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Soft skills
The key to success in the workplace
Shireen Harbin April 2017
1
In this short online course you will…
• Understand how soft
skills are important to
success in the workplace
• Understand how to use
soft skills to
communicate, manage
time, and solve problems
• Apply soft skills to specific
situations
2
What are soft skills?
3
Soft skills can be learned
• Soft skills are the personal
attributes that allow us to
effectively relate to others
• They:
o enhance personal
interactions
o lead to greater job
performance and satisfaction
o are interpersonal and can be
applied to a broad range of
situations
o encompass personality traits
(eg. optimism) and abilities
that can be practiced (eg.
empathy)
• Most important, soft skills can
be learned! 4
Soft skills are often neglected
• We often focus on
developing hard skills, such
as technology, knowledge,
or other skills related to
getting work tasks done
• Soft skills:
o build stronger work
relationships
o make work more
productive
o maximize career
prospects
o are directly transferrable
to any job, organization,
or industry
• It is worth investing in the
development of soft skills! 5
You solve problems every day!
• There are 4 steps to
problem-solving:
o Define the problem
o Generate alternate
solutions
o Evaluate
o Implement and re-
evaluate
6
You can’t solve a problem if you don’t
know what it is!
• A problem is often a
symptom of a larger issue
• Clearly define exactly
what the problem is
o this allows you to solve
the problem rather than
the symptom
• Move forward with
solutions to solve it
• Important when
emotions are high or
interactions are heated
o puts the focus back on
shared goals and allows
everyone to be heard 7
Take time to generate alternate
solutions
• Don’t just choose the first
solution
• Don’t push your preferred
solution to the exclusion of
others
• Generate alternate
solutions
• Discuss ways solutions
might play out and how to
overcome any obstacles
• As a group, decide which
ones to move forward with
• Apply active listening and
clear communication
throughout the process 8
How do we evaluate plans?
• Give all solutions equal
treatment
• Brainstorm benefits
• Anticipate problems
• Consider resources
available for each plan
o eg. people, time,
materials, funding
• As plans are evaluated, it
will quickly become clear
which are unworkable
• Narrow the list until the
most workable plans are
found
9
Don’t forget to re-evaluate!
• After the most workable plan is
chosen, its time to implement
it
o Communicate how the plan
will be implemented, what
each person’s role will be,
the expected goals and
outcomes
• Provide a timeline for the plan,
including when it will be re-
evaluated
• Communication and teamwork
are vital here
o People must feel that they are
part of the solution if you want
buy-in 10
Re-evaluation is often missed
• Take a few moments
to consider the
following question:
• Why is it important
to re-evaluate?
11
Why is it important to re-evaluate?
• Sometimes what appears
to be the most workable
plan on paper doesn't
play out when put into
action. It’s important to
re-evaluate so you can
gauge how well the plan
is working
• Depending on the results,
you may need to make
some changes or
implement a new plan
• Re-evaluation helps
determine whether the
original problem has
been solved
12
Summarizing problem-solving
• What have you learned
about problem-
solving?
• How will you use what
you’ve learned in the
future, in your
workplace or in your
personal life? Will your
approach be any
different? How?
• Next topic: Time
management
13
Time waits for no one…
• We will look at 4
topics under time
management
oScheduling
oPrioritizing
oManaging
distractions
oMulti-tasking
14
Master the art of scheduling
• Schedule work tasks
o Scheduling work tasks
makes them a priority
o Scheduling acts as a
reminder
• Scheduling takes time
to master
o Some tasks take more
or less time than
scheduled
• Don’t forget to
schedule breaks! 15
Do you schedule?
• Consider the following
questions:
• Do you schedule your
tasks?
• Do you schedule breaks?
• What types of tools do
you use to schedule your
time? (apps, Outlook, day
planner)
• Do you find scheduling
useful?
• What are other benefits
of scheduling?
16
Make it a priority
• Prioritizing ensures the
most important tasks
are dealt with
• It’s especially important
when working with
others
• Steps
o Determine what’s
important
o Slot priority items
into schedule first
17
Make it a priority
• Consider the
following questions:
• Why do you think
prioritizing is so
important when working
with others?
• What are consequences
of not prioritizing?
18
It’s important to prioritize when
working with others
• Prioritizing:
o prevents
miscommunication
o reduces conflict
o increases productivity
19
Prioritizing scenario
You come in to work on a Monday morning at 8am.
• You have 10 new emails in your Outlook inbox
• You have a meeting from 1130am-1230pm with your manager for your annual
performance review. You need an hour to complete the forms before the meeting.
You will need to update forms with comments after the meeting
• From 1230-130pm you are hosting a pot luck fundraising event. You are
responsible for collecting raffle tickets and donations (they go into two separate
envelopes and will need to be counted). You need to tell the 10 people who
brought food for the pot luck that you will be coming from a meeting and they
should set up without you. The room is booked from 12-2pm
• From 2-230pm, you have a weekly call with two team members to discuss a list of
issues. Out of this call, you will have action items to complete
You are leaving work at 4pm. How would you schedule your day?
