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Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
May 23, 2017
krt4@williams.edu
413-597-3542
Training & Development Manager
Human Resources
Kevin R. Thomas
Supervisory Training Series 2
Feedback for Supervisors
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
• Name
• Where you work
• How long you’ve been supervising
• How long you’ve been supervising at Williams
Introductions
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
• Confidentiality
• Participation
• Listening
• Judgement free zone
Ground Rules
Program Overview
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
• Who here likes giving
feedback?
• What makes giving
feedback difficult?
You Write the Slide
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
• Who looks forward to
giving positive feedback?
• Did you think of positive
feedback?
• Why not?
What about … ?
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
• Imagine your boss comes by your desk and
says:
“Can you come into my office?
• How do you feel?
• When you come into the office, your boss
closes the door and says:
“I need to give you some feedback.”
• Now how do you feel?
The Threat Response
Provide Constructive Feedback
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
• Social Needs Are Primary
• Brain is Wired to Notice
Threats to:
o Status
o Certainty
o Autonomy
o Relatedness
o Fairness
Managing the Threat Response
Provide Constructive Feedback
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
Dimension Threat Reward
Status Unfavorable
comparisons
Being less than
“Let me give you some
feedback.”
High status
“Good Job”
Certainty Ambiguity
Change
Familiarity
Predictability
Knowing what to do
Knowing what is going
on
Autonomy Micromanagement Choice
Latitude
Relatedness Loneliness, Rejection
Other is a “foe”
Inclusion, Team Building
Other is a friend
Fairness Sneakiness
Favoritism
Equity, even dealing
Mission of fairness
SCARF
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
• When the threat response is
triggered:
o Fight
o Flight
o Freeze
• When triggered, we can’t
learn or plan.
Threats Lead to Amygdala Hijack
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
• How do we train ourselves
to notice positive
behaviors and give positive
feedback?
• How do we give
constructive feedback
while minimizing the threat
response?
Central Questions
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
1. Formula
2. Exercise
Positive Feedback
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
Positive Feedback Formula
Giving Feedback
Behavior Impact
Best
chance for
repeated
behavior
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
• Complete the worksheet
• Share with your partner.
Your Turn
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
• Actually give the positive
feedback you just
discussed
• Set a goal for how many
times per week you’ll give
positive feedback.
• Add it to your to do list like
anything else.
Post-class Challenge
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
1. Investigate / Prepare
2. Opening the conversation
– Exercise
3. Joint investigation
4. Joint action planning
5. Follow through
Constructive Feedback
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
• What data is relevant
o Records and reports
o Interviews with colleagues and other stakeholders (e.g.
attendance records)
• Are you sure:
o Expectations have been clearly stated?
o They know how to do it?
o There aren’t obstacles beyond their control?
o It’s a reasonable expectation give their other
responsibilities?
Investigate / Prepare
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
Constructive Feedback Opening
Giving Feedback
Behavior
Impac
t
1. Use behavior + impact to describe
what you are seeing
2. Ask if they have additional information
you should know. Listen.
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
Labeling the Person vs. Describing Behavior
Giving and Receiving
Feedback
Principles
Labeling the
Person
Describe the Behavior
Bad Attitude • Uses sarcasm
• Crosses arms, frowns, avoids eye contact
• Makes comments that undermine morale
Lazy • Delays or ignores certain tasks
• Disappears and cannot be found
• Arrives at work tardy, returns late from breaks.
• Takes longer than needed to complete tasks
• Performance suffers without frequent direction
and oversight
• Ignores obvious problems
• Leaves work for the next shift
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
• Behavior: I’ve noticed you’ve been over 10 minutes
late 3 times in the last two weeks.
• Impact: When you’re not here when we open, others
have to greet visitors and answer the phone, which
takes them away from the work they’re supposed to
be doing, and often they don’t know how to direct
people properly, which can lead to more confusion for
everyone.
• Inquiry: What’s going on? Is there anything I should
know about this?
Example: Tardy Receptionist
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
• Complete the worksheet
(5 minutes)
• Share with your partner.
(10 minutes each)
Your Turn
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
• Jointly investigate causes
o e.g. Why reports haven’t
been submitted on time
• Jointly develop an action
plan
o Specific, Measurable, Time
Bound
o Check for level of
commitment
• Offer Support
o Demonstrate your
commitment to their success
• Follow through
o Track progress
o Show appreciation for
Next Steps
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
Questions?
Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors
Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542
krt4@Williams.edu
413-597-3542
Supervisory Training Series
Feedback for Supervisors
• More takes on feedback in upcoming courses:
Performance Development, Resolving performance
problems
• Program evaluation link and course page coming via
email
• Check in with your partner about how it’s going!

