Danesh Singh.. Project Types Of Listner
- 1. Focusing on the speaker
- 2. Show that you are paying attention.
- 3. Create a proper atmosphere
- 9. MirroringMan: It is a very cold day today.Woman: Indeed, it is a very cold day today.
- 10. NO!..I hate youMirroringI hate you you….
- 11. Determine the speaker meaning
- 12. Confirm that you understand the meaning
- 13. Show that you understand.
- 15. ParaphrasingWoman: My deadline is next week, which means that I have a lot of work to be done. My baby sitter just called and she is going on a vacation.. I don’t know what to doMan: You’re worried that you’ll unable to finish your work because there’s no one to watch your kids.
- 16. Summarizing and Self-Disclosure. Man (with tie): So if I understand you want adviceMan: Well yes I want some adviceMan(with tie): So here is what you do….Man: So your point is to do that…
- 17. Self-Disclosure StatementsWoman: I Remember when something like this happened to me.Girl: So you understands the way I feel, when your boyfriend broke up with youWoman: Other girls have been in your situation also
Editor's Notes
- #2: The people having good eye contact and focusing on the speaker… they are comfortable talking to them and the picture looks like they are all paying attention.
- #3: Show some facial expression
- #4: Remove all distraction and pay attention to the speaker
- #5: Concentrate on the speaker despite appearance age and speaking style
- #6: Don’t judge the speaker by your personal standard or emotions.
- #10: Rephrase the person speech.. Indicate that you are interested in the speaker’s word
- #12: The speaker may be casual conversation, expressing an idea wanting to trade information hoping to persuade
- #13: Ask question, show that you are paying attention to the speaker
- #14: Use suitable body language, facing the speaker, nodding etc.
- #15: Concentrate on the speaker voice, tone and body language. Read between the lines, ask for details when you are giving general information