Challenges and coping strategies among couples of mixed hiv status presenting at a large comprehensive care centre in eldoret

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Vol 2, No.8, 2012

Challenges and Coping Strategies among Couples of Mixed HIV
Status Presenting at a Large Comprehensive Care Centre in
Eldoret, Kenya
Moses Gitonga1*, Joyce Ballidawa2, Samson Ndege3
1. Kimathi University College of Technology, PO box 657 - 10100 Nyeri, Kenya
2. Department of Behavioural Sciences, School of medicine, Moi University PO box 4606 – 30100
Eldoret, Kenya
3. Department of Epidemiology and Nutrition, School of Public Health, Moi University PO box 4606 –
30100 Eldoret, Kenya
* mwangiguk@gmail.com

Abstract
This study was to determine challenges and coping strategies of HIV discordant couples seen at AMPATH
Centre, Moi Teaching and Referral Hospital, Kenya. A cross sectional study design with consecutive sampling
was used.384 participated. Challenges included; negotiation for sex (100%), need for children (94%) and blame
for HIV infection. Females reported more abuse (65.4% against 34.6% for males). Highest incidence of abuse
was reported among the unemployed HIV positive females. Coping strategies expressed included; abstinence
(9%), condom use (74%), sleeping facing opposite sides in bed or separation of beds (11%) and living apart. A
bivariate analysis of those participants who reported use of condom all the time and those who reported
otherwise showed Age group, order of HIV testing and HIV status were significant while level of formal
education of the participants and occupation were not. Negotiation for sex formed the greatest challenge while a
combination of coping strategies was used.
Keywords: HIV, Discordant couple, challenges, coping strategies

1. Introduction
The HIV/AIDS epidemic is probably the greatest challenge facing Africa. According to UNAIDS Global report
(2010), in 2009, 22.5 million adults and children were living with HIV in sub-Saharan Africa (this represents
around 67.6 percent of the worldwide total and implies that 5.0 % of adults living in the region are HIV positive),
between 1.1–1.5 million died from the virus and an estimated 1.8 million people became infected in 2009.
According to the 2008–09 Kenya Demographic and Health Survey (KDHS), HIV prevalence is 6.3% for
women and men age 15–49, compared with 6.7% in the 2003 KDHS and 7.4% in the 2007 Kenya AIDS
Indicator Survey. In Kenya, 8.0% of women and 4.3% of men are HIV-positive. By comparison, in 2003, 8.7%
of women and 4.6% of men had HIV. In the 2007 KAIS, 8.8% of women and 5.5% of men 15-49 were HIV
positive.
The prevalence of serodiscordant couples in populations varies. In sub-Saharan Africa, studies have found
rates of 3–20% in the general population, and higher rates of 20–35% in studies of those presenting to voluntary
counseling and testing (VCT) services (Bunnell et.al.2005). In a longitudinal study of couples in Tanzania, risk
of HIV for a seronegative partner in a serodiscordant couple was several times higher than that of partners in
seroconcordant HIV negative couples (Hugonnet et.al. 2002).
Couples may have poor understanding of what it means to be serodiscordant. A number of misconceptions
have been noted in a descriptive study from Uganda. (Bunnell et. al. 2005). There was belief that both people in
the couple were infected but tests had failed to detect this, belief that the HIV seronegative partner was somehow
immune to HIV, belief that God was protecting the HIV seronegative partner, and that “gentler” sex offered
protection to the HIV seronegative partner.
As Beckerman (2000) point out, serodiscordant couples have faced a number of challenges over the decades
of HIV/AIDS. Combination therapies added hope to the survival of the HIV positive partner, but it also has
created new challenges to intimacy. They identified three emotional challenges in discordant relationships as (1)
the impact of side effects from medications, (2) safer sex conflicts, and (3) the decision making process
regarding reproductive issues and family planning (Beckerman et.al.2002). When asked how they coped, the
primary source of psychological support was found in their friendships with other couples of mixed HIV status,
couple counseling and individual counseling.
HIV prevention messages have focused on risk in the context of casual relationships outside of marriage
(Barden-O’Fallon et al., 2004; Merson et al., 2000). This has led to the view that marriage is a safe haven,
usually without emphasizing the importance of HIV testing before marriage or within already long time married
couples who have not been previously tested.