Record your hourly schedule on a piece of paper.
20
Prioritizing scenario – Debrief
• Consider the following
questions:
• How did you find the
prioritization exercise?
Was it hard? Easy?
• What did you think of the
schedule you completed?
Could it have been done
differently?
• Are there any issues you
might not have
considered?
21
Prioritizing scenario – Debrief
• Did you consider…
o other tasks that may
be due tomorrow?
o delegating tasks to
others?
o interruptions or
distractions?
22
Finding your flow
Distractions happen!
• Determine your major
distractions
• Brainstorm solutions
• Distractions can’t be
eliminated, but they
can be minimized or
managed
23
Distractions can be minimized
Consider the following
questions:
• What are some
common types of
distractions?
• How can distractions
be minimized?
24
What are some common types of
distraction?
Possible answers:
• Checking
email/voicemail
• Colleagues
• Noise
• Clutter
• Spending too much
time on one task
(boredom) 25
How can distractions be minimized?
Possible answers:
• Establishing “open door”
hours
• Close door/ DND sign (when
might this not work?)
• Noise cancelling
headphones
• Check email/voicemail at set
times
• Let calls go to voicemail
• De-clutter workspace
• Schedule breaks
26
Is multi-tasking a myth?
27
Multi-tasking is a myth!
• Multi-tasking is trying to do
more than one thing at a
time
• Studies show 30-40% more
time is spent on tasks when
multi-tasking
o Your attention is divided
• Leads to miscommunication
and errors
• Can damage relationships
o It can convey we’re not
interested in the person
trying to get our
attention
• It’s not the best way to
manage your time! 28
Summarizing time management
• What have you
learned about time
management?
• How will you use what
you’ve learned in the
future, in your
workplace, or in your
personal life? Will
your approach be any
different? How?
• Next topic: self-
confidence
29
Own it: self-confidence
• The greatest thing you can do for
your own success is to build and
learn to show self-confidence
• Self confidence is:
o the belief that you know what
to do and how to do it, that
you are good at what you do,
that you can handle any
situation that comes your way
o building yourself up, not
tearing others down
• When you are confident, you
make others around you feel
confident too
• Helps engender trust in you
• Demonstrates you are skilled and
adaptable
30
Studies show that confident people share many
of the same traits, even across cultures and
industries
• Consider the
following question:
• What are some traits
common to confident
people?
31
What are some traits common to confident
people?
• Possible answers:
o They are not afraid to be wrong
o They are willing to take a stand, even if
they end up being wrong
o They value what is right more than they
value being right
o They listen more than they speak
o They do not seek the spotlight, they
share it with others
o They ask for help
o They think in possibilities, not in
obstacles – they ask “why not?”
o They don’t put others down
o They aren’t afraid to look silly or foolish
o They acknowledge their mistakes
o They seek feedback from only those
who matter
o They accept compliments
o They walk their talk
32
How confident are you?
• Reflect on the following statements:
o I intuitively know what’s right
for me
o I walk my talk
o I am honest with others
o I am honest with myself
o I feel comfortable being wrong
o I am more interested in finding
out what is right than being
right
o It is not important to me that I
be right all the time
o I feel like I can meet any
challenge
o I operate well under pressure
o I do not put others down
o I like to share the spotlight with
others
o I have a clear vision for my life 33
How confident are you?
• Now that you’ve
reflected on those
statements, what do
you think are some
ways of building self-
confidence?
34
Surefire self-confidence building
tactics
• Dress your best
o Knowing you look good is key to
feeling good
o When you feel good you project
confidence
o Choose clothes that fit well and that
you feel good wearing
o Choose a haircut easy that’s to style
• Stand up straight
o Good posture is a quick, free way to
build confidence
o Stand up straight and keep shoulders
back. Don’t be afraid to take up space
o A bonus of good posture is that you
breath more deeply and get more
oxygen, which may mean you have
more focus
• Practice gratitude
o Practicing gratitude helps you see all
the blessings you have in your life
o It builds confidence and appreciation
for your life
35
Surefire self-confidence building
tactics
• Compliment others
o Shows you have concern and
appreciation for others
o A key trait of people who have
high self-confidence is that they
build up others
o The success of others does not
take away from your own
o Being a mentor can help build up
others’ self-confidence
• Accept compliments
o Too often. we say, “Yes, but…”
Instead, just accept the
compliment. Say, “Thank you.”
• Spend time with people who build
you up
o It helps to keep you positive 36
Summarizing self-confidence
• What have you learned
about self-confidence?
• How will you use what
you’ve learned in the
future, in your
workplace, or in your
personal life? Will your
approach be any
different? How?
37
That’s a wrap!
• What did you learn
today?
• How will you use the
information and skills
you have learned?
