Who Will Cry When You Die Part 3
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The document provides various tips for living a fulfilling life such as practicing forgiveness, volunteering to help others, listening to music daily, becoming a better parent, and carrying a goal card. It also recommends becoming humble, stopping worrying about things you cannot change, and living fully so you can die happy. The overall message is to make the most of each day and leave a positive legacy.
Who Will Cry When You Die Part 3
- 1. Remember the Rule of 21John Dryden observed: “We first make our habits and then our habits make us”
- 2. Virginia Wooolf : “The skeleton of habit alone upholds the human frame “Practice ForgivenessWhen you bear a grudge against someone, it is almost as if you carry that person around on your back with you. He drains you of your energy, enthusiasm and peace of mind.Create a Pure EnvironmentOne of the timeless truths of successful living can be stated simply: Your thoughts form your world. What you focus on in your life grows, What you think about expands and what you dwell on determines your destiny. Life is a self-fulfilling prophecy – it gives you just about what you expect from it.Become a VolunteerPersian proverb: I wept because I had no shoes until I saw a man who had no feet.
- 3. Seeing what others don’t have keeps me awake to all the good things I do have. It prevents me from taking things for granted and, even more importantly, helps me make a difference in the lives of people who really need me.
- 4. Volunteering affords you the chance to help others and pay back the debt owed to those who have helped you.Find Your Six Degrees of SeparationHero List, that is, a list of one hundred men and women I would most like to meet before I die.Listen to Music DailySee this movie “Jerry Maguire (Hero is Tom Cruise)”Write a Legacy Statement“Spring has past, summer has gone and winter is here. And the song that I meant to sing remains unsung. I have spent my days stringing and unstringing my instrument.” These words were written by a man whose heart was filled with regret over a life half lived.
- 5. Reflect on what it is you want to create in your life and, more importantly, what gift you wish to leave the world when you are no longer here. Greatness come from beginning something that does not end with you. There is a difference between personal mission statement and a legacy note. While the former defines your vision of what you want to create while you live, the latter expresses what you aim to leave when you die.Learn to MeditateThe French Mathematician Blaise Pascal wrote. “All man’s miseries derive from not being able to sit quietly in a room alone”. Having a Living FuneralA maharaja used to chant in this way” I have lived fully, I have lived fully.” What this Maharaja is doing is connecting to his mortality every day of his life so he will live each day as if it is were his last.
- 6. While on his deathbed, Plato was asked by a friend to summarize his great life’s work, “The Dialogues” After much reflection, he replied in only two words: “Practice dying.”Stop Complaining and Start LivingIncrease Your ValueIn the new economy you now find yourself in, you will be compensated not by how hard you work but by how much value you add to the world around you. Think about it. If you are currently being paid twenty dollars an hour, this money is being given to you not simply because you showed up at your desk for those sixty minutes but because you have added twenty dollars’ worth of perceived value during those sixty minutes. So, the monetary reward you receive is determined not by how long you work but by how much value you add.
- 7. So to be paid more money in your work, you must add more value to the world. And the best way to begin adding value to the world is to start becoming a more valuable person. Acquire skills no one else has. Read books no one else is reading. Think thoughts no one else is thinking. Or, to put it another way, you cannot have all that you want if you remain the person you are. To get more from life, you need to be more in life.Be a Better ParentWe must take the initiative to improve our parenting abilities by attending seminars, reading books and listening to audiocassettes by the leading thinkers in this field.Be UnorthodoxRousseau wrote, “Take the course opposite to custom, you will almost always do well.”
- 8. Apple computers ad “Think Different.”
- 9. If you follow the crowd, the place you will most likely end up at is the exit.
- 10. To live a richer, more rewarding life, it is essential that you run your own race. Stop bending to the demands of social pressure at the expense of your uniqueness. When you study the lives of the world’s most enlightened and effective people, you will see that they did not care about what other people thought of them. Rather than letting public opinion dictate their actions, they had the courage to let their hearts drive them. And in taking the road less travelled, they found success beyond their wildest dreams.
- 11. Christopher Morley : “Read every day something no one else is reading. Think every day something no one else is thinking, It is bad for the mind to be always part of unanimity.
- 12. Emerson : “ It is easy in the world to live after the world’s opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude.”
- 13. Read autobiographies of “Einstein, Picasso, Galileo , Beethoven”Carry a Goal CardMontaigne said: “The great and glorious masterpiece of men is to live to the point.”Savor the Simple StuffNo one gets to take his possessions with him when he dies. I have yet to see a moving van following a hearse to a funeral. At the end of the day, the only thing we can take with us are our memories of all those great life experiences that add meaning to our lives.
- 14. Best memories come from life’s simplest things.
- 15. Dale Carnegie : “One of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our windows today.
- 16. Emma Goldman : “I’d rather have roses on my table than diamonds on my neck.”Stop CondemningWe focus on the most minute details and find fault with the smallest of issues. But what we focus on grows. And if we keep focusing on a small weakness in someone, it will continue to grow in our minds until we perceive it to be a big problem in that person.