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2. Methods
2.1 Study Design and Setting
A cross sectional study design was used.
The research was conducted at AMPATH (Academic Model Providing Access to Health Care) Centre located
within Moi Teaching and Referral Hospital (MTRH) in Eldoret. AMPATH currently treats over 100,000
HIV-positive patients at 23 sites in both urban and rural Kenya.
2.2 Population and Sampling
Participants were selected by use of consecutive sampling. All eligible discordant couple members presenting to
the clinics (modules) were then enrolled until the sample size (N=384) was attained.
2.3 Data Collection and Analysis
The open-ended questions responses on challenges and coping strategies formed the basis for qualitative data.
NVIVO (Version 7.0) software for qualitative research was used to code and analyze content of the data,
enabling identification, exploration and consolidation of the major emerging key themes and views that were in
agreement or opposition to the themes, and also comparisons of responses from the various participants. STATA
9 was used to analyze quantitative data.
2.4 Ethical Considerations
Before execution of the study, the research protocol was submitted to the Moi Teaching and Referral
Hospital/Moi University’s Institutional Research and Ethics Committee (IREC) for ethical approval.
Permission was sought from the AMPATH Research Committee from whose endorsement it was possible to
carry out the study at AMPATH centre adult clinics.

3. Results
3.1 Demographics
A total of 384 participants were interviewed. They had a median age of 35 years with a range of 39 years,
between 20 years and 59 years old. The mean age was 36.3 years. 55.2% of the participants were females. The
median period of living together for the couples was 11 years with a range of 30 years, between one year and 31
years.
Table 1: Participants demographics (N=384)
3.2 Order of testing for HIV
Most of the participants (63.3%) reported having been the ones who tested first, after which they requested their
partners to get tested, thus discovering their HIV discordance status. Only 25.8% of the participants had tested as
a couple.
3.3 Discordant Couples’ Challenges
3.3.1 Challenges in regards to issues pertaining sex
Issues pertaining to sex posed the most difficult challenge for participants. Immediately after receiving
discordant HIV test results, participants reported having had disagreements over sex and blame about bringing
HIV into the family. Lack of interest in sex initially after testing was reported by the participants; seven (7)
discordant couple members said they had lost interest in sex completely due to their discordant status.
One HIV-positive man explicitly reported sex –related verbal and psychological abuse from his partner:
“For the last three years my wife has refused to have sex with me, she constantly reiterates that I got what I
deserved for my promiscuous past, further she insists that should I feel like having sex, then I should go ‘have it’
with my previous ‘partners’. She has moved from our matrimonial bed and now sleeps on the sofa in the sitting
room.”
Condom use posed another challenge as regards sex. Ninety one participants (23.7%) felt the use of condoms
during any sexual act with their spouses’ as overburdening and alien.
As one HIV negative man stated:
“I have been condemned to a life of using condoms all the time for fear of infection, I can never enjoy natural
sex, its very saddening, am tempted to take the risk”
A HIV positive woman stated:
“since we use condoms, my spouse usually feels unsatisfied.”
Yet another one stated:
“my husband does not want to keep going for tests after every three months and neither does he want to use
protection during intercourse.”
Though after living with discordance over a considerable period the participants reported having come to a
compromise in regards to sexual matters, nearly all of them still felt that something was amiss. While the
majority 73.9 %% (258) reported consistent condom use, 25 %( 96) had had a child since learning of their
discordant status.
3.3.2 Blame for HIV infection
Three hundred and sixty one (94 %) of the participants reported that their initial reaction to their discordant
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results was to equate discordance with infidelity on the part of the HIV-positive partner. Most of the participants
who had lived longer with discordance [greater than a year, 72.4% (278)) reported less instances of blame for
HIV infection as opposed to their newly diagnosed discordant couples ( less than a year, 27.6%, 106)
3.3.3 Ignorance on HIV discordance
Nearly all participants (91.4%, 351) reported limited knowledge on HIV discordance. They further were of the
belief that HIV-discordance was rare, and, as a result, felt isolated. They did not realize, until participating in the
study, that many other couples faced similar challenges. Despite 68.8% (264) of participants reporting having
had some information on HIV discordance from health personnel, they still expressed ignorance about
discordance. Lack of information may have influenced the coping mechanisms they adopted.
3.3.4 Loss of psycho-socio-economic support