• Additional resources
(link)
38

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Soft skills

  • 1. Soft skills The key to success in the workplace Shireen Harbin April 2017 1
  • 2. In this short online course you will… • Understand how soft skills are important to success in the workplace • Understand how to use soft skills to communicate, manage time, and solve problems • Apply soft skills to specific situations 2
  • 3. What are soft skills? 3
  • 4. Soft skills can be learned • Soft skills are the personal attributes that allow us to effectively relate to others • They: o enhance personal interactions o lead to greater job performance and satisfaction o are interpersonal and can be applied to a broad range of situations o encompass personality traits (eg. optimism) and abilities that can be practiced (eg. empathy) • Most important, soft skills can be learned! 4
  • 5. Soft skills are often neglected • We often focus on developing hard skills, such as technology, knowledge, or other skills related to getting work tasks done • Soft skills: o build stronger work relationships o make work more productive o maximize career prospects o are directly transferrable to any job, organization, or industry • It is worth investing in the development of soft skills! 5
  • 6. You solve problems every day! • There are 4 steps to problem-solving: o Define the problem o Generate alternate solutions o Evaluate o Implement and re- evaluate 6
  • 7. You can’t solve a problem if you don’t know what it is! • A problem is often a symptom of a larger issue • Clearly define exactly what the problem is o this allows you to solve the problem rather than the symptom • Move forward with solutions to solve it • Important when emotions are high or interactions are heated o puts the focus back on shared goals and allows everyone to be heard 7
  • 8. Take time to generate alternate solutions • Don’t just choose the first solution • Don’t push your preferred solution to the exclusion of others • Generate alternate solutions • Discuss ways solutions might play out and how to overcome any obstacles • As a group, decide which ones to move forward with • Apply active listening and clear communication throughout the process 8
  • 9. How do we evaluate plans? • Give all solutions equal treatment • Brainstorm benefits • Anticipate problems • Consider resources available for each plan o eg. people, time, materials, funding • As plans are evaluated, it will quickly become clear which are unworkable • Narrow the list until the most workable plans are found 9
  • 10. Don’t forget to re-evaluate! • After the most workable plan is chosen, its time to implement it o Communicate how the plan will be implemented, what each person’s role will be, the expected goals and outcomes • Provide a timeline for the plan, including when it will be re- evaluated • Communication and teamwork are vital here o People must feel that they are part of the solution if you want buy-in 10
  • 11. Re-evaluation is often missed • Take a few moments to consider the following question: • Why is it important to re-evaluate? 11
  • 12. Why is it important to re-evaluate? • Sometimes what appears to be the most workable plan on paper doesn't play out when put into action. It’s important to re-evaluate so you can gauge how well the plan is working • Depending on the results, you may need to make some changes or implement a new plan • Re-evaluation helps determine whether the original problem has been solved 12
  • 13. Summarizing problem-solving • What have you learned about problem- solving? • How will you use what you’ve learned in the future, in your workplace or in your personal life? Will your approach be any different? How? • Next topic: Time management 13
  • 14. Time waits for no one… • We will look at 4 topics under time management oScheduling oPrioritizing oManaging distractions oMulti-tasking 14
  • 15. Master the art of scheduling • Schedule work tasks o Scheduling work tasks makes them a priority o Scheduling acts as a reminder • Scheduling takes time to master o Some tasks take more or less time than scheduled • Don’t forget to schedule breaks! 15
  • 16. Do you schedule? • Consider the following questions: • Do you schedule your tasks? • Do you schedule breaks? • What types of tools do you use to schedule your time? (apps, Outlook, day planner) • Do you find scheduling useful? • What are other benefits of scheduling? 16
  • 17. Make it a priority • Prioritizing ensures the most important tasks are dealt with • It’s especially important when working with others • Steps o Determine what’s important o Slot priority items into schedule first 17
  • 18. Make it a priority • Consider the following questions: • Why do you think prioritizing is so important when working with others? • What are consequences of not prioritizing? 18
  • 19. It’s important to prioritize when working with others • Prioritizing: o prevents miscommunication o reduces conflict o increases productivity 19
  • 20. Prioritizing scenario You come in to work on a Monday morning at 8am. • You have 10 new emails in your Outlook inbox • You have a meeting from 1130am-1230pm with your manager for your annual performance review. You need an hour to complete the forms before the meeting. You will need to update forms with comments after the meeting • From 1230-130pm you are hosting a pot luck fundraising event. You are responsible for collecting raffle tickets and donations (they go into two separate envelopes and will need to be counted). You need to tell the 10 people who brought food for the pot luck that you will be coming from a meeting and they should set up without you. The room is booked from 12-2pm • From 2-230pm, you have a weekly call with two team members to discuss a list of issues. Out of this call, you will have action items to complete You are leaving work at 4pm. How would you schedule your day? Record your hourly schedule on a piece of paper. 20
  • 21. Prioritizing scenario – Debrief • Consider the following questions: • How did you find the prioritization exercise? Was it hard? Easy? • What did you think of the schedule you completed? Could it have been done differently? • Are there any issues you might not have considered? 21
  • 22. Prioritizing scenario – Debrief • Did you consider… o other tasks that may be due tomorrow? o delegating tasks to others? o interruptions or distractions? 22
  • 23. Finding your flow Distractions happen! • Determine your major distractions • Brainstorm solutions • Distractions can’t be eliminated, but they can be minimized or managed 23
  • 24. Distractions can be minimized Consider the following questions: • What are some common types of distractions? • How can distractions be minimized? 24
  • 25. What are some common types of distraction? Possible answers: • Checking email/voicemail • Colleagues • Noise • Clutter • Spending too much time on one task (boredom) 25
  • 26. How can distractions be minimized? Possible answers: • Establishing “open door” hours • Close door/ DND sign (when might this not work?) • Noise cancelling headphones • Check email/voicemail at set times • Let calls go to voicemail • De-clutter workspace • Schedule breaks 26
