INSAFE CONFERENCE
PROMOTING INTERNET SAFETY GLOBALLY: CONNECTING GENERATIONS




                Plenary session 15th May, 2012


        SEXUALITY: JUST TWO SIDES TO THE COIN?

      SUPPOSITIONS, HOPES AND REALITIES – lessons
      learned from working with children abused online


                  Tink Palmer
           CEO, Marie Collins Foundation
                     Cyprus, May 2012




                 Marie Collins Foundation
Survey of Barnardo’s services November 2002/3
   Just one click! Report published in 2004

 •   Children who view adult pornography - 5
 •   Children abused through prostitution using the Internet and mobile phones to
     contact their abusers - 4
 •   Adults or young people who engage in ‘cyber sex’ with children - 0
 •   Children of adults who download or distribute sexually abusive images of
     children - 1
 •   Children groomed online for sexual abuse offline - 15
 •   Children sold online for sexual abuse offline - 7
 •   Young people who place images of other young people online - 0
 •   Children who download sexually abusive images of children - 22
 •   Children sold online for live sexual abuse online - 1
 •   Children made the subject of child abuse images - 28



                            Marie Collins Foundation
Children who view adult pornography - 5


•   Availability, quantity and nature of the subject matter
•   What might be the long term impact on their understanding of intimacy
    and sex in the context of personal relationships?
•   Chose to search for adult pornography or encouraged to do so by
    another?

•   Impacts on girls
•   Age at which they start viewing/time spent
•   I this a growing problem? - Portman clinic – referrals for problematic
    internet usage – 0% 1997 to 26% in 2010 – adult pornography
    addiction being the major reason for referral
•   Key issue is their current developmental stage and the impact such
    imagery has on the way they think, feel and behave
•   Case study


                        Marie Collins Foundation
Adults or young people who engage in
          cybersex with children - 0

•   No cases referred under this category but during treatment
    programmes it became apparent that cybersex has occurred
•   Predicted that young people would be most unlikely to report such
    abuse


•   No case reported as the presenting problem
•   Such behaviour on the part of the perpetrator tends to be part of the
    grooming repertoire
•   No child has volunteered this information during treatment – counsellor
    is required to introduce this as a possibility




                        Marie Collins Foundation
Children abused through prostitution using the internet and
     mobile phones to contact their abusers and children sold
             online for sexual abuse offline - 4 + 1 = 5


•    New technology changed the manner in which contact is made – more
     hidden, less risks
•    Young people “appear” to be pro-active in developing the relationship
•    They do not (“can not”) perceive themselves as victims
•    The perpetrator(s) ensures dependency through isolating, drugs, drink,
     cigarettes

•    Large increase in online activity since mobile phones internet
     connectivity
•    Generally perpetrators are working in groups – mobile technolgies used
     for frequent and quick communication amongst perpetrators and
     between perpetrators and children
•    What happens to the evidence?
•    Case example


                        Marie Collins Foundation
Children of adults who download or distribute
            abusive images of children - 1


•   Operation Ore – a need to understand better the relationship between viewing
    and commissioning further sexual offences against children
•   What risk does the adult pose to the children in the home?
•   Impacts on family dynamics
•   No research
•   Practice guidance needed

•   Rise in prosecutions
•   Better recognition of that the need to understand the relationship
    between viewing and doing is driven, not only by law enforcement but
    also by child protection agencies
•   Still a paucity of research – but we have some useful advances –
    Michael Seto et al
•   Little guidance on determining risk
•   Decisions are disparate regarding outcomes

                           Marie Collins Foundation
Children who download sexually abusive
             images of children - 22

•   Number of children seen as a cause for concern
•   Self initiated or introduced by another?
•   Current practice does not give time for an accurate assessment and for
    decision making regarding disposal of the matter

•   The research that we have to date reinforces the initial impression –
    namely that a significant number of young people are viewing abusive
    images of children – 30%+ -
•   Recognition for a timelydual assessment process
•   Assessment and intervention models developed
•   No universal application across the UK




                       Marie Collins Foundation
Young people who place images of other
           young people online = 0

•   Motivation – innocently sending an image to a friend,, intending to
    embarrass and humiliate someone, a bullying tool
•   Little reported regarding this behaviour

