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Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee
Seattle Girls’ School
Affinity Groups: What, Why, and How
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
About Seattle Girls’ School
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Agenda
 Basic Definitions
 Identifying the Value of Affinity Groups
 Launching Affinity Groups
 Overcoming the Resistance
 Strengthening Communities
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Basic Definitions
The term affinity group is used as a
bringing together of people who have an
identifier in common, e.g. race, gender,
religion, family status, etc. Affinity groups
are for individuals who identify as members
of the group and can speak to the
experience of being a member of the group
from the “I” perspective.
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Basic Definitions
The term alliance group is used as a
bringing together of people who have a
common commitment to an identifier group,
e.g. race, gender, religion, family status,
etc. Alliance groups are for individuals who
identify as members of the group and/or as
people who support and stand in solidarity
with that group.
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Basic Definitions
The term interest group is used as a
bringing together of people who want to
learn about, share, and engage in a special
interest, e.g. hobby, skill, topic, etc.
Interest groups are for individuals who want
to gather to teach, learn, and share.
Membership can be fluid and changing.
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
What We’ve Tried and
What Happened
Describe where your school
is in the process of
launching or implementing
affinity groups. What are
some of the success and
challenges you’ve
experienced?
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Why Affinity Groups Are Great
 Safety and Comfort to be
Authentic
 Affirmation
 Critical Mass
 Identity Socialization
 Building Resilience
 Preparing to Engage
Deeply with Other Groups
 Empowerment Toward
Action
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Stage 1: Identify the Need
 Gather data around the
school’s population
 Gather research on the
challenges groups face
 Gather research on the
benefit of affinity groups,
explicit conversations
 Gather data around need
and desire
 CONNECT TO YOUR
MISSION
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Stage 2: Determine Format and
Definitions
 Affinity, Alliance, or Interest?
 Identities/Identifiers
 Timing
 Space
 Facilitators
 Group Goals or Mission
Statements
 Curriculum
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Stage 3: Communicate and Invite
 Initial Communication from
Head
 Communicate the Need, the
What, the How, and the Who
 Communicate Definitions,
Goals, and Missions
 FAQs
 Faculty/Staff,
Parents/Guardians, Students
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Stage 4: Facilitate Groups
 Identity Pride
 History
 Positive Change and
Activism
 Opportunities and
Challenges
 Strategies for Success
 Supporting Each Other
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Stage 5: Wash, Rinse, Repeat
 Assess Effectiveness
 Make Improvements
 Re-Launch Every Year
 Utilize Student/Family Voice
 United Front
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Possible Affinity Group Curriculum
 Culture Share
 Celebrations of
Holidays/Events
 Identity Exercises
 Current Events
 Movies
 Field Trips
 “What Do I Do If…”
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Factors Leading to More Success
 Pride > Struggle
 Deflection of Blame
 Inclusive of Full Spectrum
 Who’s in the Room
 Youth Driven Curricula
 Opportunities to Share
 Collective Action
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Factors Leading to Less Success
 Lack of Consistency
 Lack of Budget
 Lack of Curricula
 Reinforcement of
Stereotypes
 Chauvinism
 Adult Agenda
 Visitors and Gawkers
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Reflection
What information was new,
useful, interesting,
worrisome, etc.? What
questions do you have?
What’s missing?
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Why Affinity Groups
Meet Resistance
 Unacknowledged Fear
of Assembly
 Unacknowledged
Resistance to
Empowerment
 Desire to Stay Ignorant
of Issues
 Privilege
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Forms of Resistance
• False Parallels
• Inverting the Injustice
• Outright Dismissal
• Minimization
• Righteousness
• Colorblindness
• Jealousy
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Talking Points for Affinity Groups
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
“Affinity Groups” We Already Have
• Gendered Bathrooms
• Faculty Meetings
• Tracked Classes
• Financial Aid Allocation Meetings
• Sports Teams
• Divisions and Grades
• Casts of School Plays
• Faculty/Staff Rooms
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Early Awareness of Difference
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Age Signs
6 months Can discern racial feature differences
3 years Awareness of own and others’ gender.