  • 27. Is multi-tasking a myth? 27
  • 28. Multi-tasking is a myth! • Multi-tasking is trying to do more than one thing at a time • Studies show 30-40% more time is spent on tasks when multi-tasking o Your attention is divided • Leads to miscommunication and errors • Can damage relationships o It can convey we’re not interested in the person trying to get our attention • It’s not the best way to manage your time! 28
  • 29. Summarizing time management • What have you learned about time management? • How will you use what you’ve learned in the future, in your workplace, or in your personal life? Will your approach be any different? How? • Next topic: self- confidence 29
  • 30. Own it: self-confidence • The greatest thing you can do for your own success is to build and learn to show self-confidence • Self confidence is: o the belief that you know what to do and how to do it, that you are good at what you do, that you can handle any situation that comes your way o building yourself up, not tearing others down • When you are confident, you make others around you feel confident too • Helps engender trust in you • Demonstrates you are skilled and adaptable 30
  • 31. Studies show that confident people share many of the same traits, even across cultures and industries • Consider the following question: • What are some traits common to confident people? 31
  • 32. What are some traits common to confident people? • Possible answers: o They are not afraid to be wrong o They are willing to take a stand, even if they end up being wrong o They value what is right more than they value being right o They listen more than they speak o They do not seek the spotlight, they share it with others o They ask for help o They think in possibilities, not in obstacles – they ask “why not?” o They don’t put others down o They aren’t afraid to look silly or foolish o They acknowledge their mistakes o They seek feedback from only those who matter o They accept compliments o They walk their talk 32
  • 33. How confident are you? • Reflect on the following statements: o I intuitively know what’s right for me o I walk my talk o I am honest with others o I am honest with myself o I feel comfortable being wrong o I am more interested in finding out what is right than being right o It is not important to me that I be right all the time o I feel like I can meet any challenge o I operate well under pressure o I do not put others down o I like to share the spotlight with others o I have a clear vision for my life 33
  • 34. How confident are you? • Now that you’ve reflected on those statements, what do you think are some ways of building self- confidence? 34
  • 35. Surefire self-confidence building tactics • Dress your best o Knowing you look good is key to feeling good o When you feel good you project confidence o Choose clothes that fit well and that you feel good wearing o Choose a haircut easy that’s to style • Stand up straight o Good posture is a quick, free way to build confidence o Stand up straight and keep shoulders back. Don’t be afraid to take up space o A bonus of good posture is that you breath more deeply and get more oxygen, which may mean you have more focus • Practice gratitude o Practicing gratitude helps you see all the blessings you have in your life o It builds confidence and appreciation for your life 35
  • 36. Surefire self-confidence building tactics • Compliment others o Shows you have concern and appreciation for others o A key trait of people who have high self-confidence is that they build up others o The success of others does not take away from your own o Being a mentor can help build up others’ self-confidence • Accept compliments o Too often. we say, “Yes, but…” Instead, just accept the compliment. Say, “Thank you.” • Spend time with people who build you up o It helps to keep you positive 36
  • 37. Summarizing self-confidence • What have you learned about self-confidence? • How will you use what you’ve learned in the future, in your workplace, or in your personal life? Will your approach be any different? How? 37
  • 38. That’s a wrap! • What did you learn today? • How will you use the information and skills you have learned? • Additional resources (link) 38

Editor's Notes

  • #2: Instructor note: Welcome to the soft-skills workshop Ask students to make name tags while they wait Write the agenda on the board - Objectives - Housekeeping - Introductions - Start with a definition of soft skills, then talk about 3 topics: Problem- solving, time management, and self-confidence - We’ll have some discussion, do some activities, and summarize what we’ve learned - End the class with some resources - Parking lot Student activity: Purpose: To make name tags Output: name tags Groupings: Individual Timing: 5 minutes Materials: labels, markers Detailed instructions: Write your name clearly on the name tag using the markers provided; wear the name tag Debrief questions: none
  • #3: Instructor note: Attention – By the end of the workshop, students will be able to… Context – 3 hour workshop where we will learn about three soft skills Objectives - 3 objectives for the workshop Map/agenda – Review the agenda written on the board - Explain the parking lot concept: a place to “park” ideas that may not be on the agenda or may be off topic - Explain that we will address parked items as the end of the workshop (either suggest resources or ways the topic can be investigated after the workshop) Benefits – Develop knowledge and/or skill in effective time-management, problem-solving and building self-confidence Student activity: none (approximate time on slide: 2 mins)
  • #4: Instructor notes: Encourage participation in the discussion Wait for spontaneous answers, then pick a few students by name to give answers if there is no or little participation You may wish to write out the list students have generated on the board Student activity: Purpose: To define soft skills Brief instructions: Answer the question on the slide Output: Discussion Groupings: Whole class Timing: 5 minutes Materials: none, or chalk/marker if you will make a list on the black/whiteboard Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none
  • #5: Instructor notes: Key points: Definition: Soft skills are the personal attributes that allow us to effectively relate to others They enhance personal interactions and lead to greater job performance and satisfaction They are interpersonal and can be applied in a broad array of situations They encompass both personality traits, such as optimism, and abilities which can be practiced, such as empathy Most important, soft skills can be learned! Student activity: Purpose: To discuss the benefits of soft skills Brief instructions: Answer the following question Input: What are some benefits of soft skills? Output: Group discussion Groupings: Whole class Timing: 5 minutes Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none. Benefits discussed on next slide.