•   Sexting - the act of sending sexually explicit messages or photos
    electronically, primarily between cell phones (mobile phones)”
•   40% saw nothing wrong with a topless image and 15% saw nothing
    wrong with naked images - 27% of respondents said that sexting
    happens regularly or all of the time

•   ACPO lead on Child Protection and Abuse Investigations – position
    statement




                        Marie Collins Foundation
Children groomed online for sexual abuse
                offline/online - 15

•   Grooming scenario - Find out as much as they can about their potential
    victim, establish the risk and likelihood of child telling find out about
    child’s family and social network if “safe enough” will isolate their victim
    – may use flattery and promises or threats and blackmail – and get
    control
•   Give false information, including false self images
•   A muted understanding of the lack of inhibition
•   Reframe the grooming scenario
•   Victims are not going to report –of all the case I have worked with non
    self reported
•   Minimal information given when interviewed by the police
•   Formed online relationships 12/13 – age when abuse was discovered
    14/15 – nb . Vulnerable groups/vulnerable stages in development
•   Very few presented with a history of troubled backgrounds
•   Recovery is a long haul!
                         Marie Collins Foundation
What’s different online?
                                Yas – aged 14



•   “The internet is a weird version of the real world where you can do
    everything
•   Groomers don’t have to worry about seeming suspicious
•   Children can act like adults
•   I used people online to make me feel good
•   Girls use groomers to make them feel mature – groomers use girls for
    sex – it’s mutual using of one another
•   Girls get involved with men because nothing much seems to be
    happening when you’re 12-14 but you want to be older
•   The most talkative (girls) online are the quietest offline
•   The most normal (man) online is a real weirdo offline
•   We rarely talk about our behaviour online – kind of embarrassing”

                         Marie Collins Foundation
Quotes from children




•   “I would never have told anyone if the police hadn’t come
    knocking at our door. It turned out that they had arrested the
    bloke I was friends with online and had traced me through
    examining his computer. First off, I said they’d got the wrong
    person….I was terrified my mum and dad would know what I had
    been talking about….you don’t even talk to your friends about
    what you say online….somehow it seems a different world….one
    in which I can act like I’m 22 when I’m actually only 14”




                     Marie Collins Foundation
Children made the subjects of child abuse
                  images - 27

•   History – availability, old images, introduction of the digital camera
•   COPINE – monitored the online behaviour of sexual abusers within
    newsgroups
•   Numbers
•   Perpetrators’ strategies to silence children
•   My hope – very young children, criminal justice system response
•   Silence/denial
•   Recovery issues – impotence, shame, responsibility, non resolution of
    the abuse
•   Still little evidence base research regarding victims
•   Insufficient resources to open pandora’s box


                         Marie Collins Foundation
continued


• Data from NCMEC
•   Relationship of indentified victims to their abuser
•   1998-2010
•   3358 identified victims
•   66% known to the child
•   14% coerced through online grooming
•   14% self produced
•   3% human trafficker
•   3% unknown to the child – un-established relationships
•   The making of child abuse images is, in the main, an offline crime
    commtted by people known to the victims

•   The UK Sentencing Commission – victim statements


                        Marie Collins Foundation
Some thoughts



•   Lack of critical understanding of the harms posed by the new
    technologies
•   Lack of training, expertise and capacity to investigate such crimes
    against children, to protect them from harm and assist in their recovery.
•   Online and offline abuse of children are merged activities
•   Intervention is a form of prevention (secondary and tertiary)
•   Children are resilient – with the right help they can recover and lead
    safe lives
•   We need to consider vulnerability within the context of child
    development
•   We are not reaching the 11 to 14 year olds with the right messages
•   The children’s workforce – social workers, health, education, police –
    are not asking the pertinent questions – they need to because the
    children will not voluntarily tell


                        Marie Collins Foundation
Barriers to effective
    listening and to asking
    the relevant questions
                                         The Adult
                                    Own pain, experiences,
                    Personal         memories, sexuality.
                                 View of child/alleged abuser .
                                   Values, attitudes, beliefs

               Feelings         Pity, Horror, Shame, Distress,
                               Embarrassment, Anger, Disgust,
                                          Uncertainty

        Doubts                 Will I cope? Will I make it worse?
                                      Is it true? What next?

