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5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

5 Conversations is an inspiring programme that empowers managers to develop
more trusting and successful relationships at work.

This results in stronger employee engagement and transforms individual and
business performance.

2
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

What is employee engagement?
Studies define employee engagement
as having 3 key features:
• Organisational citizenship
• Willingness to give discretionary effort
• Intention to stay

3
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

The business case for employee engagement
Numerous studies prove that high
employee engagement correlates with
superior business performance

“The Corporate Leadership Council reported
that engaged organisations grew profits as
much as three times faster than their
competitors.”
MacLeod Report

But how do we influence engagement?

4

McLeod D and Clarke N ‘Engaging for Success: enhancing performance through
employee engagement’, Office of Public Sector Information (July 2009).
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

The main driver of employee engagement
Engagement is built by the quality of
relationships people develop at work; especially
with their manager.
How well these relationships are built is
determined by the quality of conversations held
between a line manager and their employee.

Outstanding business performance

Superior employee engagement

Relationship with line manager

Quality of conversations

5
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

But what is stopping us?
Managers, team leaders and directors often
don’t feel they have the time, courage or
knowledge to develop truly close, authentic
working relationships.
In a 2009 report to Government, researchers
identified that one of the four broad inhibitors to
effective engagement by and organisation’s
leadership and management was: “managers
may not share the beliefs, or may be illequipped to implement engagement
strategies.”

6

McLeod D and Clarke N ‘Engaging for Success: enhancing performance through
employee engagement’, Office of Public Sector Information (July 2009).
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

The power of conversation
In today’s work environment, amongst all the jargon, processes, performance
management, KPIs, email, social media , we have forgotten a simple truth:

the power of authentic, two-way, human conversations
to build relationships, trust, engagement and performance at work.
Throughout history people have talked to each – face to face, using gesture and touch,
smiles and frowns, sharing hopes and fears – to build trust and relationships and
collaboration, and to get things done.
The 5 Conversations programme takes communication back to its roots, with a scientific
and theoretical underpinning, and a practical focus that keeps human emotions at its core.

7
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

What is 5 Conversations?
5 Conversations is a short programme consisting of:
• Pre-programme: reading, reflection and questions
• Workshop: a face to face workshop of up to 16 people led by two facilitators
• Optional post-workshop follow up support
This goes beyond a ‘learn and do’ skills course by focussing on intention and integrity.
The programme is conducted in a style that provides participants with insights into their own
behaviour by delving into neuroscience and human communication.
It provides a simple but powerful framework for holding 5 critical conversations that build trust,
engagement and performance.
It allows participants to think about, develop and test positive feelings and enabling beliefs about
holding these conversations – inspiring and energising them to create opportunities to put them into
practice.

8
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Programme format
•

The 5 Conversations programme is delivered in-company by accredited facilitators as:
–

A 2 day workshop for managers

–

A 1 day masterclass for senior Executives and Directors

–

A 2 day train the trainer accreditation workshop for in-house facilitators

•

Pre-programme work involving reading and reflective exercises is also included to help participants
prepare for the workshop.

•

It is conducted in small groups (14 - 16 participants : 2 trainers) to ensure:
–
–

9

There are adequate opportunities for discussions and 1:1 time between participants and trainers.

–

•

The programme is conducted in a safe and intimate setting as participants will be challenged to disclose
about relationships, emotions and feelings.

There are multiple opportunities to try out conversations in pairs and sub-groups.

High quality facilitation from Oxford Group accredited facilitators who have an excellent understanding
of the neuroscience behind engagement.
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Programme outcomes
At the end of the programme, participants will:
• Understand the human and neuroscience background to engagement
• Learn a simple but powerful agenda for holding each of the five conversations
• Develop the insights, enabling beliefs and emotional commitment necessary to make
these conversations happen as a integral part of every working day
• Pro-actively create opportunities to hold the conversations in the days, weeks and
months ahead
As a result, their team’s commitment and engagement will increase, leading to rapid and
measurable improvements in performance.
Trust is both a fuel and an outcome for this programme.

