This essay discusses the author's self-identity and how they define themselves. The author identifies themselves through their various roles such as sister, daughter, student, and best friend. They discuss how they see themselves through their personality traits and characteristics. The essay also explores how the author's experience as a college student working to pay for school can be stressful at times due to a heavy course load and potential for procrastination, but that they find support from family, friends, and peers.