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Feedback for Supervisors

  • 1. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 May 23, 2017 krt4@williams.edu 413-597-3542 Training & Development Manager Human Resources Kevin R. Thomas Supervisory Training Series 2 Feedback for Supervisors
  • 2. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 • Name • Where you work • How long you’ve been supervising • How long you’ve been supervising at Williams Introductions
  • 3. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 • Confidentiality • Participation • Listening • Judgement free zone Ground Rules Program Overview
  • 4. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 • Who here likes giving feedback? • What makes giving feedback difficult? You Write the Slide
  • 5. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 • Who looks forward to giving positive feedback? • Did you think of positive feedback? • Why not? What about … ?
  • 6. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 • Imagine your boss comes by your desk and says: “Can you come into my office? • How do you feel? • When you come into the office, your boss closes the door and says: “I need to give you some feedback.” • Now how do you feel? The Threat Response Provide Constructive Feedback
  • 7. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 • Social Needs Are Primary • Brain is Wired to Notice Threats to: o Status o Certainty o Autonomy o Relatedness o Fairness Managing the Threat Response Provide Constructive Feedback
  • 8. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 Dimension Threat Reward Status Unfavorable comparisons Being less than “Let me give you some feedback.” High status “Good Job” Certainty Ambiguity Change Familiarity Predictability Knowing what to do Knowing what is going on Autonomy Micromanagement Choice Latitude Relatedness Loneliness, Rejection Other is a “foe” Inclusion, Team Building Other is a friend Fairness Sneakiness Favoritism Equity, even dealing Mission of fairness SCARF
  • 9. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 • When the threat response is triggered: o Fight o Flight o Freeze • When triggered, we can’t learn or plan. Threats Lead to Amygdala Hijack
  • 10. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 • How do we train ourselves to notice positive behaviors and give positive feedback? • How do we give constructive feedback while minimizing the threat response? Central Questions
  • 11. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 1. Formula 2. Exercise Positive Feedback
  • 12. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 Positive Feedback Formula Giving Feedback Behavior Impact Best chance for repeated behavior
  • 13. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 • Complete the worksheet • Share with your partner. Your Turn
  • 14. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 • Actually give the positive feedback you just discussed • Set a goal for how many times per week you’ll give positive feedback. • Add it to your to do list like anything else. Post-class Challenge
  • 15. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 1. Investigate / Prepare 2. Opening the conversation – Exercise 3. Joint investigation 4. Joint action planning 5. Follow through Constructive Feedback
  • 16. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 • What data is relevant o Records and reports o Interviews with colleagues and other stakeholders (e.g. attendance records) • Are you sure: o Expectations have been clearly stated? o They know how to do it? o There aren’t obstacles beyond their control? o It’s a reasonable expectation give their other responsibilities? Investigate / Prepare
  • 17. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 Constructive Feedback Opening Giving Feedback Behavior Impac t 1. Use behavior + impact to describe what you are seeing 2. Ask if they have additional information you should know. Listen.
  • 18. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 Labeling the Person vs. Describing Behavior Giving and Receiving Feedback Principles Labeling the Person Describe the Behavior Bad Attitude • Uses sarcasm • Crosses arms, frowns, avoids eye contact • Makes comments that undermine morale Lazy • Delays or ignores certain tasks • Disappears and cannot be found • Arrives at work tardy, returns late from breaks. • Takes longer than needed to complete tasks • Performance suffers without frequent direction and oversight • Ignores obvious problems • Leaves work for the next shift
  • 19. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 • Behavior: I’ve noticed you’ve been over 10 minutes late 3 times in the last two weeks. • Impact: When you’re not here when we open, others have to greet visitors and answer the phone, which takes them away from the work they’re supposed to be doing, and often they don’t know how to direct people properly, which can lead to more confusion for everyone. • Inquiry: What’s going on? Is there anything I should know about this? Example: Tardy Receptionist
  • 20. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 • Complete the worksheet (5 minutes) • Share with your partner. (10 minutes each) Your Turn
  • 21. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 • Jointly investigate causes o e.g. Why reports haven’t been submitted on time • Jointly develop an action plan o Specific, Measurable, Time Bound o Check for level of commitment • Offer Support o Demonstrate your commitment to their success • Follow through o Track progress o Show appreciation for Next Steps
  • 22. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 Questions?
  • 23. Giving & Receiving Feedback for Supervisors Kevin R.Thomas, Manager,Training & Development · Office of Human Resources · kevin.r.thomas@williams.edu · 413-597-3542 krt4@Williams.edu 413-597-3542 Supervisory Training Series Feedback for Supervisors • More takes on feedback in upcoming courses: Performance Development, Resolving performance problems • Program evaluation link and course page coming via email • Check in with your partner about how it’s going!