Psychological stress due to discordant status was frequently reported. Inadequate social support to help in coping
with discordance was also reported. The HIV positive parties felt that society looked down at them as being
promiscuous and a risk to their families especially their spouses.
Eighty one (21.1%) of the participants reported aspects of verbal or physical abuse, with consequences of
the abuse ranging from loss of economic support, psychological trauma, partner staying away from home to
relationship breaking up. The highest incidence of abuse was reported among the unemployed females who were
HIV positive as illustrated in the bivariate analysis table 2.
A bivariate analysis of those participants who reported verbal or physical abuse and those who reported no
abuse showed Age group, gender, occupation, order of HIV testing and HIV status were significant at 0.05
significance level. Females were more likely to report abuse (65.4% against 34.6% for males, n=81). The level
of education of the participants was not significant.
Table 2: A table of Bivariate analysis comparing those who were verbally or physically abused by partner
and those who were not abused.
3.3.5 Need for children
Issues regarding procreation posed a big challenge especially for young couples who had no children at the time
of discovering their HIV discordant status or for those who wanted more children.
Ninety six (25%) of the participants had had a child since knowing their HIV discordance status. Of these
none utilized relatively safe forms of conception technologies, mostly due to ignorance and the costly nature of
these technologies to the average Kenyan.
The challenge is further compounded by traditional African culture putting a lot of weight to children in any
marriage.
A bivariate analysis of those participants who reported having had a child since knowing their HIV
discordance status and those who had had no child showed Age group, gender, occupation, religion, order of HIV
testing and HIV status were significant at 0.05 significance level. Age group and gender were strongly
significant. The level of education of the participants was not significant.
Table 3: A table of Bivariate analysis comparing those who have had a child since knowing their HIV
discordance status and those who had had no child.
3.4 HIV Discordant Couples’ Coping Strategies
3.4.1 Condom use
With regard to the challenge on intimacy (sex), condom use was the most common and preferred strategy used
by the participants. Thirty five (9.1 %) of the participants reported adopting abstinence as a strategy, but with
frequent failure, hence switching to condom use. However there were differences among couples: men were
more likely to report that there had been no problems, while women reported that condom use was inconsistent.
Seventy four percent (n=258) of participants reported consistent use of condoms, however when
participants were asked if it were possible for couples to consistently and correctly use condoms 63.3% (n=243)
responded in the affirmative.
One HIV-positive woman commented:
“Though my husband does not like to use condoms during intercourse, I insist since I do not want him to get
infected, as he’s the only hope for the family now.”
A bivariate analysis of those participants who reported use of condom all the time and those who reported
otherwise showed Age group, order of HIV testing and HIV status were significant at 0.05 significance level.
The level of formal education of the participants and occupation were not significant.
Table 4: A table of Bivariate analysis comparing those who reported use of condom all the time and those
who did not.
3.4.2 Living apart
This was another strategy used by participants, especially for those newly diagnosed discordant couples. The
spouses would live separately though maintaining their relationship, this reduced instances of sexual encounters
between the couples. This was more common where a member of the couple was working in town whereas the
spouse lived rural.
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Some HIV negative women (11.1%, 6) insisted on their spouses sleeping in separate beds or sleeping on same
bed but facing opposite directions.
3.4.3 Abstinence
Very few participants had chosen abstinence as their coping strategy (9.1%, 35).HIV negative females said they
would prefer abstinence if their HIV positive partners were in agreement.
One HIV negative woman insisted they had to abstain, though the spouse did not like the idea, she insisted that
they had to sleep facing opposite sides of the bed. This was vehemently opposed by the husband, but she had her
way.
Men felt that abstinence was not easy. However abstinence appeared to be easier if an HIV positive man
endorsed it. The fear of both members of the couple getting infected was the driving force behind some cases of
abstinence. Some who could not abstain resulted to seeking for other sexual partners.
Age group, gender, occupation and order of HIV testing were significant at 0.05 significance level. The
level of formal education of the participants and religion were not significant.
Table 5: A table of Bivariate analysis comparing those who have other sexual partner and those who do
not have.

