Chapter14 communication skills
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Chapter 14 emphasizes the critical role of communication in relationships, highlighting both verbal and nonverbal communication processes, including encoding and decoding. It discusses the differences in communication styles between genders and provides strategies for effective listening and conflict resolution. Key steps to enhance communication skills include speaking clearly, using appropriate language, and focusing on issues rather than personal attacks.
Chapter14 communication skills
- 1. Communication Skills Chapter 14
- 2. “The three most important words for a successful relationship are: communication, communication, and communication.” —Anonymous
- 3. Verbal Communication • Verbal language is a series of expressive thoughts and perceptions described through word symbols. • Linguistic experts divide verbal communication into two components: – encoding – decoding
- 4. Verbal Communication (continued) • Encoding is the process wherein a speaker attempts to frame thoughts and perceptions into words (e.g., someone saying to the person next to her, “Boy, it’s stuffy in here”).
- 5. Verbal Communication (continued) • Decoding is the process wherein the message is translated, dissected, analyzed, and interpreted by the listener (e.g., the person hearing this thinks, “Yeah, the room does smell rather gamy”). • During the encoding and decoding process, some thoughts can get lost in translation. • Misunderstanding, confusion, and stress can arise anywhere in this process.
- 6. Communication Styles Between Genders “Men may be from Mars and women may be from Venus, but right now both sexes are living on earth so we better learn to speak the same language.” —Lily Tomlin
- 7. Nonverbal Communication • Nonverbal communication is described as any communication that does not involve words. It may include: – postures – facial expressions – touch – even style of clothing
- 8. Nonverbal Communication (continued) • Nonverbal communication differs from verbal communication in that it is multichanneled—addressing all senses—not merely stimuli received through the sense of hearing. • Nonverbal communication is not only indirect, but often unconscious.
- 9. Listening, Attending, and Responding Skills • Assume the role of listener • Maintain eye contact. • Avoid word prejudice. • Use “minimal encouragers.” • Paraphrase what was said to ensure understanding.
- 10. Listening, Attending, and Responding Skills (continued) • Ask questions to improve clarity of statements. • Use empathy to reflect and share feelings. • Provide feedback. • Summarize the content of what was said.
- 11. Conflict Resolution and Management Styles • Conflict Resolution • Management Style – Content conflict – Withdrawal (-) – Values conflict – Surrender (-) – Ego conflict – Hostile aggression (-) – Persuasion (-/+) – Dialogue (+)
- 12. Steps to Enhance Communication Skills • Speak with precision and directness. • Enhance your vocabulary. • Use appropriate language for listening. • Attack issues, not people. • Avoid making people defensive.
- 13. Steps to Enhance Communication Skills (continued) • Talk to people yourself, not through others. • Avoid information overload. • Validate your assumptions. • Resolve problems when they arise.
- 14. Best Application of Communication Skills • For every stressor that involves another person, communication skills are essential to resolve the issue at hand. • If nothing else, remember this: Attack issues, not people. • Be a good diplomat!
- 15. Study Guide Questions 1. Why do many stress-related problems involve poor communications? 2. List three aspects of good verbal communication. 3. List three aspects of nonverbal communication. 4. List the five conflict management styles and highlight the most effective one. 5. What are five ways to improve your communication style?