http://facebook.com/Page.DeyDos http://www.indiegogo.com/PopcornGuide2LifeDesign www.DeyDos.com 0
- 120. Let it pop & Love tons 0