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Diffusing Tension in
the ESL Workplace
            Jim Scofield
                 &
         Ann Marie Groffner
   ELS Language Centers/San Diego
Diffuse vs. Defuse
Where does the tension come from?
Avoid the
 danger
  that
 has not
yet come
Set clear expectations
Choose the best place to talk
Things may seem worse than they
            really are
“I hope it just goes away…”
Take time to deal with the problem
Two heads are better than one
Know your sphere of influence &
  Take personal responsibility
Group discussion
1.Explain the situation causing tension
2. Gather information
    • What are the issues involved?
    • Consider how everyone feels
    • Meet with each party individually
3. Formulate a solution
    • Acknowledge the negative feelings
    • Find a common ground to bridge the gap
    • Find a compromise if possible & try it for
      a while
    • Revisit the problem if necessary
Take care of yourself
What will you do differently on
           Monday?
www.jimscofield.net/NAFSA2012

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