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Stuart R. Crawford
Bulletproof InfoTech
Ten essential questions to
ask when networking
leading to
maximum results!
• Find some one in the room you don’t
know
• Introduce yourself
• Exchange cards
• After a minute sit down
• What did you notice
• What did you enjoy
• Who was the other person you met
10 Essential Questions For Networking
• Networking is never about you
• Networking is always about the other
person
• Questions are the successful networkers
most valuable ammunition
• The person who asks questions controls
the conversation
• Great salespeople never push, they
LEAD!
• People will do business with those they:
Know
Like
Trust
• You network everywhere
Lunch clubs
Lineup at the grocery store
School outings
City transit
• Opportunities present themselves
constantly. Are you ready to receive
them?
• Simply introduce yourself
– Non aggressive handshake
– Say your name “only”
– Ask the other person “What they do for a
living”?
– If asked what you do, say it briefly and
immediately go back to questions
• This is EXTREMELY IMPORTANT
– Invest 99.9% of the conversation on the other
person
– Do not talk about yourself and your business
• If the person says
– “I could use your services during the introduction”
• Stop!!!!
– Remember “Know You, Like You, Trust You”
• Go back to learning more about the other person
• Open Ended Questions
• Avoid questions that have Yes or No
answers
• Stretch
• Bob Burg’s 10 Feel Good Questions
– Not probing
– Not sales related
– Friendly and fun to answer
– Use as needed
• How did you get started in the “widget”
business?
– People like to be the movie of the week
– Let them share their story
– Pay close attention
• What do you enjoy most about your
profession?
– Elicits a good, positive feeling
– The person you are talking to is now on a
roll
• What separates you and your company
from the competition?
– This is the permission to brag question
– Let it all hang out
• What advice would you give to someone
just starting out in the “widget” business?
– This is the mentoring question
– Allow the other person to feel like a mentor
• What one thing would you do
in your business if you could
not fail?
Allow the other person to
fantasize
They will care enough that you
asked
It may take some time for them
to answer, allow this to happen
What significant changes have
you seen take place in your
profession through the years?
Ideal for people with experience
Allows them to reflect on their
business life
• What do you see as coming trends in the
“widget” business?
This is the speculator question
Allows the other person to be the expert
Do you ever notice that those who
speculate on TV, radio or Internet are
usually important, hot shot types….
Allow the other person to be the expert and hot
shot in your eyes
• Describe the strangest or funniest
incident you’ve experienced in your
business?
o This allows the other person to tell their “war
stories”
o Normally they never have the opportunity to
share these…now you are their captive
audience
• What ways have you found to be the
most effective for promoting your
business?
 Highlights the positive in the other persons
mind
 Highlights the way they think
 Don’t use this question with advertisers or
marketing professionals, comes across as
probing.
• What one sentence would you like others
to use in describing the way you do
business?
The ultimate compliment
No one ever asks this one
You are one step closer to “like”
• You will only normally have time to ask two or
three of these questions
• Don’t interrogate the other person, ask in a
caring and concerned manner
• Use “extender” questions
– Really or tell me more
• Use the “echo” technique
– Repeat back the last few words
• Example “we needed to expand” – you “needed to
expand”
• That separates the Pros from the
Amateurs.
– Just by asking, you immediately separate
you from the right of the pack
– Those who are not here tonight
– You are more concerned about their welfare
and their success
– Don’t ask this question to early
• ARE YOU READY!
How can I know if
someone I am
speaking to is a
good prospect for
you?
• No one likes the person who just hands
out business cards
• No one cares about yours polished sales
pitch
• When you ask these questions you:
– Give the feeling that their success matters
– People want to be around you
– Makes you more attractive
Your Goal is to allow the other person to know you,
like you and then trust you!
In a free-enterprise based economy, the
amount of money you make is directly
proportional to the number of people
you serve.
Your Goal – Tap into the other persons 250
person “circle of trust”. Networking is
never about selling to the other person!
1. People do business with others that
they? ______, ______ and ______.
2. Networking is _____ about you and
_____ about the other person.
3. The pro question, ________________.
Bob Burg
John David Mann
The Go-Giver
Bob Burg
Endless Referrals
Available now online at www.stuartcrawford.com
Stuart R. Crawford
Bulletproof InfoTech
403.206.2233
stuart.crawford@bulletproofIT.ca
Web: http://www.bulletproofIT.ca
Blog: http://www.stuartcrawford.com

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10 Essential Questions For Networking

  • 1. Calgary Entrepreneur Meetup Group Presented by: Stuart R. Crawford Bulletproof InfoTech Ten essential questions to ask when networking leading to maximum results!
