The Trailing Spouse: 
       Who are We?
                 Let’s Blog it Out!


The Everyda  y Expat Support Center with Jessica
L. Scott-Reid
What’s with the term
           “Trailing Spouse”?
“a person who follows his or her life partner to another city because of a 
work assignment. . . often associated with people involved in an expatriate 
assignment but is also used by academia on domestic assignments”­ 
Wikipedia 

“Trailing” is not a bad word; it’s true!  

Term is used in both academic and popular realms.

Is gender neutral.  
Challenges unique to the
          trailing spouse
Beyond the usual psychological and sociocultural issues faced by expats 
due to acculturation, recent research has shown that trailing spouses 
suffer unique challenges due to additional changes in lifestyle:

  Loss of employment.

  Loss of community. 

        Loss of purpose.

        Loss of identity.  

        For more information see: “Adaptation of Trailing Spouses: Does Gender Matter?” by
        Anne. M Braseby, 2010.


        Matter?

        Anne M. Braseby 
How can writing help?
                                              The Basics




Writing can be done by anyone, anywhere, with basic writing skills, minimal tools, and for minimal cost. 

Writing “holds thoughts still”, allowing reason to play alongside emotion, bringing structure and 
organization to chaos.  

                           Writing the Mind Alive, the Proprioceptive Method for Finding your Authentic Voice, by L. T. Metcalf
                           and T. Simon


Writing can provide proven physical health benefits, such as reduced blood pressure and muscle tension.

“Investigators have now found that writing about traumatic experiences produces improvements in 
immune functions, drops in physician visits for illness, and better performance at school and work”.

                           Emotion, Disclosure, and Health, by J. W. Pennebaker
Blogging Defined

Online web logs.

Normally counter chronological. 

Exist within public online environments.

Can include pictures and other multimedia, but are mainly made up of 
text.  

Normally personal in nature, expressive, informative, and entertaining.

Can be autobiographical or relating to a certain subject; or both, or 
neither.
Blogging for Community
Blogging inserts us into a community of others who share a in similar interest or 
circumstance. 

Blogging within communities helps fight isolation, keeping us connected to the 
world regardless of our location. 

                    For more information see: Psychotherapy 2.0s MySpace® Blogging as Self­
                    therapy, by L. Tan


Allows us to receive feedback from others, which can offer validation, 
encouragement, new perspectives, & deeper understanding of ourselves and our 
thoughts in relation to others.

                    Being able to read and respond to others’ blogs allows us to “define [our] 
                    positions in the context of others’ writing as well as outline [our] own 
                    perspectives on particular issues ”.

                    Bookmarking the world: Weblog applications in education; weblogs can be used in classrooms to 
                    enhance literacy and critical thinking skills, by J. A. Oravec, 2002
Blogging for the
                      (Re)Creation of Self
                      (Re)Creation of Self
Research has shown that due to public audience, bloggers tend to be more invested in their writing than with 
usual journal or diary writing. 

                       For more see: Blogging in the classroom: A preliminary exploration of student attitudes and impact on 
                       comprehension, by N. B. Ellison & Y. Wu, 2008.


In other words, this deeper awareness of public image can lead to more rereading, editing, rewriting than 
with typical journal or diary writing.      

Rereading, reinterpreting, and rewriting encourages deeper reflection, which allows us to see ourselves and 
our circumstances, events and other people, in new lights and with new understanding. 

                       For more see: Reflective Practice, Writing and Professional Development, by G. Bolton.

This new understanding helps us to (re)construct a sense of who we are within our new environment and 
lifestyle.     

Blogging also allows us to become an authority on something, to construct ourselves as  a particular 
someone.   

Provides a record of ourselves over time, which can be reflected upon further in the future. 

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Trailing spouse webinar presentation

  • 1. The Trailing Spouse:  Who are We? Let’s Blog it Out! The Everyda y Expat Support Center with Jessica L. Scott-Reid
  • 2. What’s with the term “Trailing Spouse”? “a person who follows his or her life partner to another city because of a  work assignment. . . often associated with people involved in an expatriate  assignment but is also used by academia on domestic assignments”­  Wikipedia  “Trailing” is not a bad word; it’s true!   Term is used in both academic and popular realms. Is gender neutral.  
  • 3. Challenges unique to the trailing spouse Beyond the usual psychological and sociocultural issues faced by expats  due to acculturation, recent research has shown that trailing spouses  suffer unique challenges due to additional changes in lifestyle: Loss of employment. Loss of community.  Loss of purpose. Loss of identity.   For more information see: “Adaptation of Trailing Spouses: Does Gender Matter?” by Anne. M Braseby, 2010. Matter? Anne M. Braseby 
  • 4. How can writing help? The Basics Writing can be done by anyone, anywhere, with basic writing skills, minimal tools, and for minimal cost.  Writing “holds thoughts still”, allowing reason to play alongside emotion, bringing structure and  organization to chaos.   Writing the Mind Alive, the Proprioceptive Method for Finding your Authentic Voice, by L. T. Metcalf and T. Simon Writing can provide proven physical health benefits, such as reduced blood pressure and muscle tension. “Investigators have now found that writing about traumatic experiences produces improvements in  immune functions, drops in physician visits for illness, and better performance at school and work”. Emotion, Disclosure, and Health, by J. W. Pennebaker
  • 6. Blogging for Community Blogging inserts us into a community of others who share a in similar interest or  circumstance.  Blogging within communities helps fight isolation, keeping us connected to the  world regardless of our location.  For more information see: Psychotherapy 2.0s MySpace® Blogging as Self­ therapy, by L. Tan Allows us to receive feedback from others, which can offer validation,  encouragement, new perspectives, & deeper understanding of ourselves and our  thoughts in relation to others. Being able to read and respond to others’ blogs allows us to “define [our]  positions in the context of others’ writing as well as outline [our] own  perspectives on particular issues ”. Bookmarking the world: Weblog applications in education; weblogs can be used in classrooms to  enhance literacy and critical thinking skills, by J. A. Oravec, 2002
  • 7. Blogging for the (Re)Creation of Self (Re)Creation of Self Research has shown that due to public audience, bloggers tend to be more invested in their writing than with  usual journal or diary writing.  For more see: Blogging in the classroom: A preliminary exploration of student attitudes and impact on  comprehension, by N. B. Ellison & Y. Wu, 2008. In other words, this deeper awareness of public image can lead to more rereading, editing, rewriting than  with typical journal or diary writing.       Rereading, reinterpreting, and rewriting encourages deeper reflection, which allows us to see ourselves and  our circumstances, events and other people, in new lights and with new understanding.  For more see: Reflective Practice, Writing and Professional Development, by G. Bolton. This new understanding helps us to (re)construct a sense of who we are within our new environment and  lifestyle.      Blogging also allows us to become an authority on something, to construct ourselves as  a particular  someone.    Provides a record of ourselves over time, which can be reflected upon further in the future.