05 be team player
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1) The document discusses the importance of being a team player rather than a lone ranger in youth ministry. Lone rangers pursue their own agendas instead of supporting the overall ministry vision. 2) It provides tips for volunteers to strengthen their team play, such as believing in the ministry's vision, supporting decisions even if you disagree, understanding your role, and actively participating in events. 3) The example is given of Yolanda, who was asked to step down from her volunteer role because she only focused on her small group and criticized leadership instead of supporting the wider ministry vision as a team.
05 be team player
- 1. BE A T E A M PL AY E R , NO T A L ONE R A NGE R from Doug Fields FOR STARTERS TRAINING on the GO What does it mean for you to First, who are lone-ranger volunteers? Simply put, they are people who believe that they know what’s best for the ministry and that their agenda is the one to do ministry in a team? follow. Honestly, it’s a lot easier to do ministry as a lone ranger. When you’re How is your ministry’s on your own, you have more freedom to do things “the right way”—which is leadership team healthy? usually just another way of saying your way. In what ways do you A healthy youth ministry is built around a team of volunteers who believe in contribute to its health? the ministry and are willing to set their personal agendas aside for the greater good of the ministry. It’s essential for a youth ministry to be led by people who want to support the ministry, actively participate in students’ lives, and TRENCHE S genuinely contribute to meeting the needs within the church. IN T HE You can be that kind of volunteer in countless ways; here are just a few ways Yolanda was a volunteer for two to strengthen your team play: years. Key word: was. She was a quiet, Believe in the ministry vision. It’s important for you to understand and committed leader who really loved her ninth-grade girls. There was just believe in your ministry’s unified direction. Lone rangers tend to decide one problem—she didn’t agree with for themselves what they think is best for the ministry. But team players are how our ministry was structured, and passionate and excited about the ministry and where it’s headed. You might she didn’t want anything to do with encounter a situation where you would do something different from the rest the youth ministry outside of working of the team, but by setting aside your personal agenda, you can contribute to with “her” girls. the larger picture of what your team is accomplishing. She didn’t attend volunteer meet- Support the ministry. Face it—decisions will be made that you won’t agree ings, trainings, or even all-youth with. But this gives you a great opportunity for personal growth. Lone rang- ministry fun events. Yolanda believed ers take this as their cue to break away from the pack and do their own thing. she knew what was best for her small But team players have the opportunity to help the team succeed instead of group and wasn’t in need of out- creating divisiveness. Your opinions and thoughts as a volunteer are very side input. She was very critical of important to the team; however, humble leadership, spiritual maturity, and the ministry’s leadership and spoke negatively about the direction of servanthood require you to willingly step away from yourself and support our ministry. Eventually, I spoke with the team’s direction. Yolanda, asking her to change her Know your role. Another way for you to be a team player is to understand attitude and actions regarding the your role in the ministry. Because your team is made up of different types ministry. of people with all kinds of passions and abilities, it’s important that every- Unfortunately, she didn’t, and I had one knows what they’re supposed to do. By understanding what’s expected to ask her to step down from her of you, you’ll naturally increase your value to the team while maximizing leadership role. On the one hand, the precious time you invest. It’s OK to define new roles for yourself in the it was a tough decision—Yolanda ministry, especially if you see a strong need. But go for it in a way that isn’t really did love her girls and was an destructive to team unity and leadership. outstanding shepherd to her flock of sheep. But on the other hand, it Actively participate. Students are hungry for attention, and caring adults (that’s was an easy decision because team- you) can provide a piece of what students are looking for. Lone rangers miss out work isn’t possible when personal on some opportunities to minister to students. Team players participate. So, agendas become more important when it’s game time—play along. When it’s singing time—sing. When it’s time than the common vision. How are to toilet-paper the pastor’s house—buy the toilet paper and let the students do you unlike Yolanda? (This is tougher: the work (of course). Basically, be a participant instead of a chaperone. Youth How might you be like her?) leaders decrease their value when they stand in the back of the room with arms folded scanning the crowd for problem students to reprimand. All of these actions take intentional teamwork from youth leaders. My challenge to you is to consider ways that you may have been a lone ranger and discover how you can be the ultimate team player. YOUTH LEADER TRAINING ON THE GO
- 2. B E A T E A M P L AY E R , NO T A L ONE R A NGE R CONNECT to God’s Word T O T HE POINT • Evaluate your contribution to “From him the whole body, joined and held your ministry team. together by every supporting ligament, grows • Understand your role on the and builds itself up in love, as each part does its team. work.” —Ephesians 4:16 • Be quick to support others and slow to pursue a selfish • Think of two other people in your ministry who agenda. enable you to minister more effectively. Thank God for those people. TRY I T • What lone-ranger moments have you had? How Suggest to your lead youth worker can you better strengthen the youth ministry? that your leadership team kick off the school year (or new year, new semester, or new month) with a Write a response and prayer to God here… meeting that’s themed to reflect a certain sport or a favorite team. Ask if you (and another volunteer) can organize the details and help run the meeting. Arrange all the elements of a typical volunteer meeting around the “team theme.” For example: • Have everyone come in a favorite team jersey. • Create a sports trivia game, show sports bloopers, or play a movie clip of an emotional and inspirational coach’s speech. • Distribute water bottles labeled with your youth ministry’s name, logo, or purpose statement. • Take turns giving brief, coachlike pep talks on the value of team. • Give everyone a ministry playbook (your why-we-do-what-we-do information). • Get everyone “off the bench,” and assign specific roles. MA K E IT PER SONAL • Have everyone set an individual and a team goal. Permission to photocopy this handout granted for local church use. Copyright © Doug Fields. Published in Youth Leader Training on the Go by Group Publishing, Inc., P.O. Box 481, Loveland, CO 80539. www.youthministry.com and www.simplyyouthministry.com