10
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Where did 5 Conversations originate?
• For 25 years our workshops about Performance Management and Coaching have
created conditions for trust, self-motivation and engagement, through authentic,
honest dialogue – “the spirit not the process”
• In 2008, Oxford Group was commissioned by AstraZeneca to create a workshop called
“Constructive Conversations” for 1,500 line managers worldwide to build engagement
and performance
• We received exceptional feedback and delivered measurable improvements in
employee engagement and performance
• Since Sept 2012 we have taken our learnings from the AstraZeneca course and
enhanced them with other sources to build the 5 Conversations programme

11
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

What are the 5 conversations?
• Establishing a trusting relationship
• Agreeing mutual expectations
• Showing genuine appreciation
• Challenging unhelpful behaviour

• Building for the future
Although typically held between a manager and
their team, these conversations and the
accompanying changes in mind set can also
transform relationships with peers, customers
and suppliers.

12
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Programme structure
Introductions

The business case
for engagement

The neuroscience case
for engagement

Understanding the
dynamics between
ourselves and others

Conversation 1 –
Establishing a trusting
relationship

Conversation 2 –
Agreeing mutual
expectations

Conversation 3 –
Showing genuine
appreciation

Conversation 4 –
Challenging unhelpful
behaviours

Conversation 5 –
Building for the future

Consolidation
and Review

13

Relationships
at work

Action planning and
Commitment

Close

The 5 conversations
overview
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Neuroscience tells us:
• We are social animals; the brain is the
organ of relationship
• We make decisions based upon our
emotions – and it’s other people that
evokes our strongest emotions
• Stress causes our brain to shut down and
revert to primitive responses
• Our basic response is to approach and
maximise rewards and to avoid and
minimise risk
• When there is trust in a relationship we
are open to ideas, possibilities and
collaboration

14

MacLean (1990)
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

FIVEC Model
The 5 Conversations programme is underpinned by the FIVEC model.
+
Move towards situation/person

Extent to
which these
are present

Familiarity

Influence

Move away from situation/person

-

15

Value

Empowerment

Clarity
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Conversation 1:

Establishing a trusting relationship

Conversation 1:

Establishing a
trusting
relationship
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Conversation 1: Establishing a trusting relationship
Participants will:
•

Explore the principles and models of trust
–
–

•

Trust pyramid
Trust equation

Learn how to prepare for the conversation
–

–

Identifying who to speak to

–

•

Establishing the intention

Making an invitation

Use exercises to practice the elements and key questions of the
conversation
–
–

“What would you like to know about me and how I work, to
understand where I’m coming from?”

–

17

“I’d like to meet up to talk about how we can build a really effective
working relationship”

What do I need to know about you, your motivations, style,
preferences so I can help you be your best and we can work together
really effectively?”
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Conversation 2:

Agreeing
mutual
expectations
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Conversation 2: Agreeing mutual expectations
Participants will:
•

Explore the importance of identifying what they want to
achieve and why, on a theoretical level
(Simon Sinek TED video – The Power of Why)

•

Understand how to prepare for the conversation
–
–

•

Establishing what they want to achieve
Identifying who is critical to their success

Use exercises to practise the elements and questions of the
conversation
–
–

“So what expectations should we have of each other?”

–

19

“Let me tell you what I’m trying to achieve, and why”

–

•

“Tell me about what you are seeking to achieve and why”

“How can we hold each other to account for meeting these
expectations?”

Explore emotions connected to the expectations
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Conversation 3:

Showing
genuine
appreciation
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Conversation 3: Showing genuine appreciation
Participants will:
•

Explore the model of ‘Appreciative Inquiry’ vs. traditional
feedback mechanisms

•

Understand what genuine appreciation is both theoretically
and through an exercise

•

Understand and practise how to hold a conversation with their
colleagues in the workshop
•

Appreciative inquiry:
• “Talk to me about what’s going really well for you at
the moment”
•
•

21

“What strengths and talents of yours are contributing
to this?”

•
•

“What are the reasons for this success?

“Where else can you deploy these strengths and
talents?”

Genuine appreciation:
• “Thank you for this contribution – I really appreciate
it!”
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Conversation 4:

Challenging
unhelpful
behaviours
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Conversation 4: Challenging unhelpful behaviours
Participants will:
•

Explore the principles of ‘non-violent communication’
–
–

Emerged from a need for peace-making skills with civil rights
activists
in the early 1960s, then used in hostage negotiation

–

•

Developed by Marshall Rosenberg

Way of honestly expressing needs and feelings whilst
maintaining positive personal relationships

Learn how to prepare for this conversation
–
–

Using the FIVEC model to prepare themselves for the conversation

–

•

Understanding the best way to bring up the subject
Establishing how to close the conversation in a way that ‘re-boots’
the relationship.

