The wisdom hidden in life’s unexpected detours...

You’ve done the work. You named the season. You stepped out with conviction—your own personal Walkout Dance, a quiet promise to yourself that this next chapter would be different. And for a glorious moment, it felt that way: clear, energized, hopeful.

Then… life.

Within weeks, the new role cracked. The plan I’d mapped out blurred. That sense of purpose fractured under the weight of unanticipated challenges—shifting team priorities, family health scares, a relocation snag I hadn’t foreseen. Overnight, my carefully crafted season gave way to what I called The Corkscrew Season: fast, disorienting, and decidedly unlabeled.

If you’ve ever exited a chapter with clarity—only to step straight into another storm—you know how it feels to question everything:

• Did I bail too early?
• Was I deluding myself about that “perfect fit”?
• How do I make sense of this mess?

Here’s what I learned in the swirl: Disruption doesn’t erase your wisdom—it tests it.

1. Lean into your lifelines

I didn’t have to reinvent the wheel. The tools I’d built in calmer seasons—my Let-Go Inventory, Life Load Check, and Self-Alignment Sheet—weren’t dusty relics. They became my steering wheel in the spin:

• Let-Go Inventory: I wrote down every expectation and pressure still gripping me. Seeing them on paper, I could release what wasn’t serving this turbulent season.
• Life Load Check: My capacity had shifted overnight. I reprioritized ruthlessly—pausing committee work, asking for help on family logistics, giving myself permission to rest.
• Self-Alignment Sheet: I asked, “When did I last feel like me?” Reconnecting with that memory reminded me of which values still held true, even if the role had changed.

2. Embrace the unplanned classroom

Every twist in the Corkscrew Season taught me something vital:

• Humility—I’m not in control of every outcome.
• Resilience—I can adapt without losing myself.
• Depth—growth often happens beneath the surface, in the roots of patience and self-trust.

I found myself saying aloud: “This isn’t what I designed—but it might be exactly what I needed.” That simple reframe shifted my fear into curiosity.

3. Name the micro-victories

When nothing looks glamorous, celebrate the small wins:

• You paused, instead of racing to the next to-do.
• You asked for help, instead of shouldering it alone.
• You honored a value, instead of defaulting to a deadline.

These micro-victories aren’t flashy—but they’re the quiet proof that your inner compass still works.

Reflection Prompts:

1. What season did I think I was entering—and what season am I really in?
2. Which tool or practice feels most like a lifeline right now?
3. What small “win” can I celebrate today—something that shows I’m not just surviving, but learning?

Take heart: you didn’t mess up. You’re simply in a season within a season—one that demands new courage, fresh perspective, and deeper trust. The wisdom you’ve gathered so far isn’t lost; it’s the foundation you’re now building on.

Keep dancing even when the music changes mid-step. The next chapter may not look like you planned, but it can still lead you home to your truest, strongest self.

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