Beginning awareness of gender roles
5 years Desire to categorize – self, others
Curiosity about meaning of differences
Aware of biases
7 years Can regulate biases versus behaviors
Starting to parrot adult messages
3rd
grade Are aware of societal stereotypes
cross group play can increase
5th
grade Have internalized stereotypical messages
cross group play can decrease
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Equality vs Equity
Conflation of Individual/Institutional
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Privilege vs Situational Advantage
Privilege Situational Advantage
• Many buildings incorporate
multilevel floor designs and
stairs
• Many doorways are
narrow
• Most sidewalks have curb
edges, not inclines
• Many outdoor walking
paths are gravel or dirt
• Many restaurants place
tables closely together
• There are prime parking
spots designated for people
with disabilities
• People with disabilities
are first to board planes,
trains, and rides
• Performance venues will
often have seating in the
front row or ground level for
patrons with disabilities
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Resources
Full resources, web links,
downloadable documents,
considerations, and more:
tiny.cc/affinitygroups
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Strengthening Communities
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Presenter Information
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee
Outreach Specialist
Seattle Girls’ School
1700 24th
Ave S
Seattle, WA 98144
(206) 451-5233
rlee@seattlegirlsschool.org
http://tiny.cc/rosettalee

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Generic Affinity Groups, What, Why, and How

  • 1. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee Seattle Girls’ School Affinity Groups: What, Why, and How Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 2. About Seattle Girls’ School Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 3. Agenda  Basic Definitions  Identifying the Value of Affinity Groups  Launching Affinity Groups  Overcoming the Resistance  Strengthening Communities Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 4. Basic Definitions The term affinity group is used as a bringing together of people who have an identifier in common, e.g. race, gender, religion, family status, etc. Affinity groups are for individuals who identify as members of the group and can speak to the experience of being a member of the group from the “I” perspective. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 5. Basic Definitions The term alliance group is used as a bringing together of people who have a common commitment to an identifier group, e.g. race, gender, religion, family status, etc. Alliance groups are for individuals who identify as members of the group and/or as people who support and stand in solidarity with that group. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 6. Basic Definitions The term interest group is used as a bringing together of people who want to learn about, share, and engage in a special interest, e.g. hobby, skill, topic, etc. Interest groups are for individuals who want to gather to teach, learn, and share. Membership can be fluid and changing. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 7. What We’ve Tried and What Happened Describe where your school is in the process of launching or implementing affinity groups. What are some of the success and challenges you’ve experienced? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 8. Why Affinity Groups Are Great  Safety and Comfort to be Authentic  Affirmation  Critical Mass  Identity Socialization  Building Resilience  Preparing to Engage Deeply with Other Groups  Empowerment Toward Action Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 9. Stage 1: Identify the Need  Gather data around the school’s population  Gather research on the challenges groups face  Gather research on the benefit of affinity groups, explicit conversations  Gather data around need and desire  CONNECT TO YOUR MISSION Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 10. Stage 2: Determine Format and Definitions  Affinity, Alliance, or Interest?  Identities/Identifiers  Timing  Space  Facilitators  Group Goals or Mission Statements  Curriculum Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 11. Stage 3: Communicate and Invite  Initial Communication from Head  Communicate the Need, the What, the How, and the Who  Communicate Definitions, Goals, and Missions  FAQs  Faculty/Staff, Parents/Guardians, Students Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 12. Stage 4: Facilitate Groups  Identity Pride  History  Positive Change and Activism  Opportunities and Challenges  Strategies for Success  Supporting Each Other Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 13. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 14. Stage 5: Wash, Rinse, Repeat  Assess Effectiveness  Make Improvements  Re-Launch Every Year  Utilize Student/Family Voice  United Front Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 15. Possible Affinity Group Curriculum  Culture Share  Celebrations of Holidays/Events  Identity Exercises  Current Events  Movies  Field Trips  “What Do I Do If…” Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 16. Factors Leading to More Success  Pride > Struggle  Deflection of Blame  Inclusive of Full Spectrum  Who’s in the Room  Youth Driven Curricula  Opportunities to Share  Collective Action Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 17. Factors Leading to Less Success  Lack of Consistency  Lack of Budget  Lack of Curricula  Reinforcement of Stereotypes  Chauvinism  Adult Agenda  Visitors and Gawkers Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 18. Reflection What information was new, useful, interesting, worrisome, etc.? What questions do you have? What’s missing? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 19. Why Affinity Groups Meet Resistance  Unacknowledged Fear of Assembly  Unacknowledged Resistance to Empowerment  Desire to Stay Ignorant of Issues  Privilege Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 20. Forms of Resistance • False Parallels • Inverting the Injustice • Outright Dismissal • Minimization • Righteousness • Colorblindness • Jealousy Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 21. Talking Points for Affinity Groups Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 22. “Affinity Groups” We Already Have • Gendered Bathrooms • Faculty Meetings • Tracked Classes • Financial Aid Allocation Meetings • Sports Teams • Divisions and Grades • Casts of School Plays • Faculty/Staff Rooms Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 23. Early Awareness of Difference Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) Age Signs 6 months Can discern racial feature differences 3 years Awareness of own and others’ gender. Beginning awareness of gender roles 5 years Desire to categorize – self, others Curiosity about meaning of differences Aware of biases 7 years Can regulate biases versus behaviors Starting to parrot adult messages 3rd grade Are aware of societal stereotypes cross group play can increase 5th grade Have internalized stereotypical messages cross group play can decrease
  • 24. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) Equality vs Equity
  • 25. Conflation of Individual/Institutional Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 26. Privilege vs Situational Advantage Privilege Situational Advantage • Many buildings incorporate multilevel floor designs and stairs • Many doorways are narrow • Most sidewalks have curb edges, not inclines • Many outdoor walking paths are gravel or dirt • Many restaurants place tables closely together • There are prime parking spots designated for people with disabilities • People with disabilities are first to board planes, trains, and rides • Performance venues will often have seating in the front row or ground level for patrons with disabilities Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 27. Resources Full resources, web links, downloadable documents, considerations, and more: tiny.cc/affinitygroups Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 28. Strengthening Communities Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 29. Presenter Information Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee Outreach Specialist Seattle Girls’ School 1700 24th Ave S Seattle, WA 98144 (206) 451-5233 rlee@seattlegirlsschool.org http://tiny.cc/rosettalee

Editor's Notes

  • #1: Introductions - name, school, why this workshop
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  • #8: building community identifying issues sharing successes promoting ideas for action preparing for deep and honest cross-cultural dialogue with other affinity groups providing opportunities for affirmation and celebration the “why” defines the “what” A large number of successful diversity initiatives in independent schools across the country originated out of conversations in these groups.
  • #20: False Parallels (“The same thing happened to me…”) in resistance to initiatives for affinity groups Inverting the Injustice (“By focusing on affinity groups YOU have offended ME…”) in reacting to plans for affinity groups Outright Dismissal (“Race has nothing to do with it…”) of the need for affinity group initiatives Minimization (“It really isn’t a program for them/us here…”) in response to affinity group proposals Righteousness (“We’re a good school so we can’t be racist/sexist/homophobic/anti-Semitic/etc….”) as a defensive response to the notion of affinity group work Colorblindness (“People are people – We don’t see color/gender/religious/ability/sexual orientation..”) in a well meaning but misguided and dismissive response to proposing affinity group work Jealousy (“Why do they get a special group, to be treated to something I/we can’t have” Remnant of affirmative action’s preferential treatment criticism)
  • #22: All of these are versions of ”affinity groups” that limit who is in the room and who is not.  Why?  Folks would say things like "it is for the safety and comfort of the youth in those spaces" or "this is a space that people of like talents, interests, proclivities, etc. gather; we're not forcing them to go to these spaces" or "it is in the best interest of the integrity of the programs to limit who can participate" or "it just wouldn't be fair to have different groups compete on the same playing field".  Affinity Groups come under all of these reasons in some form.  I am curious as to why Affinity Groups come under fire when all the other practices I mentioned (and more) do not.  I also take issue with the focusing the basis to race, religion, or sexual orientation.  Why is it that intellectual, physical, musical, dramatic abilities and sex are somehow "more worthy of protection" when it comes to affinity group-like spaces?