Understand and practice how to hold this conversation
–
–

Clarifying the aim of the conversation

–

23

Incorporating their preparation
Using non-violent communication to address the issue and resolve
the behaviour
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Conversation 4: Challenging unhelpful behaviours
Non-violent communication

Observations

Feelings
Needs
Requests

24

I noticed you…

I bring this up because I’m…
It’s important because my need for…
is not being met
So would you be OK to…?
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Conversation 5:

Building for
the future
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Conversation 5: Building for the future
Question: Do you know the career aspirations of
your people as well as the head-hunter does?

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5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Conversation 5: Building for the future
Participants will:
•

Understand how to create the conditions to have an
open and honest conversation about the future

•

Learn how to explore what the present and future
aspirations look like using the future focus wheel

•

Understand what questions to ask during this
conversation
–

When speaking to a colleague

–

When speaking to a direct report
•
•

“What’s driving you to have these ambitions?”

•

“What opportunities can we create right now, for you
to move towards these goals here in this organisation?”

•

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“Where do you want to be 3-5 years from now?”

“What can we both do together to make this happen?”
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Optional post-workshop follow up & support
We offer a range of follow-up support as optional additions to the 5 Conversations
programme. These options provide participants with a way of consolidating their learning
and continuing to develop. We are happy to discuss these options with clients to
determine the most appropriate option to fit with their organisation’s operations and
culture. The options include:
• Establishing a buddy system between participants on the programme
• Setting up action learning sets which can be facilitated either by the group of
participants themselves, or with support from one of our 5C facilitators
• Running a follow-up webinar for participants, for example 3 months after the
programme, to provide a forum for reviewing learning application and sharing best
practice
• Providing a one-to-one telephone coaching session for each participant with one of the
programme facilitators to review learning application and coach further skills building

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5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Closing the workshop
• Consolidation and review

• Commitment and action plan

29
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Action planning & sustaining the changes
• Identify upcoming critical incidents to hold a conversation – existing or to be created
• Get into pairs / buddies and commit to action and follow up
• Facilitated Action Learning Sets in 4, 8, 12 weeks
• 1 to 1 coaching (telephone)
• Follow up webinar with facilitator

30
5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Costs
2-day course:
• £8,000 +VAT in UK
• €12,000 + TVA or equivalent in mainland Europe
• $20,000 (USD) + tax where applicable, everywhere else

1-day Masterclass :
• £5,000 +VAT in UK
• €8,000 + TVA or equivalent in mainland Europe
• $13,000 (USD) + tax where applicable, everywhere else

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5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Costs
Our prices include:
• Accredited trainers
• All course materials
• Administration pack for use by client’s training administrator, e.g. participant joining
instructions, specification for venue & equipment
• Programme evaluation processing and report

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5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Costs
Our prices do not include:
• Trainer travel, accommodation or subsistence (charged at cost)
• Training venue and equipment
• Refreshments during the programme
• Any expenses incurred by participants (e.g. travel, accommodation, subsistence)
• Administration of communications with individual participants (we provide an
administration pack with material that the client’s training coordinator can use)

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5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Costs
Optional follow-up activities:
• Learning partner system – included in the course price.
• Action learning sets; if face to face:
– £5,400 / €7,500 / $10,500 + tax + facilitator travel & expenses

• Action learning sets; if by webinar:
– £5,400 / €7,500 / $10,500 + tax + webinar admin & telephony at cost (if client uses OG webinar
system rather than their own)
• Follow-up webinar: £900 / €1,250 / $1,750 + tax + webinar admin & telephony at cost (if client uses
OG webinar system rather than their own)
• One-to-one telephone coaching: £3,600 / €5,000 / $7,000 + tax for one 45-minute telephone
coaching session for each of the 16 participants (assumes we can get through 8 sessions in a day)

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5 Conversations
To transform trust & engagement at work

Contact us
Email us: marketing@oxford-group.com
Visit us: www.5conversations.co.uk
Contact us for:
• Exploratory discussion about how 5Cs could support your business
• Complimentary ‘immersion’ session, so you can experience part of the
programme

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5 Conversations Product Overview Presentation

  • 1. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work
  • 2. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work 5 Conversations is an inspiring programme that empowers managers to develop more trusting and successful relationships at work. This results in stronger employee engagement and transforms individual and business performance. 2
  • 3. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work What is employee engagement? Studies define employee engagement as having 3 key features: • Organisational citizenship • Willingness to give discretionary effort • Intention to stay 3
  • 4. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work The business case for employee engagement Numerous studies prove that high employee engagement correlates with superior business performance “The Corporate Leadership Council reported that engaged organisations grew profits as much as three times faster than their competitors.” MacLeod Report But how do we influence engagement? 4 McLeod D and Clarke N ‘Engaging for Success: enhancing performance through employee engagement’, Office of Public Sector Information (July 2009).
  • 5. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work The main driver of employee engagement Engagement is built by the quality of relationships people develop at work; especially with their manager. How well these relationships are built is determined by the quality of conversations held between a line manager and their employee. Outstanding business performance Superior employee engagement Relationship with line manager Quality of conversations 5
  • 6. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work But what is stopping us? Managers, team leaders and directors often don’t feel they have the time, courage or knowledge to develop truly close, authentic working relationships. In a 2009 report to Government, researchers identified that one of the four broad inhibitors to effective engagement by and organisation’s leadership and management was: “managers may not share the beliefs, or may be illequipped to implement engagement strategies.” 6 McLeod D and Clarke N ‘Engaging for Success: enhancing performance through employee engagement’, Office of Public Sector Information (July 2009).
  • 7. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work The power of conversation In today’s work environment, amongst all the jargon, processes, performance management, KPIs, email, social media , we have forgotten a simple truth: the power of authentic, two-way, human conversations to build relationships, trust, engagement and performance at work. Throughout history people have talked to each – face to face, using gesture and touch, smiles and frowns, sharing hopes and fears – to build trust and relationships and collaboration, and to get things done. The 5 Conversations programme takes communication back to its roots, with a scientific and theoretical underpinning, and a practical focus that keeps human emotions at its core. 7
  • 8. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work What is 5 Conversations? 5 Conversations is a short programme consisting of: • Pre-programme: reading, reflection and questions • Workshop: a face to face workshop of up to 16 people led by two facilitators • Optional post-workshop follow up support This goes beyond a ‘learn and do’ skills course by focussing on intention and integrity. The programme is conducted in a style that provides participants with insights into their own behaviour by delving into neuroscience and human communication. It provides a simple but powerful framework for holding 5 critical conversations that build trust, engagement and performance. It allows participants to think about, develop and test positive feelings and enabling beliefs about holding these conversations – inspiring and energising them to create opportunities to put them into practice. 8
  • 9. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Programme format • The 5 Conversations programme is delivered in-company by accredited facilitators as: – A 2 day workshop for managers – A 1 day masterclass for senior Executives and Directors – A 2 day train the trainer accreditation workshop for in-house facilitators • Pre-programme work involving reading and reflective exercises is also included to help participants prepare for the workshop. • It is conducted in small groups (14 - 16 participants : 2 trainers) to ensure: – – 9 There are adequate opportunities for discussions and 1:1 time between participants and trainers. – • The programme is conducted in a safe and intimate setting as participants will be challenged to disclose about relationships, emotions and feelings. There are multiple opportunities to try out conversations in pairs and sub-groups. High quality facilitation from Oxford Group accredited facilitators who have an excellent understanding of the neuroscience behind engagement.
  • 10. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Programme outcomes At the end of the programme, participants will: • Understand the human and neuroscience background to engagement • Learn a simple but powerful agenda for holding each of the five conversations • Develop the insights, enabling beliefs and emotional commitment necessary to make these conversations happen as a integral part of every working day • Pro-actively create opportunities to hold the conversations in the days, weeks and months ahead As a result, their team’s commitment and engagement will increase, leading to rapid and measurable improvements in performance. Trust is both a fuel and an outcome for this programme. 10