Professional          Practicalities ( time, other responsibilities etc.),
                   Knowledge, Skills, Confidence, Legislation, Language,
                        Support available, Possible repercussions.
tinkpalmer@mariecollinsfoundation.org.uk
          Mobile; 07825 501180

              Tink Palmer
                  CEO
        Marie Collins Foundation




          Marie Collins Foundation

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Tink palmer

  • 1. INSAFE CONFERENCE PROMOTING INTERNET SAFETY GLOBALLY: CONNECTING GENERATIONS Plenary session 15th May, 2012 SEXUALITY: JUST TWO SIDES TO THE COIN? SUPPOSITIONS, HOPES AND REALITIES – lessons learned from working with children abused online Tink Palmer CEO, Marie Collins Foundation Cyprus, May 2012 Marie Collins Foundation
  • 2. Survey of Barnardo’s services November 2002/3 Just one click! Report published in 2004 • Children who view adult pornography - 5 • Children abused through prostitution using the Internet and mobile phones to contact their abusers - 4 • Adults or young people who engage in ‘cyber sex’ with children - 0 • Children of adults who download or distribute sexually abusive images of children - 1 • Children groomed online for sexual abuse offline - 15 • Children sold online for sexual abuse offline - 7 • Young people who place images of other young people online - 0 • Children who download sexually abusive images of children - 22 • Children sold online for live sexual abuse online - 1 • Children made the subject of child abuse images - 28 Marie Collins Foundation
  • 3. Children who view adult pornography - 5 • Availability, quantity and nature of the subject matter • What might be the long term impact on their understanding of intimacy and sex in the context of personal relationships? • Chose to search for adult pornography or encouraged to do so by another? • Impacts on girls • Age at which they start viewing/time spent • I this a growing problem? - Portman clinic – referrals for problematic internet usage – 0% 1997 to 26% in 2010 – adult pornography addiction being the major reason for referral • Key issue is their current developmental stage and the impact such imagery has on the way they think, feel and behave • Case study Marie Collins Foundation
  • 4. Adults or young people who engage in cybersex with children - 0 • No cases referred under this category but during treatment programmes it became apparent that cybersex has occurred • Predicted that young people would be most unlikely to report such abuse • No case reported as the presenting problem • Such behaviour on the part of the perpetrator tends to be part of the grooming repertoire • No child has volunteered this information during treatment – counsellor is required to introduce this as a possibility Marie Collins Foundation
  • 5. Children abused through prostitution using the internet and mobile phones to contact their abusers and children sold online for sexual abuse offline - 4 + 1 = 5 • New technology changed the manner in which contact is made – more hidden, less risks • Young people “appear” to be pro-active in developing the relationship • They do not (“can not”) perceive themselves as victims • The perpetrator(s) ensures dependency through isolating, drugs, drink, cigarettes • Large increase in online activity since mobile phones internet connectivity • Generally perpetrators are working in groups – mobile technolgies used for frequent and quick communication amongst perpetrators and between perpetrators and children • What happens to the evidence? • Case example Marie Collins Foundation
  • 6. Children of adults who download or distribute abusive images of children - 1 • Operation Ore – a need to understand better the relationship between viewing and commissioning further sexual offences against children • What risk does the adult pose to the children in the home? • Impacts on family dynamics • No research • Practice guidance needed • Rise in prosecutions • Better recognition of that the need to understand the relationship between viewing and doing is driven, not only by law enforcement but also by child protection agencies • Still a paucity of research – but we have some useful advances – Michael Seto et al • Little guidance on determining risk • Decisions are disparate regarding outcomes Marie Collins Foundation
  • 7. Children who download sexually abusive images of children - 22 • Number of children seen as a cause for concern • Self initiated or introduced by another? • Current practice does not give time for an accurate assessment and for decision making regarding disposal of the matter • The research that we have to date reinforces the initial impression – namely that a significant number of young people are viewing abusive images of children – 30%+ - • Recognition for a timelydual assessment process • Assessment and intervention models developed • No universal application across the UK Marie Collins Foundation