- 17. To live a happier, more peaceful life, begin to see that the richness of our society comes from its diversity. What makes relationships, communities and countries great are not the things that we have in common but the differences that make us unique. Rather than looking for things to criticize in those around you, why not begin to respect the differences?See your day as your LifeCreate a Master Mind AllianceRead Think and Grow Rich by self-help pioneer Napolean HillCreate a Daily Code of ConductOver the next twenty – four hours I vow to appreciate this day, as it is all I really have, and to use every minute wisely and fully. So much can be done over the next twenty- four hours to advance my life’s agenda and complete my legacy. I will, throughout this day, remember that this day could be my last and that no great person ever died with their music still within them.Imagine a Richer RealityWe see the world, not as it is but as we are.
- 18. Life’s greatest setbacks always reveal life’s biggest blessings.Become the CEO of Your LifeWe need to keep our ears and eyes open to the realities of life. If we don’t act on life and take action to make things happen, it will act on us and give us results we might not want.
- 19. Who cares what others think when you know that what you are doing is the right thing to do.
- 20. Seeing yourself as the CEO of your life can create a fundamental shift in the way you perceive your world. Instead of sailing through life as a passenger, you become the captain of the ship, leading things in the direction you choose to move in rather than reacting to the whim of the changing tides.Be HumbleThe tree that has the most fruit is the tree that bends to the ground.
- 21. The people who know the most, who have achieved the most and who have lived the most are also the people closest to the ground. In a word, they are humble.
- 22. Muhammad Ali (Boxer) : The more you are as a person , the less you need to prove yourself to others.Don’t Finish Every Book You StartFrancis Bacon : “Some books are to be tasted, others to be swallowed, and some few to be chewed and digested: that is, some books are to be read only in parts, others to be read, but not curiously and some few books to be read wholly, and with diligence and attention.”Don’t Be So Hard on YourselfMark Twain: “ We should be careful to get out of an experience only the wisdom that is in it – and stop there; lest we be like the cat that sits down on a hot stove lid. It will never sit down on a hot stove lid again – and that is well; but also it will never sit down on a cold one anymore”.Sleep LessIt is not quantity of sleep that is most important. What really counts is the quality and richness of your sleep.
- 24. The heights by great men reached and kept
- 25. Were not attained by sudden flight
- 26. But they, while their companions slept,
- 27. Were toiling upward in the night.
- 28. Take a Public Speaking Course
- 29. Listen to Brian Tracy, the renowned motivational speaker, Professor John Kotter the respected B usiness Guru.Stop Thinking Tiny ThoughtsNurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will never go any higher than you think.” His words are profound. And his point of wisdom is clear: it is not what you are that is holding you back in life. It’s what you think you’ re not. It is what is going on in your inner world that is preventing you from having all that you want. And the moment you fully understand this insight and set about ridding your mind of all its limiting thoughts, you will see almost immediate improvements in your personal circumstances.
- 30. Seneca : “It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare; it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.”Don’t Worry About Things You Can’t Change“God, give us the grace to accept with serenity the things that cannot be changed, courage to change the things which should be changed, and the wisdom to distinguish one from the other.”Learn How to WalkBooks : Getting the Most Out of Life
- 33. How to Live on 24 Hours a DayRewrite Your Life StoryOne of the most wonderful things about time is the fact that you cannot waste it in advance. No matter how much time you have squandered in the past, the next hour that comes your way will be perfect, unspoiled and ready for you to make the very best of it. No matter what has happened to you in the past, your future is spotless. Realize that every dawn brings with it the corresponding opportunity to begin a completely new life. If you so choose, tomorrow can be the day that you start getting up earlier, reading more, exercising, eating well and worrying less.Plant a TreeFind Your Place of PeaceBe an AdventurerCollect Quotes that inspire YouLove Your WorkThomas Edison: “I never did a day’s work in my life: it was all fun.”Selflessly ServeMahatma Gandhi understood the service ethic better than most. In one memorable story from his life. In one memorable story from his life, he was travelling across India by train. As he left the car he had been riding in, one of his shoes fell to a place on the tracks well beyond his reach. Rather than worrying about getting it back, he did something that startled his travelling companions: he removed his other shoe and threw it to where the first one rested. When asked why he did this, Gandhi smiled and replied: “Now the poor soul who finds the first one will have a pair that he can wear.”Live Fully so You Can Die HappyMost people don’t discover what life is all about until just before they die. While we are young, we spend our days striving and keeping up with social expectations. We are so busy chasing life’s big pleasures that we miss out on the little ones.
- 34. Do not wait until you are on your deathbed to realize the meaning of life and the precious role you have to play within it.
- 35. They spend their days striving to get the things that will make them happy rather than having the wisdom to realize that happiness is not a place you reach but a state you create.
- 36. George Bernard Shaw: This is the true joy in life, being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one, being a true force of Nature instead of a feverish little clod of ailments and grievances complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy. I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the whole community, and, as long as I live, it is my privilege to do for it whatever I can. I want to be thoroughly used up when I die. For the harder I work, the more I live. I rejoice in life for its own sake. Life is no brief candle to me. It’s a sort of splendid torch which I’ve got to hold up for the moment and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations.