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Understanding RAD
Secure   Detached   Disorganized
                    Disorganized
I may be...
Detached
                 Attention Needy

           A Perfectionist

                 Withdrawn


              ...Or Aggressive
Attention Needy
Beliefs                  Behaviors

“I need to make myself   Will disrupt, embarrass, or
noticed.”                misbehave for attention

“Any attention is good   Clinging and hovering
attention.”
Attention Needy

 What Can I Do?

 Avoid negative reinforcement.

 Reward positive and patient behaviors.

 Provide clear structure and boundaries.
Perfectionist
 Attention Needy
Beliefs                       Behaviors

“Correctness = Self Worth” Highly self-critical

“I am responsible for those   Avoids “unsafe” tasks
around me.”
                              Frustration & anger over
“Relaxing is bad.”            mistakes
Perfectionist
 Attention Needy

 What Can I Do?

 Regroup & Redo

 Demonstrate belief in the person – not achievements

 Encourage relaxation
Withdrawn
Beliefs                   Behaviors

“I can’t trust anyone.”   Avoids attention & eye
                          contact
“Hiding makes me safe.”
                          Self-defeating

                          Selectively clingy
Withdrawn

What Can I Do?

Praise effort on tasks as well as completion

Facilitate success

Give landmarks for achievement and socialization
Aggressive
Beliefs                   Behaviors

“I can’t trust anyone.”   Challenges adults and peers

“Power = Control.”        Externally remorseless

“Control = Self Worth.”   Highly defensive
Aggressive
 What Can I Do?

 Avoid reciprocating anger

 Calmly reinforce positive behaviors

 Address problems privately

 Allow leadership in strong areas
We must always strive to...


 build up self-worth

create paths to success

     provide structure and boundaries


     ...create an environment that is
  safe and secure for the child.

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Understanding RAD

  • 2. Secure Detached Disorganized Disorganized
  • 3. I may be... Detached Attention Needy A Perfectionist Withdrawn ...Or Aggressive
  • 4. Attention Needy Beliefs Behaviors “I need to make myself Will disrupt, embarrass, or noticed.” misbehave for attention “Any attention is good Clinging and hovering attention.”
  • 5. Attention Needy What Can I Do? Avoid negative reinforcement. Reward positive and patient behaviors. Provide clear structure and boundaries.
  • 6. Perfectionist Attention Needy Beliefs Behaviors “Correctness = Self Worth” Highly self-critical “I am responsible for those Avoids “unsafe” tasks around me.” Frustration & anger over “Relaxing is bad.” mistakes
  • 7. Perfectionist Attention Needy What Can I Do? Regroup & Redo Demonstrate belief in the person – not achievements Encourage relaxation
  • 8. Withdrawn Beliefs Behaviors “I can’t trust anyone.” Avoids attention & eye contact “Hiding makes me safe.” Self-defeating Selectively clingy
  • 9. Withdrawn What Can I Do? Praise effort on tasks as well as completion Facilitate success Give landmarks for achievement and socialization
  • 10. Aggressive Beliefs Behaviors “I can’t trust anyone.” Challenges adults and peers “Power = Control.” Externally remorseless “Control = Self Worth.” Highly defensive
  • 11. Aggressive What Can I Do? Avoid reciprocating anger Calmly reinforce positive behaviors Address problems privately Allow leadership in strong areas
  • 12. We must always strive to... build up self-worth create paths to success provide structure and boundaries ...create an environment that is safe and secure for the child.

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