  • 11. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Where did 5 Conversations originate? • For 25 years our workshops about Performance Management and Coaching have created conditions for trust, self-motivation and engagement, through authentic, honest dialogue – “the spirit not the process” • In 2008, Oxford Group was commissioned by AstraZeneca to create a workshop called “Constructive Conversations” for 1,500 line managers worldwide to build engagement and performance • We received exceptional feedback and delivered measurable improvements in employee engagement and performance • Since Sept 2012 we have taken our learnings from the AstraZeneca course and enhanced them with other sources to build the 5 Conversations programme 11
  • 12. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work What are the 5 conversations? • Establishing a trusting relationship • Agreeing mutual expectations • Showing genuine appreciation • Challenging unhelpful behaviour • Building for the future Although typically held between a manager and their team, these conversations and the accompanying changes in mind set can also transform relationships with peers, customers and suppliers. 12
  • 13. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Programme structure Introductions The business case for engagement The neuroscience case for engagement Understanding the dynamics between ourselves and others Conversation 1 – Establishing a trusting relationship Conversation 2 – Agreeing mutual expectations Conversation 3 – Showing genuine appreciation Conversation 4 – Challenging unhelpful behaviours Conversation 5 – Building for the future Consolidation and Review 13 Relationships at work Action planning and Commitment Close The 5 conversations overview
  • 14. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Neuroscience tells us: • We are social animals; the brain is the organ of relationship • We make decisions based upon our emotions – and it’s other people that evokes our strongest emotions • Stress causes our brain to shut down and revert to primitive responses • Our basic response is to approach and maximise rewards and to avoid and minimise risk • When there is trust in a relationship we are open to ideas, possibilities and collaboration 14 MacLean (1990)
  • 15. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work FIVEC Model The 5 Conversations programme is underpinned by the FIVEC model. + Move towards situation/person Extent to which these are present Familiarity Influence Move away from situation/person - 15 Value Empowerment Clarity
  • 16. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Conversation 1: Establishing a trusting relationship Conversation 1: Establishing a trusting relationship
  • 17. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Conversation 1: Establishing a trusting relationship Participants will: • Explore the principles and models of trust – – • Trust pyramid Trust equation Learn how to prepare for the conversation – – Identifying who to speak to – • Establishing the intention Making an invitation Use exercises to practice the elements and key questions of the conversation – – “What would you like to know about me and how I work, to understand where I’m coming from?” – 17 “I’d like to meet up to talk about how we can build a really effective working relationship” What do I need to know about you, your motivations, style, preferences so I can help you be your best and we can work together really effectively?”
  • 18. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Conversation 2: Agreeing mutual expectations
  • 19. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Conversation 2: Agreeing mutual expectations Participants will: • Explore the importance of identifying what they want to achieve and why, on a theoretical level (Simon Sinek TED video – The Power of Why) • Understand how to prepare for the conversation – – • Establishing what they want to achieve Identifying who is critical to their success Use exercises to practise the elements and questions of the conversation – – “So what expectations should we have of each other?” – 19 “Let me tell you what I’m trying to achieve, and why” – • “Tell me about what you are seeking to achieve and why” “How can we hold each other to account for meeting these expectations?” Explore emotions connected to the expectations
  • 20. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Conversation 3: Showing genuine appreciation
  • 21. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Conversation 3: Showing genuine appreciation Participants will: • Explore the model of ‘Appreciative Inquiry’ vs. traditional feedback mechanisms • Understand what genuine appreciation is both theoretically and through an exercise • Understand and practise how to hold a conversation with their colleagues in the workshop • Appreciative inquiry: • “Talk to me about what’s going really well for you at the moment” • • 21 “What strengths and talents of yours are contributing to this?” • • “What are the reasons for this success? “Where else can you deploy these strengths and talents?” Genuine appreciation: • “Thank you for this contribution – I really appreciate it!”
  • 22. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Conversation 4: Challenging unhelpful behaviours