  • 8. Young people who place images of other young people online = 0 • Motivation – innocently sending an image to a friend,, intending to embarrass and humiliate someone, a bullying tool • Little reported regarding this behaviour • Sexting - the act of sending sexually explicit messages or photos electronically, primarily between cell phones (mobile phones)” • 40% saw nothing wrong with a topless image and 15% saw nothing wrong with naked images - 27% of respondents said that sexting happens regularly or all of the time • ACPO lead on Child Protection and Abuse Investigations – position statement Marie Collins Foundation
  • 9. Children groomed online for sexual abuse offline/online - 15 • Grooming scenario - Find out as much as they can about their potential victim, establish the risk and likelihood of child telling find out about child’s family and social network if “safe enough” will isolate their victim – may use flattery and promises or threats and blackmail – and get control • Give false information, including false self images • A muted understanding of the lack of inhibition • Reframe the grooming scenario • Victims are not going to report –of all the case I have worked with non self reported • Minimal information given when interviewed by the police • Formed online relationships 12/13 – age when abuse was discovered 14/15 – nb . Vulnerable groups/vulnerable stages in development • Very few presented with a history of troubled backgrounds • Recovery is a long haul! Marie Collins Foundation
  • 10. What’s different online? Yas – aged 14 • “The internet is a weird version of the real world where you can do everything • Groomers don’t have to worry about seeming suspicious • Children can act like adults • I used people online to make me feel good • Girls use groomers to make them feel mature – groomers use girls for sex – it’s mutual using of one another • Girls get involved with men because nothing much seems to be happening when you’re 12-14 but you want to be older • The most talkative (girls) online are the quietest offline • The most normal (man) online is a real weirdo offline • We rarely talk about our behaviour online – kind of embarrassing” Marie Collins Foundation
  • 11. Quotes from children • “I would never have told anyone if the police hadn’t come knocking at our door. It turned out that they had arrested the bloke I was friends with online and had traced me through examining his computer. First off, I said they’d got the wrong person….I was terrified my mum and dad would know what I had been talking about….you don’t even talk to your friends about what you say online….somehow it seems a different world….one in which I can act like I’m 22 when I’m actually only 14” Marie Collins Foundation
  • 12. Children made the subjects of child abuse images - 27 • History – availability, old images, introduction of the digital camera • COPINE – monitored the online behaviour of sexual abusers within newsgroups • Numbers • Perpetrators’ strategies to silence children • My hope – very young children, criminal justice system response • Silence/denial • Recovery issues – impotence, shame, responsibility, non resolution of the abuse • Still little evidence base research regarding victims • Insufficient resources to open pandora’s box Marie Collins Foundation
  • 13. continued • Data from NCMEC • Relationship of indentified victims to their abuser • 1998-2010 • 3358 identified victims • 66% known to the child • 14% coerced through online grooming • 14% self produced • 3% human trafficker • 3% unknown to the child – un-established relationships • The making of child abuse images is, in the main, an offline crime commtted by people known to the victims • The UK Sentencing Commission – victim statements Marie Collins Foundation
  • 14. Some thoughts • Lack of critical understanding of the harms posed by the new technologies • Lack of training, expertise and capacity to investigate such crimes against children, to protect them from harm and assist in their recovery. • Online and offline abuse of children are merged activities • Intervention is a form of prevention (secondary and tertiary) • Children are resilient – with the right help they can recover and lead safe lives • We need to consider vulnerability within the context of child development • We are not reaching the 11 to 14 year olds with the right messages • The children’s workforce – social workers, health, education, police – are not asking the pertinent questions – they need to because the children will not voluntarily tell Marie Collins Foundation
  • 15. Barriers to effective listening and to asking the relevant questions The Adult Own pain, experiences, Personal memories, sexuality. View of child/alleged abuser . Values, attitudes, beliefs Feelings Pity, Horror, Shame, Distress, Embarrassment, Anger, Disgust, Uncertainty Doubts Will I cope? Will I make it worse? Is it true? What next? Professional Practicalities ( time, other responsibilities etc.), Knowledge, Skills, Confidence, Legislation, Language, Support available, Possible repercussions.
  • 16. tinkpalmer@mariecollinsfoundation.org.uk Mobile; 07825 501180 Tink Palmer CEO Marie Collins Foundation Marie Collins Foundation