4. Discussion
Most of the participants interviewed did not test as a couple; they tested first and their spouse followed. This is
contrary to findings by Robertson G. et al, 2005 whose experience indicates that deciding to test together was a
mutual decision for the majority of couples. The most common reasons cited for HIV testing was that the doctor
recommended, this may be in-line with the policy of diagnostic testing and counseling now evolved to Provider
Initiated Testing and Counseling(PITC) which has enabled scaling up and greater uptake of HIV testing in
Kenya.
Most participants reported incorrect explanations for discordance including the view that HIV transmission
was based on luck and that their luck could end at any time, that it was an act of God, that the HIV-negative
couple member had peculiar protective characteristics, rather than on the infectiousness of the HIV-positive
partner. Bunnell et al 2005 also found out such incorrect beliefs regarding discordance including the concept of a
hidden infection not detectable by HIV tests, that the negative partner may be in the ‘window period’, the
thought that transmission is a consequence of ‘rough sex’ and that ‘gentle sex’ will protect HIV-negative partners,
belief in protection by God, or simply denial that discordance as a phenomenon exists in a qualitative study in
Uganda.
Participants in this study who had lived for over one year with discordance reported having developed
adequate coping strategies and were seen to report less instances of challenges due to their HIV discordance
status. Duration of living together is one of the partnership dynamics that may determine risk behavior within
partnerships. (Gorbach P.M. et al 2003)
The challenges faced by HIV discordant couples in this study appear similar to those identified in
discordant couples elsewhere (Bunnell et.al.2005). Fear of HIV transmission, coping with uncertainty of
potential illness, shifts in emotional intimacy, and dilemmas regarding how HIV has impacted reproductive
alternatives were identified as the most commonly experienced emotional issues for the serodiscordant couple
noted in a study by Beckerman et al, 2002, these closely tally with challenges reported in our findings.
Studies on heterosexual and homosexual HIV discordant couples in the US have highlighted their unique
challenges regarding sexual intimacy, disclosure to family and friends, feelings of isolation, uncertainty about the
future, caregiver distress, trust, commitment, and reproductive decisions (Foley et al., 1994; Remien et al., 2003;
Van Der et al., 1998; VanDevanter et al., 1999). These findings have implications for the design of interventions
to enhance adaptation to HIV for discordant couples. HIV discordant couples also have increased levels of
psychological distress, although open communication within the couple is associated with lower levels of
distress (Remien et al., 2003). This current study showed sexual intimacy as a key challenge while a range of
psychosocial issues were mentioned.
Many couples cope well with this stressful and challenging situation and arrive at a solution that best suits
their circumstances. Perhaps the most common strategy is condom use. ( Allen S, et al,2003., Roth DL, et
al.2001). In agreement with this, the common strategies identified included staying away from each other,
abstinence and condom use. Other strategies reported include separation, which seems to be an option adopted in
particular by couples with relationships of shorter duration and particularly affects discordant relationships
where the HIV-infected partner is a woman. These findings are in line with those by Porter et al.(2004). Few
couples appear to choose abstinence. These findings have implications for the design of interventions for
discordant couples.