  • #6: Instructor notes: Key points: We often focus on developing hard skills, such as technology skills, knowledge, and other skills that related to getting work-related tasks done. We neglect to develop our soft skills However, they are directly transferrable to any job, organization or industry. So it is worth investing in their development Student activity: Purpose: To generate examples of soft skills Brief instructions: Answer the following question Input: What are some examples of soft skills (other than the ones we will be discussing today)? Output: Group discussion. You may wish to make a list of students’ answers on the board Groupings: Whole class Timing: 5 minutes Materials: none, unless you want to make a list on the board: markers /chalk (white/blackboard) Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none Some examples of soft skills include: Communication Listening Showing empathy Networking Self-confidence Giving feedback Move on to next topic: problem-solving (approximate time into workshop: 30 minutes)
  • #7: Instructor notes: Key points: You solve problems every day, big or small Learning how to apply problem solving skills helps to enhance productivity and to cultivate relationships by focusing on shared goals and solutions 4 steps to problem solving Student activity: none (approximate time on slide: 2 mins)
  • #8: Instructor notes: Key points: You can’t solve a problem if you don’t know what it is First step in solving a problem is to define it exactly Allows you to solve the problem rather than a symptom of a larger issue Especially important when emotions are running high or interactions are heated – it puts the focus back on shared goals and allows everyone to be heard Student activity: none (approximate time on slide: 2 mins)
  • #9: Instructor notes: Key points: Important not to choose the first solution that presents itself. Nor should you push your own solution to the exclusion of others Instead take time to generate alternative solutions Ask others for their ideas for solving the problem Discuss ways the alternative solutions might play out, problems they might encounter, and how to overcome any obstacles When many solutions have been generated, discuss as a group which ones you would all like to move forward with Apply active listening and clear communications throughout the process Student activity: none (approximate time on slide: 2 mins)
  • #10: Instructor notes: After generating list of alternative solutions, time to make plans and evaluate them Key points: Give all solutions fair treatment As a group, brainstorm potential benefits to each plan Anticipate obstacles or problems Consider the resources available for each proposed plan – people, time, materials, funding As plans are evaluated, it quickly becomes clear which are unworkable Narrow the list until the most workable plans are found Student activity: none (approximate time on slide: 2 mins)
  • #11: Instructor notes: After the most workable plan is chosen, it’s time to implement it Key points communicate clearly how the plan will be implemented, what each persons role will be, the goals and expected outcomes also provide a timeline for the plan, including when the plan will be re-evaluated Student activity: Purpose: To briefly discuss soft skills and how they are useful in problem solving To examine why it’s important to re-evaluate plans Brief instructions: Answer the following questions Input: Two questions Other soft skills you are developing are vital here. What might they be? Re-evaluation is often missed. Why is it important to re-evaluate? Output: group discussion Groupings: Whole class Timing: 10 minutes (2 questions, 5 minutes each) Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none Potential Answers: Communication and teamwork are vital here. People must feel that they are part of the solution if you want buy-in 2) Sometimes what appears to be the most workable plan on paper doesn't play out when put into action. It’s important to re-evaluate so you can gauge how well the pan is working Depending on the results, you may need to make some changes or implement a new plan Re-evaluation helps determine whether the original problem has been solved
  • #14: Instructor notes: Ask questions to class Can suggest to students to list one “take away” they have from the lesson; take a few spontaneous answers, select students if necessary Can ask students to share personal stories related to problem solving, or share one of your own Student activity: Purpose: To summarize what we’ve learned about problem solving Brief instruction: Answer the questions on the slide Output: Discussion Groupings: whole class Timing: 10 minutes Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none After the activity it might be a good time to check in and see how people are doing, if they have questions before moving on Move on to next topic: Time management (approximate time into workshop: 60 minutes)
  • #15: Instructor note: We’ll discuss 4 topics under time management Scheduling Prioritizing Managing distractions Multi-tasking Student activity: none (approximate time on slide: 2 mins)
  • #16: Instructor note: Key points: Scheduling tasks makes them a priority Acts as a reminder Some tasks take more or less time than scheduled Student activity: Purpose: To discuss techniques and tools for self-management and reflect on its usefulness Brief instructions: Answer the following questions Input: Do you schedule your tasks? Do you schedule breaks? What types of tools do you use to schedule your time? (apps, Outlook, day planner) Do you find scheduling useful? What are other benefits of scheduling? Output: Discussion Groupings: whole class Timing: 10 minutes Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none
  • #17: Instructor note: Key points: Scheduling tasks makes them a priority Acts as a reminder Some tasks take more or less time than scheduled Student activity: Purpose: To discuss techniques and tools for self-management and reflect on its usefulness Brief instructions: Answer the following questions Input: Do you schedule your tasks? Do you schedule breaks? What types of tools do you use to schedule your time? (apps, Outlook, day planner) Do you find scheduling useful? What are other benefits of scheduling? Output: Discussion Groupings: whole class Timing: 10 minutes Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none
