2011 - X3 pure chapter 1
- 1. Introduction: X3pure Men’s Series
- 2. Introduction: X3pure Men’s Series • Steven Luff
- 3. Session 1: “Where We Are and Where We’re Going”
- 4. Session 1: “Where We Are and Where We’re Going” • This program has:
- 5. Session 1: “Where We Are and Where We’re Going” • This program has: - Fifteen online video teaching with fifteen corresponding workbook sections.
- 6. Session 1: “Where We Are and Where We’re Going” • This program has: - Fifteen online video teaching with fifteen corresponding workbook sections. - Each one should take 10-15 minutes to complete.
- 7. Session 1: “Where We Are and Where We’re Going” • This program has: - Fifteen online video teaching with fifteen corresponding workbook sections. - Each one should take 10-15 minutes to complete. - Find a quiet place to think about the material.
- 8. Session 1: “Where We Are and Where We’re Going” • This program has: - Fifteen online video teaching with fifteen corresponding workbook sections. - Each one should take 10-15 minutes to complete. - Find a quiet place to think about the material. - If you feel comfortable, pray before you begin each video teaching.
- 9. Session 1: “Where We Are and Where We’re Going” • This program has: - Fifteen online video teaching with fifteen corresponding workbook sections. - Each one should take 10-15 minutes to complete. - Find a quiet place to think about the material. - If you feel comfortable, pray before you begin each video teaching. - Above all, be patient with yourself.
- 10. Remember
- 11. Remember • Your sexuality is an important and sacred part of you
- 12. Remember • Your sexuality is an important and sacred part of you - Don’t suppress or destroy it
- 13. Remember • Your sexuality is an important and sacred part of you - Don’t suppress or destroy it - Celebrate it and understand it as an important part of your being
- 14. Remember • Your sexuality is an important and sacred part of you - Don’t suppress or destroy it - Celebrate it and understand it as an important part of your being • Many of you are entering this process at different places of recovery and different places along the journey
- 15. Remember • Your sexuality is an important and sacred part of you - Don’t suppress or destroy it - Celebrate it and understand it as an important part of your being • Many of you are entering this process at different places of recovery and different places along the journey - Be patient with the program
- 16. Remember • Your sexuality is an important and sacred part of you - Don’t suppress or destroy it - Celebrate it and understand it as an important part of your being • Many of you are entering this process at different places of recovery and different places along the journey - Be patient with the program - New discoveries about yourself are well worth the time and effort
- 17. Journals
- 18. Journals • Get a journal
- 19. Journals • Get a journal • Examine your struggle
- 20. Journals • Get a journal • Examine your struggle • Inspiration strikes at odd times so write it down
- 21. Objectives
- 22. Objectives 1. Understand if we are indeed addicted and what addiction means.
- 23. Objectives 1. Understand if we are indeed addicted and what addiction means. 2. Comprehend what change for the better really is.
- 24. Objectives 1. Understand if we are indeed addicted and what addiction means. 2. Comprehend what change for the better really is. 3. Learn what is going on in our bodies and brain when we have to turn to sex compulsively.
- 25. Objectives 1. Understand if we are indeed addicted and what addiction means. 2. Comprehend what change for the better really is. 3. Learn what is going on in our bodies and brain when we have to turn to sex compulsively. 4. Discover the real reasons why we have turned to compulsive sexual behavior.
- 26. Objectives 1. Understand if we are indeed addicted and what addiction means. 2. Comprehend what change for the better really is. 3. Learn what is going on in our bodies and brain when we have to turn to sex compulsively. 4. Discover the real reasons why we have turned to compulsive sexual behavior. 5. Unleash some powerful tools that will help us live lives full of purity, honor and pride.
- 27. Are you really addicted?
- 28. Are you really addicted? • Have you turned sex into an idol?
- 29. Are you really addicted? • Have you turned sex into an idol? • The act of relying on sex or sexual activities, as a source of unconditional love instead of friends, family, community or God Himself.
- 31. Sexual Addiction Screening Test 1. Do you have a pattern of failing to resist the impulse to act out sexually?
- 32. Sexual Addiction Screening Test 1. Do you have a pattern of failing to resist the impulse to act out sexually? 2. When you do act out sexually, do you find that you do so to a greater extent, or for a longer period of time, than you had originally intended?
- 33. Sexual Addiction Screening Test 1. Do you have a pattern of failing to resist the impulse to act out sexually? 2. When you do act out sexually, do you find that you do so to a greater extent, or for a longer period of time, than you had originally intended? 3. Do you have a continual desire to act out sexually or have tried to stop, reduce or control acting out sexually but been unsuccessful?
- 34. Sexual Addiction Screening Test 1. Do you have a pattern of failing to resist the impulse to act out sexually? 2. When you do act out sexually, do you find that you do so to a greater extent, or for a longer period of time, than you had originally intended? 3. Do you have a continual desire to act out sexually or have tried to stop, reduce or control acting out sexually but been unsuccessful? 4. Have you spent an inordinate amount of time either trying to get sex, be sexual, or recover from some sexual experience?
- 35. Sexual Addiction Screening Test 1. Do you have a pattern of failing to resist the impulse to act out sexually? 2. When you do act out sexually, do you find that you do so to a greater extent, or for a longer period of time, than you had originally intended? 3. Do you have a continual desire to act out sexually or have tried to stop, reduce or control acting out sexually but been unsuccessful? 4. Have you spent an inordinate amount of time either trying to get sex, be sexual, or recover from some sexual experience? 5. Are you preoccupied with acting out sexually or preparing to act out sexually?
- 37. Sexual Addiction Screening Test 6. Do you find yourself acting out sexually even though you are expected to meet job, school, home or social commitments?
- 38. Sexual Addiction Screening Test 6. Do you find yourself acting out sexually even though you are expected to meet job, school, home or social commitments? 7. Even if you know you have a social, educational, financial, mental or physical problem caused by your sexual behavior you continue to act out in that behavior anyway?
- 39. Sexual Addiction Screening Test 6. Do you find yourself acting out sexually even though you are expected to meet job, school, home or social commitments? 7. Even if you know you have a social, educational, financial, mental or physical problem caused by your sexual behavior you continue to act out in that behavior anyway? 8. Do you find that you need to increase the intensity, frequency, number or risk of sexual behavior to get the physical effect you want? Conversely, does the same level of intensity, frequency, number or risk of sexual behavior produce less of an effect?
- 41. Sexual Addiction Screening Test 9. Do you find yourself quitting or reducing social, professional or recreational activities because of your sexual behavior?
- 42. Sexual Addiction Screening Test 9. Do you find yourself quitting or reducing social, professional or recreational activities because of your sexual behavior? 10. Do you find yourself upset, distressed, anxious, restless or even violent if you cannot act out sexually, especially in the ways in which you have developed as a pattern?
- 43. Why We Are Here
- 44. Why We Are Here • To help you gain information, support and encouragement so that you may live a life of freedom, joy and purity
- 45. Assignment
- 46. Assignment • Spend some time answering these questions. Answer them honestly and completely.
- 47. Assignment • Spend some time answering these questions. Answer them honestly and completely. • Go easy on yourself
- 48. Assignment • Spend some time answering these questions. Answer them honestly and completely. • Go easy on yourself • Pray
- 49. Assignment • Spend some time answering these questions. Answer them honestly and completely. • Go easy on yourself • Pray - “Lord, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to accept the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”