5. Conclusion
Challenges revolving around management of sexual relations form the most prevalent and difficult issue among
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these discordant couples, while a combination of coping strategies including staying away from each other,
abstinence, and condom use rather than a single strategy ensured sustained living together of HIV discordant
couples seeking care at AMPATH centre.
An in-depth understanding on the challenges, misconceptions about HIV discordance, and coping strategies
from the perspective of the clients could be paramount in preventing HIV transmission and ensuring a more
harmonious way of living among couples of mixed HIV status.

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Table 1: Participants demographics (N=384):
Frequency Percent
Age 20 – 30 120 31.3
31 – 40 149 38.8
41 – 50 88 22.9
>50 27 7.0
Total 384 100.00
Sex Distribution Male 172 44.8
Female 212 55.2
Total 384 100.0
Highest level of education Primary education 143 37.2
attained
Secondary education 124 32.3
Tertiary education 117 30.5
Total 384 100.0
HIV Status Negative 54 14.0
Positive 330 86.0
Total 384 100.0
Religion Christians 370 96.3
Muslims 14 3.7
Total 384 100.0
Occupation Unskilled labour 49 12.8
Skilled labour
116 30.2
(Technicians)
Non-health professionals 74 19.3
Health professionals 14 3.7
Others/unemployed 131 34.0
Total Responses 384 100.0

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Table 2: A table of Bivariate analysis comparing those who were verbally or physically abused by
partner and those who were not abused.

Abused Not abused P value
Age group 20 - 30 34 86
31 - 40 32 117
41 - 50 15 73 0.002
>50 0 27
Total 81 303
Sex Distribution Male 28 144
0.037
Female 53 159
Total 81 303
Highest level of formal education
attained Primary level 28 115
0.848
Secondary level 32 92
Tertiary level 21 96
Total 81 303
Occupation Unskilled labour 7 42
Skilled labour
14 102
(Technicians)
Non-health 0.001
21 53
professionals
Health professionals 0 14
Other/unemployed 39 92
Total 81 303
Religion Christians 81 289
0.049
Muslims 0 14
Total 81 303
Who tested first for HIV Self 67 176
Spouse 14 28 0.000
Tested as a couple 0 99
Total 81 303
HIV status Positive 63 267
0.017
Negative 18 36
Total 81 303

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Table 3: A table of Bivariate analysis comparing those who have had a child since knowing their HIV
discordance status and those who had had no child.
Have had Have not had
child child P value
Age group 20 - 30 42 78
31 - 40 53 96
41 - 50 1 87 0.000
>50 0 27
Total 96 288
0.000
Female 74 138
Total 96 288
0.876
Total 96 288
Skilled labour
30 86
(Technicians)
0.028
Non-health professionals 15 59
Total 96 288
0.028
Muslims 7 7
Total 96 288
Spouse 28 14 0.004
Total 96 288
0.004
Negative 5 49
Total 96 288

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Table 4: A table of Bivariate analysis comparing those who reported use of condom all the time and those
who did not.
Uses Does not use
condom all condom all
time time P value
Age group 20 - 30 70 36
31 - 40 94 48
41 - 50 73 7 0.0000
>50 21 0
Total 258 91
0.282
Female 142 56
Total 258 91
0.415
Total 258 91
Skilled labour
74 35
(Technicians)
0.905
Total 258 91
0.197
Muslims 7 0
Total 258 91
Spouse 7 21 0.000
Total 258 91
0.000
Negative 54 0
Total 258 91

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Table 5: A table of Bivariate analysis comparing those who have other sexual partner and those who do
not have.
Has other Does not have
sexual other sexual
partner partner P value
Age group 20 - 30 0 120
31- 40 8 141
41 - 50 13 75 0.001
>50 0 27
Total 21 363
0.000
Female 0 212
Total 21 363
0.711
Total 21 363
Skilled labour
14 102
(Technicians)
0.018
Total 21 363
0.359
Muslims 0 14
Total 21 363
Spouse 0 42 0.001
Total 21 363
0.057
Negative 0 54
Total 21 363

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