  • #18: Instructor note: Key points: Prioritizing ensures most important tasks are dealt with Especially important when working with others Student activity: Purpose: To discuss the importance of prioritization when working with others and the consequences of not prioritizing Brief instructions: Answer the following questions Input: Why do you think prioritizing is so important when working with others? What are consequences of not prioritizing? Output: Discussion Groupings: whole class Timing: 10 minutes (5 minutes per question) Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none Possible answers to why it’s important to prioritize when working with others: prevents miscommunication reduces conflict increases productivity This would be a good time to take a 15 minute break (approximate time into workshop: 1 hr 20 minutes) (Next slide: 30 minute prioritization scenario)
  • #19: Instructor note: Key points: Prioritizing ensures most important tasks are dealt with Especially important when working with others Student activity: Purpose: To discuss the importance of prioritization when working with others and the consequences of not prioritizing Brief instructions: Answer the following questions Input: Why do you think prioritizing is so important when working with others? What are consequences of not prioritizing? Output: Discussion Groupings: whole class Timing: 10 minutes (5 minutes per question) Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none Possible answers to why it’s important to prioritize when working with others: prevents miscommunication reduces conflict increases productivity This would be a good time to take a 15 minute break (approximate time into workshop: 1 hr 20 minutes) (Next slide: 30 minute prioritization scenario)
  • #20: Instructor note: Key points: Prioritizing ensures most important tasks are dealt with Especially important when working with others Student activity: Purpose: To discuss the importance of prioritization when working with others and the consequences of not prioritizing Brief instructions: Answer the following questions Input: Why do you think prioritizing is so important when working with others? What are consequences of not prioritizing? Output: Discussion Groupings: whole class Timing: 10 minutes (5 minutes per question) Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none Possible answers to why it’s important to prioritize when working with others: prevents miscommunication reduces conflict increases productivity This would be a good time to take a 15 minute break (approximate time into workshop: 1 hr 20 minutes) (Next slide: 30 minute prioritization scenario)
  • #21: Instructor note: Walk around to see how students are doing, if any group needs help Have students post and read answers one group at a time. Then ask questions Provide positive feedback for answers After discussion, reinforce that there is no right answer. Everyone prioritizes differently Student activity : Purpose: To gain skills in prioritizing a workday schedule Groupings: Divide students into small groups (3-4) Timing: 10 minutes activity, 10 minutes presentations, 10 minutes debrief Materials: chart paper, markers, tape to post on board Detailed instructions: In groups, write out a schedule for the day. Be prepared to share with class, including your rationale for decisions Debrief questions: How did you find this exercise, was it hard? Easy? What did you think of the answers provided by your groups? Is there one schedule that would work better? Why or why not? Are there any issues you might not have considered? Possible answers: other tasks that may be due tomorrow delegating tasks to others interruptions or distractions! (approximate time into workshop: 2 hrs 5 minutes)
  • #24: Instructor note: Key points: Distractions can’t be eliminated They can be minimized or managed Student activity: Purpose: To discuss common types of distraction and how they can be eliminated Brief instructions: Answer the following questions Input: What are some common types of distraction? How can distractions be minimized? Output: Discussion Groupings: whole class Timing: 5 minutes Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none Possible answers (types of distraction): Checking email/voicemail Colleagues Noise Clutter Spending too much time on one task (boredom) Possible answers (how to minimize distractions): Establishing “open door” hours Close door/ DND sign - when might this not work? (shared office space) Noise cancelling headphones Check email/voicemail at set times Let calls go to voicemail De-clutter workspace Schedule breaks
  • #25: Instructor note: Key points: Distractions can’t be eliminated They can be minimized or managed Student activity: Purpose: To discuss common types of distraction and how they can be eliminated Brief instructions: Answer the following questions Input: What are some common types of distraction? How can distractions be minimized? Output: Discussion Groupings: whole class Timing: 5 minutes Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none Possible answers (types of distraction): Checking email/voicemail Colleagues Noise Clutter Spending too much time on one task (boredom) Possible answers (how to minimize distractions): Establishing “open door” hours Close door/ DND sign - when might this not work? (shared office space) Noise cancelling headphones Check email/voicemail at set times Let calls go to voicemail De-clutter workspace Schedule breaks
  • #26: Instructor note: Key points: Distractions can’t be eliminated They can be minimized or managed Student activity: Purpose: To discuss common types of distraction and how they can be eliminated Brief instructions: Answer the following questions Input: What are some common types of distraction? How can distractions be minimized? Output: Discussion Groupings: whole class Timing: 5 minutes Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none Possible answers (types of distraction): Checking email/voicemail Colleagues Noise Clutter Spending too much time on one task (boredom) Possible answers (how to minimize distractions): Establishing “open door” hours Close door/ DND sign - when might this not work? (shared office space) Noise cancelling headphones Check email/voicemail at set times Let calls go to voicemail De-clutter workspace Schedule breaks
