The Unending End Result, Part II
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The woman introduces the idea of trying Orgasmic Meditation with her husband after reading about Nicole Daedone's work. She explains to her husband that Orgasmic Meditation involves 15 minutes of stroking without the pressure to orgasm. They try it, with the husband stroking the woman's clitoris for 15 minutes while she describes the intense sensations she feels. The woman says she may have orgasmed but isn't sure, as the focus was only on pleasure without an end result, which was a meaningful new experience for her.
The Unending End Result, Part II
- 1. The Unending End Result, Part II
- 2. •When my husband’s key turned in the lock, I just about jumped out of my skin. All my doubts came to the surface. Is there something wrong with me? What if I’m too nervous? What if my husband has no interest in Orgasmic Meditation, or Slow Sex, or Nicole Daedone’s groundbreaking work? Does he think he doesn’t turn me on (not true!)? What if he’s too tired? What if I’m too tired? “I want to try something new,” I said. “OK,” he replied. “It’s ... you know how...I thought...I was reading this article today.” “Mmmm.” “It’s...have you heard of Nicole Daedone?” “No.” “She’s...I want to try Orgasmic Meditation with you.”
- 3. •That got his attention. I explained Nicole Daedone’s fundamentals. “The thing that really gets me excited,” I explained, “is the idea that there is no end result, just the concentration on the pleasure and sensation for the entire 15 minutes of stroking. Taking away the pressure of needing to orgasm -- it’s like Nicole Daedone wrote that for me. That pressure alone is enough to stop me from really enjoying anything.” Five minutes later, I had my pants off and was lying on the bed with him sitting next to me, his finger on my clitoris. Resisting the urge to speed up, he admitted, took self-control, but the grin on his face said it all. He loved it.
- 4. •I described what I was feeling as the time went by. A few awkward giggles at the beginning quickly subsided and became surprised laughter. This was fun! A pleasant buzzing sensation. Sensitivity to the slightest touch, or vibration. I closed my eyes and actually felt my head spinning. All of these sensations that came with Nicole Daedone’s Orgasmic Meditation were so intense, and much more meaningful than the ability to orgasm.
- 5. •Did I orgasm, ultimately? I’ve got no idea. I couldn’t care less. In the 15 (OK, 20) minutes alone with my husband stroking me, my heart raced, there was quivering, shortness of breath, moaning, rosy cheeks, and glassy eyes. Perhaps I did after all.