  • 2. • Find some one in the room you don’t know • Introduce yourself • Exchange cards • After a minute sit down • What did you notice • What did you enjoy • Who was the other person you met
  • 4. • Networking is never about you • Networking is always about the other person • Questions are the successful networkers most valuable ammunition • The person who asks questions controls the conversation • Great salespeople never push, they LEAD!
  • 5. • People will do business with those they: Know Like Trust
  • 6. • You network everywhere Lunch clubs Lineup at the grocery store School outings City transit • Opportunities present themselves constantly. Are you ready to receive them?
  • 7. • Simply introduce yourself – Non aggressive handshake – Say your name “only” – Ask the other person “What they do for a living”? – If asked what you do, say it briefly and immediately go back to questions • This is EXTREMELY IMPORTANT – Invest 99.9% of the conversation on the other person – Do not talk about yourself and your business
  • 8. • If the person says – “I could use your services during the introduction” • Stop!!!! – Remember “Know You, Like You, Trust You” • Go back to learning more about the other person
  • 9. • Open Ended Questions • Avoid questions that have Yes or No answers • Stretch • Bob Burg’s 10 Feel Good Questions – Not probing – Not sales related – Friendly and fun to answer – Use as needed
  • 10. • How did you get started in the “widget” business? – People like to be the movie of the week – Let them share their story – Pay close attention
  • 11. • What do you enjoy most about your profession? – Elicits a good, positive feeling – The person you are talking to is now on a roll
  • 12. • What separates you and your company from the competition? – This is the permission to brag question – Let it all hang out
  • 13. • What advice would you give to someone just starting out in the “widget” business? – This is the mentoring question – Allow the other person to feel like a mentor
  • 14. • What one thing would you do in your business if you could not fail? Allow the other person to fantasize They will care enough that you asked It may take some time for them to answer, allow this to happen
  • 15. What significant changes have you seen take place in your profession through the years? Ideal for people with experience Allows them to reflect on their business life
  • 16. • What do you see as coming trends in the “widget” business? This is the speculator question Allows the other person to be the expert Do you ever notice that those who speculate on TV, radio or Internet are usually important, hot shot types…. Allow the other person to be the expert and hot shot in your eyes
  • 17. • Describe the strangest or funniest incident you’ve experienced in your business? o This allows the other person to tell their “war stories” o Normally they never have the opportunity to share these…now you are their captive audience
  • 18. • What ways have you found to be the most effective for promoting your business?  Highlights the positive in the other persons mind  Highlights the way they think  Don’t use this question with advertisers or marketing professionals, comes across as probing.
  • 19. • What one sentence would you like others to use in describing the way you do business? The ultimate compliment No one ever asks this one You are one step closer to “like”
  • 20. • You will only normally have time to ask two or three of these questions • Don’t interrogate the other person, ask in a caring and concerned manner • Use “extender” questions – Really or tell me more • Use the “echo” technique – Repeat back the last few words • Example “we needed to expand” – you “needed to expand”
  • 21. • That separates the Pros from the Amateurs. – Just by asking, you immediately separate you from the right of the pack – Those who are not here tonight – You are more concerned about their welfare and their success – Don’t ask this question to early • ARE YOU READY!
  • 22. How can I know if someone I am speaking to is a good prospect for you?
  • 23. • No one likes the person who just hands out business cards • No one cares about yours polished sales pitch • When you ask these questions you: – Give the feeling that their success matters – People want to be around you – Makes you more attractive Your Goal is to allow the other person to know you, like you and then trust you!
  • 24. In a free-enterprise based economy, the amount of money you make is directly proportional to the number of people you serve. Your Goal – Tap into the other persons 250 person “circle of trust”. Networking is never about selling to the other person!
  • 25. 1. People do business with others that they? ______, ______ and ______. 2. Networking is _____ about you and _____ about the other person. 3. The pro question, ________________.
  • 26. Bob Burg John David Mann The Go-Giver Bob Burg Endless Referrals Available now online at www.stuartcrawford.com
  • 27. Stuart R. Crawford Bulletproof InfoTech 403.206.2233 stuart.crawford@bulletproofIT.ca Web: http://www.bulletproofIT.ca Blog: http://www.stuartcrawford.com