  • #27: Instructor note: Key points: Distractions can’t be eliminated They can be minimized or managed Student activity: Purpose: To discuss common types of distraction and how they can be eliminated Brief instructions: Answer the following questions Input: What are some common types of distraction? How can distractions be minimized? Output: Discussion Groupings: whole class Timing: 5 minutes Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none Possible answers (types of distraction): Checking email/voicemail Colleagues Noise Clutter Spending too much time on one task (boredom) Possible answers (how to minimize distractions): Establishing “open door” hours Close door/ DND sign - when might this not work? (shared office space) Noise cancelling headphones Check email/voicemail at set times Let calls go to voicemail De-clutter workspace Schedule breaks
  • #28: Instructor note: Encourage participation in the discussion Wait for spontaneous answers, then pick a few students by name to give answers if there is no or little participation Student activity: Purpose: To discuss whether students believe multi-tasking is a myth and why Brief instructions: Answer the following questions Input: Is multi-tasking a myth? Do you agree/disagree? Why? Output: Discussion Groupings: whole class Timing: 5 minutes Materials: none Detailed instructions: none
  • #29: Instructor note: Key points: Multi-tasking – trying to do more than one thing at a time Studies show 30-40% more time spent on tasks when multi-tasking Can convey we’re not interested Student activity: None (approximate time on slide: 2 mins)
  • #30: Instructor notes: Ask questions to class Can suggest to students to list one “take away” they have from the lesson Can ask students to share personal stories Student activity: Purpose: To summarize what we’ve learned about time-management Brief instructions: Answer the questions on the slide Input: Questions Output: Discussion Groupings: whole class Timing: 5 minutes Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none Move on to final topic: self-confidence
  • #31: Instructor notes: The greatest thing you can do for your own success is to build and learn to show self-confidence Key points: self-confidence is not egotistic or acting like you are better than others self-confidence is the belief that you know what to do and how to do it, that you are good at what you do, that you can handle any situation that comes your way studies show that confident people share many of the same traits, even across cultures and industries Student activity: Purpose: To list traits common to confident people Brief instructions: answer the question Input: what are some of the traits common to confident people? Output: Discussion Groupings: Whole class Timing: 5 minutes Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none Possible answers: They are not afraid to be wrong They are willing to take a stand, even if they end up being wrong They value what is right more than they value being right They listen more than they speak They do not seek the spotlight, they share it with others They ask for help They think in possibilities, not in obstacles – they ask “why not?” They don’t put others down They aren’t afraid to look silly or foolish They acknowledge their mistakes They seek feedback from only those who matter They accept compliments They walk their talk
  • #32: Instructor notes: The greatest thing you can do for your own success is to build and learn to show self-confidence Key points: self-confidence is not egotistic or acting like you are better than others self-confidence is the belief that you know what to do and how to do it, that you are good at what you do, that you can handle any situation that comes your way studies show that confident people share many of the same traits, even across cultures and industries Student activity: Purpose: To list traits common to confident people Brief instructions: answer the question Input: what are some of the traits common to confident people? Output: Discussion Groupings: Whole class Timing: 5 minutes Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none Possible answers: They are not afraid to be wrong They are willing to take a stand, even if they end up being wrong They value what is right more than they value being right They listen more than they speak They do not seek the spotlight, they share it with others They ask for help They think in possibilities, not in obstacles – they ask “why not?” They don’t put others down They aren’t afraid to look silly or foolish They acknowledge their mistakes They seek feedback from only those who matter They accept compliments They walk their talk
  • #33: Instructor notes: The greatest thing you can do for your own success is to build and learn to show self-confidence Key points: self-confidence is not egotistic or acting like you are better than others self-confidence is the belief that you know what to do and how to do it, that you are good at what you do, that you can handle any situation that comes your way studies show that confident people share many of the same traits, even across cultures and industries Student activity: Purpose: To list traits common to confident people Brief instructions: answer the question Input: what are some of the traits common to confident people? Output: Discussion Groupings: Whole class Timing: 5 minutes Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none Possible answers: They are not afraid to be wrong They are willing to take a stand, even if they end up being wrong They value what is right more than they value being right They listen more than they speak They do not seek the spotlight, they share it with others They ask for help They think in possibilities, not in obstacles – they ask “why not?” They don’t put others down They aren’t afraid to look silly or foolish They acknowledge their mistakes They seek feedback from only those who matter They accept compliments They walk their talk
