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Formative Interventions
with Children
or why behavior should not be our focal point
(applied Attachment Theory) Devon Wolfe
Attachment pedagogy is
rooted in development (Bowlby, 1969)
Development demands
formative intervention
!  Assumes inner
instinctual interest &
initiative
!  Focus on antecedents
!  Key to child is insight
!  Address unmet needs in
ecologies of the child
!  Context to work with
child is relationship
Behavior demands
summative intervention
!  Assumes outer sources
direct interest &
initiative
!  Focus on consequences
!  Key to child is skill
!  Address inappropriate
behavior of the child
!  Context to work with
child is the incident
Counseling becomes
formative work to create a
context for emotional
maturation so a child can:
(Neufeld, 2007, part ii)
•  Learn from trial & error
•  Transcend handicaps or
disabilities
•  Benefit from having errors,
mistakes & failures pointed out
•  Learn from consequences
•  Accept what doesn’t work and
try something different
•  Resourcefully resolve conflicts
•  Avoid trouble with others
•  Accept limits & restrictions
•  “Let go” of what doesn’t work
•  Not be easily provoked
Attachment pedagogy
addresses attunement
Instructs us to have an authentic
relationship with a child based on
attunement not role. Then child
can avoid behavior meant to:
!  attract attention
!  gain power
!  Be first/best to win approval
!  demand to be special
!  impress to be esteemed
!  being nice only to be liked
!  measure up to be valued
!  seek status to be recognized
(Neufeld, 2007, part v)
!  Attunement creates a
context to work within.
!  Attunement adjusts our
perceptions to see what is
missing for the child.
!  Could a child be missing:
1.  Adequate freedom from
alarming feelings?
2.  Adequate freedom from
daily frustrations?
3.  Adequate freedom from
pursuit of co-regulation?
How can we see what is
missing?
Behavior speaks but
doesn’t communicate
!  Child uses extremes of
hyper or hypo styles of
interacting and behaving
!  Child is almost always
irritable, easily upset, easily
provoked, mad, ruminating
or worried
!  Child turtles, hides, whines,
clings, crawls, wants to
sleep or curl up in a fetal
position
Development nurtures
but doesn’t teach
!  Child is missing feelings of
co-regulation necessary to
manage feelings of alarm
!  Child is missing feelings of
safety in attunement to
frame and solve multiple
frustrations
!  Child is missing feelings of
being grounded and
centered possible only
through Attachment
(Powell, et al., 2014)
Seminal Works
!  Ainsworth, M.D., Blehar, M.C., Waters, E. & Wall, S.N. (1978). Patterns of
attachment: A psychological study of the strange situation. New York:
Routledge.
!  Watson, J.B. (1930). Behaviorism. Chicago: University of Chicago Press.
!  Bowlby, J. (1969). Attachment and loss vol.1. London: Random House.
!  Bowlby, J. (1998). Attachment and loss vol.2: Separation- anger and anxiety.
London: Random House.
!  Bowlby, J. (1980). Attachment and loss vol.3: Loss, sadness and depression.
London: Random House.
!  Neufeld, G. (2007). Neufeld’s intensive one: Making sense of kids [DVD].
http://www.neufeldinstitute.com
!  Powell, B., Cooper, G., Hoffman, K. & Marvin, B. (2014). The circle of
security intervention: Enhancing attachment in early parent-child
relationships. New York: The Guilford Press.
!  Winnicott, D.W. (1971). Playing and reality. New York: Routledge.

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Formative interventions.pptx

  • 1. Formative Interventions with Children or why behavior should not be our focal point (applied Attachment Theory) Devon Wolfe
  • 2. Attachment pedagogy is rooted in development (Bowlby, 1969) Development demands formative intervention !  Assumes inner instinctual interest & initiative !  Focus on antecedents !  Key to child is insight !  Address unmet needs in ecologies of the child !  Context to work with child is relationship Behavior demands summative intervention !  Assumes outer sources direct interest & initiative !  Focus on consequences !  Key to child is skill !  Address inappropriate behavior of the child !  Context to work with child is the incident
  • 3. Counseling becomes formative work to create a context for emotional maturation so a child can: (Neufeld, 2007, part ii) •  Learn from trial & error •  Transcend handicaps or disabilities •  Benefit from having errors, mistakes & failures pointed out •  Learn from consequences •  Accept what doesn’t work and try something different •  Resourcefully resolve conflicts •  Avoid trouble with others •  Accept limits & restrictions •  “Let go” of what doesn’t work •  Not be easily provoked
  • 4. Attachment pedagogy addresses attunement Instructs us to have an authentic relationship with a child based on attunement not role. Then child can avoid behavior meant to: !  attract attention !  gain power !  Be first/best to win approval !  demand to be special !  impress to be esteemed !  being nice only to be liked !  measure up to be valued !  seek status to be recognized (Neufeld, 2007, part v) !  Attunement creates a context to work within. !  Attunement adjusts our perceptions to see what is missing for the child. !  Could a child be missing: 1.  Adequate freedom from alarming feelings? 2.  Adequate freedom from daily frustrations? 3.  Adequate freedom from pursuit of co-regulation?
  • 5. How can we see what is missing? Behavior speaks but doesn’t communicate !  Child uses extremes of hyper or hypo styles of interacting and behaving !  Child is almost always irritable, easily upset, easily provoked, mad, ruminating or worried !  Child turtles, hides, whines, clings, crawls, wants to sleep or curl up in a fetal position Development nurtures but doesn’t teach !  Child is missing feelings of co-regulation necessary to manage feelings of alarm !  Child is missing feelings of safety in attunement to frame and solve multiple frustrations !  Child is missing feelings of being grounded and centered possible only through Attachment (Powell, et al., 2014)
  • 6. Seminal Works !  Ainsworth, M.D., Blehar, M.C., Waters, E. & Wall, S.N. (1978). Patterns of attachment: A psychological study of the strange situation. New York: Routledge. !  Watson, J.B. (1930). Behaviorism. Chicago: University of Chicago Press. !  Bowlby, J. (1969). Attachment and loss vol.1. London: Random House. !  Bowlby, J. (1998). Attachment and loss vol.2: Separation- anger and anxiety. London: Random House. !  Bowlby, J. (1980). Attachment and loss vol.3: Loss, sadness and depression. London: Random House. !  Neufeld, G. (2007). Neufeld’s intensive one: Making sense of kids [DVD]. http://www.neufeldinstitute.com !  Powell, B., Cooper, G., Hoffman, K. & Marvin, B. (2014). The circle of security intervention: Enhancing attachment in early parent-child relationships. New York: The Guilford Press. !  Winnicott, D.W. (1971). Playing and reality. New York: Routledge.