  • 23. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Conversation 4: Challenging unhelpful behaviours Participants will: • Explore the principles of ‘non-violent communication’ – – Emerged from a need for peace-making skills with civil rights activists in the early 1960s, then used in hostage negotiation – • Developed by Marshall Rosenberg Way of honestly expressing needs and feelings whilst maintaining positive personal relationships Learn how to prepare for this conversation – – Using the FIVEC model to prepare themselves for the conversation – • Understanding the best way to bring up the subject Establishing how to close the conversation in a way that ‘re-boots’ the relationship. Understand and practice how to hold this conversation – – Clarifying the aim of the conversation – 23 Incorporating their preparation Using non-violent communication to address the issue and resolve the behaviour
  • 24. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Conversation 4: Challenging unhelpful behaviours Non-violent communication Observations Feelings Needs Requests 24 I noticed you… I bring this up because I’m… It’s important because my need for… is not being met So would you be OK to…?
  • 25. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Conversation 5: Building for the future
  • 26. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Conversation 5: Building for the future Question: Do you know the career aspirations of your people as well as the head-hunter does? 26
  • 27. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Conversation 5: Building for the future Participants will: • Understand how to create the conditions to have an open and honest conversation about the future • Learn how to explore what the present and future aspirations look like using the future focus wheel • Understand what questions to ask during this conversation – When speaking to a colleague – When speaking to a direct report • • “What’s driving you to have these ambitions?” • “What opportunities can we create right now, for you to move towards these goals here in this organisation?” • 27 “Where do you want to be 3-5 years from now?” “What can we both do together to make this happen?”
  • 28. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Optional post-workshop follow up & support We offer a range of follow-up support as optional additions to the 5 Conversations programme. These options provide participants with a way of consolidating their learning and continuing to develop. We are happy to discuss these options with clients to determine the most appropriate option to fit with their organisation’s operations and culture. The options include: • Establishing a buddy system between participants on the programme • Setting up action learning sets which can be facilitated either by the group of participants themselves, or with support from one of our 5C facilitators • Running a follow-up webinar for participants, for example 3 months after the programme, to provide a forum for reviewing learning application and sharing best practice • Providing a one-to-one telephone coaching session for each participant with one of the programme facilitators to review learning application and coach further skills building 28
  • 29. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Closing the workshop • Consolidation and review • Commitment and action plan 29
  • 30. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Action planning & sustaining the changes • Identify upcoming critical incidents to hold a conversation – existing or to be created • Get into pairs / buddies and commit to action and follow up • Facilitated Action Learning Sets in 4, 8, 12 weeks • 1 to 1 coaching (telephone) • Follow up webinar with facilitator 30
  • 31. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Costs 2-day course: • £8,000 +VAT in UK • €12,000 + TVA or equivalent in mainland Europe • $20,000 (USD) + tax where applicable, everywhere else 1-day Masterclass : • £5,000 +VAT in UK • €8,000 + TVA or equivalent in mainland Europe • $13,000 (USD) + tax where applicable, everywhere else 31
  • 32. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Costs Our prices include: • Accredited trainers • All course materials • Administration pack for use by client’s training administrator, e.g. participant joining instructions, specification for venue & equipment • Programme evaluation processing and report 32
  • 33. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Costs Our prices do not include: • Trainer travel, accommodation or subsistence (charged at cost) • Training venue and equipment • Refreshments during the programme • Any expenses incurred by participants (e.g. travel, accommodation, subsistence) • Administration of communications with individual participants (we provide an administration pack with material that the client’s training coordinator can use) 33
  • 34. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Costs Optional follow-up activities: • Learning partner system – included in the course price. • Action learning sets; if face to face: – £5,400 / €7,500 / $10,500 + tax + facilitator travel & expenses • Action learning sets; if by webinar: – £5,400 / €7,500 / $10,500 + tax + webinar admin & telephony at cost (if client uses OG webinar system rather than their own) • Follow-up webinar: £900 / €1,250 / $1,750 + tax + webinar admin & telephony at cost (if client uses OG webinar system rather than their own) • One-to-one telephone coaching: £3,600 / €5,000 / $7,000 + tax for one 45-minute telephone coaching session for each of the 16 participants (assumes we can get through 8 sessions in a day) 34
  • 35. 5 Conversations To transform trust & engagement at work Contact us Email us: marketing@oxford-group.com Visit us: www.5conversations.co.uk Contact us for: • Exploratory discussion about how 5Cs could support your business • Complimentary ‘immersion’ session, so you can experience part of the programme Follow us: The Oxford Group | @The_OxfordGroup