  • #34: Instructor notes: Introduction to student activity: It can be hard to assess your own self-confidence Taking the time to ask a few questions and answer them honestly can help you gauge areas where your confidence is high and areas where you can develop grater confidence Ask yourself if you agree with the following statements: Student activity: Purpose: To reflect on a list of statements about self-confidence Brief instructions: reflect on the following questions Input: I intuitively know what’s right for me I walk my talk I am honest with others I am honest with myself I feel comfortable being wrong I am more interested in finding out what is right than being right It is not important to me that I be right all the time I feel like I can meet any challenge I operate well under pressure I do not put others down I like to share the spotlight with others I have a clear vision for my life Output: individual reflection (not shared) Groupings: individual Timing: 5 minutes Materials: none Detailed instructions: Instructor reads out the list of questions below while students reflect privately on their answers Debrief questions: Now that you’ve reflected on those statements, what do you think are some ways of building self-confidence? Does anyone have any stories to share on what’s worked for them? (5 minutes, whole class discussion) Transition to final slide on confidence (approximate time into workshop: 2 hrs 40 minutes)
  • #35: Instructor notes: Introduction to student activity: It can be hard to assess your own self-confidence Taking the time to ask a few questions and answer them honestly can help you gauge areas where your confidence is high and areas where you can develop grater confidence Ask yourself if you agree with the following statements: Student activity: Purpose: To reflect on a list of statements about self-confidence Brief instructions: reflect on the following questions Input: I intuitively know what’s right for me I walk my talk I am honest with others I am honest with myself I feel comfortable being wrong I am more interested in finding out what is right than being right It is not important to me that I be right all the time I feel like I can meet any challenge I operate well under pressure I do not put others down I like to share the spotlight with others I have a clear vision for my life Output: individual reflection (not shared) Groupings: individual Timing: 5 minutes Materials: none Detailed instructions: Instructor reads out the list of questions below while students reflect privately on their answers Debrief questions: Now that you’ve reflected on those statements, what do you think are some ways of building self-confidence? Does anyone have any stories to share on what’s worked for them? (5 minutes, whole class discussion) Transition to final slide on confidence (approximate time into workshop: 2 hrs 40 minutes)
  • #36: Instructor notes: Key points: Dress your best Knowing you look good is key to feeling good When you feel good you project confidence Choose clothes that fit well and you feel good wearing Choose a haircut easy to style Stand up straight Good posture is a quick free way to build confidence Stand up straight and keep shoulders back. Don’t be afraid to take up space A bonus of good posture is that you breath more deeply and get more oxygen, which may mean you have more focus Practice gratitude Practicing gratitude helps you see all the blessings you have in your life It builds confidence and appreciation for your life Compliment others Shows you have concern and appreciation for others A key trait of people who have high self-confidence is they build up others The success of others does not take away from your own Being a mentor can help build up others’ self-confidence Accept compliments Too often we say “yes, but…” Instead just accept the compliment, say “thank you” Spend time with people who build you up It helps to keep your positive Student activity: none (Approximate time on slide: 5 minutes) Transition to summary slide on self-confidence
  • #37: Instructor notes: Key points: Dress your best Knowing you look good is key to feeling good When you feel good you project confidence Choose clothes that fit well and you feel good wearing Choose a haircut easy to style Stand up straight Good posture is a quick free way to build confidence Stand up straight and keep shoulders back. Don’t be afraid to take up space A bonus of good posture is that you breath more deeply and get more oxygen, which may mean you have more focus Practice gratitude Practicing gratitude helps you see all the blessings you have in your life It builds confidence and appreciation for your life Compliment others Shows you have concern and appreciation for others A key trait of people who have high self-confidence is they build up others The success of others does not take away from your own Being a mentor can help build up others’ self-confidence Accept compliments Too often we say “yes, but…” Instead just accept the compliment, say “thank you” Spend time with people who build you up It helps to keep your positive Student activity: none (Approximate time on slide: 5 minutes) Transition to summary slide on self-confidence
  • #38: Instructor notes: Ask questions to class Can suggest to students to list one “take away” they have from the lesson Can ask students to share personal stories Student activity: Purpose: To summarize what we’ve learned about self-confidence Brief instructions: Answer the questions on the slide Input: Questions Output: Discussion Groupings: whole class Timing: 5 minutes Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none (Transition to final slide of workshop)
  • #39: Instructor note: Summarize - have students summarize points of the lesson; of all the things you’ve learned, what’s one thing you’ll take away from this course? Application – have students explain how they will use what they’ve learned in Transition – Additional resources (handout) Parking lot – review any parking lot items Student activity: Purpose: To summarize what students have learned in class and how they will use it in the future Brief instructions: Answer the questions on the slide Input: Questions on slide Output: Discussion Groupings: Whole class Timing: 5 minutes Materials: none Detailed instructions: none Debrief questions: none. Thank students for their participation. Hand out workshop evaluation (5 minutes to complete)