1. A website is loaded by a browser through a multi-step process involving DNS lookups, TCP connections, downloading resources like HTML, CSS, JS, and images. This process can be slow due to the number of individual requests and dependencies between resources.
2. Ways to optimize the loading process include making the server fast, inlining critical resources, gzip compression, an optimized caching strategy, optimizing file delivery through techniques like CDNs and HTTP/2, bundling resources, optimizing images, avoiding unnecessary domains, minimizing web fonts, and JavaScript techniques like PJAX. Minifying assets can also speed up loading.